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Re: I Got Reconnected With My Ex, Now This Is Happening. by Kobojunkie: 1:08am On Dec 17, 2021

Londonboyrep:
baba o ni kuure se. Omo ale jatijati. Keep it coming. Dirty monkey

Again...There is nothing rude about pointing out the foolishness of a conclusion reached by even you. undecided

Like I said, calling me names won't change that in any way or form.. undecided

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Re: I Got Reconnected With My Ex, Now This Is Happening. by Magnoliaa(f): 1:26am On Dec 17, 2021

Kobojunkie:
Again...There is nothing rude about pointing out the foolishness of a conclusion reached by even you.

Like I said, calling me names won't change that in any way or form..

Na you naa. I know say you no go gree for anybody for this thread as that okin boy don mention you, LMAO undecided

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Re: I Got Reconnected With My Ex, Now This Is Happening. by Olumighty123(m): 2:02am On Dec 17, 2021

Afrobasic:

I would never get back with an ex, but if I were as desperate as you sound, I will go direct.

1) I still have feelings for you.
2) Are you with someone else? Do you have peace with them?
3) Both of our parents are troubling me because of you... bla bla...

If she do yanga again, back to blocking.

The question should be arranged in this order
3,2,1

Re: I Got Reconnected With My Ex, Now This Is Happening. by Emmanuel909090: 3:41am On Dec 17, 2021

Worldlegend:
Thank you for not being dumped… but carrying someone number off head doesn’t prove shit

It proves how much you value the said person.

Who dates a person for 7 years without their number on his or her head?

This is my first time of hearing this weird thing.

Even old men and women do, how much more a young lad, and you claim you love her?

Carry your aldutrated love to Instagram, we real here.

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Re: I Got Reconnected With My Ex, Now This Is Happening. by aminusodiq(m): 5:00am On Dec 17, 2021

Afrobasic:

I would never get back with an ex, but if I were as desperate as you sound, I will go direct.

1) I still have feelings for you.
2) Are you with someone else? Do you have peace with them?
3) Both of our parents are troubling me because of you... bla bla...

If she do yanga again, back to blocking.

worldlegend
You got your answers

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Re: I Got Reconnected With My Ex, Now This Is Happening. by Double0h7(f): 5:13am On Dec 17, 2021

Worldlegend:
Let me be brief and apt.

We dated for over 7years then sometimes early last year, we had a misunderstanding and that was all..
We went apart.

Let me add that “I deleted her contact the very day we parted” and there has not been any form of interaction between us…

But the pressure from both my parent and her parent was much on me, like the mother whenever we see or she call or I call her, she keeps asking if I am hearing from her daughter, and I used to tell her yes. Likewise my fam, they keep asking me of her…

Let me now add that the SIMP-le me went and get her number and called her early this week, told her how I missed her and she also told me she misssed me.. I just can’t believe hearing that…

NOW THE REASON I AM WRITING THIS EPISODE
How do I tell her that I still have feelings for her?
How do I ask her if she is with a man and if she is having peace with the man.
How do I let her know that both my parent and her parent are troubling me because of her…

PLEASE I NEED MATURED CONTRIBUTION…
I Will go though all the contritions and gather tricks from here, I will also update us afterwards…

For now we are just chatting as normal friends and comedians making each other laugh

No need for long talk, just ask her out and treat her to a nice memorable day/night out. Use that time to get close and intimate... ask about all the things you've missed in the last year and give her a long passionate hug. Sometimes you have to show your feelings instead of telling them. But if you a broke nigga with zero confidence then I guess you could hide behind a phone or keyboard and finish her with cheap talk.

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Re: I Got Reconnected With My Ex, Now This Is Happening. by KhiaW(f): 5:22am On Dec 17, 2021

Afrobasic:

I would never get back with an ex, but if I were as desperate as you sound, I will go direct.

1) I still have feelings for you.
2) Are you with someone else? Do you have peace with them?
3) Both of our parents are troubling me because of you... bla bla...

