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Re: Husband Touching His Wife Inappropriately Is Rape Under New VAPP Law: Lawyer by Omoluabi16(m): 2:40pm On Dec 30, 2021
Shebi na law? I have no problem with it, so long they properly define the 'inappropriate'.
Re: Husband Touching His Wife Inappropriately Is Rape Under New VAPP Law: Lawyer by johnfem321: 2:44pm On Dec 30, 2021
Does that mean I have to write a consent letter to my wife or ask permission to touch any part of her body?

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Re: Husband Touching His Wife Inappropriately Is Rape Under New VAPP Law: Lawyer by buJu234: 2:55pm On Dec 30, 2021
All these type of laws only work in a society where women are financially empowered..

But in a society like ours.. naija women will prefer her husband do the so called marital rape to her 10x than to allow him go and carry another woman as second wife..

Say no to rape sha..
Re: Husband Touching His Wife Inappropriately Is Rape Under New VAPP Law: Lawyer by cococandy(f): 2:56pm On Dec 30, 2021
InvertedHammer:
Inappropriately touching a partner is very vague and can mean many things to different people. How do you prove inappropriate touch in court especially coming from a dejected, disgruntled or vindictive partner? Let's not be silly in trying to make laws.

You have a point about the vagueness of that term but I believe that was the interpretation of the person speaking not how the law was actually worded.

A case of rape involving two or more adults has elements of force (which takes away wilful participation) or threat of injury.
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Wrong. Rape doesn’t have to involve force. When there’s a power dynamic and one person can’t say no because of their position in the situation, it’s also rape. Not just threat of injury but any kind of threat that makes the other person afraid of refusing.

Now this law supposedly can be applied both ways but why are the guys blowing hotter than others about it?
Is it because the concept of consent always seems to have y’all confused?
Like how you believe rape only involves force?

A lot of you need more education on this issue and emotional growth too. Not you specifically. Just you the collective.

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Re: Husband Touching His Wife Inappropriately Is Rape Under New VAPP Law: Lawyer by Hotspotbro(m): 2:58pm On Dec 30, 2021
What incel cuck made this law?

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Re: Husband Touching His Wife Inappropriately Is Rape Under New VAPP Law: Lawyer by SweetDipBenny(m): 3:02pm On Dec 30, 2021
grin jokes
Re: Husband Touching His Wife Inappropriately Is Rape Under New VAPP Law: Lawyer by Pimine: 3:07pm On Dec 30, 2021
Mercychen:
Lol... .where's that guy again? "Its this kind of thing that makes me kick someone with my boots."

Which one is inappropriate touch from husband to wife again?

So where is the man not supposed to touch in the womans body he paid and performmed all the marriage rights on? Ruuubish! Misplaced priorities every where.

Is this the women empowerment programs they should organize to better and improve the quality of the life of so many women suffering in their marriages? Dumb move.

Any woman who doesn't want to be touched anyhow, ( as long as it's not to harm) should remain in her father's house because the thing men like most is that "press press" and "touch touch". if you remove all that, wetin remain for the man again? Ndi Uchu.

They make laws that they themselves can't keep. See FFK been flouting court order since, restricting Chi from seeing her children. No body called him to order. Its a law to deny a man of his marital rights they wake up to impose.

We no want una yeye law.



Aswearugaaad

Make them kuku destroy marriage finish. Just imagine the nonsense and few ingredients grin
Re: Husband Touching His Wife Inappropriately Is Rape Under New VAPP Law: Lawyer by Mariangeles(f): 3:15pm On Dec 30, 2021
Kobojunkie:
Na news article with someone's opinion we dey read here... no be the law itself. So bear that in mind. The law will likely carry a lot more details to explain more. undecided

OK. Tori ko ye mi rara. undecided
Re: Husband Touching His Wife Inappropriately Is Rape Under New VAPP Law: Lawyer by Lionnation: 3:18pm On Dec 30, 2021
odinson1:
What about wife inappropriately touching her husband without his consent?

