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The aim of this post is: don't lend money to people — it's dangerous. Dash them if you have, but NEVER lend money.

This is the principle I have maintained right from childhood and it has helped me.

I have this female friend, fine girl. She has a boyfriend, but I haven't seen the guy face-to-face. We don't chat often, but when we meet in person, outside, it's always a good moment.

She's learning makeup and all that. She hardly calls and same as me.

Yesterday, she called and said she wants to chat with me. In my head, I knew it's about favour and luckily, I don't do favor for people no matter who you are.

I take your cries to God. When someone is asking me for something and adds the word favor in it, there is zero chance of getting it. The word "favor" is too manipulative for me.

So, below is the chat on how to decline requests on favor, lending, and borrowing.

Lending people money, trying to be kind, ruins friendship. If you have, give them for free, but be careful to avoid the same person coming back for more over and over again until it begins to look as if you're the one owing the person because he/she will be taxing you every month end.

Ok

Still waiting to see how to turn a woman's request down.

wow. the girl really need the money.

I still dont gerrit doh so i guess i will forget abourrit

5k as transport, you try o. But your Mumsy story was it true?

iLegendd:
Lending people money, trying to be kind, ruins friendship. If you have, give them for free, but be careful to avoid the same person coming back for more over and over again until it begins to look as if you're the one owing the person because he/she will be taxing you every month end.

5k as transport, you try o. But your Mumsy story was it true?

All dis essay isnot needed mAh Gee

Dartilo:
All dis essay isnot needed mAh Gee

You're right, so what is needed? I'm open to learning new things.

You didn't tell us how you settled the visiting part....


Anyway..... All I read from you was about sleeping with the girl because she was asking for a favour and you were willing to stake 5k to have her citing that you're not stingy means that you only want her body for 5k...

Op, you're not principled nor understand that word... And this was completely a childish conversation...

Ayoleeboy007:
5k as transport, you try o. But your Mumsy story was it true?

Everything I post is true. I have told them when my number is not available, they should send me a text, but she didn't.

She's the woman I love the most and has given the highest money and attention in this life, but even if I love someone the most, don't violate my principles — I don't joke with them.

She has money, but I still love spending on her. All I want is: don't violate my rules no matter what.

yanabasee2:
You didn't tell us how you settled the visiting part....


Anyway..... All I read from you was about sleeping with the girl because she was asking for a favour and you were willing to stake 5k to have her citing that you're not stingy means that you only want her body for 5k...

Op, you're not principled nor understand that word... And this was completely a childish conversation...

She has visited 5 times already and nothing happened. Some of you think talking naughty and inviting a girl = sex. How shallow!

Naughtiness makes a conversation fun even when you don't have any intention. Some of you boring chatters don't know this.

This is why you need to read the book ChatDîcted and learn how to be fun during chat.

Being principled doesn't mean you shouldn't be fun, playful, or naughty. Most of you think a principled man is someone who dresses responsibly, wears suit and tie, doesn't play, smile, or joke with people. To me, that is over-seriousness and it's boring.

https://shop.wetclef.com/download-chatdìcted/

I can't say anything on this o. But let every man stay with his own convictions based on his own perspective of right and wrong

iLegendd:
The aim of this post is: don't lend money to people — it's dangerous. Dash them if you have, but NEVER lend money.

This is the principle I have maintained right from childhood and it has helped me.

I have this female friend, fine girl. She has a boyfriend, but I haven't seen the guy face-to-face. We don't chat often, but when we meet in person, outside, it's always a good moment.

She's learning makeup and all that. She hardly calls and same as me.

Yesterday, she called and said she wants to chat with me. In my head, I knew it's about favour and luckily, I don't do favor for people no matter who you are.

I take your cries to God. When someone is asking me for something and adds the word favor in it, there is zero chance of getting it. The word "favor" is too manipulative for me.

So, below is the chat on how to decline requests on favor, lending, and borrowing.

You deserve to be administered 10 lashes
On your barebuttt

Both you and the girl no get work...

All these long epistles because of loan.

Ilegend this your post get as e be o. You still gave her 5k at last so why does your topic suggest otherwise?

iLegendd:
She has visited 5 times already and nothing happened. Some of you think talking naughty and inviting a girl = sex. How shallow!

Naughtiness makes a conversation fun even when you don't have any intention. Some of you boring chatters don't know this.

This is why you need to read the book ChatDîcted and learn how to be fun during chat.

