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Re: Can I Fight This Now Or Wait Till The Baby Is Grown? by TheMostComplex1: 3:10pm On Dec 23, 2021
GboyegaD:


Keep quiet and stop acting smart. The baby has very minimal chances of being yours. She too doesn't care about you and please get down your high horse.

You know you will never marry her yet you want to spoil her marriage continue I do hope people will not use your story as an idiom.

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Re: Can I Fight This Now Or Wait Till The Baby Is Grown? by KayCee92(m): 3:10pm On Dec 23, 2021
Romanoff:
The child is not yours uncle. She could have gotten pregnant in February or March and is still within the frame to give birth even at 42 weeks.

Leave matter or go back to the club and meet another one night stand to get pregnant.


Lol.... Go back to the club and get another one night stand pregnant grin grin grin

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Re: Can I Fight This Now Or Wait Till The Baby Is Grown? by Nobody: 3:10pm On Dec 23, 2021
stormybabe007:
Because pregnancy can be 42weeks, not all pregnancy is born at exactly 9months (36weeks)

Yes...
You're very correct...
But it still doesn't prove that the child isn't his undecided

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Re: Can I Fight This Now Or Wait Till The Baby Is Grown? by Nobody: 3:12pm On Dec 23, 2021
Saintmary:


Ideally, he has the right, but to be realistic, he'll get little from this latest venture.


Then let the right thing be done undecided

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Re: Can I Fight This Now Or Wait Till The Baby Is Grown? by GboyegaD(m): 3:13pm On Dec 23, 2021
TheMostComplex1:


You know you will never marry her yet you want to spoil her marriage continue I do hope people will not use your story as an idiom.

Guess you are quoting the wring person.
Re: Can I Fight This Now Or Wait Till The Baby Is Grown? by T0T0fucker: 3:14pm On Dec 23, 2021
efficiencie:


You scammed yourself dude. Walk to the dude's house and tell him the child is yours and that you want a DNA test. Come here and gist us what happened next.
not everyone is a weakling and wretched like you.

if am not financially and physically stable to fight this, the topic headline would have been different.

(please read the headline again before you comment)
Re: Can I Fight This Now Or Wait Till The Baby Is Grown? by Nobody: 3:16pm On Dec 23, 2021
LordReed:


And how would you do that without disturbing her marriage?


Is it on Xmas day?


I was able to get some drugs but I don't have enough foodstuffs.
Re: Can I Fight This Now Or Wait Till The Baby Is Grown? by RapportNaija(m): 3:19pm On Dec 23, 2021
Wahala go siddon, una go go find am!

Na so una dey attract untimely death.

Person carry belle 9 months, uno find am. She marry, born finish...

2 days old baby, u say u won go ask if na your own - cause the baby fair - and the woman husband dark...

Lol, people wey dey advice you no like you at all!

Na hooe, uno fit marry am - but you won claim hooe pikin... Where u come from? Na Lagos Island boy you be ba, because na una get this kind silly troublemaking thinking.

Good luck shocked

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Re: Can I Fight This Now Or Wait Till The Baby Is Grown? by whirlwind7(m): 3:21pm On Dec 23, 2021
T0T0fucker:


I will only leave them when I confirm the child is not mine.

All right, hotshot.
Since you already got your mind made up that you must, as a matter of life and death, confirm if that child is a product of some of the wild oats you spilled in your adventure laden life, why are you disturbing the cyber space?
By all means, go ahead and barge into her marriage and demand for a paternal test, and leave everyone else the fvck alone.

You don't need any advice. You were only seeking anonymous validations for yet another adventure you are itching to embark on. Godspeed, and happy hunting.

In the event it goes awry, of course no one would feel sorry for your ass.
This is abso-fvckin-lutely unbelievable. undecided

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Re: Can I Fight This Now Or Wait Till The Baby Is Grown? by ukaface(f): 3:23pm On Dec 23, 2021
T0T0fucker:

I can never marry her, she knows that.

if that child is mine, I will like to take full responsibility for it....full custody....if she agrees.
it's my offsprings....
probably we can do court agreements or arrangements in respect to the child.( I think they is something in our constitution that says something like that)

she can go ahead with her life and marriage...
smh
If you're the man she married to, will you continue with the marriage?

I think you're BN self centred.
No go spoil person marriage o

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Re: Can I Fight This Now Or Wait Till The Baby Is Grown? by T0T0fucker: 3:24pm On Dec 23, 2021
whirlwind7:


All right, hotshot.
Since you already got your mind made up that you must, as a matter of life and death, confirm if that child is a product of some of the wild oats you spilled in your adventure laden life, why are you disturbing the cyber space?
By all means, go ahead and barge into her marriage and demand for a paternal test, and leave everyone else the fvck alone.