If she do yanga again, back to blocking.

Lmao

I was going to type the exact thing.

Re: I Got Reconnected With My Ex, Now This Is Happening. by Worldlegend(op): 6:35am On Dec 17, 2021

Double0h7:
No need for long talk, just ask her out and treat her to a nice memorable day/night out. Use that time to get close and intimate... ask about all the things you've missed in the last year and give her a long passionate hug. Sometimes you have to show your feelings instead of telling them. But if you a broke nigga with zero confidence then I guess you could hide behind a phone or keyboard and finish her with cheap talk.

Nigga ain’t broke dude

Re: I Got Reconnected With My Ex, Now This Is Happening. by Worldlegend(op): 6:36am On Dec 17, 2021

Emmanuel909090:
It proves how much you value the said person.

Who dates a person for 7 years without their number on his or her head?

This is my first time of hearing this weird thing.

Even old men and women do, how much more a young lad, and you claim you love her?

Carry your aldutrated love to Instagram, we real here.

Wahala o… you are still repeating the same thing…

Re: I Got Reconnected With My Ex, Now This Is Happening. by Worldlegend(op): 6:45am On Dec 17, 2021

killmods:
I don't think she would be entertaining u if she is in any meaningful relationship and happy. She says she misses u too that's ur stepping cue.. act right this time

Okay… let’s try

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Re: I Got Reconnected With My Ex, Now This Is Happening. by lilvicky68(m): 6:51am On Dec 17, 2021

Magnoliaa:
Na you naa. I know say you no go gree for anybody for this thread as that okin boy don mention you, LMAO .

I can bet my middle finger that this Kobo dude is a woman..
Na only woman fit drag matter like that grin

Re: I Got Reconnected With My Ex, Now This Is Happening. by lereinter(m): 6:56am On Dec 17, 2021

You said you have deleted the number where you come see it

Is it konji that made you to call her?

7yrs affair known to both parents burst and you didn't report her to her mum, she too no report you to her mother

Na Christmas money she wan collect from you

Re: I Got Reconnected With My Ex, Now This Is Happening. by biggy00000(m): 7:05am On Dec 17, 2021

Op if you no longer in contact with someone, don't go pretending you still hearing from them .

Imagine your Ex went incommunicado and her mum asks you "hope you are hearing from Chisom"; and you respond affirmative, you go either take them to Chisom or produce another Chisom.

You no go enter gbege o

Re: I Got Reconnected With My Ex, Now This Is Happening. by Double0h7(f): 7:25am On Dec 17, 2021

Worldlegend:
Nigga ain’t broke dude

Well then, talk is cheap so meet up with her, and show her how much you missed her. She will tell you if there is another man in her life (if respects and values you), and you won't have to have this awkward, and childish conversation. You guys will just come back together naturally, and some time in the future you could laugh about your experience when you were apart, and you could jokingly tell her that her mother begged you to take her back tongue

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Re: I Got Reconnected With My Ex, Now This Is Happening. by Double0h7(f): 7:42am On Dec 17, 2021

Londonboyrep:
A girl who has strong feelings for you won’t stay incommunicado for 7 days let alone 7 years. Come on man is it so hard for you to get girls? I bet you she’s had couple of serious relationships in that period or even in 1 now. Can you handle that? Let it go man.

** They were dating for 7 years and didn't speak for 1 year.**

This simple mistake caused you an argument that lasted nearly a page grin

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Re: I Got Reconnected With My Ex, Now This Is Happening. by juniorstar(m): 8:09am On Dec 17, 2021*

Worldlegend:
Let me be brief and apt.

We dated for over 7years then sometimes early last year, we had a misunderstanding and that was all..
We went apart.

