You almost fell in love with him or her but you changed your mind. Why??

Tell us what happened....

Make I gist una this small story.
My own case no be "almost fell in love", I fall in love kpatakpata.
As a software engineer, I live a very boring life because I'm 99% indoor with my laptop doing a project/debugging or helping newbies to grasp some concept about programming because we rise by lifting others up. So I decided to go into a relationship because it has been like 5yrs since I had a real relationship. Na so I begin dey like one babe oooo, she too sef come dey like me aswell cus I no dey drink, smoke or womanize. Babe was good initially without demanding a dime. The feeling was mutual but na her side E plenty pass, it's normal because one person must like more. Immediately after me and this babe drill, table turn around for me ooooo. I no fit dey code for up to 12hours again, I always wan dey with her because she get good character wella. I come dey happy say I don finally meet wife. First thing I do na to let her get in contact with my mama because I no dey hide for relationship. The only thing I dey do regularly wey I dey hide na when I dey write code .
Immediately babe know say I don dey love, madam begin bring unnecessary quarrels ooo. She say I too dey withdrawn, I no dey go out or catch fun. I shock!!! My question to her be say "if I go outside go catch fun, how I wan take meet up with clients deadline?"
She go dey pick irrelevant quarrels about me because she know say I don love. But wetin make me vex kpatakpata na when she say "Babe, your mummy won't be coming to visit us when we get married oooo, I don't like visitors". Instantly na my brain format. I never marry you and u don dey give my mama embargo Without my mama, you go like me? Why my mama no go visit Before she even dey explain finish, I don enter room go bring some of her clothes wey she leave for my place. She begin call me mummy's boy, but I no care. I never marry you and u don wan sow seed of discord between me and my mama. No be juju be that? And funny enough, when she and my mama dey talk on phone, she dey talk like say she like am. Na so I take leave her ooooo. I fit endure any drama from babes but not when u wan bring disunity between my family and I. But aside that one she, that babe was sweet to me ooo.


I don talk am before and I go talk am again "Good babes still dey exist for this 9ja, but just that dem hard to find, just like an ashawo wey still be virgin"

This was 2018. I remembered she was a biller

My mouth no fit talk am

A hoe,that was what she was

I trek to Iya Basira’s canteen and ate ofe nsala, I didn't know it was hunger...which kind mumu love.

I don’t see anything wrong in what the babe did. For Christ sake, you said this girl had a good attitude. Do you want her to be 100% in everything?

Maybe subconsciously, you just wanted to be alone.

Also, your wife can’t tell you who can come to your house and who can’t, even if she’s paying the rent.

Lalami3232:
Make I gist una this small story.
My own case no be "almost fell in love", I fall in love kpatakpata.
As a software engineer, I live a very boring life because I'm 99% indoor with my laptop doing a project/debugging or helping newbies to grasp some concept about programming because we rise by lifting others up. So I decided to go into a relationship because it has been like 5yrs since I had a real relationship. Na so I begin dey like one babe oooo, she too sef come dey like me aswell cus I no dey drink, smoke or womanize. Babe was good initially without demanding a dime. The feeling was mutual but na her side E plenty pass, it's normal because one person must like more. Immediately after me and this babe drill, table turn around for me ooooo. I no fit dey code for up to 12hours again, I always wan dey with her because she get good character wella. I come dey happy say I don finally meet wife. First thing I do na to let her get in contact with my mama because I no dey hide for relationship. The only thing I dey do regularly wey I dey hide na when I dey write code .
Immediately babe know say I don dey love, madam begin bring unnecessary quarrels ooo. She say I too dey withdrawn, I no dey go out or catch fun. I shock!!! My question to her be say "if I go outside go catch fun, how I wan take meet up with clients deadline?"
She go dey pick irrelevant quarrels about me because she know say I don love. But wetin make me vex kpatakpata na when she say "Babe, your mummy won't be coming to visit us when we get married oooo, I don't like visitors". Instantly na my brain format. I never marry you and u don dey give my mama embargo Without my mama, you go like me? Why my mama no go visit Before she even dey explain finish, I don enter room go bring some of her clothes wey she leave for my place. She begin call me mummy's boy, but I no care. I never marry you and u don wan sow seed of discord between me and my mama. No be juju be that? And funny enough, when she and my mama dey talk on phone, she dey talk like say she like am. Na so I take leave her ooooo. I fit endure any drama from babes but not when u wan bring disunity between my family and I. But aside that one she, that babe was sweet to me ooo.


