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How To Reply A Girl Who Wants You To Lend Her Money [Chat] by iLegendd(m): 9:35am On Dec 05, 2021 |
The aim of this post is: don't lend money to people — it's dangerous. Dash them if you have, but NEVER lend money. This is the principle I have maintained right from childhood and it has helped me. I have this female friend, fine girl. She has a boyfriend, but I haven't seen the guy face-to-face. We don't chat often, but when we meet in person, outside, it's always a good moment. She's learning makeup and all that. She hardly calls and same as me. Yesterday, she called and said she wants to chat with me. In my head, I knew it's about favour and luckily, I don't do favor for people no matter who you are. I take your cries to God. When someone is asking me for something and adds the word favor in it, there is zero chance of getting it. The word "favor" is too manipulative for me. So, below is the chat on how to decline requests on favor, lending, and borrowing. 6 Likes 1 Share
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Re: How To Reply A Girl Who Wants You To Lend Her Money [Chat] by iLegendd(m): 9:36am On Dec 05, 2021 |
Lending people money, trying to be kind, ruins friendship. If you have, give them for free, but be careful to avoid the same person coming back for more over and over again until it begins to look as if you're the one owing the person because he/she will be taxing you every month end. 17 Likes 2 Shares
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Re: How To Reply A Girl Who Wants You To Lend Her Money [Chat] by Sonnobax15(m): 9:36am On Dec 05, 2021 |
Ok |
Re: How To Reply A Girl Who Wants You To Lend Her Money [Chat] by brosom(m): 9:44am On Dec 05, 2021 |
Still waiting to see how to turn a woman's request down. 7 Likes |
Re: How To Reply A Girl Who Wants You To Lend Her Money [Chat] by waploger(m): 9:45am On Dec 05, 2021 |
wow. the girl really need the money. 1 Like |
Re: How To Reply A Girl Who Wants You To Lend Her Money [Chat] by Ernerstdavid55(m): 9:46am On Dec 05, 2021 |
I still dont gerrit doh so i guess i will forget abourrit 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How To Reply A Girl Who Wants You To Lend Her Money [Chat] by Ayoleeboy007: 9:46am On Dec 05, 2021 |
5k as transport, you try o. But your Mumsy story was it true? iLegendd:5k as transport, you try o. But your Mumsy story was it true? 1 Like |
Re: How To Reply A Girl Who Wants You To Lend Her Money [Chat] by Dartilo(m): 9:49am On Dec 05, 2021 |
All dis essay isnot needed mAh Gee 6 Likes |
Re: How To Reply A Girl Who Wants You To Lend Her Money [Chat] by iLegendd(m): 9:50am On Dec 05, 2021 |
Dartilo:You're right, so what is needed? I'm open to learning new things. 3 Likes |
Re: How To Reply A Girl Who Wants You To Lend Her Money [Chat] by yanabasee2: 9:51am On Dec 05, 2021 |
You didn't tell us how you settled the visiting part.... Anyway..... All I read from you was about sleeping with the girl because she was asking for a favour and you were willing to stake 5k to have her citing that you're not stingy means that you only want her body for 5k... Op, you're not principled nor understand that word... And this was completely a childish conversation... 23 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: How To Reply A Girl Who Wants You To Lend Her Money [Chat] by iLegendd(m): 9:55am On Dec 05, 2021 |
Ayoleeboy007:Everything I post is true. I have told them when my number is not available, they should send me a text, but she didn't. She's the woman I love the most and has given the highest money and attention in this life, but even if I love someone the most, don't violate my principles — I don't joke with them. She has money, but I still love spending on her. All I want is: don't violate my rules no matter what. 3 Likes |
Re: How To Reply A Girl Who Wants You To Lend Her Money [Chat] by iLegendd(m): 9:58am On Dec 05, 2021 |
yanabasee2: She has visited 5 times already and nothing happened. Some of you think talking naughty and inviting a girl = sex. How shallow! Naughtiness makes a conversation fun even when you don't have any intention. Some of you boring chatters don't know this. This is why you need to read the book ChatDîcted and learn how to be fun during chat. Being principled doesn't mean you shouldn't be fun, playful, or naughty. Most of you think a principled man is someone who dresses responsibly, wears suit and tie, doesn't play, smile, or joke with people. To me, that is over-seriousness and it's boring. https://shop.wetclef.com/download-chatdìcted/ 10 Likes
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Re: How To Reply A Girl Who Wants You To Lend Her Money [Chat] by Hashabiah: 9:58am On Dec 05, 2021 |
I can't say anything on this o. But let every man stay with his own convictions based on his own perspective of right and wrong 3 Likes |
Re: How To Reply A Girl Who Wants You To Lend Her Money [Chat] by KillAlabi2021(m): 10:29am On Dec 05, 2021 |
