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Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by DMerciful(m): 4:48pm On Jan 12, 2022 |
He could have married another woman if you let him know during courtship that sex is optional. He was the victim first! If you're not ready to fulfill your conjugal duties, don't marry. If you want children, who says you can't be a single mother? Do not lead people to temptation by denying them their conjugal right and causing different reactions safarigirl: 4 Likes |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by Nobody: 4:48pm On Jan 12, 2022 |
socialmediaman: And is the man not someone's son? Take ya time ooo 2 Likes |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by ablejesus26(m): 4:49pm On Jan 12, 2022 |
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Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by safarigirl(f): 4:54pm On Jan 12, 2022 |
DMerciful: LOL Are you a child? There are times when sex will not be on the table, there are times when sex will be an option. If your wife is pregnant, there are periods she will medically be unable to have sex If she has postpartum, she may not want to have sex. There are times when people are too weak and mentally stressed for sex, both men and women. When some men are having issues at work, they may not want to have sex. Marriage is for many many years, decades, and even a nymphomaniac will one day, not be in the mood for sex, so, what is this childish talk about marrying someone else? Some of you just come here to talk like kids. Your idea of marriage is laughable. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by ablejesus26(m): 4:56pm On Jan 12, 2022 |
Bouncing2: Can you just imagine how much suffering we are facing with all this yeye forieng ideas wey oyinbo man bring enter our society Our fathers didn't have to go through such stress ooo. My late grandma Jenet was educated and almost richer than my Giant Grandpa Izu. But I can't imagine him go through such mental and physical stress,asin how watin wan cause am� Oyinbo man don spoil our women finish ooo chia who will save our daughters from oyinbo man oooo�� 2 Likes
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Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by domnwan(m): 4:59pm On Jan 12, 2022 |
ibechris:God bless you bro or sis, the woman caused her problem and if I were the man, upon pleading with her, I'll let her be and arrange for a second wife or a mistress. 1 Like |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by DMerciful(m): 5:00pm On Jan 12, 2022 |
Can't you see how insulting you are? Did I insult you when I mentioned you? If she has issues bothering her, can't she communicate? Again, if she's not ready for marriage, it's not a must to marry. Marriage comes with responsibilities safarigirl: 2 Likes |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by Bouncing2(m): 5:02pm On Jan 12, 2022 |
ablejesus26:Thank you very much!!. Imagine SIMPING just to claim my supposed conjugal right . The fact she's richer or older than the man doesn't mean,,,,,she must bow, that's our rightful tradion. Feminism is cool and beautiful,, but mek pesin no carry am near me 1 Like |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by cuteralph101(m): 5:03pm On Jan 12, 2022 |
How can you say you love your wife and forced your way through...there's no justification to that and if ur wife was a victim of rape before u met her then u need to do too much to ease her up. If u were you. I would beg her on my knees I will lie down even and cry if I have to. Doing this doesn't mean I'm weak shows that I'm willing to do anything to save the marriage cos if she still refuses after a month or 2. Side chick or second wife straight. E no get how e want be |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by nrexzy: 5:06pm On Jan 12, 2022 |
Ecne:Very simple |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by ibechris(m): 5:07pm On Jan 12, 2022 |
domnwan: Hahahha. U are sooo funny honestly. |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by Ladyhippolyta88(f): 5:22pm On Jan 12, 2022 |
Mom007:Free will is not the enemy, why didn't God take that from us? You are in no place to urge me to do what I may or may not be willing to do and marriage isn't a bond(age) maybe for you but not for me and never should anybody put others above themselves if it will result to their own detriment it is not selfishness but human survival instinct 101. Free will is not selfishness just because my outlook or view about marriage is different from yours. Your advice was unrealistic and that marriage has already broken no need for a long sermon on pretence. The wife needs a therapist and all the help she needs from her rapist husband. 2 Likes |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by goody2019: 5:27pm On Jan 12, 2022 |
No woman denies her husband for no reason, the most obvious, recurring reason is: SOMETHING is taking care of her aside, which is unspeakable, hence the silence. 1 Like |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by safarigirl(f): 5:30pm On Jan 12, 2022 |
DMerciful: At no point did I insult you I said you sound like a child. That is a statement of FACT. I said your idea of marriage is laughable, that is ALSO a statement of fact. You are clearly an emotional person, that is why you have assumed you were insulted. When you are ready to talk like an adult and bring up arguments that can come from an adult, I will address you as an adult. Until then, stay away from marriage. It really is not a must to marry and marriage is not for children. |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by vannessa7(f): 5:31pm On Jan 12, 2022 |
i926: It's not normal o, that woman doesn't love the man, period, she is very guilty in this scenario driving her husband over the edge with lack of sex, I pity the op a lot because it's like the wife can't stand him at all refusing sex for weeks, he must really irritate her, I'm a woman so I understand the feeling, if a woman cant stay the touch of a man there is nothing the man will do right, maybe he smells bad or there is no longer chemistry between them on the wife side, it's better to divorce her than abuse her anyway, everyone deserves true love and care. 3 Likes |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by Twoclans(f): 5:32pm On Jan 12, 2022 |
Hmmmmmmm This thread sha |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by Mom007(f): 5:38pm On Jan 12, 2022 |
