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Re: My Girlfriend Insists No Sex In 2022 by Emerald04(op): 6:14pm On Jan 03, 2022
killmods:
Lol.. the girl done jam golden pipe.. OP leave those fables she dey tell u. She done jam another style of dicking way she never get before grin
lol the girl just set she no really strong for sex. Maybe she jam another guy but I’m sure no be because of golden pipe she leave me. She don jam one maga ni.. make she go enjoy herself. She go return back to school meet me here later grin
Re: My Girlfriend Insists No Sex In 2022 by Emerald04(op): 6:16pm On Jan 03, 2022
aimmoney9:
But sex is enough...... grin grin
Leave that one jare. Na attention seeking mofos na why I no bother reply her
Re: My Girlfriend Insists No Sex In 2022 by aimmoney9: 6:22pm On Jan 03, 2022
Emerald04:
how I wan know mtn provider bruh?
Check for the Yellow colour..... grin grin
Re: My Girlfriend Insists No Sex In 2022 by Rosement(f): 6:26pm On Jan 03, 2022
Nyascobar1414:
Personally I desire them, compared to non virgins...
At least as a virgin I'll give you 1% of my respect. But as a single nonvirgin, no respect ya just good for flirting...
So as a virgin you gained respect..
As a virgin Stds ain't possible..

You will definitely escape troubles..
As a nonvirgin that have eaten the forbidden fruit (dick).. You will always eat it again no matter how you wanna remain chaste, which might lead you into prostitution or likewise Gboys thereby if unfortunate your glory is gone(used for rituals).
And considering marriage.. When you marry as a nonvirgin the institution(marriage) is already doomed.. Cos you might go back to one of your exes(okafors law) just for good sex or any other benefits..
And definitely the man will be mocked cos what they used 2k to buy (coochie) a man bought it at a higher price, which makes no sense generally... And those ex of yours might be having an inage of your unclothedness(in their mind probably)..
So, staying a virgin saves (protect)your reputation.
Firstly, virgins will not go around telling people that they are a virgins in order to seek respect.

Secondly, some guys don't use virginity statuses to pick a wife, some guys are just interested in love.

Thirdly, not all non-virgins are indecent or prostitutes, some ladies only had sex with their boyfriends because it has become partially acceptable in the society. Some parents don't even complain when they see their daughters with their boyfriends.

Fourth, there are non-virgins that became celibate later, it is not impossible for a non-virgin to abstain from sex and the temptation is also high for virgins, we are just controlling ourselves.

Fifth, there are ladies that married as a virgin and they are divorced today and there are non-virgins that are finding life easy and they are enjoying their marriage.

Sixth: Sex is not the only means of getting STDs, everyone just have to be care. There are non-virgins that played stay and never contacted STDs.

Seventh: Both the guy and lady used themselves, so what is the mockery in it? If it is right for guys to mock their ex-girlfriend husbands, that means it is also right for ladies to mock the wife of their ex-boyfriends.

Why has the ex-husband of Meghan Markle not gone to mock Prince Harry?
If he is even having the image of Meghan in his head, that's his own problem, it will be childish and unreasonable for him to say it out.

Why are men not marrying only virgins? All guys have their own individual opinion about marriage, your opinion is personally meant for you.
Re: My Girlfriend Insists No Sex In 2022 by Nobody: 6:26pm On Jan 03, 2022
Emerald04:
lol the girl just set she no really strong for sex. Maybe she jam another guy but I’m sure no be because of golden pipe she leave me. She don jam one maga ni.. make she go enjoy herself. She go return back to school meet me here later grin
Don't be so sure oo.. if she jam better maga she for still dey come give u punna with gifts join.. she will always come back when she's had enough grin
Re: My Girlfriend Insists No Sex In 2022 by Nyascobar1414: 6:33pm On Jan 03, 2022
Rosement:
Firstly, virgins will not go around telling people that they are a virgins in order to seek respect.

Secondly, some guys don't use virginity statuses to pick a wife, some guys are just interested in love.

Thirdly, not all non-virgins are indecent or prostitutes, some ladies only had sex with their boyfriends because it has become partially acceptable in the society. Some parents don't even complain when they see their daughters with their boyfriends.

Fourth, there are non-virgins that became celibate later, it is not impossible for a non-virgin to abstain from sex and the temptation is also high for virgins, we are just controlling ourself.

Fifth, there are ladies that married as a virgin and they are divorced today and there are non-virgins that are finding life better and enjoying their marriage.

