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Do We Still Have Good Marriages In Nigeria? by SenecaTheYonger: 10:46am On Jan 16, 2022
Nigerian Men Share Beautiful Stories Of How They Can’t Do Without Their Wives And What They Face In Their Wives’ Absence.

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Re: Do We Still Have Good Marriages In Nigeria? by Kriss216: 10:56am On Jan 16, 2022
Believe everything you read up there at your own detriment.

The rate of divorce and breakups should open a sane man's eyes of what marriage means these days.

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Re: Do We Still Have Good Marriages In Nigeria? by Ogamysamo: 11:12am On Jan 16, 2022
Kriss216:
Believe everything you read up there at your own detriment.

The rate of divorce and breakups should open a sane man's eyes of what marriage means these days.
The Fact That Some Are Starving Doesn't Mean No One Is Feasting, Get That Into Your Brain And Stop Using Some Peoples Predicament As A Reason For Not Believing Others' Stories.
For There's No General Formula In Marriage

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Re: Do We Still Have Good Marriages In Nigeria? by SenecaTheYonger: 11:25am On Jan 16, 2022
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Re: Do We Still Have Good Marriages In Nigeria? by SenecaTheYonger: 11:25am On Jan 16, 2022
Kriss216:
Believe everything you read up there at your own detriment.

The rate of divorce and breakups should open a sane man's eyes of what marriage means these days.


Nairaland don brainwash this one.

I’ve told you before, only bad news are posted here because good news don’t sell.

And to prove that, this thread will die in page 1.

Dey try commot from Nairaland once once

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Re: Do We Still Have Good Marriages In Nigeria? by Nobody: 1:28pm On Jan 16, 2022
Ogamysamo:

The Fact That Some Are Starving Doesn't Mean No One Is Feasting, Get That Into Your Brain And Stop Using Some Peoples Predicament As A Reason For Not Believing Others' Stories.
For There's No General Formula In Marriage

If sense was a comment ..
This would definitely be it...
Thumbs up chief...

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Re: Do We Still Have Good Marriages In Nigeria? by Opeyemiextra(f): 1:42pm On Jan 16, 2022
Ogamysamo:

The Fact That Some Are Starving Doesn't Mean No One Is Feasting, Get That Into Your Brain And Stop Using Some Peoples Predicament As A Reason For Not Believing Others' Stories.
For There's No General Formula In Marriage
I'm glad when I see comments like this. As long as it's possible that marriage should work, I have made up my mind and working it that mine would work and that should be the mindset. I see beautiful homes around me and it gives me hope. Are there bad ones? Of course, yes but that only encourages to work towards mine.

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Re: Do We Still Have Good Marriages In Nigeria? by Ogamysamo: 2:22pm On Jan 16, 2022
Opeyemiextra:

I'm glad when I see comments like this. As long as it's possible that marriage should work, I have made up my mind and working it that mine would work and that should be the mindset. I see beautiful homes around me and it gives me hope. Are there bad ones? Of course, yes but that only encourages to work towards mine.

Thanks For Such A Good Decision, You Can Do It And Even Better If You Believe And Really Takes Serious Steps Toward Actualising It.

The Only Almighty Formula I Know Exist In Marriage Is Understanding(Which House Endurance, Patience, Love, Service, Contentment and Every Other Things That May Make A Marriage Work Out Well)
Let The Wive Acknowledge The Masculinity Of Her Man And Let The Husband Acknowledge The Feminity Of His Wife.
I Doubt If A Marriage That 100% Acknowledge This Fact And Stick To It Can Ever Be Anything Close To Bad Marriage.

Nobody Is Perfect And Thus Only Those Who Expect A Perfect Wife Or Husband End Up In Bad Marriage.
Re: Do We Still Have Good Marriages In Nigeria? by Ogamysamo: 2:28pm On Jan 16, 2022
Favfables1:


If sense was a comment ..
This would definitely be it...
Thumbs up chief...
thank you sir/ma! i thumps up more sir/ma(sry it bcs ur gnda isn't kwn)
Re: Do We Still Have Good Marriages In Nigeria? by Nonexisting: 3:37pm On Jan 16, 2022
I refuse to believe social media love stories again in this lifetime. For a start, most of those fake stories were written by vaginarians disguised as men.

