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Jeremani:
Omo things are opening Sha,

There's this coded guy in our street, I use to think the guy is a yohoo boy.
Maybe bc of the way he dresses and some expensive gadgets he usually rolls with.

So today our transformer had issues, everybody came out.
Talk led talk, this guy showed me chats of girls he has connected with several men (mostly married men)
He said is hook up, online runz stuff like that.

If u see the way girls are sending him messages, asking if there's any deal, fear go catch u.

This generation of girls, am afraid of men that will wife em, bc is only few that are well kept and have some sense of shame in em.

Hence, Men need to do thorough findings b4 walking any of em to the alter.

There are all pretenders

Legendoo:
You get it .

What's on ground is bigger than the redpill .

Poverty, social media, internet and woke mob's have have woken the animalistic tendencies of these women.

Realistic guy's have started pimping the women, others don't have a clue .

Most people will never find befitting wives .

Think of it as a raging fire.

I'm ignored here a lot but I know more than most .

Herbworks has been dropping hints .

Nigeria is worse than the west and soddom and gommorah combined.

KennethIbe59:
U Gerrit, if u don't gerrit forget about rit

sajmark:
The bolded is so wrong bro, it's actually the opposite... But your game would have to be tight.
Church packaging is one of the sweetest cuz you're hiding in plain sight, but whenever two of you are together... She'll be a hoe 4 you as long as you don't kiss and tell.
A pastors daughter is among the plates that I spin and the relationship is mahd.

CaveAdullam:
'Ashawo man'. Repent!

Lol!

PS: as for me and my house and martinez39s we'll follow Jesus. Skepticus and Luminouz, no hope, they are idol worshippers.

ProphetJeroboam has left God of Abraham, Isaac and Jacob to follow 'yansh', yet, he will be the one telling us to chase purpose yen yen yen. Mtcheew.

Meedon:
The kind of insult and mockery I received from people in my area because I'm not in a relationship is alarming.

It looks funny to me. Sometimes I do ask myself if my being in relationship will benefit them one way or the other.

People get problem sha.

Jeremani:
Omo things are opening Sha,

There's this coded guy in our street, I use to think the guy is a yohoo boy.
Maybe bc of the way he dresses and some expensive gadgets he usually rolls with.

So today our transformer had issues, everybody came out.
Talk led talk, this guy showed me chats of girls he has connected with several men (mostly married men)
He said is hook up, online runz stuff like that.

If u see the way girls are sending him messages, asking if there's any deal, fear go catch u.

This generation of girls, am afraid of men that will wife em, bc is only few that are well kept and have some sense of shame in em.

Hence, Men need to do thorough findings b4 walking any of em to the alter.

There are all pretenders

AlphaAlex:
if you present yourself to a woman a certain way she will eventually understand the idea you have about her in your head and therefore continue to play the role you perceive her to be for instance if you think she’s a good girl and she can do no wrong in your sights she will continue to play the good girl role for you as long as she can because she knows that’s what you see her as. Women act differently to different people the side of her that you appreciate the most that’s the side she will continue to show you until you discover the other side . Why do you think many men say their wives changed after marrying them ? Because she was playing a part in order to secure a certain commitment. If she sees you have money and you are constantly putting it in her face that you have money she will adjust her behavior to please you so you can spend some on her, if she’s rude to others she may not be so rude to you because her eyes are on the prize. If she tells you she doesn’t do certain things and you believe her she will keep up the act while being able to do same things with another person so in your mind you have a fixed view of her which is not who she really is.

CaveAdullam:
Marriage is women's retirement plan!

I've observed it: women once they hit puberty especially when their breasts balloons, have suitors corral around them for marriage. From age 18-25 suitors comes in their numbers but because these women are myopic and lacks good upbringing, they jettison the good suitors for bad guys. You even get to hear flimsy excuses like: "I'm still young, I want to focus more, my mentor said, my this said...blah blah blah". But they still binge on cvcks on a steady amidsts these excuses.