Sixth: Sex is not the only means of getting STD, everyone just have to be care. There are non-virgins that played stay and never contacted STDs.

Seventh: Both the guy and lady used themselves, so what is the mockery in it? If it is right for guys to mock their ex-girlfriend husbands, that means it is also right for the lady to mock the wife of their ex-boyfriends.

Why has the ex-husband of Meghan Markle not gone to mock Prince Harry?
If he is even having the image of Meghan in his head, that's his own problem, it will be childish and unreasonable for him to say it out.

Why are men not marrying only virgins? All guys have their own individual opinion about marriage, your opinion is personally meant for you.
love which doesnt really exist in females claiming to love a man from another family.. Madam kpelee oo..

In our society even a womans unclothedness being publicly will even make the husband ashamed..
You know a man can never be ashame of sleepimg with a woman..
Which nonvirgin over 5bodycounts that has a successful marriage..
Never can it happen..
Remember sex is a spiritual agreement(bond).
Cos of marrying nonvirgins, all the cases of infedility is popping out in our society..

Madam, the chance of a young (18-25)nonvirgin girl going celibate is 0%.. If you eat that forbidden fruit(dick) you will forever in your lifetime eat it.
Re: My Girlfriend Insists No Sex In 2022 by Nobody: 6:35pm On Jan 03, 2022
U know get sense...
Re: My Girlfriend Insists No Sex In 2022 by Oturatetuala(m): 6:38pm On Jan 03, 2022
Hmmm
Re: My Girlfriend Insists No Sex In 2022 by Aguilar(m): 6:53pm On Jan 03, 2022
Please i don't understand the meaning CD.
Re: My Girlfriend Insists No Sex In 2022 by Aguilar(m): 6:58pm On Jan 03, 2022
Rosement:
If she is really telling the truth and she is not playing games, she made the right decision. God has giving everyone the opportunity to change their ways and return to Him. Virgins should try to resist temptations and remain virgins but non-virgins can also decide to repent and become celibate. When a non-virgin repents, she becomes equal with upright virgins in the sight of God. One does not have to be a virgin to serve God. A repentant non-virgin is better than a sinful virgin.

Both of you did well. You left her to look for a lady that will satisfy your sexual urges and she left you to look for an understanding person.
madam define virgin?
Re: My Girlfriend Insists No Sex In 2022 by Rosement(f):
Nyascobar1414:
love which doesnt really exist in females claiming to love a man from another family.. Madam kpelee oo..

In our society even a womans unclothedness being publicly will even make the husband ashamed..
You know a man can never be ashame of sleepimg with a woman..
Which nonvirgin over 5bodycounts that has a successful marriage..
Never can it happen..
Remember sex is a spiritual agreement(bond).
Cos of marrying nonvirgins, all the cases of infedility is popping out in our society..

Madam, the chance of a young (18-25)nonvirgin girl going celibate is 0%.. If you eat that forbidden fruit(dick) you will forever in your lifetime eat it.
I am not perfect and I am not a saint but I try to live according to Biblical standards. I don't care about what the society thinks, people can say whatever they want to say, it's their mouth, let them talk. Can society standards put food on my table or will the words of people kill me?

I will prefer to remain unmarried than to marry a guy that I don't love. I can never even marry a guy that is not responsible or a guy that allows the society to date for him, I am not marrying the society, so the society has no right to intervene in my relationship. I am a human being, being a lady does not give anybody the right to box me.

Your words are not spiritual at all, you are just being cultural. God forgives all sins, non-virgin are not condemned. Jesus did not even permit anybody to condemn the woman that was found committing adultery in the Bible. if it is impossible to repent why did He tell her to go and sin no more, why did He not condemn her instead? John 8:3-11.

Are you saying that in all the successful marriages in Nigeria, the wives were virgins before marriage?
Re: My Girlfriend Insists No Sex In 2022 by ashawopikin(m): 7:25pm On Jan 03, 2022
Let her go and sit down, a pussy fu¢ked can never be unfucked . Wetin she feel like?
Re: My Girlfriend Insists No Sex In 2022 by Rosement(f): 7:27pm On Jan 03, 2022
Aguilar:
madam define virgin?
Am I your dictionary?
Re: My Girlfriend Insists No Sex In 2022 by Nyascobar1414: 7:32pm On Jan 03, 2022
Rosement:
I am not perfect and I am not a saint but I try to live according to Biblical standards. I don't care about what the society thinks, people can say whatever they want to say, it's their mouth, let them talk. Can society standards put food on my table or will the words of people kill me?