You don't need any advice. You were only seeking anonymous validations for yet another adventure you are itching to embark on. Godspeed, and happy hunting.

In the event it goes awry, of course no one would feel sorry for your ass.
This is abso-fvckin-lutely unbelievable. undecided

if your brain can read and understand, PLEASE READ THE HEADLINE OF THIS TOPIC AGAIN (it's just few sentence)

thanks
Re: Can I Fight This Now Or Wait Till The Baby Is Grown? by Saintmary(f): 3:27pm On Dec 23, 2021
Favfables1:


Then let the right thing be done undecided

Funny you.
Re: Can I Fight This Now Or Wait Till The Baby Is Grown? by whirlwind7(m): 3:32pm On Dec 23, 2021
T0T0fucker:


if your brain can read and understand, PLEASE READ THE HEADLINE OF THIS TOPIC AGAIN (it's just few sentence)

thanks

If your own brain was functional or even existing, you wouldn't bring this shyte here in the first place.
Quit being an asswipe.
Go and get the paternity test done yesterday. Not today, or later when the kid grows up. You should be announcing the result already.
What the hell are you waiting for? You need more anonymous validations?

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Re: Can I Fight This Now Or Wait Till The Baby Is Grown? by T0T0fucker: 3:36pm On Dec 23, 2021
whirlwind7:


If your own brain was functional or even existing, you wouldn't bring this shyte here in the first place.
Quit being an asswipe.
Go and get the paternity test done yesterday. Not today, or later when the kid grows up. You should be announcing the result already.
What the hell are you waiting for? You need more anonymous validations?
now that have resetted your brain.

thanks for your opinion...
Re: Can I Fight This Now Or Wait Till The Baby Is Grown? by Crysallis(m): 3:38pm On Dec 23, 2021
T0T0fucker do not fight it please. Just let it go.

Btw, what's the tribe of thelady in question?

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Re: Can I Fight This Now Or Wait Till The Baby Is Grown? by T0T0fucker: 3:39pm On Dec 23, 2021
Crysallis:
T0T0fucker do not fight it please. Just let it go.

Btw, what's the tribe of thelady in question?

I can't say that.
so many details have been said here already.

I can't even say the baby gender


and yes I will fight it to know if it's mine.
Re: Can I Fight This Now Or Wait Till The Baby Is Grown? by Mikeeytools: 3:44pm On Dec 23, 2021
Bros no let me insult you oo
Re: Can I Fight This Now Or Wait Till The Baby Is Grown? by Corea4king(m): 3:44pm On Dec 23, 2021
MrBrownJay1:


take full reponsibility of the babe if/when her marriage crashes because she tried to hang a baby on the wrong man's neck?!?! are you people for real?

if the baby is the OP's and her marriage crashes, then she will only have her damn self to blame for that. nobody should marry her out of pity,... CO-PARENTING will be the only way to go here.

[img]https://c./uIBgBRBrTjMAAAAM/baby-angry.gif[/img]



What if the baby is not his,do you think her husband will like the insult? He should also consider her safety too unless he is ready to bear the outcome. Do you think some lady will take lightly when you destroy their marriage because of curiosity. Mind you, am not against what he intended to do but ,what if something goes wrong.?

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Re: Can I Fight This Now Or Wait Till The Baby Is Grown? by Nobody: 3:45pm On Dec 23, 2021
MrBrownJay1:


if a man needs to do what is right, then yes, just as he may scatter her marriage, it may also scatter his,
I really do hope you are not always invited to any family meeting? Because your IQ is very low for a man...

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Re: Can I Fight This Now Or Wait Till The Baby Is Grown? by whirlwind7(m): 3:49pm On Dec 23, 2021
T0T0fucker:

now that have resetted your brain.

thanks for your opinion...

If you had any sense, you wouldn't be asking wether to do it now, or wait till the kid is grown.
You mean, after a few years, after the lady and her husband had invested time, effort, money, and most important of all, their emotional attachment, to raise this child, you would waltz into their life to demand paternity test?
SMH
Right now, i want to be in the shoes of her husband. Come at me! Bring your sorry ass around my home. It is a sorry situation, but some lessons should be taught.
Some folks aren't worth the space they occupy on mother earth

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Re: Can I Fight This Now Or Wait Till The Baby Is Grown? by Crysallis(m): 3:49pm On Dec 23, 2021
T0T0fucker:


I can't say that.
so many details have been said here already.

