Maxxim:

Ubunja the great
I have a lot to learn from you about S.a ladies, I have one around, tho she likes the life but she has her own place of work and she's clicked in most aspects. First time she told me she likes Naija guys, she talks about how caring they are due to what she sees on sm.
You've got any pointers to your gee maybe one or two?

Kellzzyy:


Being unpredictable isn't by acting bluepill. That's a wrong advice.
While I agree with you that you need to be fluid and unpredictable, acting bluepill isn't part of it.

Jessepaid:
Hehehe...

If you enter street wey guy men full and you no offer salutations, best believe you will be mugged or beaten or worse..

If them no reason your matter, you get a free pass for your stupidity that day...

Or them wait make you pass again before Dem drill you..


Women like to feel themselves alot


I noticed that women tend to greet strangers (men) when the road is quiet and alone for fear of being robbed, raped etc...

But in another circumstance when the road is busy with people, the strangers will be treated like strangers..


If you are new to an area or environment, before you ask questions greet!


I support what Osas did 100%

because I do it all the time to women that think it's possible to think I am invisible but still ask for my help..


I remember a story my friend told me of how a his friends girlfriend lost her job...


According to him...


His friend went out with another friend, the two men were chilling at a bar waiting for the babe to show...


When she finally came, she went to one of the men (my friends friend) which is her boyfriend and greeted him, hugged him and sat down completely ignoring the other man at the table..


Not knowing that he was her boss at the new company she started...


She lost the job after that weekend..

SOZINN:




I agree, but I only act such way in the presence of my fellow guys. I don't greet female strangers especially if they fall under the age of forty. I'll never lay the ground for such familiarity, if I want something from a girl I'll go for it. Because when I form unnecessary acquaintanceship with females it's only a matter of time before they everything falls back to square one.

When they feel you've known each other for some time, they bill you or try to use you in some other way and you serve them a cold reply. The next day, they will act like they didn't see you and they will send the update to their friends. Conversancy with these young chicks will bring nonsense in the near future 90% of the time.

illumined999333:
Still on attraction, the very idea of being responsible for a lady actually does kill attraction. When I understood the very essence of this statement, I found it difficult helping females with money problems. It's for this reason a young jobless boy would screw a married woman being catered for by her decent husband. It is for this reason women dump the guys who trained them through school. Igbo business boys can relate.

Women exhibit the most attraction for men who aren't so invested in them. If she wants a wedding with you, ask her to bring 50% of the wedding fee, while you bring 50%. You do this not because you are trying to be stingy, but you do this because you are trying to balance the scale of investment in your union with that woman. You both should be responsible for the wedding. E get why. Everything society taught us about male and female dynamics is skewed to give women the advantage emotionally. Society cultured we men to be responsible 100% for the finances needed for a wedding, to be responsible 100% for our women. This is sad, and it shouldn't be, as it is counterproductive to genuine attraction. As a man, after spending millions in wedding bills, you become an easy target for manipulation by your wife. The one who is least invested has the most power. This one is for men preparing to settle down.

Maybe the right way to live is by going against the norm.

ubunja:
sure man,, as Nigerian men you reputation of dishing out easy money precedes you, so any woman looking for a quick buck instantly thinks of naija men.

Basically there's two kinds of SA women, one who doesn't want to hear anything about Nigerian men and those who love them. Among those who love them there are two types: those women who want to use Nigerians, and those who know Nigerians are hustlers and want them, but not necessarily for gold digging, but for purely hypergamous purposes, as in "I need someone with a plan who can take care of me". It will be impossible for me to tell you the ratio between these two groups of naija lovers.

The difference between SA men and Nigerian men is upbringing. Naija is patriarchal, SA is matriarchal. This means Naija men grow up knowing how to take care of women, while SA men grow up knowing a woman can take care of you and it's okay. This means women here find Naija men a lot more supportive, giving and willing to protect and provide. Which has won them a serious section of women who will kill to have a Naija man.
It doesn't help that generally nigerian men are the most good looking guys in SA and they're famed for their big dicks and sexual virility. So any Naija man will easily succeed with women here. The goodlooks, good body and sexual prowess is a strong reason why many nigerian men become gold diggers to well-off SA women. As well as prostitutes to these women where they're paid to fucc. I'll never tire of talking about this, cause you guys must utilize this opportunity.

