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Oyiboman69:
swallow your pride and get what you want... be sure you're certain of what lead to you guys break up in the first place and see if it's okay with you before embarking on the long journey of marriage and after that,I guess you should go straight to the point of taking the relationship to the next level cos seven wasted does not deserve another to be added on to....good luck.

Do you know what it cost me to call her A whole lot of pride was swallowed

lomprico:
We ain't talking about love yet

I am talking about love

Opeyemiextra:
Just tell her how you feel if you really still do and ask her if she's up for another chance. Don't make what is not complicated look like it is. In those 7 years, you should have learnt how best to reach her anyway.

Uhmmmm

ashawopikin:
You are asking us how to tell a girl you've dated for SEVEN YEARS u still have feelings for her, na wa o

Because you are not in my shoe

lomprico:
You already did by saying you missed her and she agreed by saying she missed you too. Why are you disturbing us again na? Don't you know that 1 small indomie and 1 egg is now 100 naira each?

Really! Chai, this is a serious matter ooo! Thank God one fufu is still 50naira in mushin

Magnoliaa:
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Pali ooo. You have finished me with laughter here. Asa, you don talk am finish. And now gan, e sure me say, the girl dey innocent. Because if a woman was in the wrong, a naija male like the OP wouldn't have passed the opportunity to berate her over. He'd have come here to expose her yansh, so his goons can feast on her soul.

Redpill ti da relationship ru ooo. Aye. Seven years. O ma se. Warra pirry.



You see this line gannnn is my MO. Abeg, they should overdose to death! They should. It is over my dead body that I'll be preaching against guys taking the redpill. Nikini? Na my problem?

It seems you are just ready for me today

Worldlegend:
Because are not in my shoe

baba u dated this girl for 7 years, you should know her better than anyone, you should know your way, abi u dey fear woman?

Magnoliaa:
But you should consider this advice sha. Don't be a pùssy-whipped nigga. A man shouldn't be caught having strong feelings for a banny (especially more than she does). It's for weak men. No woman is worth you falling in love with. Dating a woman doesn't guarantee her faithfulness, breaking up with her doesn't.

There'll always be one nigga at the side shining things, so I wonder why you guys make so much ado about faithfulness.

Even this one wey dey tok sef, another dude dey lash him Asian babe. It's all a recycling something.

helinues:
What were you thinking when you let go of 7 years relationship initially?

If you indeed missed her, you wouldn't have to wait for someone to remind you about her.

Don't be pushed

You will never understand

brain54:
Dude...no trick from me.






But why break up with some one if you still have feelings?
Not too late though!

She may be with man now

Magnoliaa:
Yeah, misunderstanding. You didn't say whose fault. The person I quoted was implying that the lady was at fault when he said ''yanga again.''

Me? Means ke? You be real man, unlike other simps out there - even though you claimed reconnecting with her was a simp move. You should be able to deal with your shits, since you obviously know how alpha men are supposed to deal with women.

the fault was from us both

Worldlegend:



Beyond the parents pressure I still have feelings
Maybe I am really a SIMP-le dude

I will try the WhatsApp stuffs

A simp is someone who likes someone who doesn't like them, you dated for 7 years, how is that simping, you're adult in an adult relationship that didn't work out, if you want to go back it's up to you. Don't let people deter you from making up your mind.

Story for the gods

Worldlegend:
I am talking about love

I suggest you table this matter at the Redpill House of Assembly. I believe only there will you get efficient and adequate help.
On a serious note, the only thing you can do is to man up and tell her how you feel. No more, no less.

Worldlegend:

I lie? ^_^

Lol... Why do guys always come here to ask for guidelines? You called her cause you had feelings for her not because of any pressure. She also acknowledged she misses you. Most people wouldn't do that if there's no chance they want you back. And that's not abnormal seeing how long y'all have been together. I think you guys are allowing this simp thing to affect your lives and happiness. You're always scared of being called a simp that you'd let go what makes you happy. You come to NL to ask secondary school students what to do as if people here really care about you. Of course, they'd tell you whatever makes them feel good about themselves and move on with their lives. You alone will live with the consequences of your decisions.

If you love her, go for her the way you went for her 7 years ago. Why are you suddenly afraid? Were you the cause of the fight? Did you cheat?

Magnoliaa:
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Pali ooo. You have finished me with laughter here. Asa, you don talk am finish. And now gan, e sure me say, the girl dey innocent. Because if a woman was in the wrong, a naija male like the OP wouldn't have passed the opportunity to berate her over. He'd have come here to expose her yansh, so his goons can feast on her soul.