Even men has been bamboozled to think that marriage is an achievement despite the fact that it increases their problems 100x. I'm not saying marriage is bad, because family is basic unit of civilization, and good family is based on a good marriage foundation. However, women don't see it that way, it is alpha fvcks beta bucks for them. Same woman that says " the blessings of a man increases towards marriage jubilee" is the same woman that will abuse her husband when things go south or still commits adultery when her horniness desires novelty.

Only few men like the one you narrate above got the scope. These women are not here because of love; they want to continue their leeching spree!

Thanks.

emmaodet:
My annoyance with the present day marriage is not because of the set-up rather the mentality of the women entering it.
Tbh, many of them are not or have not prepared themselves over time for it.
A case study is my SIL - she will be 26 few months from now, a graduate, finished serving, no job nor does she cares to look for one.
All she does is post her pictures on her Fb and WhatsApp status, saying how beautiful she is even though to me she looks 5/10 but the way she carry herself as if she is 9/10(don’t know who are deceiving these ladies), sometimes she will be dancing in her room and post it, Dre’s up and video herself cat walking and post it. Many more.
I always just wander what is really going on with most of them, always seeking internet attention and validation.
She will be marrying next year to a guy that has been hustling is ass off sinceeee. He became an orphan at a very young age, just a little age difference with my SIL yet over time, out of hustling and jostling, he has developed the necessary skills needed to survive the harsh world without any parental help. Always doing one thing or the other to survive yet his gf is virtually useless and not bringing much to the marriage table rather a big mouth with a big taste for what she can’t afford herself.
I looked at her and I compared her to my youngest brother who is also her age mate and I saw a big difference in thinking between the 2 sexes of same age.
While my brother is lonely, hustling trying to get his feet on ground because things are not yet straight for him, probably struggling to keep a decent relationship because he is a hustler and not sexually attractive to the average female, she on the other hand is busy dancing, cat walking, concerned about her beauty and all because she is not worried about life. Another human will take care of it for her - the boyfriend cum future hubby

emmaodet:
My annoyance with the present day marriage is not because of the set-up rather the mentality of the women entering it.
Tbh, many of them are not or have not prepared themselves over time for it.
A case study is my SIL - she will be 26 few months from now, a graduate, finished serving, no job nor does she cares to look for one.
All she does is post her pictures on her Fb and WhatsApp status, saying how beautiful she is even though to me she looks 5/10 but the way she carry herself as if she is 9/10(don’t know who are deceiving these ladies), sometimes she will be dancing in her room and post it, Dre’s up and video herself cat walking and post it. Many more.
I always just wander what is really going on with most of them, always seeking internet attention and validation.
She will be marrying next year to a guy that has been hustling is ass off sinceeee. He became an orphan at a very young age, just a little age difference with my SIL yet over time, out of hustling and jostling, he has developed the necessary skills needed to survive the harsh world without any parental help. Always doing one thing or the other to survive yet his gf is virtually useless and not bringing much to the marriage table rather a big mouth with a big taste for what she can’t afford herself.
I looked at her and I compared her to my youngest brother who is also her age mate and I saw a big difference in thinking between the 2 sexes of same age.
While my brother is lonely, hustling trying to get his feet on ground because things are not yet straight for him, probably struggling to keep a decent relationship because he is a hustler and not sexually attractive to the average female, she on the other hand is busy dancing, cat walking, concerned about her beauty and all because she is not worried about life. Another human will take care of it for her - the boyfriend cum future hubby

