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Re: How Do I Get Over This Broken Heart? I'm In Pain by sholly28(m): 4:25pm On Dec 30, 2021
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Re: How Do I Get Over This Broken Heart? I'm In Pain by Zeel007: 4:26pm On Dec 30, 2021
Bola146:


I'm fine thanks
how your side nah

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Re: How Do I Get Over This Broken Heart? I'm In Pain by Bola146(f): 4:28pm On Dec 30, 2021
Zeel007:
how your side nah

Why not go straight? I'm always fine
Re: How Do I Get Over This Broken Heart? I'm In Pain by queenblossom(f): 4:33pm On Dec 30, 2021
Sammy101111:
Best advice call him For meet up
If you love him you . Man can easily continue if they still love you . BUT LET HIM Know hes fault and why you had no option but to leave then just reason with him maturely and not arrogantly
Men don't date for love. They date for s*x that is why once they get what they want, they move to d next girl and leave the old one heart broken and shattered.
Till ladies understand these concept about boyfriend that's when they will stop getting heart broken. If you are a single girl forget anything about love till you are married . When that man puts the ring in your finger then you can resume love for your own safety and health
Re: How Do I Get Over This Broken Heart? I'm In Pain by Zeel007: 4:36pm On Dec 30, 2021
Bola146:


Why not go straight? I'm always fine
what if their is no point bola. Am just trying to be friends with you that's all. I sent you a d.m though, let's talk
Re: How Do I Get Over This Broken Heart? I'm In Pain by Hkff: 4:40pm On Dec 30, 2021
You need to tell the truth for you to get help

He want to smash and you deny him right
Re: How Do I Get Over This Broken Heart? I'm In Pain by Nicepoker(m): 4:51pm On Dec 30, 2021
Bola146:
grin, I really understand you but you need to move on grin grin there are still thousands of good men out there, just pray you find one out of them grin
So men are no longer scum.
Re: How Do I Get Over This Broken Heart? I'm In Pain by Joemetry(m): 5:35pm On Dec 30, 2021
Usually I don't comment on this forum but because I understand what it feels like to be invested so much in someone and not getting the desired outcome, I am compelled to give you some advice.

1. You love someone so much that they hate you back in return and even cheat on you, and you still want to cry over them?

2. You can love someone more than they live you (that is sometimes understandable) but you must never love someone to the point that you loss yourself. So you want to kill yourself over someone that is obviously more interested in other people than they are interested in you?

3. Do you know how many people will be lucky and happy to have you in their life? They are over a billion of them and just because you haven't been fortunate enough to meet one yet doesn't mean you are worth nothing or must do everything possible to continue with what you are the only one putting in effort to make work ( It never ends well if the loving only comes from one direction, you better be thankful that you're no more together)

4. When I was in my second year in school, my lecturer that I happen to be very close to lost a guy he spent his entire savings to help sponsor for his masters to a white lady, she did all this just to make it work but the evil guy with fine face broke into pieces, today the idiot guy has been deported, reason? his white lady cheated on him and he got violent with her. On the flip side this my lecturer is now marries to a white guy who will rather die than see anything hurt her. (Don't play with karma, it's real!)

5. If you ever need someone to talk to, WhatsApp (0818 410 8032)

You will heal and find 100% true love, that I guarantee...

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Re: How Do I Get Over This Broken Heart? I'm In Pain by spiceadole: 5:55pm On Dec 30, 2021
dyingheart:
we dated for five months. i showed him so much love and care. all he did was complain it wasn't enough, he wanted to date someone else. we're not talking anymore. i miss him like mad. i can't sleep, i can't eat, i can't do anything. it's like my heart has been broken into a thousand pieces. i can't breathe anymore. someone talk to me cry cry cry cry cry cry


****abeg, the man in question is not a Nairalander. cheating was from his part. i was very faithful to him. cry cry cry cry


Lol


Just 5 months..
The only thing breaking your heart is that he knacked you and dumped you.

Next time, keep your legs closed.
You will enjoy your relationship.whenever it ends.. you can walk away with your shoulders high, heart , self and dignity intact
Re: How Do I Get Over This Broken Heart? I'm In Pain by moneyissues(m): 6:54pm On Dec 30, 2021
dyingheart:
we dated for five months. i showed him so much love and care. all he did was complain it wasn't enough, he wanted to date someone else. we're not talking anymore. i miss him like mad. i can't sleep, i can't eat, i can't do anything. it's like my heart has been broken into a thousand pieces. i can't breathe anymore. someone talk to me cry cry cry cry cry cry


****abeg, the man in question is not a Nairalander. cheating was from his part. i was very faithful to him. cry cry cry cry