As all of una wan crase so



You nor dey see wetin dem put as the Headline? undecided

If the law TRULY affects both man and woman,then the headline wouldn't have been "Husband touching his wife inappropriately..."
una no go read una hi jump come to comment off point

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Re: Husband Touching His Wife Inappropriately Is Rape Under New VAPP Law: Lawyer by Lionnation: 3:19pm On Dec 30, 2021
But this law is useless and not good for humanity

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Re: Husband Touching His Wife Inappropriately Is Rape Under New VAPP Law: Lawyer by lafiagi007: 3:29pm On Dec 30, 2021
longetivity:
Na this kind of Law go dey make marriage quick scatter grin
Yes na, anything wey make woman wey I marry carry me go court, baba na to finish case make she come pack her load ni oo. If we can't resolve our issues within, elders from both families can't, then court can do nothing.
Re: Husband Touching His Wife Inappropriately Is Rape Under New VAPP Law: Lawyer by Kobojunkie: 3:31pm On Dec 30, 2021
AfroKnight:
You should be asking yourself that instead of contributing like an unhinged mind.
The rambling one is the unhinged mind here, don't you see. lipsrsealed

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Re: Husband Touching His Wife Inappropriately Is Rape Under New VAPP Law: Lawyer by Kobojunkie: 3:32pm On Dec 30, 2021
Mariangeles:
OK. Tori ko ye mi rara. undecided
I haven't even confirmed the existence of said law myself. undecided

If true that such a law now exists, I believe it at least a step in the right direction towards conviction of rape even if marriage. undecided

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Re: Husband Touching His Wife Inappropriately Is Rape Under New VAPP Law: Lawyer by emmykk(m): 4:12pm On Dec 30, 2021
Kobojunkie:
If true, this is good news for Nigeria. Hopefully we can read the details of the law itself to better access for ourselves. undecided

If you try to read it before obeying it.You may land it jail
Re: Husband Touching His Wife Inappropriately Is Rape Under New VAPP Law: Lawyer by Silentgroper(m): 4:21pm On Dec 30, 2021
longetivity:
Na this kind of Law go dey make marriage quick scatter grin
U mean i cannot be tapping my own wife's big nyash again. Then marriage is a waste of time..
Re: Husband Touching His Wife Inappropriately Is Rape Under New VAPP Law: Lawyer by AfroKnight: 4:29pm On Dec 30, 2021
Kobojunkie:
The rambling one is the unhinged mind here, don't you see. lipsrsealed

Not hard to see who couldn’t understand the simple English written in the OP. You need to see a shrink and perhaps an optician too.
Re: Husband Touching His Wife Inappropriately Is Rape Under New VAPP Law: Lawyer by mediainc: 4:29pm On Dec 30, 2021
Make una easy, it must be fair...see what they did to Rkelly...
Re: Husband Touching His Wife Inappropriately Is Rape Under New VAPP Law: Lawyer by lawalmovichhhh: 4:29pm On Dec 30, 2021
idiot....beating wey una suppose put...una no put am...

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Re: Husband Touching His Wife Inappropriately Is Rape Under New VAPP Law: Lawyer by Kobojunkie: 4:31pm On Dec 30, 2021
AfroKnight:
Not hard to see who couldn’t understand the simple English written in the OP. You need to see a shrink and perhaps an optician too.
Again, what in the world are you rambling about? undecided

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Re: Husband Touching His Wife Inappropriately Is Rape Under New VAPP Law: Lawyer by Kobojunkie: 4:33pm On Dec 30, 2021
emmykk:
If you try to read it before obeying it.You may land it jail
What? So, are you suggesting that in remaining ignorant to the details of the law one can obtain bliss? undecided

