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Re: How My Ex Humiliated Me On Christmas Eve by htdot: 5:33pm On Dec 29, 2021
Okonandmary:


The story is so fictional.

The write up and writing style is similar to Pocohantas own
U know... on nairaland, we believe every thing..

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Re: How My Ex Humiliated Me On Christmas Eve by seunoj: 5:33pm On Dec 29, 2021
GurlFriend:
I see a bunch of threads here created by guys who see nothing good in the women folk, but if I start writing about the evils that men commit, the mods may move the thread to the literature section.

My Experience

I am pretty, well kept and groomed and at an age where although I may not be a spring chick, I am still young enough to attract attention from guys in their early 20s who have no qualms about toasting their elder sister's age mates. I have had my fair share lovers but I am currently sworn off men till such a time I recover from the trauma of my latest experience in the hands of the 'ejaculating gender.'

My now ex, let's call him Kingsley was supposed to be a godsent. He is fair, heavily bearded, handsome and a single father. He is also terrible in bed. TERRIBLE. He doesn't last more than 4 minutes, and once he reaches the four minutes mark, he spurts his disgusting seed into the condom and goes limp for the rest of the time with him. Even if I squeeze and massage his small member like bitter leave, he will remain limp like golden penny noodles.

That did not stop me from giving two years of my life to him because I genuinely loved him and felt I could cope with the terrible sex; man shall not live by nacks alone. I had met his family, he had met mine, we were literally 5 and 6. We fixed the wedding for January 8 next year. I'm looking at the stupid IV as I'm typing this.

So we closed for the year at my work place on December 24th and I decided to spend the evening with him. We had agreed that no more nights over till the wedding since it was barely a month away, so we might as well start living right before God. None the less, I had closed by 2pm, I didn't look forward to spending the whole evening in my hot apartment alone so I, against better judgement went to his place and let myself in. His line of work doesn't give him the luxury of closing early like me, so the apartment was also empty but he has a generator and AC.

I settled in, began watching movies on his laptop. I don't know the devil that pushed me to leave the film I was watching to start snooping through his files. In my two years of dating I have never gone through his phone or PC because if you cherish your peace of mind, never snoop through your partner's devices otherwise you will see things. What you are looking for, you will find it.

He has this folder in his laptop called 'Don Quixote.exe' which I see all the time. I asked him what it was some time back and he casually said they are program files and if I mess with them, I will disorganize his laptop. The same devil I had earlier mentioned pushed me to open Don Quixote, and behold, what did I see?

Gay porn. Man nacking man. Woman nacking woman. My fiance is gay, I think. Or bi-sexual. I don't know. My hands are shaking again.

I'm so hurt. Photos upon photos of homosexual and lesbian contents. But this is not where the story ends.

After the initial shock of these disgusting photos, I was confused, shocked, disappointed. I quickly shut down the laptop, prepared dinner (Indomie) and cried myself to sleep on the bed because I'm a very emotional person. I took Lexotan so I could sleep.

Around 10, I think, Kingley came back. He didn't know I was in the house because I left the lights off. He, however didn't come back alone. He came back with a guest. A male guest. I know this dude is his lover because I know him from the office and I have always been suspicious of his sexuality. What kind of masculine man wears purple skinny jeans and wiggles his bum when he thinks no one is watching? I also saw a TikTok video of this guy dancing, wiggling his bum and twirling his dreadlocks?

That is the colleague Kingley brought home by 10 in the night.

Anyway, Kingley walked into the bedroom, saw me and the guilt written all over his face made me ask him who was in the parlour with him after hearing another male voice. When he couldn't give a coherent answer, I went to the parlour and saw Uncle Purple Skinny jeans. Now added to the gay porn I discovered in his laptop, you will not blame me for having a meltdown. I yelled, screamed, cussed, threw his ring into the toilet and flushed it. I ordered Uber to my parents house that night and spent 25th chopping breakfast with tears.

Two years, with a bi-sexual man. Or maybe he is gay himself. I don't know. He has been begging me not to expose him to his family, but it's too late. I have told my family and they intend to formally let his family know that their daughter cannot marry a 'confused' man, as my father says.

What do men want?! Two years of my life, plus all the wedding expenses, gone down the drain. I am so heart broken and humiliated.

I don't want to say men are scum because I have a wonderful father and loving brothers, so I will leave it. I'm done with men.



