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Re: My Wife's Aunty Wants To Destroy My Marriage! by Nat15: 7:14am On Dec 16, 2021
Advice from a married man. Take it to restore peace in your home and your sanity.
Send your wife packing back to her Aunty's house, let them deal with her for like 6 months and she will know the difference between her home and Aunty's house. Let her cry and beg you to come take her back, then at that point convince her to cut off with her aunty temporally till u deem fit. Then lead your home and enjoy blissful marriage.
Re: My Wife's Aunty Wants To Destroy My Marriage! by Mariangeles:
Munzy14:
O ga agbafu kwa o.. grin
O nwekwara ike o. cheesy
O nwere otu ihe ga karia ike mmadu ehn...cheesy

Yes, ndi madam obi ji agbawa ha ma umu ha ghasara, ma house-help di na abiara ha....

As nwoke I know what we discuss....

Udi Nwaanyi OP na awukari dream woman for nwoke choro ilu nwaanyi.....

Personality na attitude wunu ihe anaalu na.
They are usually conditioned to be that way, not naturally.
There's a negative side to it.

Would you want a woman that shows you "too much" respect and does everything you say without "daring" to question you?
Re: My Wife's Aunty Wants To Destroy My Marriage! by JooEeL(m): 11:04am On Dec 16, 2021
bummyla:
I dont let anything disturb my peace! Thou Shall Not Be Caught! That's My Own! Caught! And You Are Gone! Period!
I don't agree with this. As long as you do not cheat on your wife, and are 100 percent faithful... you can't forsake your wife for one year and not bother if some other man is smashing her.
Re: My Wife's Aunty Wants To Destroy My Marriage! by HoneyWholesaler: 1:40pm On Dec 16, 2021
Abi o

DroppingLiquid:
If your wife was a wise woman, she would know that it's her they hate and not you. They don't want her to be happy, it doesn't matter which man she marries, whether you or someone else, they want her miserable and they will not stop. She better realize it quickly. You and your wife must cut all contact with them. And if she brings up that 18 years nonsense, you must shut it down immediately.

She’s not the only woman that lives with a family member until they got married.
Re: My Wife's Aunty Wants To Destroy My Marriage! by HoneyWholesaler: 1:41pm On Dec 16, 2021
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Re: My Wife's Aunty Wants To Destroy My Marriage! by Hassanmaye(m): 3:27pm On Dec 16, 2021
SmellySperm:
Weak men everywhere. You can't give her an instruction as a man. Sometimes violent take it by force. Keep being a gentleman undecided
Lol they will learn the hard way
Re: My Wife's Aunty Wants To Destroy My Marriage! by jaiyeoriestyle: 3:30pm On Dec 16, 2021
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Re: My Wife's Aunty Wants To Destroy My Marriage! by jaiyeoriestyle: 3:31pm On Dec 16, 2021

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Re: My Wife's Aunty Wants To Destroy My Marriage! by Hassanmaye(m): 3:35pm On Dec 16, 2021
bummyla:
Welcome to my world! My wife said she would rather leave this fucking marriage, than curtail her association with her divorced aunty that brought her to Lagos, her evil elder sister that has refused to marry and her friends.

Every day new wahala!

Bros there is not much you can do, than to put your feet down like I did!

I dont want them in my house! I dont want them, If I come back and see they came, I call them and warn them. Thank God the boys and the men are by my side, I will call the boys and the men to warn them too.
Wow next time they will behave qoute me, you don't treat that gender with honey but iron hands, be a man weldone
Every place will be on fire for a while!

Finally she will ruin your marriage like they ruined mine, but dont worry, if she is your wife her eyes will open.

Madam, even this evening called, was bagging me, to come and take her back, to the house, but I no gree! Make she enjoy their company very very! She don stay one year with them now, my plan is that she will stay two years with them. I learnt tension is getting high over there! If they no fight, I no go come carry am. Period!

