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TheGidRedpiller:
Men should stop living their lives in moviesi have noticed many simps just think good women are everywhere because of some stupid movie they watch especially the loosers who watch korean series with their sisters at home
This is the real world! Women are completely rouge out here!
Married men suffer in their homes big time even when they would never come out to admit it because of society.
Men hate appearing weak, and i love that fact about myself too, i would rather say everything is fine and keep enduring the multiple arrow piercings on my back!
For marriage its the same although in this case you could prevented it!
Married men die on a daily basis, but they would appear with smiling faces and people would buy it, when they die, the same people would attend his burial and mourn.
Then the biittch who killed him at home will move on with what he left behind and even get remarried, even after his death, he still looses!
THE MARRIED MAN LOOSES TILL THE END!
Be Wise
TRP IS GOLDEN!!

The people that believe things in the movies i think their brain is of 80s, as for me i watch romance movies to know more simps things man do apart from that i gain nothing from it

TheGidRedpiller:
The top celebrities of today know what they are doing brother, before you will see the likes of Davido and Wizkid marry

Very well. They've met different kinds of women. And they got to understand how these things works.. Hence their decisions not to marry.. Any man who value his peace of mind ,should stay away from these hookup ladies of nowadays. Marry them and your peace of mind is gone..

luvyaself95:
The person you doesn't know you're here saying he is fooling around nawa for oh

Let them say whatever they want to say. Opinions will always be own by the opinion givers

BigYash:
Very well. They've met different kinds of women. And they got to understand how these things works.. Hence their decisions not to marry.. Any man who value his peace of mind ,should stay away from these hookup ladies of nowadays. Marry them and your peace of mind is gone..

I receive mails from married men and i know what they are going true, i accept that most times i drift away because of my rage portrayal but HEY!! Real life examples are attesting to the authenticity of what i post! So WTF?!

TheGidRedpiller:
Of course marriage is sweet, but please i beg of you, don't slack in that thing that is currently keeping your lovely wife. Because if you loose that thing, you will be back here to cry, thats a promise.

I return back to you a thousand fold. Must you be classless?
I will seriously appreciate her of all she can go for me is just five years. Do you know how difficult I am? For a woman to still hang on with me till this moment is no joke.
Go and get married and stop crying like a kid.

..in as much that some of your posts makes sense .. some of your mosts aren't really logical as you claim. it's making you misjudge everything because you've been blinded by hate

TheGidRedpiller:
I receive mails from married men and i know what they are going true, i accept that most times i drift away because of my rage portrayal but HEY!! Real life examples are attesting to the authenticity of what i post! So WTF?!

Do you know how many billions of married people dey this world, so just because a few samples of them go with what you posted means everything is like that? you nor get sense ni?
Do you know how many billions also dey live happily? why you nor use those ones as example.?.. in your posts you generalized everything.. like marriage is entirely bad.. you nor well.. your redpill don make you dey dogmatic sha.. you better post with sense

TheGidRedpiller:
A Lot Of Men Are Getting The Wrong Ideas; MARRIAGE DOESN'T MAKE YOU A MAN!! It Only Makes You A Burden Bearer, You Job However Is To Make Sure That The Burden Is Worth Bearing!!

WHAT ACTUALLY MAKES YOU A MAN IS WHAT YOU COMMAND!!

leemao... that's for those who got married to people who has nothing to offer them, or who were blinded by love and ignored all the red flags.... be wise.. marriage laws aren't the same everywhere. have sense

stop generalization.. it makes you judge people foolishly sometimes ... mosts of your posts mostly sound like real hatred towards ALL WOMAN. Na your type dey make people misinterprete redpill..