iLegendd: You deserve to be administered 10 lashes On your barebuttt 4 Likes |
Re: How To Reply A Girl Who Wants You To Lend Her Money [Chat] by AsapTeddy(m): 10:30am On Dec 05, 2021 |
Both you and the girl no get work... All these long epistles because of loan. 5 Likes |
Re: How To Reply A Girl Who Wants You To Lend Her Money [Chat] by Itohanmiwa: 10:33am On Dec 05, 2021 |
Ilegend this your post get as e be o. You still gave her 5k at last so why does your topic suggest otherwise? 1 Like |
Re: How To Reply A Girl Who Wants You To Lend Her Money [Chat] by yanabasee2: 10:34am On Dec 05, 2021 |
iLegendd: Shut up..... You invited her to come and sleep over in your house, so that two of you can pray all night abi? Small pikin wan defend him stupid self .. She visited 5times already and nothing happened.... Maybe as a simp... nothing happened ... Don't worry... you'll open another thread very soon.... Make I go Sidon for back... the observe your threads these days .. 2 Likes |
Re: How To Reply A Girl Who Wants You To Lend Her Money [Chat] by Tealover(f): 10:40am On Dec 05, 2021 |
Chai! |
Re: How To Reply A Girl Who Wants You To Lend Her Money [Chat] by CedarHoldings: 10:51am On Dec 05, 2021 |
yanabasee2:No he will be looking at her face for night, those people like the guy can't go one day without pushhhhy. 1 Like |
Re: How To Reply A Girl Who Wants You To Lend Her Money [Chat] by waploger(m): 10:52am On Dec 05, 2021 |
iLegendd: its not complete send the complete book |
Re: How To Reply A Girl Who Wants You To Lend Her Money [Chat] by iLegendd(m): 11:15am On Dec 05, 2021 |
yanabasee2: Okay I only read the first line that says "shut up." I didn't bother reading the rest. 60% of the comments I get on Nairaland, I don't read more than the 1st line in most cases except the person is smart. Whatever you wrote there, you're right. Whatever I wrote, I'm wrong. You won, I lost — case closed. All the best, champion. 7 Likes |
Re: How To Reply A Girl Who Wants You To Lend Her Money [Chat] by iLegendd(m): 11:18am On Dec 05, 2021 |
waploger: It's the free version. The info there helps introduce you to how things work. 3 Likes |
Re: How To Reply A Girl Who Wants You To Lend Her Money [Chat] by Tolu181: 11:18am On Dec 05, 2021 |
This ilegendd too dey lie If I hear say this girl don visit you before. Everybody knows that 5k you are giving her, is a way to sweet spot her to come your crib See his mouth like she has visited me 5x without doing anything.. 1 Like |
Re: How To Reply A Girl Who Wants You To Lend Her Money [Chat] by iLegendd(m): 11:21am On Dec 05, 2021 |
Tolu181: Lol Her last visit on Nov 23rd. Some of you think because you lie or defraud people a lot, everyone is a liar and a fraudster. Or everyone that made a sexual joke is sex starved like you or lacks sexual control like you. The same way our IQs are not the same is how our minds aren't. 7 Likes
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Re: How To Reply A Girl Who Wants You To Lend Her Money [Chat] by waploger(m): 11:22am On Dec 05, 2021 |
iLegendd: the guy is a good writer |
Re: How To Reply A Girl Who Wants You To Lend Her Money [Chat] by iLegendd(m): 11:24am On Dec 05, 2021 |
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Re: How To Reply A Girl Who Wants You To Lend Her Money [Chat] by Tolu181: 11:26am On Dec 05, 2021 |
iLegendd:lol. Who snaps hairstyle when a girl visit Dude, we all know this is just a screenshot.. you don't need to prove your lies. Peace OUT. 1 Like |
Re: How To Reply A Girl Who Wants You To Lend Her Money [Chat] by waploger(m): 11:30am On Dec 05, 2021 |
iLegendd: it made me download a pdf reader.... first time for me to take time and read an ebook. |
Re: How To Reply A Girl Who Wants You To Lend Her Money [Chat] by iLegendd(m): 11:34am On Dec 05, 2021 |
Itohanmiwa: If she mentions the loan price, it will be bigger than 5k, so I'm willing to give out 5k for free to avoid hearing the loan amount. In this life, women hate rejection more than men. Beautiful women like her hate it even more. Since they were born, men worship them give them whatever they want. She has been trained to always get her way or get angry, but that doesn't work with me. At the same time, I don't like rejecting people even though I'm rejecting them. I love making people feel less pains when I reject their request or advances. So, I offered something small to avoid giving out a loan. Also, I'm not really as stingy as I claim to be — I'm actually a kind person and I hate seeing people suffer even if they hate me. Question: Can you offer one of your fingers to avoid losing two of your eyes? 7 Likes |
Re: How To Reply A Girl Who Wants You To Lend Her Money [Chat] by iLegendd(m): 11:39am On Dec 05, 2021 |
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Re: How To Reply A Girl Who Wants You To Lend Her Money [Chat] by iLegendd(m): 11:44am On Dec 05, 2021 |
Tolu181: Okay Peace out. 1 Like |
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