Redpill ti da relationship ru ooo. Aye. Seven years. O ma se. Warra pirry.



You see this line gannnn is my MO. Abeg, they should overdose to death! They should. It is over my dead body that I'll be preaching against guys taking the redpill. Nikini? Na my problem?

It's a pity people without filters practice all they read here.

Na him we dey see now, Why Alfa males never full the thread self baffle me. I mean this is the moment a brother needs a shoulder to cry on.

Worldlegend:
Let me be brief and apt.

We dated for over 7years then sometimes early last year, we had a misunderstanding and that was all..
We went apart.

Let me add that “I deleted her contact the very day we parted” and there has not been any form of interaction between us…

But the pressure from both my parent and her parent was much on me, like the mother whenever we see or she call or I call her, she keeps asking if I am hearing from her daughter, and I used to tell her yes. Likewise my fam, they keep asking me of her…

Let me now add that the SIMP-le me went and get her number and called her early this week, told her how I missed her and she also told me she misssed me.. I just can’t believe hearing that…

NOW THE REASON I AM WRITING THIS EPISODE
How do I tell her that I still have feelings for her?
How do I ask her if she is with a man and if she is having peace with the man.
How do I let her know that both my parent and her parent are troubling me because of her…

PLEASE I NEED MATURED CONTRIBUTION…
I Will go though all the contritions and gather tricks from here, I will also update us afterwards…

For now we are just chatting as normal friends and comedians making each other laugh

She has been fucckked and is still being fucxked. Know this and know peace.

If you wanna continue then obtain exclusive license

Palema007:
It's a pity people without filters practice all they read here.

Na him we dey see now, Why Alfa males never full the thread self baffle me. I mean this is the moment a brother needs a shoulder to cry on.

Tooooor. You see am. Na true you talk oh. Them dey always attack in droves, like a swarm of locusts. Maybe dem still dey come.

Anyway sha, me don direct am to their chambers. If the mountain does not come to Muhammed, Muhammed will go to the mountain or something like that. I've posted the link for him.

Oh. E be like say one of them don comment above this my comment.

WoundedLamb:
Lol... Why do guys always come here to ask for guidelines?

I think you guys are allowing this simp thing to affect your lives and happiness. You're always scared of being called a simp that you'd let go what makes you happy. You come to NL to ask secondary school students what to do as if people here really care about you. Of course, they'd tell you whatever makes them feel good about themselves and move on with their lives. You alone will live with the consequences of your decisions.

Nothing more to add to everything you've said here. Like. These guys care so much about seeming hard that they'll forfeit their happiness and freedom of expressing their emotions in a healthy manner. Phew. Must be so hard living like that. Love and light to them.

Worldlegend:
Let me be brief and apt.

We dated for over 7years then sometimes early last year, we had a misunderstanding and that was all..
We went apart.

Let me add that “I deleted her contact the very day we parted” and there has not been any form of interaction between us…

But the pressure from both my parent and her parent was much on me, like the mother whenever we see or she call or I call her, she keeps asking if I am hearing from her daughter, and I used to tell her yes. Likewise my fam, they keep asking me of her…

Let me now add that the SIMP-le me went and get her number and called her early this week, told her how I missed her and she also told me she misssed me.. I just can’t believe hearing that…

NOW THE REASON I AM WRITING THIS EPISODE
How do I tell her that I still have feelings for her?
How do I ask her if she is with a man and if she is having peace with the man.
How do I let her know that both my parent and her parent are troubling me because of her…

PLEASE I NEED MATURED CONTRIBUTION…
I Will go though all the contritions and gather tricks from here, I will also update us afterwards…

For now we are just chatting as normal friends and comedians making each other laugh

I don't think she would be entertaining u if she is in any meaningful relationship and happy. She says she misses u too that's ur stepping cue.. act right this time

Magnoliaa:
But you should consider this advice sha. Don't be a pùssy-whipped nigga. A man shouldn't be caught having strong feelings for a banny (especially more than she does). It's for weak men. No woman is worth you falling in love with. Dating a woman doesn't guarantee her faithfulness, breaking up with her doesn't.

There'll always be one nigga at the side shining things, so I wonder why you guys make so much ado about faithfulness.

Even this one wey dey tok sef, another dude dey lash him Asian babe. It's all a recycling something.

I will ask again, are you a redpiller? lol.
this is Nairaland redpil abeg, alpha males would have handled the misunderstanding better.
small misunderstanding, then you deleted her contact- after 7 freaking years.
If thats not the Simpiest, "all emotion no sense" act ive seen today i dont know what is.