I will prefer to remain unmarried than to marry a guy that I don't love. I can never even marry a guy that is not responsible or a guy that allow the society to date for him, I am not marrying the society, so the society has no right to intervene in my relationship. I am a human being, being a lady does not give anybody the right to box me.

Your words are not spiritual at all, you are just being cultural. God forgives all sins, non-virgin are not condemned. Jesus did not even permit anybody to condemn the woman that was found committing adultery in the Bible. if it is impossible to repent why did He tell her to go and sin no more, why did He not condemn her instead? John 8:3-11.

Are you saying that all the successful marriages in Nigeria, the wives were virgins before marriage?
Shaa na true talk,
all sins are worth to be forgiven

Stay safe..
Re: My Girlfriend Insists No Sex In 2022 by Connected1: 7:35pm On Jan 03, 2022
Allow her do what she wants to do abeg.

Just keep her in check and monitor closely with some trusted guys, because it's ussualy a cheating tactics inexperienced women use.

Learn to respect a woman's decision sometimes, no be everything man dae argue about.
Re: My Girlfriend Insists No Sex In 2022 by Aguilar(m): 7:50pm On Jan 03, 2022
Rosement:
Am I your dictionary?
No you ain't. But you don't need to be a dictionary to define virgin.
Re: My Girlfriend Insists No Sex In 2022 by Rosement(f): 8:00pm On Jan 03, 2022
Aguilar:
No you ain't. But you don't need to be a dictionary to define virgin.
Don't you get the hint, I am not interested in answering your question. If you are eager to know the definition of virgin, simply check your dictionary or search online for your answer.
Re: My Girlfriend Insists No Sex In 2022 by Limassol(m): 8:59pm On Jan 03, 2022
Emerald04:
A simp definition bruh? na una type dey die for response for girl dm, but go come online dey form Alpha Gee. When it comes to dealing with ladies and putting them where they belongs, you don’t come close to me bruh..
I know the girl I’m dealing with, if I ghost her or just put her off with OK, she may use the entire day disturbing my line, or just sending unnecessary messages, the best I can do is just
Na me understand Wetin I dey rear. A little hardness here, a little softness there is how you balance a relationship.
Your Last sentence is compelling and basically sumarize one of the keys to a stable relationship. Also i liked how assertive you were in your replies, you sounded like a dude with balls of steel! That said, if truly that girl mean what she said(which i doubt, considering the playful way you both chat), then she is not only selfish and inconsiderate but also has little feelings for you, if at all. I would suggest you move on. Her Lost!
Re: My Girlfriend Insists No Sex In 2022 by Nobody: 9:05pm On Jan 03, 2022
Emerald04:
na una I Dey look up to Bossman.
Pls encourage young people around you to stop worshiping pvssy.
Re: My Girlfriend Insists No Sex In 2022 by Aguilar(m): 9:36pm On Jan 03, 2022
Rosement:
Don't you get the hint, I am not interested in answering your question. If you are eager to know the definition of virgin, simply check your dictionary or search online for your answer.
What if i don't get and what if i want to know what you know?
Re: My Girlfriend Insists No Sex In 2022 by Rosement(f): 9:46pm On Jan 03, 2022
Aguilar:
What if i don't get and what if i want to know what you know?
Then keep wanting.
Re: My Girlfriend Insists No Sex In 2022 by OscarJaden(m): 10:11pm On Jan 03, 2022
Emerald04:
she no dump me bruh. She only save me expenses, as long we’er both in the same campus, I’ll continue Bn a living testimony of okafor’s law grin
boast my head you're a legend bro

