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Re: Stupid Questions To Avoid As A Bachelor Or Spinster by Animegirl(f): 8:50am On Jan 09, 2022
Exactly, especially when will you marry. People ask me this even when I'm still young. angry

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Re: Stupid Questions To Avoid As A Bachelor Or Spinster by Smokezz(m): 8:50am On Jan 09, 2022
[quote author=Wizpa post=109205833]Questions that make people hate you (stupid questions to avoid as a bachelor)

1. When will you get a job: In a digital age where alot of businesses are online, people make 6-7 figures from there living room, this question would be appropriate if we were still living in an industrial age. Only unexposed people ask such kind of questions.

It's easy for most of you to come online and type garbage..

Tell us the business in practical terms that you do as a Nigerian online ND u r earning that figures..

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Re: Stupid Questions To Avoid As A Bachelor Or Spinster by Nobody: 8:50am On Jan 09, 2022
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Re: Stupid Questions To Avoid As A Bachelor Or Spinster by Sabadon(m): 8:51am On Jan 09, 2022
RodgersAkpafu:

What does SB mean ?
Please can someone explain this post?
sb means somebody but i really dont understand what the poster meant

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Re: Stupid Questions To Avoid As A Bachelor Or Spinster by Sunisonflex39(m): 8:53am On Jan 09, 2022
Good morning Abeg someone should help me for 500 or 1k to use buy garri hold body till Tuesday.. abeg

20894710...74. Zenith
Thank u
Re: Stupid Questions To Avoid As A Bachelor Or Spinster by RodgersAkpafu: 8:54am On Jan 09, 2022
Sabadon:
sb means somebody but i really dont understand what the poster meant
I see
Re: Stupid Questions To Avoid As A Bachelor Or Spinster by chatinent: 8:55am On Jan 09, 2022
Lemmy123:


LOL, I'm still trying to understand this tho

Edited. Read again.
Re: Stupid Questions To Avoid As A Bachelor Or Spinster by WarAgainstBegga: 8:55am On Jan 09, 2022
chatinent:
That one no dey pain.

Wetin pain pass na if a party was thrown in the compound...and you are the only manchelor from the compound ....then after some photo shootouts, sb tells you: “no, no, you collect my phone back.”


At that moment, you go understand that not all that glitters is golden morn.
This one just calm down write rubbish embarassed

"no, no, you collect my phone back"...... What is the meaning of that? Mtcheeeew

Nawa o......

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Re: Stupid Questions To Avoid As A Bachelor Or Spinster by Nobody: 8:55am On Jan 09, 2022
Wizpa:
Questions that make people hate you (stupid questions to avoid as a bachelor)

1. When will you get a job: In a digital age where alot of businesses are online, people make 6-7 figures from there living room, this question would be appropriate if we were still living in an industrial age. Only unexposed people ask such kind of questions.

2. When will you get married: marriage is not meant for everyone and except you are ready to support financially, this topic should stay out of your lips. Getting married is one thing, staying married is another.

3. Why are you still awake by this time: while you are enthused about your 9-5, you won't expect someone else to be like you... most mental work is done in the midnight and the best decisions of ones life are made during times.

4. Why eat outside instead of cooking your food: we all know how expensive gas is in nigeria, how time consuming cooking can be, and the energy you put into it while still thinking of preserving the left overs except you have a fridge. Taking a stroll to your favourite canteen wont only save you time and energy but will get you a delicious meal.

5. Did you go to church or why didn't you go to church: Excuse me!!, serving God shouldn't be a routine but a willingness (from your heart). Times you feel energetic to go to church might be the time someone else needs to sort things out. Do not be self righteous/hypocritical.

Feel free to add yours


These are questions as a person you don't like , not me. Stop unnecessary generalisation . Imposition of your way of life on the things you accept and don't accept on others is highly unnecessary. Why you are trying to keep yourself private also respect other people's way of life.

I don't consider any question you wrote here as stupid ,

Humans try to drive conversation with others by any way possible, in fact that is why you are here to share it, looking for comments and support. If everybody mind their business you would not be here looking for likes and comments. You don't like the questions, it doesn't mean others don't like it and don't assume we all should stop welcoming such questions because they are uncomfortable for you. That will be dictatorial and an invasion on my own privacy

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Re: Stupid Questions To Avoid As A Bachelor Or Spinster by chatinent: 8:55am On Jan 09, 2022
RodgersAkpafu:

What does SB mean ?
Please can someone explain this post?
Sb: somebody.
Re: Stupid Questions To Avoid As A Bachelor Or Spinster by RodgersAkpafu: 8:57am On Jan 09, 2022
chatinent:

Sb: somebody.
What about what you said in the quote
What does that one mean
Re: Stupid Questions To Avoid As A Bachelor Or Spinster by Gorillabrain: 8:58am On Jan 09, 2022
Naxo one useless girl dey ask me" when last did you had sex? I say, make she go ask her papa for house. Confused gender.