Felimax:
I dated for almost five years and has been in marriage for more than five years now. Yes, marriage is tough and not for kids but with the right wisdom and know how marriage has been my best decision so far.
I love my wife because of the level of person I found in her and so far so good I have no regret.
Last month, we went out together dancing and flexing our Union together.
When you are not married just shut up and stop making a fool out of yourself.
Marriage is the only thing you don't learn from outside.
Do you know how it feels when your angel look at you in the eyes and say in her next life if any, she still want to get married to you? Then you know you are a real man.
Continue typing, I am reading.

You talk as if the way your marriage is that how others marriage are and beside your woman tell you in next her life she would still choose you as her man and make you a real man automatically, You better be watching your back

TheGidRedpiller:
It takes time, she is still enjoying the benefits of your ring, be patient, wait!

You have no idea bro. Like I have not seen the worst! Funny guys! Marriage is so scary abi?
Now take this from me, for every man or woman that cries about their spouse in marriage, you should understand that both parties has been key players in whatever happens to be their predicament.
Marriage is never so easy and not always so sweet but been single cannot be compare to it in any manner whatsoever.
I told my wife I will be very glad if she can just do even one year in marriage with me yet she has done five and with beautiful blessings and kids I don't joke with.
The kids are my biggest cash out. So funny! Even if she decides God forbid to follow one fool today it does not remove the fact that the guy will only eat my left over.
Do you know what it means to disvirgin your wife?

why do you people mostly sound like only women decieve. men also decieve. so as you de talk about women, dey talk about men too.

men dey cause heartbreak, women too dey cause heartbreak. men cheat, women too cheat.. just open your eyes to whoever you are dealing, not just women.

TheGidRedpiller:
I receive mails from married men and i know what they are going true, i accept that most times i drift away because of my rage portrayal but HEY!! Real life examples are attesting to the authenticity of what i post! So WTF?!

Men are seriously going through hell, in the hands of these women..
They will pretend to be angels before marriage, after marriage they will turn beast .. A man will now become a prisoner in his own house.. And the society keep supporting the ladies in treating men bad.. The whole thing is so Bleep*d up my nigga..

Felimax:
I return back to you a thousand fold. Must you be classless?
I will seriously appreciate her of all she can go for me is just five years. Do you know how difficult I am? For a woman to still hang on with me till this moment is no joke.
Go and get married and stop crying like a kid.

You are man, you are the one offering the marriage here big brother, women need marriage, you offered her a golden egg, why would she refuse it?

My point exactly: Your wife had no choice, its her duty to deal with you no matter what, you are not difficult, every man has his flaws, what you subconsciously mean by her having to deal with you is the fact that she no longer have that freedom to mess around. You know what i mean by that, i'd prefer to not flare anything up so i'm not going into that detail.

THINK!! Women are naturally selfish and narcissistic, your wife is with you for a reason, understand this fact! If not for anything, at least your ring was enough!

TheGidRedpiller:
It takes time, she is still enjoying the benefits of your ring, be patient, wait!

which kind of stupid mindset is this? do you actually want them to break up so it can go with you posts? so you can justify yourself... your own version of redpill is actually engraved with hatred.. very stupid

Nice.

Felimax:
I dated for almost five years and has been in marriage for more than five years now. Yes, marriage is tough and not for kids but with the right wisdom and know how marriage has been my best decision so far.
I love my wife because of the level of person I found in her and so far so good I have no regret.
Last month, we went out together dancing and flexing our Union together.
When you are not married just shut up and stop making a fool out of yourself.
Marriage is the only thing you don't learn from outside.
Do you know how it feels when your angel look at you in the eyes and say in her next life if any, she still want to get married to you? Then you know you are a real man.
Continue typing, I am reading.

luvyaself95:
You talk as if the way your marriage is that how others marriage are and beside your woman tell you in next her life she would still choose you as her man and make you a real man automatically, You better be watching your back

Funny, I don't even have a back neither a front. All these marriage counselors for Nairaland!
You thought marriage is my biggest cash out? No! My kids in wedlock.
Leaving a legacy and building an empire for them. Marriage can go anytime but not my kids. Get the drift.

