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Sorry for the typo error, with my elder brother in a room self contain.

kemi1123:
I am not staying with my uncle, but with my elder brother in a one bedroom self contain and i am sleep on the floor with a Mat....

kemi1123:
Thanks alot for your advise and understanding but i have 1 question please, are you married

Yes I'm married, why did you ask that?

Nothing, just wanted to be sure that i am being guided correctly but you are right
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JovialJune:
Yes I'm married, why did you ask that?

You are not serious.
Mtchewww

I want to talk about the young man

If I were him, at this moment, I will change location and contact

I will make sure I FFK you

You will never see that child again in life

Seeing him will only be on television

kemi1123:
Hi Nairaland

Please i see your advise to avoid mistakes

I met this guy while we were in the university and he got me Pregnant but he stood by me and the baby and also paid my school fees until I graduated because I was rejected by my uncles and aunties due to the pregnancy. He stood by me and by the grace of God, I am a graduate today and also done with my NYSC.

I lost my dad when I was only 3 years old and my aunt adopted me and paid my school fees till when I got pregnant in my part 2. My biological mum has been absent in my life and I only met her 2 years ago and she is currently suffering from epilepsy in the village. The problem now is that my uncle does not like the father of my son and he has advised me to leave my son with the father and come back home and look for someone else from my tribe and I don't seem to love the father of my baby anymore. I left my son with the father and came back to my family and it's been 2 months now but I am already missing my son.

Please be careful, I need your advice and be guided.

You better be making this up. Cos if this story is true then you don't deserve a good man.

JovialJune:
I don't understand, why cant she leave the boy with him? did she impregnate herself? Is he not the son's father?

Which kind mumu talk be this na

kemi1123:
Please do you think i will regret m actions in future

I can't say. I'm not a fortune teller or a seer

Wish you the very best.

You might regret and you might not

My dear Karma is real. And remember u are d one making urself loss here,because the guy in question has d child in his custody, so he can use him for compasation for his expenses. Finally remember that d little child is watching. So do wat ever pleases u.

You are not acting wise, my sister. You abandoned your child with a man. You will regret your action in the future if you don't retrace your steps now. It appears there is an evil pattern flowing in the family. Your mother never raises you, and now your child is not raised by you. After a man stood by you and trained you at University level , you claimed yoi didn't love him, but when he stood by you, you love hi? You are free to make your choice but you are not from the consequence of your choice

kemi1123:
Hi Nairaland

Please i see your advise to avoid mistakes

I met this guy while we were in the university and he got me Pregnant but he stood by me and the baby and also paid my school fees until I graduated because I was rejected by my uncles and aunties due to the pregnancy. He stood by me and by the grace of God, I am a graduate today and also done with my NYSC.

I lost my dad when I was only 3 years old and my aunt adopted me and paid my school fees till when I got pregnant in my part 2. My biological mum has been absent in my life and I only met her 2 years ago and she is currently suffering from epilepsy in the village. The problem now is that my uncle does not like the father of my son and he has advised me to leave my son with the father and come back home and look for someone else from my tribe and I don't seem to love the father of my baby anymore. I left my son with the father and came back to my family and it's been 2 months now but I am already missing my son.

Please be careful, I need your advice and be guided.

U don't deserve to be loved, u deserve to be ill treated.

I almost ignored when you said be guided .
I will say , you are a very beautiful but poor (like me ) .
All this your careful editing to remove the main variable won’t blind me .
There’s another guy , obviously richer knocking on your door . And maybe the new guy , doesn’t know you have a son .
Why did you abandon your son for your perceived and unknown El dorado ? What if you don’t conceive again ? Except you are already pregnant for your new guy ?
Why did you fell out of love for your baby daddy ? Do you have any problem ( financial or physical ) whatsoever from marrying him ?
Tribe is useless here as long as the family and the guy accepts you, respects you and loves you . I’m only interested in the culture. Is their culture against your belief or they have some practices you are not at peace with ?
Concerning your mother ? Are you the only child of your biological mother ? To me your mother is your aunt , in fact let your family take care of your mum because they know why she was absent in your life ? Get her epileptic drugs if need be . What if you died , during your son pregnancy or childbirth , who will take care of your mum now ? So you can sleep with both eyes closed in another man arm , knowing you abandoned your son and first issue ... what do I know ?
I wish I was as responsible as that your guy that impregnated you, took care of you , pregnancy, school . I guess if he abandoned you , you did abort the child then , seeing you don’t even value the child , or maybe you did be a drop out , with a baby and maybe saying along the street . That your A’level certificate that’s bloating your ego, can be eaten by that guy villager rats .