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Re: Stupid Questions To Avoid As A Bachelor Or Spinster by chatinent: 8:58am On Jan 09, 2022
WarAgainstBegga:

This one just calm down write rubbish embarassed

"no, no, you collect my phone back"...... What is the meaning of that? Mtcheeeew

Nawa o......

I don't write rubbish.

Maybe your brain read rubbish.
Re: Stupid Questions To Avoid As A Bachelor Or Spinster by RodgersAkpafu: 8:58am On Jan 09, 2022
prekumohtim:



These are questions as a person you don't like , not me. Stop unnecessary generalisation . Imposition of your way of life on the things you accept and don't accept on others is highly unnecessary. Why you are trying to keep yourself private also respect other people's way of life.

I don't consider any question you wrote here as stupid ,

Humans try to drive conversation with others by any way possible, in fact that is why you are here to share it, looking for comments and support. If you don't like the questions, it doesn't mean others don't like it and don't assume we all should stop welcoming such questions because they are uncomfortable for you. That will be dictatorial and an invasion on my own privacy
?
Re: Stupid Questions To Avoid As A Bachelor Or Spinster by Nobody: 9:01am On Jan 09, 2022
Wizpa:
Questions that make people hate you (stupid questions to avoid as a bachelor)

1. When will you get a job: In a digital age where alot of businesses are online, people make 6-7 figures from there living room, this question would be appropriate if we were still living in an industrial age. Only unexposed people ask such kind of questions.

2. When will you get married: marriage is not meant for everyone and except you are ready to support financially, this topic should stay out of your lips. Getting married is one thing, staying married is another.

3. Why are you still awake by this time: while you are enthused about your 9-5, you won't expect someone else to be like you... most mental work is done in the midnight and the best decisions of ones life are made during times.

4. Why eat outside instead of cooking your food: we all know how expensive gas is in nigeria, how time consuming cooking can be, and the energy you put into it while still thinking of preserving the left overs except you have a fridge. Taking a stroll to your favourite canteen wont only save you time and energy but will get you a delicious meal.

5. Did you go to church or why didn't you go to church: Excuse me!!, serving God shouldn't be a routine but a willingness (from your heart). Times you feel energetic to go to church might be the time someone else needs to sort things out. Do not be self righteous/hypocritical.

Feel free to add yours

NO 4 is a very sensible question...as eating out can damage your pocket and savings well well, while cooking can save you money.

You may be paying for gas if you cook indoors as well as ingredients and so on, but the eatery you are eating out from is paying for gas plus rent, staff salaries, ingredients, staff welfare, building costs, repair costs, upgrading facilities cost, etc etc...

As for no3, there are many single people still doing things like studying or whose work involves them working at night. (No5 too ...some singles are working on Sundays or other holy days especially those in essential services. NTA once did a feature on a radio Nigeria worker who had missed Xmas for several years...work.)

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Re: Stupid Questions To Avoid As A Bachelor Or Spinster by Fiscus105(m): 9:04am On Jan 09, 2022
I pity foolish who will key in into ur post most especially on marriage
Re: Stupid Questions To Avoid As A Bachelor Or Spinster by Nobody: 9:08am On Jan 09, 2022
Animegirl:
Exactly, especially when will you marry. People ask me this even when I'm still young. angry

E get why cheesy..if you are a girl, the palaver is 'kids'. Not to hurry you, but women have a limited time to have children (it's best to have all your kids by 34. Some women begin to experience menopause by 35.One thing one of my relatives who ended up with early menopause is thankful for is that she had all her kids before then). Also, the older you get, the more risky the pregnancy.

For girls and guys, late marriage can also lead to you being a pensioner and sponsoring kids though school (not funny)

But don't hurry, and keep on enjoying life. But e get why...and some of those bugging you have seen too many horror tales that began with 'Late marriage'.

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Re: Stupid Questions To Avoid As A Bachelor Or Spinster by Nicepoker(m): 9:08am On Jan 09, 2022
GAY
FERNANDEZISBACK:
Why don't you talk to people/why don't you have friends...what?that's how I wanna live not everyone loves the mental stress of talking too much..

Why are you always quiet...that's a very disrespectful question..it's just like saying why am I always talking...

Why are you homosexual.. what that's my personal life you don't pressure me with unnecessary questions...it's just like asking why are you straight?
Those points stated above are private questions that you should learn to avoid asking people....I had to say this before some uncultured beings would slide into my mention to insult me.
. cheesy grin grin wink wink
Re: Stupid Questions To Avoid As A Bachelor Or Spinster by Nobody: 9:08am On Jan 09, 2022
FERNANDEZISBACK:
Why don't you talk to people/why don't you have friends...what?that's how I wanna live not everyone loves the mental stress of talking too much..