emmaodet:
My annoyance with the present day marriage is not because of the set-up rather the mentality of the women entering it.
Tbh, many of them are not or have not prepared themselves over time for it.
A case study is my SIL - she will be 26 few months from now, a graduate, finished serving, no job nor does she cares to look for one.
All she does is post her pictures on her Fb and WhatsApp status, saying how beautiful she is even though to me she looks 5/10 but the way she carry herself as if she is 9/10(don’t know who are deceiving these ladies), sometimes she will be dancing in her room and post it, Dre’s up and video herself cat walking and post it. Many more.
I always just wander what is really going on with most of them, always seeking internet attention and validation.
She will be marrying next year to a guy that has been hustling is ass off sinceeee. He became an orphan at a very young age, just a little age difference with my SIL yet over time, out of hustling and jostling, he has developed the necessary skills needed to survive the harsh world without any parental help. Always doing one thing or the other to survive yet his gf is virtually useless and not bringing much to the marriage table rather a big mouth with a big taste for what she can’t afford herself.
I looked at her and I compared her to my youngest brother who is also her age mate and I saw a big difference in thinking between the 2 sexes of same age.
While my brother is lonely, hustling trying to get his feet on ground because things are not yet straight for him, probably struggling to keep a decent relationship because he is a hustler and not sexually attractive to the average female, she on the other hand is busy dancing, cat walking, concerned about her beauty and all because she is not worried about life. Another human will take care of it for her - the boyfriend cum future hubby

emmaodet:
My annoyance with the present day marriage is not because of the set-up rather the mentality of the women entering it.
Tbh, many of them are not or have not prepared themselves over time for it.
A case study is my SIL - she will be 26 few months from now, a graduate, finished serving, no job nor does she cares to look for one.
All she does is post her pictures on her Fb and WhatsApp status, saying how beautiful she is even though to me she looks 5/10 but the way she carry herself as if she is 9/10(don’t know who are deceiving these ladies), sometimes she will be dancing in her room and post it, Dre’s up and video herself cat walking and post it. Many more.
I always just wander what is really going on with most of them, always seeking internet attention and validation.
She will be marrying next year to a guy that has been hustling is ass off sinceeee. He became an orphan at a very young age, just a little age difference with my SIL yet over time, out of hustling and jostling, he has developed the necessary skills needed to survive the harsh world without any parental help. Always doing one thing or the other to survive yet his gf is virtually useless and not bringing much to the marriage table rather a big mouth with a big taste for what she can’t afford herself.
I looked at her and I compared her to my youngest brother who is also her age mate and I saw a big difference in thinking between the 2 sexes of same age.
While my brother is lonely, hustling trying to get his feet on ground because things are not yet straight for him, probably struggling to keep a decent relationship because he is a hustler and not sexually attractive to the average female, she on the other hand is busy dancing, cat walking, concerned about her beauty and all because she is not worried about life. Another human will take care of it for her - the boyfriend cum future hubby

Regex:
Let's take a trip down to when technology hasn't evolved to social media networks.


During that time, the only way for men and women to display their masculinity and feminity respectively, they came out in an open place like town centre and village square. Then, the women did the picking which was a good thing because that burden of making a choice was lifted. But now, since town centres and village squares are none existence, both sexes had to pick their playground. Men remained in terrain of hunting(providing, hustling) to display their masculinity whilst women picked the social media.

What am I saying in essence brother, your SIL, isn't out of place for doing the above, in fact it is normal. But what's not normal is that her boyfriend chose her.


I used to be perplexed when I see girls on tiktok videos, or WhatsApp statuses moving their body, head or neck in a weird way whilst licking their lips, I never understood what that was for, or how I should react. Most times, I end up sending them a laugh emoji. Until this moment that it hit me, they were just recreating the town centres and village squares but mobile. They have gone lazy about it by confering on us the power to choose.

CaveAdullam:
Excellent take!

If only these men hastening themselves into marriage will for once sit down and have some introspection, they'll know they are doing themselves much hurts by committing to these kind of arrogant women. She will hardly appreciate the man that commits to her because he's one in a thousandth or more that brings attention to her. Social media is there to supply her more and more attention, so why respect and show concern about the man that placed her under his roof? Why bother to improve on herself? Why not bask in hedonism and enjoy her h0e phase when she's guaranteed a secured man?

Social media and dating app has enabled these women who are lazy, average or below to corral at the top when they really have nothing to offer. Men out of scarcity mindset or in an attempt to experience sexual novelty always validates these women entitlement mentality putting a five(5) star review on it. Men's standards when it comes to sexual relationship is low; nevertheless, following an evolutionary explanation, men just want sex and with whatever woman. However, in this modern age, man must thoughtfully and consciously work with these underlying instincts to secure women who are worthy of his commitment, because of a truth, modern day women want to have their cake and eat it when they have nothing to offer literally.