Okay for a little background,,, If you're a naija man in Southy you very well know there are places you are banned/forbidden to stay, especially at "kasi" (high density townships like Soweto where the low income live), reason being Nigerian's reputation as drug dealers make them Public Enemy NO. 1 in those areas. Now, it is mostly girls from these areas who have a "fast life" view of naija men and will want you guys for a short fun time to use you because they believe Nigerians are fast money men. And by "use" I mean spend a little of your money. These girls are not that expensive but they'll waste your time if you're looking for something serious. These are the girls who if you spend a 1,000 rand on them you've shocked them. If they come to your place and the fridge is full, they'll camp. They're the cutest compared to their well-off mates in the low density suburbs (richer areas) and they have that Southy vibe that's internationally known. You'll find them in their 20s and with a low education and most are unemployed (especially nowadays) and those who work don't mind stopping if their man makes enough. They have a very strong stay-at-home wife mindset. They're very domestic and if they spend a weekend at your place they'll do EVERYTHING - cook, clean, wash clothes etc. In Southy even a 1night stand doesn't mind cooking and cleaning for you the next morning.
Now, when you hear SA men complain about foreigners stealing their women, it's this demographic/group of women the men are mostly complaining about and it's the low income men mainly complaining. Hence this group of men vehemently hates Nigerians (for taking their women) and foreigners in general (for taking their wives AND jobs)

It must be added that no group of men in SA is correspondingly crazy about Nigerian women. By and large no one wants them. But Nigerian women are usually the smart, intelligent ones and dominate fashion wise because they understand clothes better and know how to put together extravagant attires. Yet beauty and body SA women are hands down ahead of the pack.. If you're a Nigerian man dating an SA woman you'll find then intellectually slow, and less mentally stimulating than the naija girls you're used to. You'll also find SA women less enterprising and less concerned about education than the average naija girl. Yet on the domestic front, SA women take the cake. They become your wife without becoming your wife. The chores, the cooking and the sex will be abundantly taken care of. With no complaints.

It's worth noting also, that in Southy there's no distinction made between Nigerians, Cameroonians, Ghanaians and those countries from your region because to us here you all sound the same and you're collectively referred to a "Gs". (Gees) G as in nigerian. And since you can't be differentiated from Cameroon dudes etc you can very well understand no one can point out a Yoruba from a Hausa or Igbo.

For now I stop here. Hope you can use this info. There are plenty of YouTube videos on this topic by SA women, like the ones below. Find them and learn more.

Benee1000:
If she demands marriage or a relationship before she can become sexual with you, she's a prostitute at heart, whether she's a virgin or not.
A woman's sexuality is more important than her religious beliefs when it comes to relationship & marriage. She's a female first, before her religious beliefs.
You don't have to be in a relationship or marriage with woman who truly desires you for her to become feminine and sexual towards you.
When a lady truly desires you, she automatically becomes feminine and sexual towards you. You only have to give her the chance for her to display them.
Marriage or getting your commitment isn't her reason for this, although she also wants them. She just finds herself doing things for you she wouldn't normally do for anyone, and behave in a childish manner towards you. It's a natural instinct. They can't control it.
Marriage or relationship doesn't automatically make a lady desire you. Desire is an instinct which a lady expresses by being feminine and sexual towards the man she feels that desire for. A man don't need to spend or be in a relationship with her for her to display them, he only has to be available. He is simply chosen.
If a lady demands your commitment for her sexuality, it's because she wants to colonize your resources, and not because of her religious beliefs.
If you think her abstinence from being sexual with you is because she considers it sin, then put it to her (while smiling) "but you still tell small small lies to men from time to time na" (They always do ). if she smiles and tries to defend herself With whatever excuse, just ignore her and know her faked abstinence isn't because she considers it sin, but because she's not sexually attracted to you. Lying and fornication are both sins, why take one more seriously than the other if you're truly religious?
Relationships isn't about love, but resources. Marriage is institutionalized prostitution, the aim of which is to force accountability and responsibility on the man for any child or children arising from it.
You don't need to be married or in a relationship to express love or romance.
If a lady is not sexually into you, forget about her other qualities and just dey your lane. Don't ever consider her for anything relationship, just friend zone her. And if such friendship results in a constant outflow of finances from you, cut her off. She's using you.

