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GetMeRight:
Nonsense and trash as usual. I got married ten years ago when I was collecting NYSC allowee of N19,800 monthly. Got back from service and took up a job of monthly stipend of N10,000.
Last year alone, I invested 5.5 million naira. Today is January 12, 2022, I already invested additional 2.4 million naira this year. 2021, 2020, and way back like that. And I'm in a marriage! Am I in slavery? May be you should go and try to understand the word "responsible" first.

Saturn444:
This boy dedicates precious time fooling around and no one is advising him.

Felimax:
I dated for almost five years and has been in marriage for more than five years now. Yes, marriage is tough and not for kids but with the right wisdom and know how marriage has been my best decision so far.
I love my wife because of the level of person I found in her and so far so good I have no regret.
Last month, we went out together dancing and flexing our Union together.
When you are not married just shut up and stop making a fool out of yourself.
Marriage is the only thing you don't learn from outside.
Do you know how it feels when your angel look at you in the eyes and say in her next life if any, she still want to get married to you? Then you know you are a real man.
Continue typing, I am reading.

TheGidRedpiller:
To all the married simps in this thread, before you go ahead calling me a boy or terming me as INEXPERIENCED, ask yourself this question; Are You In Advantage More Than Your Wives?
Answer this question first, then we can continue the arguement from there.

placeofallure:
Don't mind the miseducationist. I'm not a man but I'm married. I've been for a decade now. My husband can't stop gushing over how meaningful his life has been. He's holding me as I type. Mr. Redpiller shouldn't marry if it suits him but many won't buy his lies. Every weekend, people still tie the knot, so....

Jeferious:
I'm neither a simp nor a redpiller, but lemme get some straight.....marriage aside, weren't you expecting to grow? Abi Obi would be a boy forever? Sometimes you people would provide arguments that miss the crucial point totally. Whether it's out of ignorance or mischief, I just can't tell.

Alusiizizi:
They say the truth is bitter but must be told. This is the truth about modern marriages. The truth is the red pill and the red pill is a bitter pill to swallow. At the same time swallowing the red pill is a matter of choice. [s] Marriage and a life of useless slavery or freedom and a chance to attain glory and position? [/s] The choice is yours.

lolu2019:
[s] all those married simps,they are mad people. [/s] The earlier u stay away from women the longer ur life.the problems I have now was caused by women. Better u just go to club jeje and follow a stripper.

lolu2019:
all those married simps,they are mad people. The earlier u stay away from women the longer ur life.the problems I have now was caused by women. Better u just go to club jeje and follow a stripper.

TheGidRedpiller:
This is one bitter truth everyone has to digest whether they like it or not. I'm being specific about this age we are in.
Most of them wished they never even met their wives not to talk of marrying them and the rest wished they never even considered marriage in the first place!
Women will want to exploit the leverages they have in the 21st century, they want their opinions to count even when it is baseless and most times one-sided.
The women of this age only know how to wh0re not handle men, they love the idea of marriage but none of them want to be wives!
You are not wrong to refer them as household demons because they will torture you emotionally and psychologically. The worst part of the situation is that you as a man don't really have a choice, you have fallen in the trap by signing those marriage documents and you are completely stuck with the devil for life!
Still Typing...

Bukola94:
please for God sake, don't cause confusion to our men. There is no marriage without any challenge, the way you handle it makes you the real man, if you handle it in a mature way. The first ever love and marriage have it challenges. even though it is God that makes it happen in the first place. Please sir, take it easy, you were born and u too will want to have children and it continues like that till the end of time

Bukola94:
rubbish! that shows you are irresponsible. I can rap and deal with any man I like. It depends on how cool headed u are, if you do any how, you go do see how. that is my principle

Hanibbal:
I'm not against your comment. Thank God your marriage is going well but the bolded weak me o. So you are now a real man because she looked you in the eyes and said that. Weren't you a real man before? So until a
lady validates a man such man is not a real man or what are you trying to explain there?

Saturn444:
It is madness to say the soup is bitter when you have not tasted it.

You are not qualified to define what life is. I have had it all and dined with women from almost all continents but nothing can be compared to the joy of settling with a woman who truly knows the nature of our reality and what we are here for.