Just be happy at your discovery. 2years is small compared to plenty years of worry. Although it is painful, Wipe your tears and raise your head and move on.
You have been saved from madness

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Re: How My Ex Humiliated Me On Christmas Eve by Elporo(m): 5:33pm On Dec 29, 2021
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Re: How My Ex Humiliated Me On Christmas Eve by Annie001: 5:34pm On Dec 29, 2021
Elporo:
Sorry, can't relate. I have long accepted gay people as humans. If we have to live with Feminists - that want to destroy men, why not the rainbow people.

As for your 2 years; Men have given far more to women and got nothing back.

Like you said you still attract boys. Hopefully, you won't be heading to Shiloh anytime soon.

And just so other people know. Nigerian women are fatter than Nigerian men, in or out of marriage.


You lack common sense

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Re: How My Ex Humiliated Me On Christmas Eve by MufasaLion: 5:34pm On Dec 29, 2021
qtguru:


Reason I have issues with gay people is they are too forward esp with Straight people, have had my experiences, if I beat someone up I will be tagged as Homophobic esp with the way they have certain advantages in today's political climate.

I can't agree with you less.
Re: How My Ex Humiliated Me On Christmas Eve by Loreettaa: 5:34pm On Dec 29, 2021
Elporo:


All men have small pencils, when women don't get what they want or get dumped like low batteries grin
Same way your sisters got dumped, huh?

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Re: How My Ex Humiliated Me On Christmas Eve by Nobody: 5:35pm On Dec 29, 2021
fabianiyobosa:
Some guys wey nor get "heavy beards" ask you out o, but you use their eyes see wien!

Kpele!
exactly my point. Ladies get wàhálà. If I'm a lady, I can neva get attracted to men who pay too much attention to their physical looks. Exaggerated beauty is an attribute for ladies not men. They fall for this set of men, make mockery of the simple ones, yet cry fowl later.

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Re: How My Ex Humiliated Me On Christmas Eve by Nobody: 5:35pm On Dec 29, 2021
Techguy96:

Who told u he wants children from women, most gay person do this because of pressure from society.
Him mom may have been pressing him to get married.

So he's just getting married to save face.

Who told you gay people don't want Children.

It is true that pressure from his mom to get married could be a factor in wanting to get married but one thing about humans no matter their sexual orientation is that they want an offspring who will carry their name.

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Re: How My Ex Humiliated Me On Christmas Eve by SaintNegro77: 5:35pm On Dec 29, 2021
Some that have wife material toy with them, while some of us are still searching. Life no balance
Re: How My Ex Humiliated Me On Christmas Eve by gale2626: 5:36pm On Dec 29, 2021
You fumbled from the beginning, you're not a born again Christian, you did it the worldly way and you got exactly what it is to be out of Christ. "crisis!"

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Re: How My Ex Humiliated Me On Christmas Eve by goshen26: 5:36pm On Dec 29, 2021
GurlFriend:
I see a bunch of threads here created by guys who see nothing good in the women folk, but if I start writing about the evils that men commit, the mods may move the thread to the literature section.

My Experience

I am pretty, well kept and groomed and at an age where although I may not be a spring chick, I am still young enough to attract attention from guys in their early 20s who have no qualms about toasting their elder sister's age mates. I have had my fair share lovers but I am currently sworn off men till such a time I recover from the trauma of my latest experience in the hands of the 'ejaculating gender.'

My now ex, let's call him Kingsley was supposed to be a godsent. He is fair, heavily bearded, handsome and a single father. He is also terrible in bed. TERRIBLE. He doesn't last more than 4 minutes, and once he reaches the four minutes mark, he spurts his disgusting seed into the condom and goes limp for the rest of the time with him. Even if I squeeze and massage his small member like bitter leave, he will remain limp like golden penny noodles.

That did not stop me from giving two years of my life to him because I genuinely loved him and felt I could cope with the terrible sex; man shall not live by nacks alone. I had met his family, he had met mine, we were literally 5 and 6. We fixed the wedding for January 8 next year. I'm looking at the stupid IV as I'm typing this.