I don talk am before and I go talk am again "Good babes still dey exist for this 9ja, but just that dem hard to find, just like an ashawo wey still be virgin"

Lalami3232:
Make I gist una this small story.
My own case no be "almost fell in love", I fall in love kpatakpata.
As a software engineer, I live a very boring life because I'm 99% indoor with my laptop doing a project/debugging or helping newbies to grasp some concept about programming because we rise by lifting others up. So I decided to go into a relationship because it has been like 5yrs since I had a real relationship. Na so I begin dey like one babe oooo, she too sef come dey like me aswell cus I no dey drink, smoke or womanize. Babe was good initially without demanding a dime. The feeling was mutual but na her side E plenty pass, it's normal because one person must like more. Immediately after me and this babe drill, table turn around for me ooooo. I no fit dey code for up to 12hours again, I always wan dey with her because she get good character wella. I come dey happy say I don finally meet wife. First thing I do na to let her get in contact with my mama because I no dey hide for relationship. The only thing I dey do regularly wey I dey hide na when I dey write code .
Immediately babe know say I don dey love, madam begin bring unnecessary quarrels ooo. She say I too dey withdrawn, I no dey go out or catch fun. I shock!!! My question to her be say "if I go outside go catch fun, how I wan take meet up with clients deadline?"
She go dey pick irrelevant quarrels about me because she know say I don love. But wetin make me vex kpatakpata na when she say "Babe, your mummy won't be coming to visit us when we get married oooo, I don't like visitors". Instantly na my brain format. I never marry you and u don dey give my mama embargo Without my mama, you go like me? Why my mama no go visit Before she even dey explain finish, I don enter room go bring some of her clothes wey she leave for my place. She begin call me mummy's boy, but I no care. I never marry you and u don wan sow seed of discord between me and my mama. No be juju be that? And funny enough, when she and my mama dey talk on phone, she dey talk like say she like am. Na so I take leave her ooooo. I fit endure any drama from babes but not when u wan bring disunity between my family and I. But aside that one she, that babe was sweet to me ooo.


I don talk am before and I go talk am again "Good babes still dey exist for this 9ja, but just that dem hard to find, just like an ashawo wey still be virgin"

How can I contact you privately please. You say you're a software developer right?

Entitlement mindset dey pursue me from some babes

DroppingLiquid:
I don’t see anything wrong in what the babe did. For Christ sake, you said this girl had a good attitude. Do you want her to be 100% in everything?

Maybe subconsciously, you just wanted to be alone.

Also, your wife can’t tell you who can come to your house and who can’t, even if she’s paying the rent.

U no go see wetin she do but na me don see am. These na red flags wey people dey ignore during relationship and go later turn to tsunami after marriage. We still dey dating phase and you don dey talk say make my mama no visit. Bros/madam, I no fit take such abeg. I no wan dey come NL tomorrow to cry and lament like other guys wey ignore the signs during relationship and dey cry when dem don marry. When she say I dey withdrawn, I upgraded my game na. For the first time for my life, we begin go cinema and even enter beach on weekends, just to make her happy because she deserve am. But bros/madam, I no dey take family play atall. The same way I no go wan bring disunity between you and your family, na same way I no want any babe no bring am into my family. Woman go divorce man tomorrow but mama no dey go transfer. If I tell u wetin my mama don invest for my life, u no go even dey fault me for the breakup sef. How she go feel if na me talk such about her mama? Why most ladies dey hate mother in-laws sef? Na wa ooooo!!! We're still friends sha, but I no regret cutting ties with her. Laslas, we go meet babes wey no hate mother in-laws. If we no see, then we go for baby mama

One of the reason why I kick people with my rain boot



Damn.. nasty.. I'm out of here

redstaarx:




How can I contact you privately please. You say you're a software developer right?

What do u need Sir/Ma?

DroppingLiquid:
I don’t see anything wrong in what the babe did. For Christ sake, you said this girl had a good attitude. Do you want her to be 100% in everything?

Maybe subconsciously, you just wanted to be alone.

Also, your wife can’t tell you who can come to your house and who can’t, even if she’s paying the rent.

You are very stupid.. So you are okay with a girl telling you that your mom is not allowed to visit you.. Your mom that carried you in her womb for 9 months, clothed, fed and sheltered you till you became the person you are.
If I knew your mom I'd personally recommend her to disown you cuz you obviously don't value her.
Even if she owns the world I'd rather relocate to Mars instead of her not to allow my mom visit

do people still fall in love??

DroppingLiquid:
I don’t see anything wrong in what the babe did. For Christ sake, you said this girl had a good attitude. Do you want her to be 100% in everything?

Maybe subconsciously, you just wanted to be alone.

Also, your wife can’t tell you who can come to your house and who can’t, even if she’s paying the rent.

Place your left hand on your head and right Hand on your dikq and Shout

' My Father, My Father, let sense locate my head and dont let my dikq produce Ode like me '

Begin to shout and pray cause if you carry this sense enter 2022 na sorry for you.

shawante:

You are very stupid.. So you are okay with a girl telling you that your mom is not allowed to visit you.. Your mom that carried you in her womb for 9 months, clothed, fed and sheltered you till you became the person you are.
If I knew your mom I'd personally recommend her to disown you cuz you obviously don't value her.
Even if she owns the world I'd rather relocate to Mars instead of her not to allow my mom visit

We don't want overpopulation in Mars.