Let me mend that heart...chief mender is here
Re: How Do I Get Over This Broken Heart? I'm In Pain by MrMacinterchi1: 7:09pm On Dec 30, 2021
Sammy101111:
It is easy for a man to find but a woman can fall in the hands of worser person
it's not easy for anyone
Re: How Do I Get Over This Broken Heart? I'm In Pain by Mikelarteta(m): 7:45pm On Dec 30, 2021
dyingheart:
we dated for five months. i showed him so much love and care. all he did was complain it wasn't enough, he wanted to date someone else. we're not talking anymore. i miss him like mad. i can't sleep, i can't eat, i can't do anything. it's like my heart has been broken into a thousand pieces. i can't breathe anymore. someone talk to me cry cry cry cry cry cry


****abeg, the man in question is not a
Nairalander. cheating was from his part. i was very faithful to him. cry cry cry cry

My dear we are in the same ship/ boat. It’s not easy I tell u.
Re: How Do I Get Over This Broken Heart? I'm In Pain by makavellidon: 8:26pm On Dec 30, 2021
dyingheart:
we dated for five months. i showed him so much love and care. all he did was complain it wasn't enough, he wanted to date someone else. we're not talking anymore. i miss him like mad. i can't sleep, i can't eat, i can't do anything. it's like my heart has been broken into a thousand pieces. i can't breathe anymore. someone talk to me cry cry cry cry cry cry


****abeg, the man in question is not a Nairalander. cheating was from his part. i was very faithful to him. cry cry cry cry
you said u cant sleep oruoku e ni abeg my own girlfrd of 4yrs no betray me. If u go die because of my one man, i swear 2 GOD man go still bleep on top of ur grave. babe u move
Re: How Do I Get Over This Broken Heart? I'm In Pain by wonderr(m): 8:52pm On Dec 30, 2021
You are only lamenting because he is best among the guys in your custody, if you still have a guy that is better than him this thread won't come up
Re: How Do I Get Over This Broken Heart? I'm In Pain by Togokenya: 8:56pm On Dec 30, 2021
My sister and friend, when God delivers you from pain now, why not thank Him. If you married a cheat you will end up in the grave most likely. Hand your life and emotions to our Lord Jesus Christ, He knows how to heal and also give you the best amongst men as husband.

I am sure you have been doing all sorts with him and maybe he said,"see this one. this is how she she gives it to others" braze up and God will console you. Amen
Re: How Do I Get Over This Broken Heart? I'm In Pain by Desammyst(m): 9:07pm On Dec 30, 2021
Surrender the beautiful heart of yours to Jesus Christ, and watch Him flood it with peace... It can happen right now where you are, if you allow Him. The beauty of the whole thing is that God will give you a man after His ♥. I pray for you, that the comfort which the Holy Ghost Himself brings, let it rest upon you now in Jesus name. Amen!
Re: How Do I Get Over This Broken Heart? I'm In Pain by cutieBR(f): 10:15pm On Dec 30, 2021
Lol... how much?
Gadafii:
pay me for the good laugh cool
Re: How Do I Get Over This Broken Heart? I'm In Pain by frozen70(f): 10:43pm On Dec 30, 2021
dyingheart:
we dated for five months. i showed him so much love and care. all he did was complain it wasn't enough, he wanted to date someone else. we're not talking anymore. i miss him like mad. i can't sleep, i can't eat, i can't do anything. it's like my heart has been broken into a thousand pieces. i can't breathe anymore. someone talk to me cry cry cry cry cry cry


****abeg, the man in question is not a Nairalander. cheating was from his part. i was very faithful to him. cry cry cry cry

You just want to injure yourself

How could you be showing so much love on someone and he says it's not enough yet you keep on struggling to prove that you are making efforts to show more love and willing to do more

He wants to date someone else, what makes you think his heart has been with you from onset

Pls let him go on to wherever his heart is while you pick up the debris he left with you and gather them together for another man that will value you

If you don't advice yourself, he will come again, this time around to scatter the remaining damaged heart

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Re: How Do I Get Over This Broken Heart? I'm In Pain by Nobody: 12:02am On Dec 31, 2021
Blyzz:
So true embarassed embarassed embarassed embarassed
She unblocked me embarassed , I guess she read my response. She knows I have only one account on NL and it easier for her to read all my comments. Thanks for your write up. I won't repeat the cause of our separation. I so much love her, my life hasn't been the same since Monday evening until an hour ago embarassed

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Re: How Do I Get Over This Broken Heart? I'm In Pain by Gadafii: 12:04am On Dec 31, 2021
cutieBR:
Lol... how much?
59k Pere

%7 VAT inclusive tongue
Re: How Do I Get Over This Broken Heart? I'm In Pain by Sirqt5(m): 5:40am On Dec 31, 2021
Sorry dear,, don't kill yourself for one guy. Somebody's son go find you one day. Time heals all wounds

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Re: How Do I Get Over This Broken Heart? I'm In Pain by MisterKennedy(m): 12:02pm On Dec 31, 2021
everythinggirly:
You'll be fine las las. Move on with someone who cares.