So we closed for the year at my work place on December 24th and I decided to spend the evening with him. We had agreed that no more nights over till the wedding since it was barely a month away, so we might as well start living right before God. None the less, I had closed by 2pm, I didn't look forward to spending the whole evening in my hot apartment alone so I, against better judgement went to his place and let myself in. His line of work doesn't give him the luxury of closing early like me, so the apartment was also empty but he has a generator and AC.

I settled in, began watching movies on his laptop. I don't know the devil that pushed me to leave the film I was watching to start snooping through his files. In my two years of dating I have never gone through his phone or PC because if you cherish your peace of mind, never snoop through your partner's devices otherwise you will see things. What you are looking for, you will find it.

He has this folder in his laptop called 'Don Quixote.exe' which I see all the time. I asked him what it was some time back and he casually said they are program files and if I mess with them, I will disorganize his laptop. The same devil I had earlier mentioned pushed me to open Don Quixote, and behold, what did I see?

Gay porn. Man nacking man. Woman nacking woman. My fiance is gay, I think. Or bi-sexual. I don't know. My hands are shaking again.

I'm so hurt. Photos upon photos of homosexual and lesbian contents. But this is not where the story ends.

After the initial shock of these disgusting photos, I was confused, shocked, disappointed. I quickly shut down the laptop, prepared dinner (Indomie) and cried myself to sleep on the bed because I'm a very emotional person. I took Lexotan so I could sleep.

Around 10, I think, Kingley came back. He didn't know I was in the house because I left the lights off. He, however didn't come back alone. He came back with a guest. A male guest. I know this dude is his lover because I know him from the office and I have always been suspicious of his sexuality. What kind of masculine man wears purple skinny jeans and wiggles his bum when he thinks no one is watching? I also saw a TikTok video of this guy dancing, wiggling his bum and twirling his dreadlocks?

That is the colleague Kingley brought home by 10 in the night.

Anyway, Kingley walked into the bedroom, saw me and the guilt written all over his face made me ask him who was in the parlour with him after hearing another male voice. When he couldn't give a coherent answer, I went to the parlour and saw Uncle Purple Skinny jeans. Now added to the gay porn I discovered in his laptop, you will not blame me for having a meltdown. I yelled, screamed, cussed, threw his ring into the toilet and flushed it. I ordered Uber to my parents house that night and spent 25th chopping breakfast with tears.

Two years, with a bi-sexual man. Or maybe he is gay himself. I don't know. He has been begging me not to expose him to his family, but it's too late. I have told my family and they intend to formally let his family know that their daughter cannot marry a 'confused' man, as my father says.

What do men want?! Two years of my life, plus all the wedding expenses, gone down the drain. I am so heart broken and humiliated.

I don't want to say men are scum because I have a wonderful father and loving brothers, so I will leave it. I'm done with men.




Thank God u saw the .exe file on time.

I'm still wondering wat would make me have feeling for a hardware like myself
Re: How My Ex Humiliated Me On Christmas Eve by SenecaTheYonger: 5:37pm On Dec 29, 2021
GurlFriend:
They will say they want their wives to always keep shape and when you are dating them, they will manage to maintain their 2 and 4 packs. After one year of marriage, they will upgrade to 10 gallon geepee tank. Yet it is still them that will come on Nairaland to say women are hoes

Lol rebel without a cause. You remind of free-spirit Janice, Tony Sopranos’ sister.

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Re: How My Ex Humiliated Me On Christmas Eve by OneCandleAway(f): 5:38pm On Dec 29, 2021
franciskaine:
lol. U go fear statement na. You've 90% more lesbians than you've gay. The unfortunate part is that the over exaggerated expectation of ladies attract the wrong people to them. Like the op said, she had countless wooers but fell flat for a gay just because of certain masculinities. You see one thing, most men that pay too much attention to their masculinity, be it beards, 6packs, pink lips et al, do av one or two cockroaches hidden. A man should look good, but paying too much attention to one's physical looks is not a male attribute.

Most women see some of the signs but live in denial or think they can change him.
Re: How My Ex Humiliated Me On Christmas Eve by myfantasies(f): 5:38pm On Dec 29, 2021
Fedrick100:
Everybody just dey chop breakfast this December
I am still trying trying to recover from mine , I have not had food or sleep for days now.

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Re: How My Ex Humiliated Me On Christmas Eve by Elporo(m): 5:38pm On Dec 29, 2021
Loreettaa:

Same way your sisters got dumped, huh?