Marriage is a spiritual union, so you are naive. Public opinion is your nonsense. I talked about family not public.

AllahIsSatan:
Red pilling doesn't apply to ALL women, just a handful of exploitative ones.

Nigerians are applying the Red Pill concept in ways that don't make sense.

GetMeRight:
Nonsense and trash as usual. I got married ten years ago when I was collecting NYSC allowee of N19,800 monthly. Got back from service and took up a job of monthly stipend of N10,000.
Last year alone, I invested 5.5 million naira. Today is January 12, 2022, I already invested additional 2.4 million naira this year. 2021, 2020, and way back like that. And I'm in a marriage! Am I in slavery? May be you should go and try to understand the word "responsible" first.

Czario:
Lol...but why do married men like to hype their marriages even when it's obvious they're not that happy especially when advising single guys.. ?

I know a guy who can't stand his wife and serially cheats on her but he can bullshit about how great his marriage is when advising younger men.

Too many married men like him...why can't they just be real

PS I'm really happy for the genuinely happy ones...

phemorhino:
Enter small financial difficulties for 1year and aee how it plays out

placeofallure:
Don't mind the miseducationist. I'm not a man but I'm married. I've been for a decade now. My husband can't stop gushing over how meaningful his life has been. He's holding me as I type. Mr. Redpiller shouldn't marry if it suits him but many won't buy his lies. Every weekend, people still tie the kndot, so....

SoftChordz:
only a fool will wait to get a taste of lime to know it doesn't taste good after most ppl that tasted it cringed their faces and only few were able to smile.. probability, percentage, ratio, mathematics doesn't lie. There are good girls but 90% of Nigerian girls ain't shitttt. Nothing to write home about at all. Just like OP said, they all love the idea of marriage but don't want to be wives

Saturn444:
I see stupidity in your statistics. You do not even have the confidence to stand in front of a real woman and you are quoting 90% of your little jobless blokes you chat with it.

You and the OP are just construction workers that are yet to see the building at its completion.

AllahIsSatan:
Red pilling doesn't apply to ALL women, just a handful of exploitative ones.

Nigerians are applying the Red Pill concept in ways that don't make sense.

Curious346:
Life is too short. Take it seriously

Felimax:
God's continuous blessings on your union in Jesus name. At least if nothing marriage will give you a purpose, a reason to be alive. Marriage has made me feel so godly. Whenever I am home alone and family is not around I feel so empty.
Just as there are not too good women all around likewise there are very useless men all around, so one will now start stereotyping because of what?
My younger brother is there forming James Bond, changing women like boxers, approaching his 40 yet he will tell me he wants to marry like me and there are no good girls again which is a big fat lie, if I tell you the yardstick I use in picking my wife. She was the kind of woman every man will run from but I saw gold in her, took her, bathe her and made her glow. After taking her for a photoshoot before I left Warri she couldn't believe her beauty and today after 3 kids she more beautiful than ever, with good and better curves that drives me mad each time I see her.
A lot of men nowadays don't know how to choose a woman, they stupidly do on people's approval.
So you make the wrong choice by not putting God first then you will come and blame it on the woman.
Shey Dem force you marry her?

placeofallure:
God bless your marriage. You two will enjoy a special grace that marriage brings till forever and a day.
They don't know how enjoyable it is. My oga just dropped his guitar now. He's been playing and I have been singing to the tunes. We stopped cause I need to go make dinner. They don't know, if only they know.

Felimax:
Thanks a bunch.

TheGidRedpiller:
At this point, you just disgust me.

Bukola94:
rubbish! that shows you are irresponsible. I can rap and deal with any man I like. It depends on how cool headed u are, if you do any how, you go do see how. that is my principle

lolu2019:
all those married simps,they are mad people. The earlier u stay away from women the longer ur life.the problems I have now was caused by women. Better u just go to club jeje and follow a stripper.

Felimax:
Bullshit! All my years clubbing, I never picked a stripper, no matter how clean or beautiful. From Romeo and Juliet, to Lori Igba, Vegas and what have you. I go clubbing with some Angola chicks and that is just it.
I don't get stained no matter what. I have my principles and I kept it.
It got to a point it has to be with my wife or nobody.
I always opt for class. Not some strippers just too clean for that.
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