Jessepaid:
Hehehe...

If you enter street wey guy men full and you no offer salutations, best believe you will be mugged or beaten or worse..

If them no reason your matter, you get a free pass for your stupidity that day...

Or them wait make you pass again before Dem drill you..


Women like to feel themselves alot


I noticed that women tend to greet strangers (men) when the road is quiet and alone for fear of being robbed, raped etc...

But in another circumstance when the road is busy with people, the strangers will be treated like strangers..


If you are new to an area or environment, before you ask questions greet!


I support what Osas did 100%

because I do it all the time to women that think it's possible to think I am invisible but still ask for my help..


I remember a story my friend told me of how a his friends girlfriend lost her job...


According to him...


His friend went out with another friend, the two men were chilling at a bar waiting for the babe to show...


When she finally came, she went to one of the men (my friends friend) which is her boyfriend and greeted him, hugged him and sat down completely ignoring the other man at the table..


Not knowing that he was her boss at the new company she started...


She lost the job after that weekend..

heartofcity12:
This is what her fellow hos could come up with. What is good or nice about a woman screwing another lady’s man with no remorse?. Because she lied to like the dude’s fiancée, smh.. They see her for the terrible hoe and gold digger she is but they’re skipping that, they’re never accountable for anything, herd mentality.

Kellzzyy:


Being unpredictable isn't by acting bluepill. That's a wrong advice.
While I agree with you that you need to be fluid and unpredictable, acting bluepill isn't part of it.

Andremalan731:
A friend with benefit told me yesterday that she wants to stop having sex totally until her wedding night
But want us to remain good friends
She said it’s part of her new year resolution
I wished her goodluck and blocked her.

Hope I didn’t overreact?

Battalion1:
learn how to greet pple blood....e Don save a lot of pple......only men go understand sha

Lightway:


Shut up

This advice is only for those who live in poor neighborhoods....

Where I stay, greeting someone is weird

Karlifate:


If you're a public figure or a person with huge followers, you need the bluepill mask.

48 Laws of Power comes to mind.

So, Calibrator is right.

Battalion1:
lol even at that blood....u no go leave for that ur environment forever blood ...

Is either school,nysc,work carry you comot....na advise sha

ubunja:
sure man,, as Nigerian men you reputation of dishing out easy money precedes you, so any woman looking for a quick buck instantly thinks of naija men.

Basically there's two kinds of SA women, one who doesn't want to hear anything about Nigerian men and those who love them. Among those who love them there are two types: those women who want to use Nigerians, and those who know Nigerians are hustlers and want them, but not necessarily for gold digging, but for purely hypergamous purposes, as in "I need someone with a plan who can take care of me". It will be impossible for me to tell you the ratio between these two groups of naija lovers.

The difference between SA men and Nigerian men is upbringing. Naija is patriarchal, SA is matriarchal. This means Naija men grow up knowing how to take care of women, while SA men grow up knowing a woman can take care of you and it's okay. This means women here find Naija men a lot more supportive, giving and willing to protect and provide. Which has won them a serious section of women who will kill to have a Naija man.
It doesn't help that generally nigerian men are the most good looking guys in SA and they're famed for their big dicks and sexual virility. So any Naija man will easily succeed with women here. The goodlooks, good body and sexual prowess is a strong reason why many nigerian men become gold diggers to well-off SA women. As well as prostitutes to these women where they're paid to fucc. I'll never tire of talking about this, cause you guys must utilize this opportunity.