3 sisters, all got ph.d's from ivy league uni's in the states
2 married with kids

You guys are very low quality.. you dont' know because we "men" still pay your bills ... when ball drops can you really afford this life even if you earned 350k ngn a week.

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Re: How My Ex Humiliated Me On Christmas Eve by AlexB300: 5:38pm On Dec 29, 2021
:PNa the plumber I dey pity

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Re: How My Ex Humiliated Me On Christmas Eve by cliqtips: 5:38pm On Dec 29, 2021
Sorry about your experience... But then, be thankful that that happened and it was revealed to you. What if that didn't happen ?
and you went ahead with the marriage. You would have been in hell.

And about this line
GurlFriend:
I'm done with men.
you forgot to put *for now*

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Re: How My Ex Humiliated Me On Christmas Eve by NemoDatQuod(m): 5:39pm On Dec 29, 2021
You should actually be proud of yourself. You finally discovered his deep desires. It's just that they do not conform to what you are looking for in a man and there's nothing wrong with that. You move on. That's what every individual serious about marriage should do: discover your partners deep desires and check if they conform with your expectations. It took you two years and I'd say that was a reasonable timeline. It takes some longer to discover their partners' deep desires.

As for the guy, it is his life and he has the right to live it as he deems fit. He should have been open, but none of us are open about these things. So you just have to work hard at finding out what he/she really desires.

It may not be a good idea to swear off men. Just spend more time upfront discovering the deep desires of the next guy.

GurlFriend:
I see a bunch of threads here created by guys who see nothing good in the women folk, but if I start writing about the evils that men commit, the mods may move the thread to the literature section.

My Experience

Gay porn. Man nacking man. Woman nacking woman. My fiance is gay, I think. Or bi-sexual. I don't know. My hands are shaking again.

I'm so hurt. Photos upon photos of homosexual and lesbian contents. But this is not where the story ends.

After the initial shock of these disgusting photos, I was confused, shocked, disappointed. I quickly shut down the laptop, prepared dinner (Indomie) and cried myself to sleep on the bed because I'm a very emotional person. I took Lexotan so I could sleep.

Around 10, I think, Kingley came back. He didn't know I was in the house because I left the lights off. He, however didn't come back alone. He came back with a guest. A male guest. I know this dude is his lover because I know him from the office and I have always been suspicious of his sexuality. What kind of masculine man wears purple skinny jeans and wiggles his bum when he thinks no one is watching? I also saw a TikTok video of this guy dancing, wiggling his bum and twirling his dreadlocks?

That is the colleague Kingley brought home by 10 in the night.

Anyway, Kingley walked into the bedroom, saw me and the guilt written all over his face made me ask him who was in the parlour with him after hearing another male voice. When he couldn't give a coherent answer, I went to the parlour and saw Uncle Purple Skinny jeans. Now added to the gay porn I discovered in his laptop, you will not blame me for having a meltdown. I yelled, screamed, cussed, threw his ring into the toilet and flushed it. I ordered Uber to my parents house that night and spent 25th chopping breakfast with tears.

Two years, with a bi-sexual man. Or maybe he is gay himself. I don't know. He has been begging me not to expose him to his family, but it's too late. I have told my family and they intend to formally let his family know that their daughter cannot marry a 'confused' man, as my father says.

What do men want?! Two years of my life, plus all the wedding expenses, gone down the drain. I am so heart broken and humiliated.

I don't want to say men are scum because I have a wonderful father and loving brothers, so I will leave it. I'm done with men.



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Re: How My Ex Humiliated Me On Christmas Eve by GUNITGuy: 5:39pm On Dec 29, 2021
I guess you were carried away by his charming handsomeness he kept his dark part from his Pastor, Parents, Families how much more you
You fell in Love with him only to later discover he his bisexual .....You have now seen the dark side Glory be to God you can now leave him alone don't go about disgracing him .......
As for all humans have a dark side including you is only Christ that knows very few can escape the corruption of this world and be totally free indeed that's why the religious houses and Psychologist exist for this kind of issues.......
Kindly quit most men aren't homosexual but as for Porn we have 120million views per day and the largest consumers are still men..............
Bounce back open yourself up for another RISK for a new relationship forget the past and movee my Sister

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Re: How My Ex Humiliated Me On Christmas Eve by Exceed15: 5:39pm On Dec 29, 2021
Op I understand how hard it is for you. However there is always a starting point. All things work together for your good.