I can't even say the baby gender


and yes I will fight it to know if it's mine.


Just go give another girl belle.
Re: Can I Fight This Now Or Wait Till The Baby Is Grown? by kushme: 3:51pm On Dec 23, 2021
MrBrownJay1:


i blame EVERYBODY in this crazy story....i just dragged the baby mama into it, as everyone is talking about the possible baby daddy and not baby mama. the fact that so many people on this thread are more concerned about her marriage being scattered than knowing who the bioligical father truly is, is what is amazing here. some people out there really have MISPLACED PRIORITIES in their lives!

You are right with how people on this thread are more concerned about her marriage....

Society is now cool with the "YOUR WIFE IS MY BABY MAMA". This is a good place to get some raw data on that.
Re: Can I Fight This Now Or Wait Till The Baby Is Grown? by Emmypam(m): 3:54pm On Dec 23, 2021
T0T0fucker:


I will only leave them when I confirm the child is not mine.
Why u come dey ask us

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Re: Can I Fight This Now Or Wait Till The Baby Is Grown? by Kwinesther: 3:54pm On Dec 23, 2021
T0T0fucker:


thanks very much for this.
exactly the opinion am looking for.

should I approach her with dna test request now or wait for a little while?

since the baby is just 2days old.

A friend I confided in said I should act now.
but am still thinking it.

the money for the dna test is not an issue, I expense that.
Just 2days old baby and you have concluded that he/she is fair in complexion? Oga, 95% of newly born babies are usually fair until they are 7months to some years old then you will start seeing their true complexion. It's so utterly unwise to have that kinda thought.

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Re: Can I Fight This Now Or Wait Till The Baby Is Grown? by T0T0fucker: 3:58pm On Dec 23, 2021
Crysallis:

Just go give another girl belle.
mumu like you fit loose guard your sperm anyhow...carry dash people... not me
that pickin fit be a blessing to me in the future.

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Re: Can I Fight This Now Or Wait Till The Baby Is Grown? by T0T0fucker: 3:58pm On Dec 23, 2021
Crysallis:

Just go give another girl belle.
mumu like you fit loose guard your sperm anyhow...carry dash people... not me
that pickin fit be a blessing to me in the future.
Re: Can I Fight This Now Or Wait Till The Baby Is Grown? by OvertheTop(m): 3:59pm On Dec 23, 2021
T0T0fucker:

I don't know yet, but bro I really like to know if that child is mine.

ps: she's married already...so am not coming after her..it's the baby I like to know the truth.

I have prove to back my claim

Then What?

- collect the baby and Raise?

what Plans do you have for the baby?

BUT I think...You Fell in Love...when u Stopped Using Condom...... kiss

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Re: Can I Fight This Now Or Wait Till The Baby Is Grown? by T0T0fucker: 4:00pm On Dec 23, 2021
Emmypam:
Why u come dey ask us
read the topic headline again, if you get brain at all to understand. illiterate
Re: Can I Fight This Now Or Wait Till The Baby Is Grown? by Corea4king(m): 4:01pm On Dec 23, 2021
Corea4king:




What if the baby is not his,do you think her husband will like the insult? He should also consider her safety too unless he is ready to bear the outcome. Do you think some lady will take lightly when you destroy their marriage because of curiosity. Mind you, am not against what he intended to do but ,what if something goes wrong.?
Re: Can I Fight This Now Or Wait Till The Baby Is Grown? by T0T0fucker: 4:02pm On Dec 23, 2021
OvertheTop:


Then What?

- collect the baby and Raise?

what Plans do you have for the baby?

BUT I think...You Fell in Love...when u Stopped Using Condom...... kiss

fell in love with a hôe? possibly... but the hôe left when she knows am getting more tasty for some fresh juice.


boy not everyone is a simp assx nigga like you
Re: Can I Fight This Now Or Wait Till The Baby Is Grown? by Kwinesther: 4:07pm On Dec 23, 2021
GboyegaD:


If he's last dealing with her was in February, there's actually no chance the baby is his except if he isn't sure when their last dealing was. It is apparent he's jealous the lady moved on.

He isn't doing what is right for the child in this case and we both know it. He's just trying to flex muscles and apparently caught feelings for the lady but isn't willing to admit it.
Yes exactly my thoughts too. If she gave birth this December, by calculation the lady would have seen her monthly period for the month of march after their last sex in February but missed her period in April thereafter.

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Re: Can I Fight This Now Or Wait Till The Baby Is Grown? by Mikeeytools: 4:09pm On Dec 23, 2021
Early 30's Na you foolish like this.

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