Let me add that “I deleted her contact the very day we parted” and there has not been any form of interaction between us…

But the pressure from both my parent and her parent was much on me, like the mother whenever we see or she call or I call her, she keeps asking if I am hearing from her daughter, and I used to tell her yes. Likewise my fam, they keep asking me of her…

Let me now add that the SIMP-le me went and get her number and called her early this week, told her how I missed her and she also told me she misssed me.. I just can’t believe hearing that…

NOW THE REASON I AM WRITING THIS EPISODE
How do I tell her that I still have feelings for her?
How do I ask her if she is with a man and if she is having peace with the man.
How do I let her know that both my parent and her parent are troubling me because of her…

PLEASE I NEED MATURED CONTRIBUTION…
I Will go though all the contritions and gather tricks from here, I will also update us afterwards…

For now we are just chatting as normal friends and comedians making each other laugh

Ask her how her love life has been since you parted ways and how its going on now..she might probably lie.. from her response make your next step with her and be prepared for the outcome. And if it doesnt work out make it clear with people still assuming.

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Re: I Got Reconnected With My Ex, Now This Is Happening. by Worldlegend(op): 9:07am On Dec 17, 2021

Magnoliaa:
I suggest you table this matter at the Redpill House of Assembly. I believe only there will you get efficient and adequate help.
On a serious note, the only thing you can do is to man up and tell her how you feel. No more, no less.

I lie? ^_^

Let me try

Re: I Got Reconnected With My Ex, Now This Is Happening. by Worldlegend(op): 9:10am On Dec 17, 2021

WoundedLamb:
Lol... Why do guys always come here to ask for guidelines? You called her cause you had feelings for her not because of any pressure. She also acknowledged she misses you. Most people wouldn't do that if there's no chance they want you back. And that's not abnormal seeing how long y'all have been together. I think you guys are allowing this simp thing to affect your lives and happiness. You're always scared of being called a simp that you'd let go what makes you happy. You come to NL to ask secondary school students what to do as if people here really care about you. Of course, they'd tell you whatever makes them feel good about themselves and move on with their lives. You alone will live with the consequences of your decisions.

If you love her, go for her the way you went for her 7 years ago. Why are you suddenly afraid? Were you the cause of the fight? Did you cheat?

7years ago. I couldn’t remembered how much letter and text msgs I wrote to get her attention…

I am going back

Thank you bro

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Re: I Got Reconnected With My Ex, Now This Is Happening. by Worldlegend(op): 9:10am On Dec 17, 2021

Palema007:
It's a pity people without filters practice all they read here.

Na him we dey see now, Why Alfa males never full the thread self baffle me. I mean this is the moment a brother needs a shoulder to cry on.

I don’t cry over girl matter

Re: I Got Reconnected With My Ex, Now This Is Happening. by Worldlegend(op): 9:12am On Dec 17, 2021

killmods:
I don't think she would be entertaining u if she is in any meaningful relationship and happy. She says she misses u too that's ur stepping cue.. act right this time

Thank you niggi

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Re: I Got Reconnected With My Ex, Now This Is Happening. by Worldlegend(op): 9:13am On Dec 17, 2021

kkins25:
I will ask again, are you a redpiller? lol.
this is Nairaland redpil abeg, alpha males would have handled the misunderstanding better.
small misunderstanding, then you deleted her contact- after 7 freaking years.
If thats not the Simpiest, "all emotion no sense" act ive seen today i dont know what is.

REDPILL is about puting the irrational emotions in check.
Kobojunkie, i first you come abeg, dont come and outshine me. lol

What d f**k man

Re: I Got Reconnected With My Ex, Now This Is Happening. by kkins25(m): 9:37am On Dec 17, 2021

Worldlegend:
What d f**k man

weytin?

Re: I Got Reconnected With My Ex, Now This Is Happening. by Dreytonisback(m): 9:42am On Dec 17, 2021

Ask what out huh

Kpekus wey you don chop before, as a real gee you always have that chance to eat it anytime, anyday
As long as I dnt support reconnecting with an ex no matter what people say bc there must've been a reason for the break-up, and now that you've simpishly reconnected with her then don't tell her you want her back, or ask if she got a man
Just they nack the kpekus steadily and make she know say she's free to date whoever she wishes to , make story no enter.
Except you still love her na u con sabi

Lights up my kpoli in peace

Re: I Got Reconnected With My Ex, Now This Is Happening. by Nobody: 9:50am On Dec 17, 2021

Worldlegend:
Thank you niggi

Welcome.. it's like u tried it already

Re: I Got Reconnected With My Ex, Now This Is Happening. by Nobody: 9:51am On Dec 17, 2021

Worldlegend:
I don’t cry over girl matter

You know that's a figurative expression right?