DroppingLiquid:
I don’t see anything wrong in what the babe did. For Christ sake, you said this girl had a good attitude. Do you want her to be 100% in everything?

Maybe subconsciously, you just wanted to be alone.

Also, your wife can’t tell you who can come to your house and who can’t, even if she’s paying the rent.

omo ale leleyi o

shawante:

You are very stupid.. So you are okay with a girl telling you that your mom is not allowed to visit you.. Your mom that carried you in her womb for 9 months, clothed, fed and sheltered you till you became the person you are.
If I knew your mom I'd personally recommend her to disown you cuz you obviously don't value her.
Even if she owns the world I'd rather relocate to Mars instead of her not to allow my mom visit

It is the woman that birthed you that is stupid. Stupid weaklings that they’re giving birth to these days.

A woman’s word will not stand in my house, I don’t give a fvck about any 21 century woke bullshit.

Honestly men of these days are not it. Something that you’ll just laugh off and then let her try rubbish when your mom comes over.

HornyTave:


Place your left hand on your head and right Hand on your dikq and Shout

' My Father, My Father, let sense locate my head and dont let my dikq produce Ode like me '

Begin to shout and pray cause if you carry this sense enter 2022 na sorry for you.

Boring

Lalami3232:


What do u need Sir/Ma?

A bit of guidance and advice

redstaarx:


A bit of guidance and advice

Spill it out and I'm ready to give you ASAP

DroppingLiquid:


It is the woman that birthed you that is stupid. Stupid weaklings that they’re giving birth to these days.

A woman’s word will not stand in my house, I don’t give a fvck about any 21 century woke bullshit.

Honestly men of these days are not it. Something that you’ll just laugh off and then let her try rubbish when your mom comes over.

A woman's word won't stand in your house but you are okay with your wife not welcoming your mom into your home.
Na ogun go kill you and your generation... Waste of sperm
And besides you don't need to laugh off such statements cuz she has carefully thought about it before spewing them its better you tackle them ASAP. It's only a weakling that will wait till it actually happens probably by then his hands will be tied and he can't do much about it then.
Prevention is better than cure

MufasaLion:




We don't want overpopulation in Mars.

no mind the yeye boy

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DroppingLiquid:


It is the woman that birthed you that is stupid. Stupid weaklings that they’re giving birth to these days.

A woman’s word will not stand in my house, I don’t give a fvck about any 21 century woke bullshit.

Honestly men of these days are not it. Something that you’ll just laugh off and then let her try rubbish when your mom comes over.

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I tire for Humans! After they Wed now come begin get issues years later, then the guy comes here to Post about his marital issues here, na still people like you go rush tell am: "You saw the red flags but still decided to Marry her, enjoy your Marriage"

At the guy who posted that stuff, you did Very well, never Ignore any red flag you see in a Relationship Prolly to Marriage if not, you go regret am tire

shawante:

A woman's word won't stand in your house but you are okay with your wife not welcoming your mom into your home.
Na ogun go kill you and your generation... Waste of sperm

You don’t even understand English. All these men from Indomine household. Anything that your wife or gf says, you will just say yes ma’m and do it. I’m sure you will not be able to force your will on your girl. Weakling.

EmzyT:
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I tire for Humans! After they Wed now come begin get issues years later, then the guy comes here to Post about his marital issues here, na still people like you go rush tell am: "You saw the red flags but still decided to Marry her, enjoy your Marriage"

At the guy who posted that stuff, you did Very well, never Ignore any red flag you see in a Relationship Prolly to Marriage if not, you go regret am tire

No mind the big fool.. Problem that you would have easily avoided at the early stages you want to wait till you have kids and responsibilities by then you'll come here crying. Anyway common sense is not common afterall

Omo, the comments dey choke me

I they follow her talk one on one
Fresh rich dude like me , wey come tall join
I held her hand while giving her some wizkid vibes
She couldn't hold an innocent conversation, she badly wanted me to chat her on WhatsApp
That's when I realized most Nigerians girls are keypad warriors

I gave her my own number but didn't take hers
She chatted me on WhatsApp herself

Her: hello Dreyton
Me: I'm sorry you're not my type ,
I block her asap make her brain reset

Last month I don kpansh her elder sister with large boobs , she know about am come dey beef me

Lights up my kpoli in peace

the werey kept talking trash bout wat she needs in a man, i kept calm nd be looking at her!
she hate childish guy, her guy must have sense have money, but she cant even afford 10k wig, nd kept talking trash bout my career , not until she said i shud send her money to sub!

shawante:

You are very stupid.. So you are okay with a girl telling you that your mom is not allowed to visit you.. Your mom that carried you in her womb for 9 months, clothed, fed and sheltered you till you became the person you are.
If I knew your mom I'd personally recommend her to disown you cuz you obviously don't value her.
Even if she owns the world I'd rather relocate to Mars instead of her not to allow my mom visit

and truly is very stupid so make my mum no visit me abi? If my mum no giv birth 2 me tell me how i go take meet that bitche that call her self my girlfrd oga Truly u be cow