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Re: Do We Still Have Good Marriages In Nigeria? by Kriss216: 5:13pm On Jan 16, 2022
Nonexisting:
I refuse to believe social media love stories again in this lifetime. For a start, most of those fake stories were written by vaginarians disguised as men.
God bless you, brother. You sense is existing
Re: Do We Still Have Good Marriages In Nigeria? by 99thEnemy(m): 10:03pm On Jan 16, 2022
Nonexisting:
I refuse to believe social media love stories again in this lifetime. For a start, most of those fake stories were written by vaginarians disguised as men.

Fati2001 aka Jeon grin


grin dem don shake your table..... how far? grin grin grin
Re: Do We Still Have Good Marriages In Nigeria? by Ogamysamo: 7:17pm On Jan 20, 2022
Kriss216:

God bless you, brother. You sense is existing
after declaring himself as nonexisting? everything about him is nonexisting including the post and the point he is driving at

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Re: Do We Still Have Good Marriages In Nigeria? by MufasaLion: 7:18pm On Jan 20, 2022
I'm married to the internet. Been serving me since 1805.
Re: Do We Still Have Good Marriages In Nigeria? by eazzzy1(m): 1:43pm On Jan 21, 2022
While there are good marriages everywhere, missing someone isn’t an indication of a good marriage. Couples can hate themselves and still feel the absence of their partners.

The same reason people find it difficult to break bad habits, it becomes part of your identity that you don’t feel like you anymore if you stop doing it. People fight the entire duration of their relationships and still miss their partners when they breakup. Heck, if they never did anything fun together at all, they will miss not having someone to fight with.

Men in particular struggle to cope with change, the same reason most men take long to decide if they want to get married and take longer to decide if they want a divorce from a bad marriage.

A man can live in a one bedroom apartment all his life, drive one car for 25 years and be comfortable with it until a woman shows up in his life. First she wants to change his furniture arrangement, then upgrade to a bigger house, then a bigger one. Women are catalysts for change, good changes or bad changes, a woman never remains the same for long.
Re: Do We Still Have Good Marriages In Nigeria? by Sonnobax15(m): 1:44pm On Jan 21, 2022
lipsrsealed
Marriage can be sweet when you're in it with the right person...But when that doesn't mean you should think marriage is generally bad simply because the rate of divorces is high......The same way people dey break up everyday,na so many people still dey marry everyday too cool
Re: Do We Still Have Good Marriages In Nigeria? by eazzzy1(m): 1:57pm On Jan 21, 2022
Opeyemiextra:

I'm glad when I see comments like this. As long as it's possible that marriage should work, I have made up my mind and working it that mine would work and that should be the mindset. I see beautiful homes around me and it gives me hope. Are there bad ones? Of course, yes but that only encourages to work towards mine.


While this is very sweet and positive, you can’t speak in absolutes when dealing with other people. A marriage doesn’t necessarily have to be bad for people to want a divorce.

You can play your part in making your marriage work, can you play your partners part too? You can vow not to cheat, can you vow for your partner? You can choose to overlook his cheating, what if he wants to be with the person he’s cheating with?

It’s best to do your best but prepare for the worst, so if (and a very big if) the worst happens, you won’t be caught unawares.
Re: Do We Still Have Good Marriages In Nigeria? by Ishilove: 3:59pm On Jan 21, 2022
Ogamysamo:

The Fact That Some Are Starving Doesn't Mean No One Is Feasting, Get That Into Your Brain And Stop Using Some Peoples Predicament As A Reason For Not Believing Others' Stories.
For There's No General Formula In Marriage
Don't mind him. If this thread was about woe and divorce, he won't ask us to disbelieve. Agents of perdition.

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Re: Do We Still Have Good Marriages In Nigeria? by chatinent: 7:08pm On Jan 21, 2022
Love my wife.

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Re: Do We Still Have Good Marriages In Nigeria? by DonroxyII: 10:38am On Jan 26, 2022
Opeyemiextra:

I'm glad when I see comments like this. As long as it's possible that marriage should work, I have made up my mind and working it that mine would work and that should be the mindset. I see beautiful homes around me and it gives me hope. Are there bad ones? Of course, yes but that only encourages to work towards mine.

Add God to the Mix and Blend it all to Your Mindset trust Me, Your Home will Work as far you allow God and Science(Reasonableness) to Lead.

The reason for Most Divorce is the absence of the Principles of God.

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