I have been dating my girl for the past two years now.. she has this habit of keeping male friends in which she claimed to confide in them more than female ones. lately, I noticed there is fluent conversation between my girl and her manager, he calls and text her at night and sometimes drop her at her house.. in summary, I went to my gf house during late hour on Wednesday to recover my laptop and phone chargers only to meet her door locked from inside, the light was off and the windows were also locked. I knocked the hell out of the door but no response, I called her line but she was not picking. I spent 50 minutes sitting down down outside waiting only for her to come out with her manager.. she was shocked on seeing me, she was staring at me and she told her manager good night. I went inside and took my chargers, I wanted to leave but she hold on to me tightly and begin to cry, she said i should beat her if that will calm me. I don't know what to do because it's almost 12:30am and I couldn't go back home due to security reasons. I stayed over while she was busy crying the whole night.. I left her house very early in the morning.. since then she has been calling and sending series of messages.
I don't know what to do. I love her dearly but am heartbroken.
Pls help...

Bros ,wake up from your slumber because the relationship is over and you have to face the reality here. You coming to Nairaland and airing your grievances won't the change the narrative that she cheated on you on purpose.

Secondly, why are you still in love with someone who has a passion for unfaithfulness. ..? Oga, take my advice and do yourself a favor by finding someone else who would remain loyal and place you as a priority instead of an option.

the only help you need is an OLODO MIND RESETTING slap!

I don't understand why guys are complaining about this thing ordinary gf you dey complain, people wife dey Bleep guys left and right.

Women are prostitutes it is their nature.



Guy no girl out there that is different that is a lie.


Women of old i can say few didn't because of tradition, oath, magun and others that kept them in check.

You didn't say if have engaged her yet. Anyway, it not easy to sincerely apologise, so forgive and forget.

What do you need our help for?

Isn't it obvious?

Seems like a made-up story to me though...

PUSSYHOE:
I don't understand why guys are complaining about this thing ordinary gf you dey complain, people wife dey Bleep guys left and right.

Women are prostitutes it is their nature.

From a man who's had sex with over 40 women...

The difference between a prostitute and a community diçk is what?

MrBrownJay1:
the only help you need is an OLODO MIND RESETTING slap!

yeye de worry you.

husseinchoice:
I have been dating my girl for the past two years now.. she has this habit of keeping male friends in which she claimed to confide in them more than female ones. lately, I noticed there is fluent conversation between my girl and her manager, he calls and text her at night and sometimes drop her at her house.. in summary, I went to my gf house during late hour on Wednesday to recover my laptop and phone chargers only to meet her door locked from inside, the light was off and the windows were also locked. I knocked the hell out of the door but no response, I called her line but she was not picking. I spent 50 minutes sitting down down outside waiting only for her to come out with her manager.. she was shocked on seeing me, she was staring at me and she told her manager good night. I went inside and took my chargers, I wanted to leave but she hold on to me tightly and begin to cry, she said i should beat her if that will calm me. I don't know what to do because it's almost 12:30am and I couldn't go back home due to security reasons. I stayed over while she was busy crying the whole night.. I left her house very early in the morning.. since then she has been calling and sending series of messages.
I don't know what to do. I love her dearly but am heartbroken.
Pls help...

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Go and take burantashi....use am dey knack am till you are no longer angry, then break up when u are tired of banging her pvssy. or turn her to sidechick till she get sense to leave.
Get a new babe while doing all the above

Datboredberry:
From a man who's had sex with over 40 women...

The difference between a prostitute and a community diçk is what?

It isn't a community dick because I didnt only fuck_ in one state, not to talk of community.

Wetin, MusA No go see For nairaland
Ewelewe ooo

Datboredberry:
What do you need our help for?

Isn't it obvious?

Seems like a made-up story to me though...

Am serious bro.

Fry eggs for her.

Datboredberry:
What do you need our help for?
Isn't it obvious?
Seems like a made-up story to me though...

Can only be a made up story to a partner in crime.

You met her with sb. You still went in and slept. Na wa for Chiwetala Agu o

After what you saw, you are still hoping for miracle hmmmm. Only God can reset your brain again. Because I don't think you like better thing you just prefer whatever you have. OK continue.

husseinchoice:
I have been dating my girl for the past two years now.. she has this habit of keeping male friends in which she claimed to confide in them more than female ones. lately, I noticed there is fluent conversation between my girl and her manager, he calls and text her at night and sometimes drop her at her house.. in summary, I went to my gf house during late hour on Wednesday to recover my laptop and phone chargers only to meet her door locked from inside, the light was off and the windows were also locked. I knocked the hell out of the door but no response, I called her line but she was not picking. I spent 50 minutes sitting down down outside waiting only for her to come out with her manager.. she was shocked on seeing me, she was staring at me and she told her manager good night. I went inside and took my chargers, I wanted to leave but she hold on to me tightly and begin to cry, she said i should beat her if that will calm me. I don't know what to do because it's almost 12:30am and I couldn't go back home due to security reasons. I stayed over while she was busy crying the whole night.. I left her house very early in the morning.. since then she has been calling and sending series of messages.
I don't know what to do. I love her dearly but am heartbroken.
Pls help...