Being principled doesn't mean you shouldn't the fun, playful, or naughty. Most of you think a principled man is someone who doesn't play, smile, or joke with people.

https://shop.wetclef.com/download-chatdìcted/

Shut up.....

You invited her to come and sleep over in your house, so that two of you can pray all night abi?

Small pikin wan defend him stupid self ..


She visited 5times already and nothing happened.... Maybe as a simp... nothing happened ...

Don't worry... you'll open another thread very soon....


Make I go Sidon for back... the observe your threads these days ..

Chai!

yanabasee2:
Shut up.....

You invited her to come and sleep over in your house, so that two of you can pray all night abi?

Small pikin wan defend him stupid self ..


She visited 5times already and nothing happened.... Maybe as a simp... nothing happened ...

Don't worry... you'll open another thread very soon....


Make I go Sidon for back... the observe your threads these days ..

No he will be looking at her face for night, those people like the guy can't go one day without pushhhhy.

iLegendd:
She has visited 5 times already and nothing happened. Some of you think talking naughty and inviting a girl = sex. How shallow!

Naughtiness makes a conversation fun even when you don't have any intention. Some of you boring chatters don't know this.

This is why you need to read the book ChatDîcted and learn how to be fun during chat.

Being principled doesn't mean you shouldn't the fun, playful, or naughty. Most of you think a principled man is someone who doesn't play, smile, or joke with people.

https://shop.wetclef.com/download-chatdìcted/

its not complete send the complete book

yanabasee2:
Shut up.....

You invited her to come and sleep over in your house, so that two of you can pray all night abi?

Small pikin wan defend him stupid self ..


She visited 5times already and nothing happened.... Maybe as a simp... nothing happened ...

Don't worry... you'll open another thread very soon....


Make I go Sidon for back... the observe your threads these days ..

Okay

I only read the first line that says "shut up."

I didn't bother reading the rest. 60% of the comments I get on Nairaland, I don't read more than the 1st line in most cases except the person is smart.

Whatever you wrote there, you're right. Whatever I wrote, I'm wrong. You won, I lost — case closed.

All the best, champion.

waploger:
its not complete send the complete book

It's the free version. The info there helps introduce you to how things work.

This ilegendd too dey lie


If I hear say this girl don visit you before.
Everybody knows that 5k you are giving her, is a way to sweet spot her to come your crib


See his mouth like she has visited me 5x without doing anything..

Tolu181:
This ilegendd too dey lie


If I hear say this girl don visit you before.
Everybody knows that 5k you are giving her, is a way to sweet spot her to come your crib


See his mouth like she has visited me 5x without doing anything..

Lol

Her last visit on Nov 23rd.

Some of you think because you lie or defraud people a lot, everyone is a liar and a fraudster. Or everyone that made a sexual joke is sex starved like you or lacks sexual control like you.

The same way our IQs are not the same is how our minds aren't.

iLegendd:
It's the free version. The info there helps introduce you to how things work.

the guy is a good writer

waploger:
the guy is a good writer

Yes, the author, Joé Clef, is my boss.

iLegendd:
Lol

Her last visit on Nov 23rd.

Some of you think because you lie or defraud people a lot, everyone is a liar and a fraudster. Or everyone that made a sexual joke is sex starved like you or lacks sexual control like you.

The same way our IQs are not the same is how our minds aren't.

lol. Who snaps hairstyle when a girl visit

Dude, we all know this is just a screenshot.. you don't need to prove your lies.

Peace OUT.

iLegendd:
Yes, the author, Joé Clef, is my boss.

it made me download a pdf reader.... first time for me to take time and read an ebook.

Itohanmiwa:
Ilegend this your post get as e be o. You still gave her 5k at last so why does your topic suggest otherwise?

If she mentions the loan price, it will be bigger than 5k, so I'm willing to give out 5k for free to avoid hearing the loan amount. In this life, women hate rejection more than men.

Beautiful women like her hate it even more. Since they were born, men worship them give them whatever they want.

She has been trained to always get her way or get angry, but that doesn't work with me. At the same time, I don't like rejecting people even though I'm rejecting them. I love making people feel less pains when I reject their request or advances.

So, I offered something small to avoid giving out a loan. Also, I'm not really as stingy as I claim to be — I'm actually a kind person and I hate seeing people suffer even if they hate me.

Question: Can you offer one of your fingers to avoid losing two of your eyes?

waploger:
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Tolu181:
lol. Who snaps hairstyle when a girl visit

Dude, we all know this is just a screenshot.. you don't need to prove your lies.

Peace OUT.

Okay

Peace out.