You are truly a redpiller
Re: My Girlfriend Insists No Sex In 2022 by ArticleBeast: 12:55am On Jan 04, 2022
Kids everywhere
Re: My Girlfriend Insists No Sex In 2022 by blaquebelle: 1:20am On Jan 04, 2022
What on earth do you mean she's dictating for you? So you would rather have sex with someone that's unwilling? That's called rape bro. It's better you move on to someone that's ready. Leave her please, unless she changes her mind herself
Re: My Girlfriend Insists No Sex In 2022 by Aguilar(m): 3:11am On Jan 04, 2022
Rosement:
Then keep wanting.
still not giving up on you
Re: My Girlfriend Insists No Sex In 2022 by yusluvad(m): 3:59am On Jan 04, 2022
Rosement:
Some guys don't give ladies money or gifts and they still demand sex. It is not about the money, some guys just believe they are entitled to sex from their girlfriends. Even if ladies start rejecting gifts and money, some guys will still insist on sex.
Lol. grin grin You're right afterall...
Re: My Girlfriend Insists No Sex In 2022 by Paramount01(m): 4:42am On Jan 04, 2022
samwash:
All this people self I tire for una, any relationship with the opposite sex is just all about sex sex sex.
That's why we don't make headway abt relationship,we don't value friendship at all.
If some of us were to be living in the developed world, many of us for become a victim of circumstances due to rape.
Men trade love to get sex while woman trade love to get care
All what man and woman needs in relationship differs
Re: My Girlfriend Insists No Sex In 2022 by Emerald04(op): 11:33am On Jan 04, 2022
aimmoney9:
Check for the Yellow colour..... grin grin
Lol this one one na yellow color too
Re: My Girlfriend Insists No Sex In 2022 by Emerald04(op): 11:43am On Jan 04, 2022
blaquebelle:
What on earth do you mean she's dictating for you? So you would rather have sex with someone that's unwilling? That's called rape bro. It's better you move on to someone that's ready. Leave her please, unless she changes her mind herself
How’s it rape? I just let her know if she feels the sex demand is too much she can call it a quit. And that’s an option, it’s left to her to make her choices now. Or you’ll rather have me spending my money on her throughout this year all in the name of a relationship, while another guy keeps hitting the honeypot outside.
Limit your advices for you and your girlfriend only, sorry if that’s rude.
Re: My Girlfriend Insists No Sex In 2022 by SirMichael1: 12:22pm On Jan 04, 2022
dontrulee:
I have thought about it deeply, whether to loose my virginity this year or still keep to it?
After weighing the pros and cons, I have decided to keep it this year.
Do you own a dick or a pussy?
Re: My Girlfriend Insists No Sex In 2022 by olamoses75(m): 3:51pm On Jan 08, 2022
blackpanthar:
SO RELATIONSHIP IS ALL ABOUT SEX.....

and you are still a student...


then when you are a FATHER, you will be preaching chastity to your children right?

smh, what you are sowing, you will reap. So if you can not wait till marriage, don't enter relationship abeg
if relationship is not about sex, could you, please tell us what the other gender is bringing to the table beside that sex? Mr NICE GUY!
Re: My Girlfriend Insists No Sex In 2022 by philosophy25: 7:55pm On Jan 08, 2022
Emerald04:
Sometime around last year July I met this girl inside the brt, while I was returning back to school from the short break, a light skin girl with a hot banging body, we exchanged contacts after much shakara from her side. I hit her on WhatsApp 3 days later. We started talking. Some months into the friendship thing, I ask her out she declined. I decided to ghost her.
To cut the story short she came to visit me, I make move while she refused, I respect her decision and let her be. The second time she was at my side I tried my luck again. This time she obliged, we started romancing to a point she starts to take off her dress herself. I checked for my CD, I have none left anymore, I just told her wear your clothes back I no get CD again.. I intentionally weakened her ego
She was like why can’t you go and get one, I told her if she will go and get it across herself I’ll give her money. I think she seems really pissed with my statement, she just hissed while she put on her dress back. We spend the rest of the day watching movies. Later in the night she text me my actions really surprise her and it seems I’m not really after sex but her love. I asked her out again that night and we started dating.
Our sex life everything was interesting. She’s quick to flaunt me to her friends.
Her respects for me really increases, she no longer talk to me anyhow like when we first started talking, if she do anything that upset me, I’ll just ghost her for like a week..

We had a Christmas break at school, so we both went our separate way. Some days ago she texted me in as much she love me, there will be no sex in 2022, ‘cus she wish to even return back to a Virgin, at first I thought it was a joke, but she call me and insists she’s really serious about it yesterday. Well I told her on call to bleep off yesterday. As for me and my fellow redpillers we no dey beg for sex in 2022.
Not like if I beg her, she won’t agree but I guess she don jam another guy wey dey bleep her for house, cus this was the same girl that was still telling me on 27th how she needed me badly lol.

As of last year June. I was a very SIMPle guy, thanks to nairaland redpillers for saving me. I don’t give much attention to girls anymore, because now, I understand their games even more than them.
Your ova shalaye too much o.. Yu still need more doses of d Rpill. Luk at hw ure exchanging chat ontop wetin no hard. Just ghost da shit
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