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Re: Wife To Husband; Yes I Slept With Another Man. What Should He Do? by Nyascobar1414: 1:55pm On Dec 29, 2021
nuban07:


The story might not be true, but I know a married a virgin gal with exactly this story line

I dont think her hymen was still incontact..

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Re: Wife To Husband; Yes I Slept With Another Man. What Should He Do? by GhostWisperer: 1:57pm On Dec 29, 2021
Rinoxy:
A friend married his wife as a virgin and has remained faithful to her. He suspected her of infidelity and confronted her, to his surprise she said 'yes I slept with another man since you can't satisfy me'. Imagine the audacity!!!!

Note that this man has tried all he could to be better but she never cooperated with him. She's not remorseful and has been more disrespectful to him since the incident. Mature advice please as his sanity is paramount at the moment.
your game is too simplistic, too ordinary and plain to decipher.

You're trying to demean virgins to make oloshos look sellable.

Because of all the bashing loose women are getting lately on this forum, you're trying desperately to reinvent reality and post your delusional, demonic manipulation on this site to create doubt in the minds of men to not hold virginity sacred.

You have failed before you even began.

Na only fools and loose cunts you fit convince.

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Re: Wife To Husband; Yes I Slept With Another Man. What Should He Do? by ORIAYO70(m): 1:57pm On Dec 29, 2021
Rinoxy:
A friend married his wife as a virgin and has remained faithful to her. He suspected her of infidelity and confronted her, to his surprise she said 'yes I slept with another man since you can't satisfy me'. Imagine the audacity!!!!

Note that this man has tried all he could to be better but she never cooperated with him. She's not remorseful and has been more disrespectful to him since the incident. Mature advice please as his sanity is paramount at the moment.


The woman just dey scope am jare
The man no trust the woman despite he met her virgin, though that one mean

My take the woman dey threatened the man
Re: Wife To Husband; Yes I Slept With Another Man. What Should He Do? by Prenonjebose: 2:07pm On Dec 29, 2021
I like what someone said. Let her go. No amount of self improvement will erase the act of infidelity. The woman has made her choice, so the man should take the decision.
Re: Wife To Husband; Yes I Slept With Another Man. What Should He Do? by Kog45(m): 2:08pm On Dec 29, 2021
nuban07:


The story might not be true, but I know a married a virgin gal with exactly this story line
Re: Wife To Husband; Yes I Slept With Another Man. What Should He Do? by twosquare(m): 2:08pm On Dec 29, 2021
What do cause this infidelity thing on the part of women....coz me as i am, i don't trust anybody on that matter. I don't cheat as a man, but I am just surprised why people can't hold body, especially women of this era...any solution?
olukoye200:
My Opinion on this matter is that a cheating woman is a dangerous woman who can decide with her crony to cause the husband harm, the best is that let your parents know and possible you guys should separate for a while to regain your interest and trust. I had a similar experience but before my wife could press further a lift up the bar. How you can consult later but honest trust i didn't find it funny as the aftermath was devastating as i couldn't forgive her until after 1 month.
Re: Wife To Husband; Yes I Slept With Another Man. What Should He Do? by sisisioge: 2:14pm On Dec 29, 2021
grin grin grin grin


All those bedroom incompetent men thinking they could hide their inadequacies around virgins....hope una see. Women love sex as much as you.....we talk, we feel, we will know....dont hide, just come clean.

Meanwhile, what audacity! How dare she cheat and rob it in his face! What's he gonna do about it? He better divorce her and pick another virgin embarassed

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Re: Wife To Husband; Yes I Slept With Another Man. What Should He Do? by alabo1: 2:14pm On Dec 29, 2021
yuping:
Seems the wife is tired of the man inability to satisfy her. Its painful, The man should work on himself in all area.

Do women work on themselves in any area during marriage? What she was also not satisfying him in certain areas. Why do they have this sense of entitlement because they are female? What do they offer apart from sex anyways! I am thankfully seperated and with my lovely kids and happy with my single imperfect self as I move towards concluding my divorce. NEVER AGAIN WILL I WALK THAT ROAD. SEX IS READILY AVAILABLE AND SINCE THERE IS NOTHING ELSE TO GAIN WHY BOTHER TYING MYSELF DOWN AGAIN. I AWAIT THE BASHING FROM THE FEMALES.

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Re: Wife To Husband; Yes I Slept With Another Man. What Should He Do? by Bellerophon: 2:15pm On Dec 29, 2021
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I concur with your submissions and find points raised very cogent, However you still have to realize that human culture has from inception lionized the role of the woman to be that of a fragile delicate version of us needing of protection, care and understanding! It is a double standard to inflate the stature of the masculine sex as that of bravado and machismo while also requesting for women to pay their fair share in a word that is intrinsically paternalistic! The truth is society is constructed to the disadvantage of the woman and her reliance on the histrionics and dramatics of wiles and deception is her response in adaptation to a world where her gender has naturally predisposed her to subservience! Imagine living a life where you are told the best you are made to be is a fiddle! All is fair in lover and war!