REDPILL is about puting the irrational emotions in check.
Kobojunkie, i first you come abeg, dont come and outshine me. lol

kkins25:
I will ask again, are you a redpill er? lol.
this is Nairaland redpil abeg, alpha males would have handled the misunderstanding better.
small misunderstanding, then you deleted her contact- after 7 freaking years.
If thats not the Simpiest, "all emotion no sense" act ive seen today i dont know what is.

REDPILL is about puting the irrational emotions in check.
Kobojunkie, i first you come abeg, dont come and outshine me. lol

the thing dey pain my head everytime I attempt to reason it out.

A girl who has strong feelings for you won’t stay incommunicado for 7 days let alone 7 years. Come on man is it so hard for you to get girls? I bet you she’s had couple of serious relationships in that period or even in 1 now. Can you handle that? Let it go man.

Londonboyrep:
A girl who has strong feelings for you won’t stay incommunicado for 7 days let alone 7 years. Come on man is it so hard for you to get girls? I bet you she’s had couple of serious relationships in that period or even in 1 now. Can you handle that? Let it go man.

Really? Where do you folks get these nonsense eejit conclusions from?.

Kobojunkie:
Really? Where do you folks get these nonsense eejit conclusions from?.

shut it f00l. I’m perfectly entitled to my own opinion as you are. Don’t fugging quote me again m0ron.

Londonboyrep:
shut it f00l. I’m perfectly entitled to my own opinion as you are. Don’t fugging quote me again m0ron.

You are indeed entitled to whatever level of foolishness/eejit-cy you subscribe to, only I wonder where you source it from is all.

Kobojunkie:
You are indeed entitled to whatever level of foolishness/eejit-cy you subscribe to, only I wonder where you source it from is all.

look here stop quoting me. Are you mad or you forgot to take your meds today? Because you disagree with someone’s opinion means you should insult them like the uncultured AssH01e you are? If I curse your papa now admin go ban me but they won’t check the history of who looked for trouble first. I wasn’t talking to you so mind your own business. Gutter swine.

Londonboyrep:
look here stop quoting me. Are you mad or you forgot to take your meds today? Because you disagree with someone’s opinion means you should insult them like the uncultured AssH01e you are? If I curse your papa now admin go ban me but they won’t check the history of who looked for trouble first. I wasn’t talking to you so mind your own business. Gutter swine.

This ain't about disagreeing with you but you making a conclusive statement that isn't based on any truth or fact but a personal delusions of yours - foolishness.

Calling me names won't change or edit the foolishness that is the claim you made.

Kobojunkie:
This ain't about disagreeing with you but you making a conclusive statement that isn't based on any truth or fact but a personal delusions of yours - foolishness.

Calling me names won't change or edit the foolishness that is the claim you made.

You are the foolish one for disagreeing rudely, calling me names without any counter argument. Are you dumb, crazy or just plain stupid?? Op asked for advice and I gave it i.e what I will do if it were me. Go take your meds frigging monkey. I sabi una, a mo iru yin. Eranko jatijati. Dumber and dumber.

Londonboyrep:
You are the foolish one for disagreeing rudely, calling me names without any counter argument. Are you dumb, crazy or just plain stupid?? Op asked for advice and I gave it i.e what I will do if it were me. Go take your meds frigging monkey. I sabi una, a mo iru yin. Eranko jatijati. Dumber and dumber.

There is nothing rude about pointing out the foolishness of a conclusion reached by even you.

Like I said, calling me names won't change that in any way or form..

Kobojunkie:
There is nothing rude about pointing out the foolishness of a conclusion reached by even you.

Like I said, calling me names won't change that in any way or form..

go to bed ewu. Admins hope you are seeing because if I swear for this nigga papa now them go say I don come again. I dey my lane this bastard start to dey whine and insult me. Okay. Eleribu omo ale jatijati. Iya e ma ku ni. Na your papa be all the names wey u dey call me so. Omo irankiran. I sabi your papa before?

Londonboyrep:
go to bed ewu. Admins hope you are seeing because if I swear for this nigga papa now them go say I don come again. I dey my lane this bastard start to dey whine and insult me. Okay. Eleribu omo ale jatijati. Iya e ma ku ni. Na your papa by all the names wey u dey come me so. Omo irankiran. I sabi your papa before?

Again...There is nothing rude about pointing out the foolishness of a conclusion reached by even you.

Like I said, calling me names won't change that in any way or form..

Kobojunkie:
Again...There is nothing rude about pointing out the foolishness of a conclusion reached by even you.

Like I said, calling me names won't change that in any way or form..

baba o ni kuure se. Omo ale jatijati. Keep it coming. Dirty monkey