₦airaland Forum

BITTEREX:
Every man got their opinion..

Every man does not have his opinions in the face of FACTS.

The fact is, only a person who HATES a tribe will take the wrong doing of one person and paint the whole tribe black.

Just as a racist whiteman thinks all black men are bad because of one black man.

Look at yourself in the mirror and say to yourself, 'I'm a shameless tribalist'.

Secondly, mention your tribe here and don't be a Coward about it let's see if they are truly better than our Benue sisters.

All tribes bro... Farm tools are 99.99%... The good ones is an hard task

Na person wey steal wey dem catch be thief.

LILTJAY:
Thank god fulanis are killing them...
benue pigs

This one don mad finish

Kriss216:
[s]Fallacy of hasty generalization.


99thEnemy is from Benue and he's not promiscuous in nature[/s].

99% of all hookers in Abuja are from that state.... No strings attached Tiv especially not even idoma

Depressed101:
99% of all hookers in Abuja are from that state.... No strings attached Tiv especially not even idoma

Pardon my ignorance... based on the reviews so far, I think you're right.

99thEnemy, they said TIV girls are mostly Oloshos... Don't argue again please

I am sure your state of origin and your main village will have more of what you have just said about someone elses' but who am i to start correcting you about saying things that you have little or no knowledge about.
My advise for you is to pray to God to give you a good wife.
uote author=BITTEREX post=108858989] Firstly, i'm not a tribalist. But i've been hearing alot about these set of Ladies from Benue especially the ones from idoma, till my first hand experience with one. They are indeed good cooks , no doubt very homely...

But the koko now be say, most of their marriages don't last , the men are unstable womanisers in marriages and the women are also very promiscuous, most of them abandon their homes .. Very few stay and keep the home together , while their men keep sleeping with many women like 2Baba.. lol

The girl from Benue i once dated has 4 sisters , 2 of her sisters took their children and left their husbands in less than 3yrs, the 3rd sister does hook up and is always going after her sister's boyfriends .. sending nudes to them and all manner of sodomy.. the 4th one has been doing hook up too, til she got pregnant by a man at 20 and the man had to forcefully marry her . The marriage is less than 7months, it may not last, rumours has it the child doesnt belong to the man.

Now, my Ex has been jumping from one short lived relationship to another after cheating on all her ex lovers in the name of survival .. Her relationship is strictly transactional... Once u stop providing or start asking questions, she leaves cruelly ... to sum it all , their mom left their father because he was polygamous and promiscuous , also she didnt want a man to control her.. lol

I didnt draw my conclusion from just my experience with my ex and her family.. But i also grew up with a family from Benue , i lived with them for 2yrs , i noticed the pattern and it's been exactly same occurrence and experience...

There is a high rate of narcissism in this people...

modified: I'm not generalising or condemning all men and women from Benue.. But if you wanna marry from there, you should investigate the family properly, don't ignore the patterns and red flags, genes dont lie...before dem go do u strong thing wey go shake ur foundation and liver..[/quote]

Beebah2000:
you don dey ment, abi?
Shegiya

I'm not playing with you.

braine:
I'm not playing with you.

who dey play with you before?
Shift from here joor

No tribe wey no get their own for body.

I have met Benue people and only one person exhibits character close to your description, the rest are very good people.

Depressed101:
99% of all hookers in Abuja are from that state.... No strings attached Tiv especially not even idoma

99% in all the 36 states plus FCT to be precise .

99 *****, 99 Everything as I am your 99thEnemy

Kriss216:
Pardon my ignorance... based on the reviews so far, I think you're right.

99thEnemy, they said TIV girls are mostly Oloshos... Don't argue again please

LILTJAY:
Thank god fulanis are killing them...
benue pigs

you are a very foolish bastard to say the least oponu ayirada

101% true..

Lol
TBH the op is not too far from the truth.
I once know a tiv man who had a side chick that was know to his wife who also has a younger bobo that was wiping her severely.
She said that as long as he provided for the family , she was ok with it

Crystalom3:
First of all, you are a tribalist to the core but feel too ashamed to be yourself. And it really disgust me that you claimed not to be.

The way you painted this is like no one in Benue state is married

Or all girls in Benue state are unfaithful.


This is very far from the truth. Idoma girls are good cooks just as you have said. And if we are to count the number of broken homes in Nigeria, I'm sure idoma women will not make the top 200 list.

Secondly, the idomas are the most peace loving people in Benue state and probably the whole of Nigeria.

Don't because you've seen a problem with one family say it is so for the whole tribe.

Oga relax, he crossed a line there I agree, but he was also talking from experience and multiple hearsay’s. Besides where did u come up with some these facts @ bolded?

chocboi78:
Oga relax, he crossed a line there I agree, but he was also talking from experience and multiple hearsay’s. Besides where did u come up with some these facts @ bolded?

from experience and hearsay?

BITTEREX:
Firstly, i'm not a tribalist. But i've been hearing alot about these set of Ladies from Benue especially the ones from idoma, till my first hand experience with one. They are indeed good cooks , no doubt very homely...