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Re: Wife To Husband; Yes I Slept With Another Man. What Should He Do? by Nobody: 2:17pm On Dec 29, 2021
I hate Simps with so much passion!! angry

Imagine the audacity! angry

Someone he could have sent away immediately!!!

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Re: Wife To Husband; Yes I Slept With Another Man. What Should He Do? by efficiencie(m): 2:23pm On Dec 29, 2021
Rinoxy:
A friend married his wife as a virgin and has remained faithful to her. He suspected her of infidelity and confronted her, to his surprise she said 'yes I slept with another man since you can't satisfy me'. Imagine the audacity!!!!

Note that this man has tried all he could to be better but she never cooperated with him. She's not remorseful and has been more disrespectful to him since the incident. Mature advice please as his sanity is paramount at the moment.

If you marry a hoe, you have married a foe...this is just the beginning of high blood pressure! If his sanity was indeed paramount he would have done his due diligence to ensure he is not converting a public utility into a wife. He had better end the marriage, focus on healing and repackage himself for the real wife. If a spouse can boldly claim that she cheated then the marriage has ended.
Re: Wife To Husband; Yes I Slept With Another Man. What Should He Do? by AntiWailer: 2:25pm On Dec 29, 2021
Tell your friend to return the bride price she paid on him
Re: Wife To Husband; Yes I Slept With Another Man. What Should He Do? by UncleKoboko: 2:27pm On Dec 29, 2021
Rinoxy:
A friend married his wife as a virgin and has remained faithful to her. He suspected her of infidelity and confronted her, to his surprise she said 'yes I slept with another man since you can't satisfy me'. Imagine the audacity!!!!

Note that this man has tried all he could to be better but she never cooperated with him. She's not remorseful and has been more disrespectful to him since the incident. Mature advice please as his sanity is paramount at the moment.
Don't he know how to beat the shit out of a disrespectful slút?
Re: Wife To Husband; Yes I Slept With Another Man. What Should He Do? by tolaswim: 2:31pm On Dec 29, 2021
Make peace with her and if she still has both parent kindly tell her both of you are going for a visit and when you guys get there...You jejely handover her to her parents and make sure you have made an arrangement to pack her load without her knowing.....Peace be unto you.....

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Re: Wife To Husband; Yes I Slept With Another Man. What Should He Do? by Guyman111: 2:33pm On Dec 29, 2021
Leave that Koni Koni thing,is it you?
Re: Wife To Husband; Yes I Slept With Another Man. What Should He Do? by Lifewasgood: 2:33pm On Dec 29, 2021
Everybody with the way dem dey handle their. Imagine the one in this screenshot

Re: Wife To Husband; Yes I Slept With Another Man. What Should He Do? by Akinh: 2:34pm On Dec 29, 2021
To be sincere, most men pamper their wives on bed and this normally make women look elsewhere..to me oo fire anything out of her life Bcs if u can't, u will be tag imagine ur wife packing out or u sending her packing Bcs u can't make her scream or faint on bed.
Sir my advise is upgrade your system give it to her once u update urself and them ask her to leave ur house ...shikena leaving her unfully f**cked na Fk oo.
Re: Wife To Husband; Yes I Slept With Another Man. What Should He Do? by micflo28(m): 2:36pm On Dec 29, 2021
What was the flames and spark that brought both of you together? Has it been lost? The tragedy of failed marriages is that a woman runs after a man because of his money and fails to pay attention to his ability to satisfy her in bed, while a man runs after a woman because of her beauty and fails to pay attention to her character and ability. People should stop marrying under compulsion. Don’t build on a shaky foundation. You have every right to demand for an all rounded man or woman before marriage or forever hold your peace after marriage. OP, the man should pick up what’s left of the marriage and run away. Next time, he should be more conscious about the woman he is marrying.
Re: Wife To Husband; Yes I Slept With Another Man. What Should He Do? by Nobody: 2:36pm On Dec 29, 2021
Rinoxy:
A friend married his wife as a virgin and has remained faithful to her. He suspected her of infidelity and confronted her, to his surprise she said 'yes I slept with another man since you can't satisfy me'. Imagine the audacity!!!!