Welcome to the wicked world we live in...All she did was to open your eyes to the harsh reality of life......God has exposed her before you even married her so you should be thankful rather than being sad....
She is not apologising because she cheated,she is apologising because you caght her...so imagine the things she has done behind your back...
My advice is to forgive her and move on so you don't hold up grudges with her but also never have anything to do with her even friendship...Don't listen to her tears Kos they are just for show... BE A MAN and MOVE ON,you will Heal in time I assure you .

But I know there is somewhere in your heart telling you to take her back,I have once been in your shoes and I regretted going back to her Kos I showed her I had no respect for myself to take a cheater back and she became worse than the devil himself....Don't go back my brother...am begging you...Free her and move on

Go and beg her for not forgiving her and for not picking her calls. Olodo simp.

Ohh Lord, may my children children children children children, never ever be a Simp...

Mennnnnnnn, op,you no even try self............Why you go spend night for that kind girl house that same night again?

Na wa oh.....God punish security reasons . You for waka leave her..........well,op,just accept the bitter truth............ Leave her alone........ Because there's nothing that'll make her change..

Kuriosmynd:

Can only be a made up story to a partner in crime.

not really... I think it's made up because what help does the op need? He's so devastated, he brought it to Nairaland? He didn't react... Just here patiently waiting for our advice...

It's all cliche... There are a thousand similar threads... And most seem fake.

His girlfriend is cheating, does he really need strangers on a forum to tell him what step to take?

If so then the vast majority of Nigerian men on this forum are extremely slow... Women appear to handle their relationships well... They get cheated on, they know what to do... Unlike you... It's weird.

Girlfriend palavas for this December time.

People get time sha

Op your be get contingency plans
And you're grieving

Ditch her! You are dumb to come here to ask us what to do. Weak man.

husseinchoice:


Am serious bro.

Yeah, I know... You need help to breakup with someone who's cheated on you...

You know that this is what you should do... But you still need a hundred comments urging you on to do the obvious... It's tiring... Doing this under the hundreds of similar threads you Nairaland men folk frequently create...

If you still haven't been able to end the relationship, then what help would our sermons do?

I think with the rate of threads like yours are being posted every day... The mods should create a sticky thread, 'Dear men, how to end toxic relationships'... where all Nairalanders would comment...

That way, when any man decides to spam this section with his wailing, someone would kindly do the needful and send him the link to the thread...

husseinchoice:
I have been dating my girl for the past two years now.. she has this habit of keeping male friends in which she claimed to confide in them more than female ones. lately, I noticed there is fluent conversation between my girl and her manager, he calls and text her at night and sometimes drop her at her house.. in summary, I went to my gf house during late hour on Wednesday to recover my laptop and phone chargers only to meet her door locked from inside, the light was off and the windows were also locked. I knocked the hell out of the door but no response, I called her line but she was not picking. I spent 50 minutes sitting down down outside waiting only for her to come out with her manager.. she was shocked on seeing me, she was staring at me and she told her manager good night. I went inside and took my chargers, I wanted to leave but she hold on to me tightly and begin to cry, she said i should beat her if that will calm me. I don't know what to do because it's almost 12:30am and I couldn't go back home due to security reasons. I stayed over while she was busy crying the whole night.. I left her house very early in the morning.. since then she has been calling and sending series of messages.
I don't know what to do. I love her dearly but am heartbroken.
Pls help...

Okponu ni e..
If I give you hot slap now eh, you will know what to do immediately. Just look at what an adult (possibly) is coming to ask on nairaland..

Nonsense.

PUSSYHOE:
I don't understand why guys are complaining about this thing ordinary gf you dey complain, people wife dey Bleep guys left and right.

Women are prostitutes it is their nature.



Guy no girl out there that is different that is a lie.


Women of old i can say few didn't because of tradition, oath, magun and others that kept them in check.

Not all women are hoes.

Telegram234:
Ohh Lord, may my children children children children children, never ever be a Simp...

Amen o
Imagine the SIMP.
nothing wey eye no go see for this forum

MrBrownJay1:
the only help you need is an OLODO MIND RESETTING slap!

Abeg tell the SIMP

Op

Forgive her and accept her back, am sure she will change



The girl na wife material self

husseinchoice:
I have been dating my girl for the past two years now.. she has this habit of keeping male friends in which she claimed to confide in them more than female ones. lately, I noticed there is fluent conversation between my girl and her manager, he calls and text her at night and sometimes drop her at her house.. in summary, I went to my gf house during late hour on Wednesday to recover my laptop and phone chargers only to meet her door locked from inside, the light was off and the windows were also locked. I knocked the hell out of the door but no response, I called her line but she was not picking. I spent 50 minutes sitting down down outside waiting only for her to come out with her manager.. she was shocked on seeing me, she was staring at me and she told her manager good night. I went inside and took my chargers, I wanted to leave but she hold on to me tightly and begin to cry, she said i should beat her if that will calm me. I don't know what to do because it's almost 12:30am and I couldn't go back home due to security reasons. I stayed over while she was busy crying the whole night.. I left her house very early in the morning.. since then she has been calling and sending series of messages.
I don't know what to do. I love her dearly but am heartbroken.
Pls help...

A word should be enough for you.

I refuse to be stupid again.

E be many things