But the koko now be say, most of their marriages don't last , the men are unstable womanisers in marriages and the women are also very promiscuous, most of them abandon their homes .. Very few stay and keep the home together , while their men keep sleeping with many women like 2Baba.. lol

The girl from Benue i once dated has 4 sisters , 2 of her sisters took their children and left their husbands in less than 3yrs, the 3rd sister does hook up and is always going after her sister's boyfriends .. sending nudes to them and all manner of sodomy.. the 4th one has been doing hook up too, til she got pregnant by a man at 20 and the man had to forcefully marry her . The marriage is less than 7months, it may not last, rumours has it the child doesnt belong to the man.

Now, my Ex has been jumping from one short lived relationship to another after cheating on all her ex lovers in the name of survival .. Her relationship is strictly transactional... Once u stop providing or start asking questions, she leaves cruelly ... to sum it all , their mom left their father because he was polygamous and promiscuous , also she didnt want a man to control her.. lol

I didnt draw my conclusion from just my experience with my ex and her family.. But i also grew up with a family from Benue , i lived with them for 2yrs , i noticed the pattern and it's been exactly same occurrence and experience...

There is a high rate of narcissism in this people...

modified: I'm not generalising or condemning all men and women from Benue.. But if you wanna marry from there, you should investigate the family properly, don't ignore the patterns and red flags, genes dont lie...before dem go do u strong thing wey go shake ur foundation and liver..

Where's benue?

zikter:
Your assertion is a reflection of the society generally. You can encounter such with any tribe in Nigeria. For your information, anywhere you want to marry, do due delligence, not only from Benue

His description shows he lives in ghetto where TIV's are populated, and in any ghetto area irrespective of tribe such high immoral act is common.

Freestainworld:
Benue people na true?

I live in Abuja and have been to benue many times, what u heard about them
Is absolutely correct just like JOS ladies are drug addicts

God1000:
remove Igede from your mention, igede ladies are very decent and moral.

Igede women are very very hardworking and enterprising.
They live in our villages here and they are into agriculture. They are the main supplier of tomatoes, pepper, vegetables, cocoyam, yam and etc to all the market traders and the whole town entirely.

99thEnemy:
99% in all the 36 states plus FCT to be precise .

99 *****, 99 Everything as I am your 99thEnemy

In all 36 states?

Carry out a sampling across all the states in the South East, South South and you would find out that you are wrong.

That is 11 states out of the 99.

I can bet you it is not true even in the North Eastern states.

Stop peddling wrong info


Modified: see me don go dey attack the wrong person,I didn't see it was sarcasm initially

Depressed101:
99% of all hookers in Abuja are from that state.... No strings attached Tiv especially not even idoma

bigpapi innytee crystalom3 99thenemy

see the testimonies about ur benue sisters.

chocboi78:
Lol
TBH the op is not too far from the truth.
I once know a tiv man who had a side chick that was know to his wife who also has a younger bobo that was wiping her severely.
She said that as long as he provided for the family , she was ok with it

Crystalom3:
First of all, you are a tribalist to the core but feel too ashamed to be yourself. And it really disgust me that you claimed not to be.

The way you painted this is like no one in Benue state is married

Or all girls in Benue state are unfaithful.


This is very far from the truth. Idoma girls are good cooks just as you have said. And if we are to count the number of broken homes in Nigeria, I'm sure idoma women will not make the top 200 list.

Secondly, the idomas are the most peace loving people in Benue state and probably the whole of Nigeria.

Don't because you've seen a problem with one family say it is so for the whole tribe.

Your benue sisters are mis representing your state all over in Ph, lagos, abuja , akwa ibom..
Every tribe get their pattern .. But when it comes to promiscuity, its very predominant in these set of people.

chocboi78:
Oga relax, he crossed a line there I agree, but he was also talking from experience and multiple hearsay’s. Besides where did u come up with some these facts @ bolded?

Help me ask him..

Crystalom3:
Every man does not have his opinions in the face of FACTS.

The fact is, only a person who HATES a tribe will take the wrong doing of one person and paint the whole tribe black.

Just as a racist whiteman thinks all black men are bad because of one black man.

Look at yourself in the mirror and say to yourself, 'I'm a shameless tribalist'.

Secondly, mention your tribe here and don't be a Coward about it let's see if they are truly better than our Benue sisters.

Forget bro. All nations play football, but e get very few wey be champions. Naso some Benue people be for promiscuity..

crystalom3 , 99thEnemy i lie?

i have not seen a single Benue woman come out to defend their people, it's only the Men i'm seeing ..

Frigga13:
Tiv igede idoma igala which of them?

Tiv and Idoma i have experienced

The op observed well, 95percent of Benue girls in Abuja that's above 20 already have kids in the village, dem de Bleep anything they see all in the name of huzzle.... Recently I av problem with my woman the one that came to my house for settlement end up wearing my towel naked, as I Wan press bress sister say make I drop money, Las Las I drop 1k just to swim ���

anuofGod:
Igede women are very very hardworking and enterprising.
They live in our villages here and they are into agriculture. They are the main supplier of tomatoes, pepper, vegetables, cocoyam, yam and etc to all the market traders and the whole town entirely.

I appreciate your probity.