[quote author=Ladyhippolyta88 post=109311908] Free will is not the enemy, why didn't God take that from us? You are in no place to urge me to do what I may or may not be willing to do and marriage isn't a bond(age) maybe for you but not for me and never should anybody put others above themselves if it will result to their own detriment it is not selfishness but human survival instinct 101. You clearly don't know much about God. God didn't give us free will. God created man in a perfect state for obedience to His every instruction. Sin gave us free will. Eating from the tree of the knowledge of good and bad gave us free will. We now like to decide for ourselves to do or not to do things and that has drawn us farther and farther away from God. See the result in the world in general. Who am I to tell you what to do? Am I your creator? The things He said not to do sef are the things we humans take pleasure in doing and claiming free will! If you will not listen to God, is it me you will listen to? But don't flaunt Gods rules about life and marriage then when things go bad you run to social media and play the victim. If you are not ready to submit in marriage, do not marry! God is not a feminist. 1 Like |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by President2001(m): 5:39pm On Jan 12, 2022 |
Is not good as you rape her seek the face of God for forgiveness Most of this woman can push someone to misbehave such a thing want to happen when I called my wife the first time she declined same thing second time third time when I want to call her again I determine she will decline since 3 months I'm just looking at her |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by Slayar: 5:39pm On Jan 12, 2022 |
hashtagged: How old are you? Unable to argue sensibly? Ode. |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by insabarnur(m): 5:42pm On Jan 12, 2022 |
Not bragging I'm a good judge of xter but I think your just a victim of what would have busted out differently have u had a little patience. As a sentier, I've already sensed that the period of denial is longer than what you said and it cause you feel guilty. Sorry, not a prophet of doom but your wife have long left you like God left Nigeria.. She has her reasons though and I see a very long and painful outcome. |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by Ladyhippolyta88(f): 5:44pm On Jan 12, 2022 |
[quote author=Mom007 post=109312328][/quote] I can not keep up with the argument because I don't like religious arguments. I am not a submissive person and never will be and I don't care if the Christian God is a feminist I have the free will to become one and yes I am a feminist 1 Like |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by DMerciful(m): 5:45pm On Jan 12, 2022 |
I see that you're pretty rude and insultive, no wonder you support the woman wholeheartedly. I won't respond to you any further. Have a nice day! safarigirl: 1 Like |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by Cantonese: 5:49pm On Jan 12, 2022 |
ibechris: That’s the challenge with Nairaland where you have reckless and irresponsible youths like you who choose to be abusive. People like you put decent people off this platform. If the word “myopic” is rude, then I wonder if you passed elementary English. I know you are still a very little boy, single and with no experience of how marriages work. What you have no idea about, simple shut your mouth and let those who are knowledgeable teach you. |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by Slayar: 5:51pm On Jan 12, 2022 |
Guys need to start practising polygamy. If gay rights can be forced on us,why not polygamy? Monogamy in today's modern society favours women more and this is the result.Women will become your Lord and as their slaves they use sex as a reward and weapon . Waiting for the foolish simp that will quote me. If its a woman,I will understand. |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by Dfr0: 5:53pm On Jan 12, 2022 |
Why will a woman deny her husband sex for long You don’t have to rape her you punish her by going outside to have sex She will beg you for it when she is ready |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by luvyaself95(m): 6:05pm On Jan 12, 2022 |
Person wey you suppose to turn to dead person in your mind because of s*x you simp and offend her now she will have more power over you. 1 Like |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by pansophist(m): 6:08pm On Jan 12, 2022 |
You Committed two punishable crimes (rape and violence), as well as the social consequences associated with it. You messed up big time man. A very bad move. To avenge something that isn't legally punishable (eg sexual starvation), you don't commit a punishable crime (rape and violence). You avenge by boycotting her affairs, stop eating her food, introduce a new wife to break her sexual monopoly, and let her divorce you herself. Just be indifferent to her. You see, this is better than rape and violence. You'll punish her better that way, and she will know that she caused it herself. No police can arrest you this way unlike rape and violence. You could have just signed off in your mind about sex with her, and explore other ways of satisfying yourself. Of course this is under the assumption that you're not responsible for her behaviour. There is a rule that I abide by, and it is that " I won't keep up with my own obligations if the other signatory does not keep up with theirs". You wanna stop having sex with me as a punishment? Okay, good. Just know that I've boycotted your honeypot permanently. Don't be someone that a woman will dangle sex like a carrot, and you'll be starved. You can't say "I love you" to me, while keeping me hor.nyy. That's fake. I probably will not have sex with her again. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by OlawaleBammie: 6:13pm On Jan 12, 2022 |
ablejesus26: @ur second statement, do u mean there is nothing like rape in this saga?? U must have done what the op did if it was u |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by Nobody: 6:21pm On Jan 12, 2022 |
A man who cannot control himself has no business marrying. Self control is what makes a man. @op, you raped your wife and that is criminal. Everything goes in that lawless jungle called Nigeria. In a lawful society, you will be behind bars and be a registered sex offender for a very long time. |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by FBIBOT(m): 6:25pm On Jan 12, 2022 |
flakkybakky: LOL... depends on their old relationship and love they shared now op fučk up Sha... Raping a woman will make her detest you x1000.... There are tons of way to put her in the mood 1 Like |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by gbemishile: 6:30pm On Jan 12, 2022 |
It sounds like u had pre existing issues already that warrant that slap and rape,so I would say that aspect of rape is ur fault. On the issue of denying u sex ehn. If it ever comes up in my marriage,I would simply walk away and get in touch with another woman for sex. Life no hard,na we dey make am complex |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by Countersam(m): 6:35pm On Jan 12, 2022 |
Noah9: If you promise to repent and maturely work out your couple issues which includes 'sex allowance', give me her number I will talk sense Into her in your behalf. But no just fall my hand afterwards. |
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