Why are you always quiet...that's a very disrespectful question..it's just like saying why am I always talking...

Why are you homosexual.. what that's my personal life you don't pressure me with unnecessary questions...it's just like asking why are you straight?
Those points stated above are private questions that you should learn to avoid asking people....I had to say this before some uncultured beings would slide into my mention to insult me.
. cheesy grin grin wink wink
why r you homosexual grin grin
Re: Stupid Questions To Avoid As A Bachelor Or Spinster by Wokenaija: 9:08am On Jan 09, 2022
Nobody asks about your business and how it can get better first thing is when “will you get married ?!”
After asking you,” when will you get married ?” Publicly. In private they will come and ask you for money.
I have concluded to do things at my own pace, last last na baby mama go solve the problem.
The girl they want you to marry is even a liability.

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Re: Stupid Questions To Avoid As A Bachelor Or Spinster by Nobody: 9:09am On Jan 09, 2022
lalasticlala:
Number 5 is annoying.

Brother lala,leave nairaland and go to church to key into your blessing for the day. wink
Re: Stupid Questions To Avoid As A Bachelor Or Spinster by FERNANDEZISBACK: 9:10am On Jan 09, 2022
Hammyaladin:
why r you homosexual ;D grin
Re: Stupid Questions To Avoid As A Bachelor Or Spinster by Lemmy123(m): 9:10am On Jan 09, 2022
chatinent:


Edited. Read again.

Still isn't making much meaning...

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Re: Stupid Questions To Avoid As A Bachelor Or Spinster by Nobody: 9:11am On Jan 09, 2022
FERNANDEZISBACK:

lol. It's a harmless question grin cool
Re: Stupid Questions To Avoid As A Bachelor Or Spinster by FERNANDEZISBACK: 9:11am On Jan 09, 2022
Nicepoker:
GAY
Do I look like someone of your gender.. sad. shocked
Yve been stalking me for the past 3 days just to get my attention..leave me alone you this boy..no be by force..

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Re: Stupid Questions To Avoid As A Bachelor Or Spinster by FERNANDEZISBACK: 9:12am On Jan 09, 2022
Hammyaladin:
lol. It's a harmless question grin cool
grin
Re: Stupid Questions To Avoid As A Bachelor Or Spinster by Animegirl(f): 9:14am On Jan 09, 2022
backbencher:


E get why cheesy..if you are a girl, the palaver is 'kids'. Not to hurry you, but women have a limited time to have children (it's best to have all your kids by 34. Some women begin to experience menopause by 35.One thing one of my relatives who ended up with early menopause is thankful for is that she had all her kids before then). Also, the older you get, the more risky the pregnancy.

For girls and guys, late marriage can also lead to you being a pensioner and sponsoring kids though school (not funny)

But don't hurry, and keep on enjoying life. But e get why...and some of those bugging you have seen too many horror tales that began with 'Late marriage'.

Lol, even if they say such. I don't know if I want to marry sef, menopause or not.

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Re: Stupid Questions To Avoid As A Bachelor Or Spinster by 6ixT8: 9:17am On Jan 09, 2022
anybody wey bring yeye quetion reach you. Ball up and tell them to mind their bussiness.

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Re: Stupid Questions To Avoid As A Bachelor Or Spinster by Mizwalterz(f): 9:20am On Jan 09, 2022
sorry to speak outside the topic..
but please I need to learn how to make money online.
I have a laptop, phone, and I love staying up late at night...
Re: Stupid Questions To Avoid As A Bachelor Or Spinster by 6ixT8: 9:22am On Jan 09, 2022
Animegirl:


Lol, even if they say such. I don't know if I want to marry sef, menopause or not.

oya come lets reason together. U tick my specs.
Re: Stupid Questions To Avoid As A Bachelor Or Spinster by Nobody: 9:29am On Jan 09, 2022
FERNANDEZISBACK:
Why don't you talk to people/why don't you have friends...what?that's how I wanna live not everyone loves the mental stress of talking too much..

Introversion is good, but sadly, even speaking as a fellow introvert, man no be island.

Why are you always quiet...that's a very disrespectful question..it's just like saying why am I always talking..

cheesy I had to laugh. And when you start talking....

Why are you homosexual.. what that's my personal life you don't pressure me with unnecessary questions...it's just like asking why are you straight?

Hmm, maybe you should query those people who are asking you that question...how do they know signs of being gay?

Those points stated above are private questions that you should learn to avoid asking people....I had to say this before some uncultured beings would slide into my mention to insult me.. cheesy grin grin wink wink
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This is Nigeria. Your business is everybody's business. Even Europe and the US that we admire...it was like that until very very recently history wise.

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