Thanks.

DieRich5:
bro, i know 99.5% of girls nowadays is hoes but dating a girl who has a job is better than the jobless once cus we all know where dere money will come from.

emmaodet:
Hmmmmmmm
You are right bro
Sometimes I do wonder why we men hustle a lot just to settle for far too low. I mean far too low.

DieRich5:
bro, i know 99.5% of girls nowadays is hoes but dating a girl who has a job is better than the jobless once cus we all know where dere money will come from.

darkelf:
Bros you may well hate me for what I am about to tell you. You may even call the mods to ban me

But please HELP YOUR FELLOW MAN!!!

Don't let that poor struggling boy marry your SIL. Tell him the truth about the kind of woman she is and let him decide

Take him as your own younger brother. If you were privileged to discover that your own younger bro wants to marry such a person, would you allow him to go ahead.

Try and find out his number if you don't have it. Call him and warn him about the demonic trap he is about to enter. I fear for the guy already and I don't even know him

Your SIL doesn't deserve such a gem. She would never value hardwork if a good man just drops on her laps like that.

Bro, you will be savng that man's lide by warning him

I am a Christian and it's often said that the worst thing that can happen to a christian apart from hell fire is bad marriage

Warn the guy please. Put yourself in his shoes. Your SIL doesn't deserve him

emmaodet:
Hmmmmmmm
You are right bro
Sometimes I do wonder why we men hustle a lot just to settle for far too low. I mean far too low.

emmaodet:
My annoyance with the present day marriage is not because of the set-up rather the mentality of the women entering it.
Tbh, many of them are not or have not prepared themselves over time for it.
A case study is my SIL - she will be 26 few months from now, a graduate, finished serving, no job nor does she cares to look for one.
All she does is post her pictures on her Fb and WhatsApp status, saying how beautiful she is even though to me she looks 5/10 but the way she carry herself as if she is 9/10(don’t know who are deceiving these ladies), sometimes she will be dancing in her room and post it, Dre’s up and video herself cat walking and post it. Many more.
I always just wander what is really going on with most of them, always seeking internet attention and validation.
She will be marrying next year to a guy that has been hustling is ass off sinceeee. He became an orphan at a very young age, just a little age difference with my SIL yet over time, out of hustling and jostling, he has developed the necessary skills needed to survive the harsh world without any parental help. Always doing one thing or the other to survive yet his gf is virtually useless and not bringing much to the marriage table rather a big mouth with a big taste for what she can’t afford herself.
I looked at her and I compared her to my youngest brother who is also her age mate and I saw a big difference in thinking between the 2 sexes of same age.
While my brother is lonely, hustling trying to get his feet on ground because things are not yet straight for him, probably struggling to keep a decent relationship because he is a hustler and not sexually attractive to the average female, she on the other hand is busy dancing, cat walking, concerned about her beauty and all because she is not worried about life. Another human will take care of it for her - the boyfriend cum future hubby

crackhaus:
We cannot stop a lot of these women from being women – just basic, entitled, and cursed eternally with their princess complex, BUT as men we can be sensible and ensure we don't pick such women as partners for lifelong commitments.

crackhaus:
It is that guy who after hustling for most of his life but still chose to make a wife out of a girl like your SIL, he is the one who ought to have his head checked thoroughly.

We cannot stop a lot of these women from being women – just basic, entitled, and cursed eternally with their princess complex, BUT as men we can be sensible and ensure we don't pick such women as partners for lifelong commitments.

Hotspotbro:
Emmanuel, who are you that you don't want to have a girlfriend sef?
This Emmanuel sef,...
Such and such was said to me in my SS2/SS3 days

Raalsalghul:
Crackhaus, I feel like you're being unfair to the guy.

This might just be case of ignorance or no figure to talk to him.