Reminderz:
Do you know how many billions of married people dey this world, so just because a few samples of them go with what you posted means everything is like that? you nor get sense ni?
Do you know how many billions also dey live happily? why you nor use those ones as example.?.. in your posts you generalized everything.. like marriage is entirely bad.. you nor well.. your redpill don make you dey dogmatic sha.. you better post with sense

Thats why analysis exist man. If you eat a bitter food in one resturant, you go to another resturant in the same street and still meet a bitter food, what would you assume
Then if you now go and on and on in that same street and you still meet bitter food, what would be your conclusion brother??

Thats is what we call ANALYSIS, calculating excesses and approximating them to the nearest 100 percent, didn't you treat PROBABILITY in secondary school

Felimax:
You have no idea bro. Like I have not seen the worst! Funny guys! Marriage is so scary abi?
Now take this from me, for every man or woman that cries about their spouse in marriage, you should understand that both parties has been key players in whatever happens to be their predicament.
Marriage is never so easy and not always so sweet but been single cannot be compare to it in any manner whatsoever.
I told my wife I will be very glad if she can just do even one year in marriage with me yet she has done five and with beautiful blessings and kids I don't joke with.
The kids are my biggest cash out. So funny! Even if she decides God forbid to follow one fool today it does not remove the fact that the guy will only eat my left over.
Do you know what it means to disvirgin your wife?

If its really true you married your wife a virgin, then i apologise for misjudging. You Sir are a very lucky man. Enjoy your marriage.

BigYash:
Men are seriously going through hell, in the hands of these women..
They will pretend to be angels before marriage, after marriage they will turn beast .. A man will now become a prisoner in his own house.. And the society keep supporting the ladies in treating men bad.. The whole thing is so Bleep*d up my nigga..

Its not funny at all, its definitely not funny!

Reminderz:
which kind of stupid mindset is this? do you actually want them to break up so it can go with you posts? so you can justify yourself... your own version of redpill is actually engraved with hatred.. very stupid

Leave them! My own mother did worst. Seeing visions and prophesying why my relationship will not even last a year. Today, we are almost eleven years together.
God forbid, even if it fails it does not remove the fact there are couples who are already celebrating 10, 20,30 and even 50 years in marriage.
I still prefer marriage than f**king around like a kid. At least now I have a purpose and reason for living, each time I see my kids, intelligent like they are I feel so accomplished. They see me as if I am a god in their life. It is so sweet!

Felimax:
Funny, I don't even have a back neither a front. All these marriage counselors for Nairaland!
You thought marriage is my biggest cash out? No! My kids in wedlock.
Leaving a legacy and building an empire for them. Marriage can go anytime but not my kids. Get the drift.

You are beginning to make sense.

Reminderz:
Do you know how many billions of married people dey this world, so just because a few samples of them go with what you posted means everything is like that? you nor get sense ni?
Do you know how many billions also dey live happily? why you nor use those ones as example.?.. in your posts you generalized everything.. like marriage is entirely bad.. you nor well.. your redpill don make you dey dogmatic sha.. you better post with sense

Do you know that the divorce rate in the united states is more than 70%? That is 7 out of every 10 marriages will end in divorce. Does that seem like "sample" to you.

There are at least two ways that wise men can tell what the future holds.
1) By considering past experience
2) By considering experience/mistakes of those around him presently

Now given the condition that Nigeria is in today and the direction that his general culture seems to be pointed, would you choose 1 or 2 in your decision-making?

Felimax:
I dated for almost five years and has been in marriage for more than five years now. Yes, marriage is tough and not for kids but with the right wisdom and know how marriage has been my best decision so far.
I love my wife because of the level of person I found in her and so far so good I have no regret.
Last month, we went out together dancing and flexing our Union together.
When you are not married just shut up and stop making a fool out of yourself.
Marriage is the only thing you don't learn from outside.
Do you know how it feels when your angel look at you in the eyes and say in her next life if any, she still want to get married to you? Then you know you are a real man.
Continue typing, I am reading.

