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It’s been 2 and a half weeks since we broke up from our relationship, I have just found out she is talking to
other men. I can’t even look at another women. I’m
heart broken, but suppose you don’t ask questions if
you might not like that answer. I’m having trouble
dealing with this, how can she move on so fast

You never see anything

Kriss216:

You never see anything

Mad man

awesonjr:
It’s been 2 and a half weeks since we broke up from our relationship, I have just found out she is talking to
other men. I can’t even look at another women. I’m
heart broken, but suppose you don’t ask questions if
you might not like that answer. I’m having trouble
dealing with this, how can she move on so fast

because her mode of transportation is AIR [JET ]

Lol, you should understand that while she's with you, she already knows your replacement.

Iyaebe:
Mad man

Olosho!

because they were other options while she was still with you...she just switch options, dts all

I'm sorry to hear your break-up is causing you to feel so hurt and alone. It is really difficult to understand how someone who claimed to love you can move on so quickly, though I suspect some people just don't actually feel very deeply or maybe they are just more resilient and 'bounce back' more quickly.

Hmmmm, he be like say you just start relationship. My bro better move on. If Barcelona lost it hurt me more than loosing a girl.

Simple...
It could be because she wasn't involved as deeply as you were...

Or she already broke up with you, long before your break up was official...

Or she was using you to catch cruise and had already found a "more worthy partner"...

Or maybe she is using that as a way of dealing with the hurt of the break up...

Either ways Sha ...
Don't follow in her footsteps...
Take time and heal before going into another relationship, so that you don't take out your unhealed hurt on the next innocent lady...

Cos she's not a tree

Issokay!!!!

@ OP, have it at the back of your mind that no one is irreplaceable and these ladies also have contingency bf's which they fall back to after break ups of little misunderstanding which they are not sure it would be resolved anytime soon...

Now that she has moved on, you must have CUM to your senses

@op who initiate the breakup? The what reasons? She must be cheating before breakup officially .

Those new guys she's talking to were never new, you just never knew

What a pity.

On a more serious note, a lot of people bash TheGIDRedpiller but if only you paid attention to what he and other men have been preaching.
You'd understand how she could move on fast.

On this forum , the redpill has been condemned but just like the gospel of Christ after the death of Christ, it has been met with resistance.


Dear Op my only advise for you is to swallow the redpill and get done with the simping life full of pain and misery .

awesonjr:
It’s been 2 and a half weeks since we broke up from our relationship, I have just found out she is talking to
other men. I can’t even look at another women. I’m
heart broken, but suppose you don’t ask questions if
you might not like that answer. I’m having trouble
dealing with this, how can she move on so fast

You shouldn't expect her to start crying over the breakup..life goes on..you gotta move on with it..

You have to pick up yourself and stop reminiscing about the past..

awesonjr:
It’s been 2 and a half weeks since we broke up from our relationship, I have just found out she is talking to
other men. I can’t even look at another women. I’m
heart broken, but suppose you don’t ask questions if
you might not like that answer. I’m having trouble
dealing with this, how can she move on so fast

Look, taking your time to heal properly after a breakup is the smart thing to do.



If she's in a hurry then she's not ready to heal.


Just focus on yourself and you'll be glad you did.

so this new year never still give you sence qhen i dey find money so,, oga carry your heart go one syd

You will break up with a Nigerian lady today only to find out she's already in an 8months relationship. You're still a learner. REDPILL is for you!!!!

She's just as sad and as heartbroken as you are, those other guys are her distractions... they'll probably just pump and dump her.

She already had a replacement before breaking up. I don see shege for girls hand. This days I just stay on my own and chase the bag. Chill man it will go away but don’t forget to learn

Go and drop on your sword. Generation of weaklings. Every thread is about them bitching about one girl or the other.

Girls will never take most of you serious. They'll still prefer to share the high value man with other women than to have weak men all to themselves.

She for dey wait for u na. Nonsense!

awesonjr:
It’s been 2 and a half weeks since we broke up from our relationship, I have just found out she is talking to
other men. I can’t even look at another women. I’m
heart broken, but suppose you don’t ask questions if
you might not like that answer. I’m having trouble
dealing with this, how can she move on so fast

There many beautiful women out there, look for one to hang out with.

Break up is funny...mine is fresh too...about a month ago...My girl thought that I was actually joking when I told her that she's stopped making time for me and I can't be someone's option B ....I noticed quite a lot of changes...She just ghost on me and when she's back, it's all about money ....I'm a very smart guy who will never waste my money on a bitch but guess what, I walked into a wristwatch store, paid for a watch and got it delivered to her as a surprise...That's how big boys break up, she never knew that I want her to always remember that anytime she's putting that watch on, it's because I was in her life at a point...I always wonder how you can satisfy a girl but I ain't seen nothing valid yet.... I'm staying out of relationship for a while cos it truly don't worth it.
Meanwhile, all thru our relationship of 5 years, she didn't buy me any tangible gift but I bought her phones, watches, clothes, even paid for her exams but it's like she grew bored of me and wanted to try something new...I understand this and I called her to explain to her that I'm signing out since she's too shy to say it .

She moved on so fast because u have been like this to her.

ayobamiJR:
Break up is funny...mine is fresh too...about a month ago...My girl thought that I was actually joking when I told her that she's stopped making time for me and I can't be someone's option B ....I noticed quite a lot of changes...She just ghost on me and when she's back, it's all about money ....I'm a very smart guy who will never waste my money on a bitch but guess what, I walked into a wristwatch store, paid for a watch and got it delivered to her as a surprise...That's how big boys break up, she never knew that I want her to always remember that anytime she's putting that watch on, it's because I was in her life at a point...I always wonder how you can satisfy a girl but I ain't seen nothing valid yet.... I'm staying out of relationship for a while cos it truly don't worth it.
Meanwhile, all thru our relationship of 5 years, she didn't buy me any tangible gift but I bought her phones, watches, clothes, even paid for her exams but it's like she grew bored of me and wanted to try something new...I understand this and I called her to explain to her that I'm signing out since she's too shy to say it .

Na man you be.
No time

@OP

Ladies never leave a relationship unless they have found another one. All the while she was dating you, she was busy searching for a man with a value higher than yours, but you didn't notice. After finding that man, she continued dating you alongside him, with the hope that you will come to your senses and improve your life up to the standard of the kind of man she desires. But since you never did, she decided to dump you and move one with the new man who she was dating while contemplating dumping you.

If you check the last period of your relationship, you will see that the lady had been giving you strange attitudes like not calling, not visiting, not responding to your messages on time etc. It was during that period she met her new man who brought in a new form of excitement which rendered you boring.

she never gave a shit about you, just like most women, I pity any clown wey carry woman head for matter, she has options , why you still dey form lover boy LMAO.

When hoodville said her new nigga ain’t NEW, you just never KNEW

Even when she was dating you, she already knew who was next.

Lol.. you should be happy for her na