After while we are going to relocate very far from them
Re: My Wife's Aunty Wants To Destroy My Marriage! by Munzy14(m): 6:14am On Dec 17, 2021
Mariangeles:
O nwekwara ike o. cheesy
O nwere otu ihe ga karia ike mmadu ehn...cheesy



They are usually conditioned to be that way, not naturally.
There's a negative side to it.

Would you want a woman that shows you "too much" respect and does everything you say without "daring" to question you?
O ga a agbafu o grin grin

The truth is , there is no way a woman who respects me will not politely question some of my thoughts/opinion/decisions.

I am the type who gives a lady I am dating freedom to have a positive mind of her own. And I believe respect is a mutual thing..My first attraction in a woman is her intelligence...
Re: My Wife's Aunty Wants To Destroy My Marriage! by Mariangeles: 11:49am On Dec 17, 2021
Munzy14:
O ga a agbafu o grin grin

The truth is , there is no way a woman who respects me will not politely question some of my thoughts/opinion/decisions.

I am the type who gives a lady I am dating freedom to have a positive mind of her own. And I believe respect is a mutual thing..My first attraction in a woman is her intelligence...
Ngwanu. cheesy
Re: My Wife's Aunty Wants To Destroy My Marriage! by Automolite: 12:05pm On Dec 17, 2021
What is all this nonsense about "18 yrs"..even spouses raised by their own parents for longer periods are never that attached.
The aunty has controlled her all that 18yrs and simply doesn't want to relinquish control. She should stop dabbling into your married life and mind her damn business.
Op..u either stand ur ground and put an end to it..or u wait for the aunt to kick the bucket, cos this shyt isn't gonna end any time soon.
Re: My Wife's Aunty Wants To Destroy My Marriage! by Munzy14(m): 2:35pm On Dec 17, 2021
Mariangeles:
Ngwanu. cheesy
grin
Re: My Wife's Aunty Wants To Destroy My Marriage! by Mariangeles: 3:37pm On Dec 17, 2021
Munzy14:
grin
A ma’m na I ga a chirila.

I si ni’m kaa gini? cheesy
Re: My Wife's Aunty Wants To Destroy My Marriage! by Munzy14(m): 10:38pm On Dec 17, 2021
Mariangeles:
A ma’m na I ga a chirila.

I si ni’m kaa gini? cheesy
Ngwanu ahu ji ato m ochi grin
Re: My Wife's Aunty Wants To Destroy My Marriage! by Automolite: 9:35am On Dec 18, 2021
eazzzy1:
What would be your advise to this man if he tells you his wife and his mom never gets along and his wife does not want him to talk to her again? Be honest.
For whatever reasons they don't get along,
My mother and extended family members cannot begin to dabble into my personal family life unnecessarily. I will call them to order; and my wife cannot begin to make demands that would only bring more malice. I expect each to know and respect their positions in my kingdom (family).
Re: My Wife's Aunty Wants To Destroy My Marriage! by uyimen(op): 6:23am On Dec 19, 2021
Good Morning All.

When i posted this topic i never imagined i will get this level of replies.

I want to thank you all most sincerely for your advice and encouragements, i read closely every single post word after word. Thanks those who share there similar experiences indicating am in same boat with someone, ie am not alone.

One thing is clear in order to break this evil association and extreme fear my wife hv for her Aunt, i can no longer be the man i once was, i must become someone ease, i must become something ease.

Although my wife is to blame i judge her less becos only God can imagine what she went through those years, the fear ,intimidations, just imagine like trending boy killed in school by bullies. They plant fear in you to wont act normal.

Aunt and co. are getting desperate i found out their new strategies is to keep sowing hate into her heart against me, ur husband is this , his that, ur husband hates us , keep loving someone that hate us, he does not call us , his tribe is evil , etc.
Those that cud not under the write up well i never intend to cut her off her relatives, Please clarify that misconception, i only wanted her to "Know herself no be curse" I gave this much space and time thinking my wife will show understanding.

At this point i am left with no option than to act decisively, already i have put calls across to key members of her family informing them.i got something cooking short Aunt will not see it coming until it hit her.
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