I'm not against your comment. Thank God your marriage is going well but the bolded weak me o. So you are now a real man because she looked you in the eyes and said that. Weren't you a real man before? So until a
lady validates a man such man is not a real man or what are you trying to explain there?

Felimax:
Do they really need to advise him? It is his choice you know.
The kind of prestige and power marriage gave me I never enjoyed when I was single and thoughts I was smart.
From mainland to island I thought I was a champ. I became a real man the day I gave her my ring and my happiest day when I had my first child in wedlock.
I prayed all my life never to have a child outside wedlock. The feeling was so ecstatic, couldn't wait to get to Warri to see her face. Marriage is sweet jare!

In other word you were an adultrated, knock-off, baroof man before you gave her your ring?

Felimax:
Leave them! My own mother did worst. Seeing visions and prophesying why my relationship will not even last a year. Today, we are almost eleven years together.
God forbid, even if it fails it does not remove the fact there are couples who are already celebrating 10, 20,30 and even 50 years in marriage.
I still prefer marriage than f**king around like a kid. At least now I have a purpose and reason for living, each time I see my kids, intelligent like they are I feel so accomplished. They see me as if I am a god in their life. It is so sweet!

Pay attention to the bolded, your accomplishment is not your wife, its your children.

I love the fact that you know how to place your priorities, but i hope you remember that children can be gotten without marriage

Its unbelievable that you actually married your wife a virgin, i'm still trying to accept that, but if what you said is true, count yourself a very lucky man, you are blessed!

Hanibbal:
I'm not against your comment. Thank God your marriage is going well but the bolded weak me o. So you are now a real man because she looked you in the eyes and said that. Weren't you a real man before? So until a
lady validates a man such man is not a real man or what are you trying to explain there?

I still don't believe his wife was a virgin when he married her, i mean, in today's world?

TheGidRedpiller:
You are man, you are the one offering the marriage here big brother, women need marriage, you offered her a golden egg, why would she refuse it?

My point exactly: Your wife had no choice, its her duty to deal with you no matter what, you are not difficult, every man has his flaws, what you subconsciously mean by her having to deal with you is the fact that she no longer have that freedom to mess around. You know what i mean by that, i'd prefer to not flare anything up so i'm not going into that detail.

THINK!! Women are naturally selfish and narcissistic, your wife is with you for a reason, understand this fact! If not for anything, at least your ring was enough!

I seriously understand your point.
You think it is all women that will accept your hand in marriage? Think twice bro.

Marriage is another form of slavery, it's not for everyone

Felimax:
Funny, I don't even have a back neither a front. All these marriage counselors for Nairaland!
You thought marriage is my biggest cash out? No! My kids in wedlock.
Leaving a legacy and building an empire for them. Marriage can go anytime but not my kids. Get the drift.

You know if you where in your early 20's in the window of 1990~1994, this mentality would still make sense, in fact I would wager that this age group are the last generation of men to actually reap something of value from marriage. Today? Simply not possible. One can try self-deceit with delusions such as "my kids are my reward", the trouble with this reasoning is that there are much easier possible arrangements for obtaining kids than an actual marriage.

Felimax:
I seriously understand your point.
You think it is all women that will accept your hand in marriage? Think twice bro.

Brother, every woman that has HIT THAT WALL will accept your marriage proposal even if its just 24 hours after first meeting you.
Marriage Is The Ultimate Achievement For Women, Without This, They Are Invalid!

TheGidRedpiller:
I receive mails from married men and i know what they are going true, i accept that most times i drift away because of my rage portrayal but HEY!! Real life examples are attesting to the authenticity of what i post! So WTF?!

I still don’t understand why married men tend to hide the humiliations they face in their marriages.. this women of today can f** u up anytime. eg Kaffy recently. The only gain from a woman is kids and sexual relief nuthing else.