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Re: How My Ex Humiliated Me On Christmas Eve by Dshocker(m): 5:39pm On Dec 29, 2021
GurlFriend:
I see a bunch of threads here created by guys who see nothing good in the women folk, but if I start writing about the evils that men commit, the mods may move the thread to the literature section.

My Experience

I am pretty, well kept and groomed and at an age where although I may not be a spring chick, I am still young enough to attract attention from guys in their early 20s who have no qualms about toasting their elder sister's age mates. I have had my fair share lovers but I am currently sworn off men till such a time I recover from the trauma of my latest experience in the hands of the 'ejaculating gender.'

My now ex, let's call him Kingsley was supposed to be a godsent. He is fair, heavily bearded, handsome and a single father. He is also terrible in bed. TERRIBLE. He doesn't last more than 4 minutes, and once he reaches the four minutes mark, he spurts his disgusting seed into the condom and goes limp for the rest of the time with him. Even if I squeeze and massage his small member like bitter leave, he will remain limp like golden penny noodles.

That did not stop me from giving two years of my life to him because I genuinely loved him and felt I could cope with the terrible sex; man shall not live by nacks alone. I had met his family, he had met mine, we were literally 5 and 6. We fixed the wedding for January 8 next year. I'm looking at the stupid IV as I'm typing this.

So we closed for the year at my work place on December 24th and I decided to spend the evening with him. We had agreed that no more nights over till the wedding since it was barely a month away, so we might as well start living right before God. None the less, I had closed by 2pm, I didn't look forward to spending the whole evening in my hot apartment alone so I, against better judgement went to his place and let myself in. His line of work doesn't give him the luxury of closing early like me, so the apartment was also empty but he has a generator and AC.

I settled in, began watching movies on his laptop. I don't know the devil that pushed me to leave the film I was watching to start snooping through his files. In my two years of dating I have never gone through his phone or PC because if you cherish your peace of mind, never snoop through your partner's devices otherwise you will see things. What you are looking for, you will find it.

He has this folder in his laptop called 'Don Quixote.exe' which I see all the time. I asked him what it was some time back and he casually said they are program files and if I mess with them, I will disorganize his laptop. The same devil I had earlier mentioned pushed me to open Don Quixote, and behold, what did I see?

Gay porn. Man nacking man. Woman nacking woman. My fiance is gay, I think. Or bi-sexual. I don't know. My hands are shaking again.

I'm so hurt. Photos upon photos of homosexual and lesbian contents. But this is not where the story ends.

After the initial shock of these disgusting photos, I was confused, shocked, disappointed. I quickly shut down the laptop, prepared dinner (Indomie) and cried myself to sleep on the bed because I'm a very emotional person. I took Lexotan so I could sleep.

Around 10, I think, Kingley came back. He didn't know I was in the house because I left the lights off. He, however didn't come back alone. He came back with a guest. A male guest. I know this dude is his lover because I know him from the office and I have always been suspicious of his sexuality. What kind of masculine man wears purple skinny jeans and wiggles his bum when he thinks no one is watching? I also saw a TikTok video of this guy dancing, wiggling his bum and twirling his dreadlocks?

That is the colleague Kingley brought home by 10 in the night.

Anyway, Kingley walked into the bedroom, saw me and the guilt written all over his face made me ask him who was in the parlour with him after hearing another male voice. When he couldn't give a coherent answer, I went to the parlour and saw Uncle Purple Skinny jeans. Now added to the gay porn I discovered in his laptop, you will not blame me for having a meltdown. I yelled, screamed, cussed, threw his ring into the toilet and flushed it. I ordered Uber to my parents house that night and spent 25th chopping breakfast with tears.

Two years, with a bi-sexual man. Or maybe he is gay himself. I don't know. He has been begging me not to expose him to his family, but it's too late. I have told my family and they intend to formally let his family know that their daughter cannot marry a 'confused' man, as my father says.

What do men want?! Two years of my life, plus all the wedding expenses, gone down the drain. I am so heart broken and humiliated.

I don't want to say men are scum because I have a wonderful father and loving brothers, so I will leave it. I'm done with men.





