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Re: My Wife's Aunty Wants To Destroy My Marriage! by Sonnobax15(m): 6:01am On Dec 13, 2021 |
Ok |
Re: My Wife's Aunty Wants To Destroy My Marriage! by Nobody: 6:02am On Dec 13, 2021 |
Hmm |
Re: My Wife's Aunty Wants To Destroy My Marriage! by MufasaLion: 6:27am On Dec 13, 2021 |
You married a woman that doesn't have a mind of her own. So because she lived with her, she's got to fufill her wishes? Nonsense! That woman is very wicked and doesn't want good things for your wife but she can't make it look so obvious, hence the reason she's more fixated on frustrating you. Well, it's your cross, carry it. A single man is a happy and healthy man. 7 Likes |
Re: My Wife's Aunty Wants To Destroy My Marriage! by MufasaLion: 6:29am On Dec 13, 2021 |
Mood11: You're right. The wife is becoming too foolish. |
Re: My Wife's Aunty Wants To Destroy My Marriage! by Spy360(m): 6:34am On Dec 13, 2021 |
Your wife is being blackmailed. Tell her to confess to you whatever it is she's holding back. Then forgive her as the case may be. Finally, take leadership of your home. Let even your parents know you are in charge talkless of your in-laws. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife's Aunty Wants To Destroy My Marriage! by jaeyking(m): 6:51am On Dec 13, 2021 |
uyimen: Sorry you had to know this the hard way |
Re: My Wife's Aunty Wants To Destroy My Marriage! by AgentGoat: 6:57am On Dec 13, 2021 |
You see problem and still choke your head inside it. I can never be close to anyone showing some unnecessary hatred towards me. I don't have any advice for you. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife's Aunty Wants To Destroy My Marriage! by Gideonanj21(m): 7:06am On Dec 13, 2021 |
uyimen: Bro you are man, and I believe you have been understanding enough. Take up your responsibility as a man and caution your wife and her so called aunt. Bro if you dont do that let's hope they won't kick you out of your own house 3 Likes |
Re: My Wife's Aunty Wants To Destroy My Marriage! by peedeeasobie(m): 7:11am On Dec 13, 2021 |
eazzzy1: Did you read the part where he said the woman is causing issues in his marriage? Cursing them and setting them up to fail? |
Re: My Wife's Aunty Wants To Destroy My Marriage! by peedeeasobie(m): 7:14am On Dec 13, 2021 |
eazzzy1: To make their own mistakes where? In his house? Do you know how costly some mistakes can be? Bros, this your view will change once you marry. You will know that your peace of mind is more important than trying to pacify one aunty that doesn't want to be pacified 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife's Aunty Wants To Destroy My Marriage! by Nobody: 7:37am On Dec 13, 2021 |
uyimen: Talk to your wife sir... Tell her that it's either she focuses on building her home by not allowing her aunty to control her or she goes back to that her aunty... I know this advice may cause very severe issues, buh I'd rather send my wife away than allow an aunty from god-knows-where to run my home for me... 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife's Aunty Wants To Destroy My Marriage! by FahBuLous: 8:15am On Dec 13, 2021 |
Mehn, that aunty needs to know her place... You can't continue to live like this forever, man up to her and challenge her while looking like an angry lion that wants to eat her up... If your wife isn't conversant with it, that's her problem... She has to understand that her niece is married now and needs privacy... Nna, handle things now bfr it becomes worst... 3 Likes |
Re: My Wife's Aunty Wants To Destroy My Marriage! by akinade28(f): 8:56am On Dec 13, 2021 |
Op, I want you to "put yourself in your wife's shoes". You need to understand that women are often emotionally attached to their family members especially those that raised them, it is usually difficult to break the bond suddenly because of marriage. Everyone has that evil crazy extended family member, but we don't throw them away just because they are bad, we just establish caution when relating with them, blood is thicker than water. She has known this woman all her life and see the aunt as her second mother, forcing her to break all ties will put her in a very difficult position ( that's how you get a bitter wife). She might hold it against you in the future especially when relating to your own family members. However, you can relocate to a different place where it will be difficult them to have free access to your house. Then, you can tell her to reduce communication with them to the barest minimum. To nairalanders with their baised and one sided advice. Assuming it was a woman that came to seek advice on the case of her husband's evil aunt who practically raised him for 18 years, but didn't like her nor wanted him to marry her, so she laid curses on her during the wedding ceremony but she and her children still comes to the house at will after the wedding. The advice will be completely different. You will hear things like " forgive her, she is like a mother to your husband", " no wife should separate a man from his relatives irrespective of what they have done", " you have to learn to accommodate your husband's relatives" etc. Most of you guys can't take half of what you dish out. Just because we are women doesn't mean no one ever sacrificed for us, you usually forget that someone raised your wives, they paid the price and invested so much in them to that level that you got married to them. If they had not sacrifice for them, you won't have gotten that beautiful woman you call your wife today. 3 Likes |