Note that this man has tried all he could to be better but she never cooperated with him. She's not remorseful and has been more disrespectful to him since the incident. Mature advice please as his sanity is paramount at the moment.
Women wahala just too much. When u can't pay bills, dey will cheat and tell u it's because u can't pay bills. Then when u start chasing on paying bills, they will cheat and blame on lack of care and attentions. When u chase on paying bills, giving Dem attentions, they will still cheat and says because u nor dey Bleep her well. If u beat her, she will term u woman beater, if u dont beat her, she will say u are too weak for a man. U can never satisfy a woman, so don't try to. As for ur friend, he knows what to do

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Re: Wife To Husband; Yes I Slept With Another Man. What Should He Do? by tolaswim: 2:39pm On Dec 29, 2021
yuping:
Seems the wife is tired of the man inability to satisfy her. Its painful, The man should work on himself in all area.
But.....he should do that and walk a way from the marriage in peace....
Re: Wife To Husband; Yes I Slept With Another Man. What Should He Do? by Nobody: 2:39pm On Dec 29, 2021
Rinoxy:
A friend married his wife as a virgin and has remained faithful to her. He suspected her of infidelity and confronted her, to his surprise she said 'yes I slept with another man since you can't satisfy me'. Imagine the audacity!!!!

Note that this man has tried all he could to be better but she never cooperated with him. She's not remorseful and has been more disrespectful to him since the incident. Mature advice please as his sanity is paramount at the moment.

It's high time you stopped writing made-up stories about virgins just because they didn't allow you to spoil their lives just like you've spoiled yours including that of other ladies you rolled with .
Besides, it's not advisable you start being bittered just because you finally didn't achieved your aim,or because you never got a chance to be with one, you're gonna continue meeting and rolling with your likes till you change your lifestyle.

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Re: Wife To Husband; Yes I Slept With Another Man. What Should He Do? by SenatorMark(m): 2:39pm On Dec 29, 2021
It's too much spirituality that causes this. The guy could be one of those who condemned adolescent age and it's character refusing to understand that it must come. Write your carryover and leave us alone.[color=#000099][/color]
Re: Wife To Husband; Yes I Slept With Another Man. What Should He Do? by SenatorMark(m): 2:40pm On Dec 29, 2021
It's too much spirituality that causes this. The guy could be one of those who condemned adolescent age and it's character refusing to understand that it must come. Write your carryover and leave us alone.
Re: Wife To Husband; Yes I Slept With Another Man. What Should He Do? by MummyD2020(f): 2:43pm On Dec 29, 2021
orgylover:
bitch open a thread for rhat. This is not what this thread is about

U mean ur useless God forsaken mum is a bitch? U bastard with no known father. U hide ur miserable worthless self behind the keyboards and yarn thrash. God forsaken son of a baboon
Re: Wife To Husband; Yes I Slept With Another Man. What Should He Do? by chris51(f): 2:55pm On Dec 29, 2021
For a woman to openly admit that she slept with another man, simply means she no longer has interest in her marriage. The best thing is for the man to send her packing or he should pack and leave her.

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Re: Wife To Husband; Yes I Slept With Another Man. What Should He Do? by chris51(f): 2:55pm On Dec 29, 2021
chris51:
For a woman to openly admit that she slept with another man, simply means she no longer has interest in her marriage. The best thing is for the man to send her packing or he should pack and leave her.

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Re: Wife To Husband; Yes I Slept With Another Man. What Should He Do? by loswhite(m): 3:04pm On Dec 29, 2021
Rinoxy:
A friend married his wife as a virgin and has remained faithful to her. He suspected her of infidelity and confronted her, to his surprise she said 'yes I slept with another man since you can't satisfy me'. Imagine the audacity!!!!

Note that this man has tried all he could to be better but she never cooperated with him. She's not remorseful and has been more disrespectful to him since the incident. Mature advice please as his sanity is paramount at the moment.
What advice do you need? If you or your friend is still married to that woman then both of you are Simps.

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Re: Wife To Husband; Yes I Slept With Another Man. What Should He Do? by loswhite(m): 3:06pm On Dec 29, 2021
yuping:
Seems the wife is tired of the man inability to satisfy her. Its painful, The man should work on himself in all area.
please add he should apologize to the woman ....smh
Re: Wife To Husband; Yes I Slept With Another Man. What Should He Do? by izubext007: 3:12pm On Dec 29, 2021
He see her in church.
Those church girls nal terror.
Re: Wife To Husband; Yes I Slept With Another Man. What Should He Do? by Das1mama: 3:17pm On Dec 29, 2021
Bro 2 b candid 2 u, any woman that can cheat on a man can actually kill the man..... You have to let go asap b4 it's too late..... Imagine not even feeling remorseful of her shameful act giving filty reasons...... You have seen why is good to go into councelling b4 marriage. Like u both need to know most of your likes and dislikes hopefully she would've told u she was a sex freak person which you can both agree either to continue or not. So sorry dude i know how u feel and guess what have felt the pain once and promise not to hurt myself for any bitch.... Consider them being part of your history then as time goes on u will learn how to live with it at ease...

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