I understand how you feel and also sympathize with you...But for the fact Kingsley disappointed you,doesn't mean you can't find another guy to give it a try and always remember that every disappointment is a blessing in disguise.

God will heal you and give you a better man you deserve.

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Re: How My Ex Humiliated Me On Christmas Eve by reservd(m): 5:39pm On Dec 29, 2021
Chiefochiefo:
In my two years of dating I have never gone through his phone or PC because if you cherish your peace of mind, never snoop through your partner's devices otherwise you will see things. What you are looking for, you will find it.

This is where you got it all wrong baby.
Besides, men looks at your pasts too and yet marry you.
My dear, you never loved him, your formal boy friend who used to knack you well well has come back.
By the way, in marriage, you should be looking towards making kids and not knacking.
Sorry to say o, akuna never finish for ur eye kiss
This is off point

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Re: How My Ex Humiliated Me On Christmas Eve by Benwems(m): 5:40pm On Dec 29, 2021
You ladies should try dating true Christian men not guys that are in the world. But such guys would be boring to date.

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Re: How My Ex Humiliated Me On Christmas Eve by Nobody: 5:42pm On Dec 29, 2021
OneCandleAway:


Most women see some of the signs but live in denial or think they can change him.
truth is, most women are after money and fun. She got both in one package. Unfortunately he's gay.
Re: How My Ex Humiliated Me On Christmas Eve by Fedrick100: 5:42pm On Dec 29, 2021
myfantasies:
I am still trying trying to recover from mine , I have not had food or sleep for days now.
Sorry okay
Re: How My Ex Humiliated Me On Christmas Eve by Highzyk: 5:42pm On Dec 29, 2021
GurlFriend:
I see a bunch of threads here created by guys who see nothing good in the women folk, but if I start writing about the evils that men commit, the mods may move the thread to the literature section.

My
Two years, with a bi-sexual man. Or maybe he is gay himself. I don't know. He has been begging me not to expose him to his family, but it's too late. I have told my family and they intend to formally let his family know that their daughter cannot marry a 'confused' man, as my father says.

What do men want?! Two years of my life, plus all the wedding expenses, gone down the drain. I am so heart broken and humiliated.

I don't want to say men are scum because I have a wonderful father and loving brothers, so I will leave it. I'm done with men.




Before the holy God, you are same of the same.
What right does a serial fornicator like you have to castigate a gay or lesbian?
Your own brand of fikthiness (fornication) is just different from his.

4 minute man and small fick? This expose your wild experience in this ugly lifestyle.

A virgin or chaste lady or man doesn't know a small dick or 2-minute's man because whatever is inserted into her is her size! Neither does he complain of too small, wild or deep pussy, because that's the only thing ever presented to him.
Nothing to compare. S/he is at peace, unspeakable!

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Re: How My Ex Humiliated Me On Christmas Eve by Proudlyngwa(m): 5:42pm On Dec 29, 2021
Antoeni:
Even The Devil was Not Gay, He went for a Naked Eve, and NOT a Naked Adam

And what makes u think the devil is male

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Re: How My Ex Humiliated Me On Christmas Eve by larryking540: 5:42pm On Dec 29, 2021
AGurlnoname:
cheesy the worst thing that can ever happen to you, is going through a man's browsing history, videos, hidden vault on his phone and WhatsApp chat.

Men are hypocrites.

Don't worry don't give up on love, you'll soon find the right one.
say it again, everyone get dirty secret,lbut it's a Bleep up if we all don't speak about our secret among our selfs ,the guy Bleep up sha ,but the op for atleast confront him
Re: How My Ex Humiliated Me On Christmas Eve by Karemarealty288(m): 5:43pm On Dec 29, 2021
Even if I squeeze and massage his small member like bitter leave, he will remain limp like golden penny noodles.

Epic

Re: How My Ex Humiliated Me On Christmas Eve by Techguy96(m): 5:43pm On Dec 29, 2021
thebosstrevor1:


Who told you gay people don't want Children.

It is true that pressure from his mom to get married could be a factor in wanting to get married but one thing about humans no matter their sexual orientation is that they want an offspring who will carry their name.
If you think all humans want children then u have lots a learning to do. Not everyone wants kids.
But of course there are queers who wants kids too and they are various ways of having children without deceiving someone.

The major reason any queer person will go through this struggle of living a double life is obviously pressure from family n society.