Re: My Wife's Aunty Wants To Destroy My Marriage! by lereinter(m): 9:02am On Dec 13, 2021 |
uyimen: You have been gentle to a fault |
Re: My Wife's Aunty Wants To Destroy My Marriage! by lereinter(m): 9:06am On Dec 13, 2021 |
You saw all the writings on the wall you still went ahead You spend and overspend still na curse That one na witch. you better increase your prayers with genuine men of God |
Re: My Wife's Aunty Wants To Destroy My Marriage! by Nonexisting: 9:12am On Dec 13, 2021 |
Very simple. Relocate abroad, let them board British airways anytime they want to come and control your marriage. |
Re: My Wife's Aunty Wants To Destroy My Marriage! by Olam09(m): 9:16am On Dec 13, 2021 |
Destroy her too |
Re: My Wife's Aunty Wants To Destroy My Marriage! by Annie001: 9:16am On Dec 13, 2021 |
It's not your Aunty's wife fault It your wife that doesn't value you. Why can't the universe just match wicked people with wicked people? Person dey find soul mate, some people found and still misbehaving Oga gan 3 Likes |
Re: My Wife's Aunty Wants To Destroy My Marriage! by AfroKnight: 9:17am On Dec 13, 2021 |
I think the problem is, your wife doesn’t see her Aunty’s behaviour as wrong. Until your wife realises that, you will always have this issue. Let them know that if she doesn’t respect you, you too will not respect her. Every family has situations like this where two people don’t like each other. It’s not strange. 4 Likes |
Re: My Wife's Aunty Wants To Destroy My Marriage! by Kingmena: 9:19am On Dec 13, 2021 |
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Re: My Wife's Aunty Wants To Destroy My Marriage! by hedonido: 9:20am On Dec 13, 2021 |
So you saw all these signs from the beginning and yet you proceeded to marry the girl? Because her honeypot dey drip liquid gold or because you lost all hope of ever finding another girl that would agree to marry your pathetic self? All these foolish guys and their endless self-inflicted woes dey always make me vex. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife's Aunty Wants To Destroy My Marriage! by Peace081: 9:20am On Dec 13, 2021 |
Re: My Wife's Aunty Wants To Destroy My Marriage! by Muhylonaire007: 9:21am On Dec 13, 2021 |
Hmmmm |
Re: My Wife's Aunty Wants To Destroy My Marriage! by sammirano: 9:22am On Dec 13, 2021 |
This is what happens when you think you have won a lottery by marrying someone. You lack control, and so afraid. Well carry your cross for as long as you can 1 Like |
Re: My Wife's Aunty Wants To Destroy My Marriage! by orumba(m): 9:23am On Dec 13, 2021 |
Relocate to far distance, very important Secondly, try to avoid discussions with your wife about her past for awhile. Allow her mingle with new friends |
Re: My Wife's Aunty Wants To Destroy My Marriage! by Nobody: 9:23am On Dec 13, 2021 |
uyimen:Is it compulsory for you to have married the lady? Some of you men sef, you have been seeing the red light, yet still deep yourself into wahala. |
Re: My Wife's Aunty Wants To Destroy My Marriage! by Ikem11(m): 9:24am On Dec 13, 2021 |
Brother, na your wife stayed with her for 18years not you. Wonder where all una weak men they come out from this days. E get reason why they say men need to be matured before getting married. No be come pick small money and jump into marriage. If any third party can have influence in your marriage and even to control your wife, trust me my man, you not a matured man. |
Re: My Wife's Aunty Wants To Destroy My Marriage! by phill63(m): 9:25am On Dec 13, 2021 |
No problem at all. The only problem I see here is a weak ass man who doesn't know that once a man gets married he has to move his family (pitch his tent) in a far away city to avoid stories that touch |
Re: My Wife's Aunty Wants To Destroy My Marriage! by Nobody: 9:25am On Dec 13, 2021 |
You need to work on your wife in other to conquer the woman that claiming God, this issue would have been addressed before your marriage but since you can't do that is your wife that will work on the woman With prayer and endurance you will conquer |
Re: My Wife's Aunty Wants To Destroy My Marriage! by michaelwilli(m): 9:25am On Dec 13, 2021 |
uyimen: Grow some balls o, na you marry wife, na you pay bride price, them no pay groom price for your head. It's your home, you decide how it should be. If your marriage fails, the blame will start from you. So please ensure you are actually the head of your home. Not asking to maltreat your wife, but anything that will affect the peace of your home, stomp it into the ground. Na man you be my brother. |
Re: My Wife's Aunty Wants To Destroy My Marriage! by Nobody: 9:25am On Dec 13, 2021 |
Akwaibomdude:He shouldn't have marry such a lady from such a family sef. I no fit marry from any family wey no go let me have peace of mind. |
Re: My Wife's Aunty Wants To Destroy My Marriage! by Nobody: 9:26am On Dec 13, 2021 |
LordIsaac:if only he can do this...You said it all...my wife stayed with one aunty too like that for close 20years,they dare not try such with cus dem know say I get craze.....Man wey no get craze no fit control him house,sometimes gentle words doesn’t solve anything,I go carry 3 shirts,off to an hotel,when you are ready to listen,I will come back... 6 Likes |
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