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Arguing every time can make your love relationship boring and in most cases, it can lead to a break-up.

While this is a natural tendency in some people, most lovers argue a lot if they spend quality time together most of the time, really love each other, or do not have most things in common.

Arguing can help your love relationship to be better but if you do not understand how to argue effectively, and resolve issues after arguing, it can reduce the spark in your love.

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Overtime, each one finds more things to hate about the other, and the sense of incompatibility becomes heightened.

For those in a serious love relationship or already married, How do you resolve arguments with your boyfriend/girlfriend or husband/wife respectively?

OP...
The best way to resolve a misunderstanding is to talk about it with an open mind...

When there's a misunderstanding, you don't argue to win or to prove you're right, if you do that, your partner may just keep quiet just to allow peace reign but deep down, you've gone a step apart from each other...

So communicate clearly without throwing blames and pointing fingers, you just state how what he/she did that made you feel the way you're feeling...

And be sure to do this without being abusive...

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Favfables1:
OP...
The best way to resolve a misunderstanding is to talk about it with an open mind...

When there's a misunderstanding, you don't argue to win or to prove you're right, if you do that, your partner may just keep quiet just to allow peace reign but deep down, you've gone a step apart from each other...

So communicate clearly without throwing blames and pointing fingers, you just state how what he/she did that made you feel the way you're feeling...

And be sure to do this without being abusive...

Nice one

Favfables1:
OP...
The best way to resolve a misunderstanding is to talk about it with an open mind...

When there's a misunderstanding, you don't argue to win or to prove you're right, if you do that, your partner may just keep quiet just to allow peace reign but deep down, you've gone a step apart from each other...

So communicate clearly without throwing blames and pointing fingers, you just state how what he/she did that made you feel the way you're feeling...

And be sure to do this without being abusive...

Too much sense

Haakeem:
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Share what's there here if it's relevant.

I don't like argument...

I would rather take my time and find the best time to discuss about it.

As long as we are both open minded to resolve the issue, it should go smoothly

helinues:
I don't like argument...

I would rather take my time and find the best time to discuss about it.

As long as we are both open minded to resolve the issue, it should go smoothly

The good here is to have a partner who does not like argument like you, or at least low tempered.