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Re: How My Ex Humiliated Me On Christmas Eve by Germi9: 5:44pm On Dec 29, 2021
GurlFriend:
I see a bunch of threads here created by guys who see nothing good in the women folk, but if I start writing about the evils that men commit, the mods may move the thread to the literature section.

My Experience

I am pretty, well kept and groomed and at an age where although I may not be a spring chick, I am still young enough to attract attention from guys in their early 20s who have no qualms about toasting their elder sister's age mates. I have had my fair share lovers but I am currently sworn off men till such a time I recover from the trauma of my latest experience in the hands of the 'ejaculating gender.'

My now ex, let's call him Kingsley was supposed to be a godsent. He is fair, heavily bearded, handsome and a single father. He is also terrible in bed. TERRIBLE. He doesn't last more than 4 minutes, and once he reaches the four minutes mark, he spurts his disgusting seed into the condom and goes limp for the rest of the time with him. Even if I squeeze and massage his small member like bitter leave, he will remain limp like golden penny noodles.

That did not stop me from giving two years of my life to him because I genuinely loved him and felt I could cope with the terrible sex; man shall not live by nacks alone. I had met his family, he had met mine, we were literally 5 and 6. We fixed the wedding for January 8 next year. I'm looking at the stupid IV as I'm typing this.

So we closed for the year at my work place on December 24th and I decided to spend the evening with him. We had agreed that no more nights over till the wedding since it was barely a month away, so we might as well start living right before God. None the less, I had closed by 2pm, I didn't look forward to spending the whole evening in my hot apartment alone so I, against better judgement went to his place and let myself in. His line of work doesn't give him the luxury of closing early like me, so the apartment was also empty but he has a generator and AC.

I settled in, began watching movies on his laptop. I don't know the devil that pushed me to leave the film I was watching to start snooping through his files. In my two years of dating I have never gone through his phone or PC because if you cherish your peace of mind, never snoop through your partner's devices otherwise you will see things. What you are looking for, you will find it.

He has this folder in his laptop called 'Don Quixote.exe' which I see all the time. I asked him what it was some time back and he casually said they are program files and if I mess with them, I will disorganize his laptop. The same devil I had earlier mentioned pushed me to open Don Quixote, and behold, what did I see?

Gay porn. Man nacking man. Woman nacking woman. My fiance is gay, I think. Or bi-sexual. I don't know. My hands are shaking again.

I'm so hurt. Photos upon photos of homosexual and lesbian contents. But this is not where the story ends.

After the initial shock of these disgusting photos, I was confused, shocked, disappointed. I quickly shut down the laptop, prepared dinner (Indomie) and cried myself to sleep on the bed because I'm a very emotional person. I took Lexotan so I could sleep.

Around 10, I think, Kingley came back. He didn't know I was in the house because I left the lights off. He, however didn't come back alone. He came back with a guest. A male guest. I know this dude is his lover because I know him from the office and I have always been suspicious of his sexuality. What kind of masculine man wears purple skinny jeans and wiggles his bum when he thinks no one is watching? I also saw a TikTok video of this guy dancing, wiggling his bum and twirling his dreadlocks?

That is the colleague Kingley brought home by 10 in the night.

Anyway, Kingley walked into the bedroom, saw me and the guilt written all over his face made me ask him who was in the parlour with him after hearing another male voice. When he couldn't give a coherent answer, I went to the parlour and saw Uncle Purple Skinny jeans. Now added to the gay porn I discovered in his laptop, you will not blame me for having a meltdown. I yelled, screamed, cussed, threw his ring into the toilet and flushed it. I ordered Uber to my parents house that night and spent 25th chopping breakfast with tears.

Two years, with a bi-sexual man. Or maybe he is gay himself. I don't know. He has been begging me not to expose him to his family, but it's too late. I have told my family and they intend to formally let his family know that their daughter cannot marry a 'confused' man, as my father says.

What do men want?! Two years of my life, plus all the wedding expenses, gone down the drain. I am so heart broken and humiliated.

I don't want to say men are scum because I have a wonderful father and loving brothers, so I will leave it. I'm done with men.



Am straight and not confused,can we meet?
Re: How My Ex Humiliated Me On Christmas Eve by Szilard: 5:44pm On Dec 29, 2021
princeSammyz:
I can't agree more with you... I think this is fiction

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