Okay for a little background,,, If you're a naija man in Southy you very well know there are places you are banned/forbidden to stay, especially at "kasi" (high density townships like Soweto where the low income live), reason being Nigerian's reputation as drug dealers make them Public Enemy NO. 1 in those areas. Now, it is mostly girls from these areas who have a "fast life" view of naija men and will want you guys for a short fun time to use you because they believe Nigerians are fast money men. And by "use" I mean spend a little of your money. These girls are not that expensive but they'll waste your time if you're looking for something serious. These are the girls who if you spend a 1,000 rand on them you've shocked them. If they come to your place and the fridge is full, they'll camp. They're the cutest compared to their well-off mates in the low density suburbs (richer areas) and they have that Southy vibe that's internationally known. You'll find them in their 20s and with a low education and most are unemployed (especially nowadays) and those who work don't mind stopping if their man makes enough. They have a very strong stay-at-home wife mindset. They're very domestic and if they spend a weekend at your place they'll do EVERYTHING - cook, clean, wash clothes etc. In Southy even a 1night stand doesn't mind cooking and cleaning for you the next morning.
Now, when you hear SA men complain about foreigners stealing their women, it's this demographic/group of women the men are mostly complaining about and it's the low income men mainly complaining. Hence this group of men vehemently hates Nigerians (for taking their women) and foreigners in general (for taking their wives AND jobs)

It must be added that no group of men in SA is correspondingly crazy about Nigerian women. By and large no one wants them. But Nigerian women are usually the smart, intelligent ones and dominate fashion wise because they understand clothes better and know how to put together extravagant attires. Yet beauty and body SA women are hands down ahead of the pack.. If you're a Nigerian man dating an SA woman you'll find then intellectually slow, and less mentally stimulating than the naija girls you're used to. You'll also find SA women less enterprising and less concerned about education than the average naija girl. Yet on the domestic front, SA women take the cake. They become your wife without becoming your wife. The chores, the cooking and the sex will be abundantly taken care of. With no complaints.

It's worth noting also, that in Southy there's no distinction made between Nigerians, Cameroonians, Ghanaians and those countries from your region because to us here you all sound the same and you're collectively referred to a "Gs". (Gees) G as in nigerian. And since you can't be differentiated from Cameroon dudes etc you can very well understand no one can point out a Yoruba from a Hausa or Igbo.

For now I stop here. Hope you can use this info. There are plenty of YouTube videos on this topic by SA women, like the ones below. Find them and learn more.

Karlifate:


If you're a public figure or a person with huge followers, you need the bluepill mask.

48 Laws of Power comes to mind.

So, Calibrator is right.

Lightway:


Shut up

This advice is only for those who live in poor neighborhoods....

Where I stay, greeting someone is weird

fattprince:

Not only a public figure. As a business man too. To make money.

Joker09:


Exactly. Even Reno Omokri made it before he came out as redpilled, he once said he doesn't need females' help anymore, no political intentions anymore. He's a fulfilled made man now. Redpilled authors and creators are also exception because their major followers/consumers are males, they could care less, even at that they constantly get backlash, their pages often get disabled because we live in a bluepilled dominated society. If you have an interest in music, art, acting, politics, modeling, entertainment career etc.. it’s sensible you wear a bluepill mask, but you know what you truly are deep inside.

CAPSLOCKED:
Soon we are going to discuss about how men sacrifice their health, time, youth, labour and money to cater for their children, wife and oftentimes the wife's family; but the children grow up detached from their father and connected to their mother.

Oftentimes, their mother maybe a very low income earner, or a high income earner who would rather use her salaries to buy wrappers, head-tie, gold jewelries and others.
Yet when the children start earning they take care of their mother, bring her overseas while they buy dry gin and leather sandals for their father.

The man's wife out of Serpentine greed will poison the children's heart in order to remove their father from the equation, and become the sole beneficiary of the children's gifts and care.
We are going to change that narrative and put our father on equal salaries and gifts.
Never Again!
A man is not saved until he begins to apply the truth to his immediate family. #SaveNigerianMen

-AllahKaduna Nzeogwu via Facebook. January 2 at 7:13 PM ·