Good morning dear

Happy new year to you in advance
Re: How Do I Get Over This Broken Heart? I'm In Pain by MisterKennedy(m): 12:04pm On Dec 31, 2021
maureensylvia:
Oh c'mon
You will be fine
Pause on relationship for now
Have a very good fvck to keep body and soul together.
Have some drinks too
Cheers kiss

This too will pass

Hmm.... What do you mean she should have a very good fvck?
Re: How Do I Get Over This Broken Heart? I'm In Pain by MisterKennedy(m): 12:07pm On Dec 31, 2021
ukaface:
No one fit give you motivational speech enough to take you out of this pain .
Cry it out.
Cry well well if it's the cry that will help you.
But know that the bas.tard you're having a meltdown for doesn't give a hoot about you.
If you develop ulcer Na you go dey look for treatment, not the i.diot.

I feel in life, everyone ( maybe majority) will go thru a heartbreak...so you ain't the first, won't be the last.

Clean your face, do make up, install Tik Tok(lol) do videos, watch movies( horror, don't do romance) get busy with your life, block him, delete everything that would remind you of him. Get your phuking sanity back girl, and phuking MOVE ON.

Wow!!!


You're right dear

I like your mindset

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Re: How Do I Get Over This Broken Heart? I'm In Pain by MisterKennedy(m): 12:09pm On Dec 31, 2021
Opeyemiextra:
Deal with it this way: do not allow yourself to suffer more because of someone who doesn't even care about you anymore. There are men out there who would cherish you. Maybe you aren't good enough, too much or just enough but that's okay. Cry a little but also see through those tears.
I have been there but I didn't allow myself to stay down. Eat, sleep and move. Work on yourself and you will attract the man of your dream.
You've got time but it's not to brood.

Nice one dear
Re: How Do I Get Over This Broken Heart? I'm In Pain by MisterKennedy(m): 12:11pm On Dec 31, 2021
Tima1980:
Nobody fit breaks my heart even Dangote or Otedola no fit. Na photocopies i dey release for people.

Lol.... Hehehe you're really very funny... Merry Christmas to you dear
Re: How Do I Get Over This Broken Heart? I'm In Pain by MisterKennedy(m): 12:13pm On Dec 31, 2021
debbydams:
humm babe I feel your pains, my advice for you is to find a cool place, sit and cry, I mean cry very well, then stand up, talk to yourself cos what's yours won't leave you, he doesn't suit you
U will meet another man better than him .I know it's very hard but u have to move on because he doesn't deserve your tears..

Your next relationship u don't fall in love you stand..don't let your partner know u really love him else he will take you for granted..
I've bn dere so I understand u
Above all,pls eat o..

Very nice advice dear
Re: How Do I Get Over This Broken Heart? I'm In Pain by MisterKennedy(m): 12:14pm On Dec 31, 2021
creepsyme:

My dear, I feel your pains.
Pls ignore anyone asking you to call him up for possible reconciliation.
Truth is, he does not deserve you in any bit.
The mystery of time will heal you, trust me.
You will look back and be thankful he left.

You're right dear
Re: How Do I Get Over This Broken Heart? I'm In Pain by MisterKennedy(m): 12:16pm On Dec 31, 2021
Enny2013:
Success is d best revenge. work harder to b successful fr urself.

That's not what she meant
Re: How Do I Get Over This Broken Heart? I'm In Pain by MisterKennedy(m): 12:19pm On Dec 31, 2021
Stargurl20:
Aunty, this is the advice I will give my self if I were in your shoes. I will tell my self this " this guy gave no flying f**k about me, even when I was with him. Why should I keep grieving over him?"

Look, ma'am. I understand this isn't easy at all, coz I've been in this situation before. However, try as much as possible to control the urge of reaching out to him. Trust me, if he accepts u outta pity, you will regret it. Move on, take a little while to heal without the intention of hurt your next partner. All men aren't the same even though majority of them are callous.
I pray you meet one that will love u to a fault and which you will desire in all aspects.

Wow!!! Very mature advice
Re: How Do I Get Over This Broken Heart? I'm In Pain by MisterKennedy(m): 12:20pm On Dec 31, 2021
TheRareGem1:
Sorry about that, this is the type of thing that make the world go round, as you are nursing your wound, don't neglect your health, eating keeps the health healthy. There are many good guys out there and these guys are with good minds and intentions,so you do need to sweat on this, there is head way, all you need is to stand on your feet, quit stay indoor.
nice one dear
Re: How Do I Get Over This Broken Heart? I'm In Pain by MisterKennedy(m): 12:23pm On Dec 31, 2021
dalass:


He's a player with a roving dick.

Cry if you must but he's not worth the tears... Move on already please. Better men are out there.. ..

You're right dear

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