You can easily find out the details of the law by doing a simple Google search really... just in the Nigerian case , it may require a couple of diggingundecided
Re: Husband Touching His Wife Inappropriately Is Rape Under New VAPP Law: Lawyer by AfroKnight: 4:37pm On Dec 30, 2021
Kobojunkie:
Again, what in the world are you rambling about? undecided

A proven rambler is asking this? cheesy cheesy What shall we not see on this internet? Scroll up and read your unhinged contribution. Remember your meds too. Don’t skip them.
Re: Husband Touching His Wife Inappropriately Is Rape Under New VAPP Law: Lawyer by saintmm(m): 4:53pm On Dec 30, 2021
Until I am able to see the whole content of the said law, I will reserve my comment.
The man may just choose to be sensational just to trend.






I rise
Re: Husband Touching His Wife Inappropriately Is Rape Under New VAPP Law: Lawyer by Coolgent(m): 4:54pm On Dec 30, 2021
Trying to copy oyinbo instead of enacting something tangible.
Idiots
Re: Husband Touching His Wife Inappropriately Is Rape Under New VAPP Law: Lawyer by King44(m): 4:54pm On Dec 30, 2021
Divorce go plenty

E be like say dem dey craze including the lawyer himself
Re: Husband Touching His Wife Inappropriately Is Rape Under New VAPP Law: Lawyer by Kobojunkie: 4:55pm On Dec 30, 2021
Coolgent:
Trying to copy oyinbo instead of enacting something tangible.
Idiots
What is wrong with copying oyinbo in this? undecided
Re: Husband Touching His Wife Inappropriately Is Rape Under New VAPP Law: Lawyer by galantjoe(m): 4:56pm On Dec 30, 2021
Emulating Europeans and Americans in protecting women will never go well for Africans.

We re rooted in deep respect for marital conjugality.

Husband owns his wife body, while wife also owns her husband body. Everything should be based on mutual understanding. St Paul in the Bible advocated for submissiveness of spouse body for sexual pleasure and conjugation.

It is unfair and against natural equity, good conscience and justice to charge husbands for raping their wives. Divorce is option for any spouse who found that her husband is touching her in appropriately to end the marriage but not to arrest and imprison someone Pikin.

Uwa umunwoke ntoooo
Re: Husband Touching His Wife Inappropriately Is Rape Under New VAPP Law: Lawyer by Kobojunkie: 4:58pm On Dec 30, 2021
longetivity:
Na this kind of Law go dey make marriage quick scatter grin
So you are one of this deluded folks who think marriage bestows on them some sort of godhood over a spouse?, undecided
Re: Husband Touching His Wife Inappropriately Is Rape Under New VAPP Law: Lawyer by Kobojunkie: 4:59pm On Dec 30, 2021
LesbianBoy:
The way this world is going, I pity the male gender

Simps are just making all these funny laws that favours women
How exactly does this favor women when it clearly indicates that both men and women who are indicted will be prosecuted ? undecided

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Re: Husband Touching His Wife Inappropriately Is Rape Under New VAPP Law: Lawyer by Kobojunkie: 5:01pm On Dec 30, 2021
Chatflick:
They make it seem as if Wives don't touch their husbands inappropriately too. Abeg Men also get raped
Learn to read. undecided
Re: Husband Touching His Wife Inappropriately Is Rape Under New VAPP Law: Lawyer by Kobojunkie: 5:03pm On Dec 30, 2021
tnerro1:
They better specify “inappropriate touching “ is it touching breast,ass, pussy , waist, face, neck, stomach, laps, thighs,legs or feet. Which one ooooo
That's why you consult the letter of the law itself,assuming it is law, for the details.... not a newspaper opinion piece on it. undecided
Re: Husband Touching His Wife Inappropriately Is Rape Under New VAPP Law: Lawyer by Ttjj: 5:04pm On Dec 30, 2021
Really
Re: Husband Touching His Wife Inappropriately Is Rape Under New VAPP Law: Lawyer by waletopmost(m): 5:05pm On Dec 30, 2021
Hmmmmmmmmm

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