Re: I Got Reconnected With My Ex, Now This Is Happening. by bigpicture001: 9:52am On Dec 17, 2021

From all I read here from the OP, the lady dumped u... That's why u can't let go.

U will hurt urself more by going back, she didn't show any sign of missing u or wanting u back..

Re: I Got Reconnected With My Ex, Now This Is Happening. by Help2020: 9:54am On Dec 17, 2021

Worldlegend:
Let me be brief and apt.

We dated for over 7years then sometimes early last year, we had a misunderstanding and that was all..
We went apart.

Let me add that “I deleted her contact the very day we parted” and there has not been any form of interaction between us…

But the pressure from both my parent and her parent was much on me, like the mother whenever we see or she call or I call her, she keeps asking if I am hearing from her daughter, and I used to tell her yes. Likewise my fam, they keep asking me of her…

Let me now add that the SIMP-le me went and get her number and called her early this week, told her how I missed her and she also told me she misssed me.. I just can’t believe hearing that…

NOW THE REASON I AM WRITING THIS EPISODE
How do I tell her that I still have feelings for her?
How do I ask her if she is with a man and if she is having peace with the man.
How do I let her know that both my parent and her parent are troubling me because of her…

PLEASE I NEED MATURED CONTRIBUTION…
I Will go though all the contritions and gather tricks from here, I will also update us afterwards…

For now we are just chatting as normal friends and comedians making each other laugh

Invite her over. Treat her nice,infact prepare her best food for her..Round it up with a good sex if you have been having sex before.. Brother everything will fall in place by itself..

Re: I Got Reconnected With My Ex, Now This Is Happening. by placeofallure(f): 10:01am On Dec 17, 2021

Worldlegend:
I said misunderstanding already… I think that is point enough…

Please suggest means for me

I am considering talking with her mum�

No don't!

If you try that with me, going through my mum or anybody for that matter, then you have totally destroyed your chances. I love bold and confident men who can hold their own anywhere.

You could ask her out on a date. Ask her what she's been up to? From there, you'd know if she's with somebody presently, how deep they're and if she's willing to reconsider you. Let your convo tilt towards gathering this info. You will be alright laslas.

Re: I Got Reconnected With My Ex, Now This Is Happening. by eventainment(m): 10:02am On Dec 17, 2021

Going straight to the point does more magic than you would expect

Re: I Got Reconnected With My Ex, Now This Is Happening. by Londonboyrep(m): 10:03am On Dec 17, 2021

Double0h7:
** They were dating for 7 years and didn't speak for 1 year.**

This simple mistake caused you an argument that lasted nearly a page

Thank you for the correction. Still doesn’t change the context of my advice. That’s just too long a period for a lovers tiff in my opinion. The idi0t who was insulting me wasn’t making this point though.. just 1 of those who like arguing for arguments sake.

Re: I Got Reconnected With My Ex, Now This Is Happening. by Worldlegend(op): 11:02am On Dec 17, 2021

placeofallure:
No don't!

If you try that with me, going through my mum or anybody for that matter, then you have totally destroyed your chances. I love bold and confident men who can hold their own anywhere.

You could ask her out on a date. Ask her what she's been up to? From there, you'd know if she's with somebody presently, how deep they're and if she's willing to reconsider you. Let your convo tilt towards gathering this info. You will be alright laslas.

We already fix a date… during the date

Re: I Got Reconnected With My Ex, Now This Is Happening. by Worldlegend(op): 11:03am On Dec 17, 2021

Palema007:
You know that's a figurative expression right?

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