hahaha....what a very smart lady!why must she study abroad for her phd?no more schs in nigeria?u want to be busy with ur sidechicks around?I JUST DONT TRUST U!!

MPESA:




It's not always about us but our kids future as well.

bros,better move with your children... That ur wife lazy!

Realchairmann:
This is kinda confusing to me. I've been married to my beloveth wife for 11 years and counting. God has blessed us with three kids of ten, four and a year old. We are having a wonderful Union and time of our lifes.

For sometime now, I've been nurturing the idea of relocating abroad. My wife has BSc and MSc in Microbiology but has been jobless since she concluded her NYSC the year we got married. I'm ready to sponsor her for PHD to any country of her choice to pave way for I and the kids to follow later.

However, she has turned me down whenever I brought up the issue. Her response is always tied around the bond we share and that she can't just leave her kids and travel abroad.

I have a good paying job but I really want her to explore her potentials too. She's a very good wife and an excellent mother but I'm confused why she's skeptical about leaving this Country.

Or am I the one taking too much risk?

Don't Force her....if she insists on not going,let her be......if she goes there and remarry,she will always blame you for coming up with the idea..my opinion.

Realchairmann:
This is kinda confusing to me. I've been married to my beloveth wife for 11 years and counting. God has blessed us with three kids of ten, four and a year old. We are having a wonderful Union and time of our lifes.

For sometime now, I've been nurturing the idea of relocating abroad. My wife has BSc and MSc in Microbiology but has been jobless since she concluded her NYSC the year we got married. I'm ready to sponsor her for PHD to any country of her choice to pave way for I and the kids to follow later.

However, she has turned me down whenever I brought up the issue. Her response is always tied around the bond we share and that she can't just leave her kids and travel abroad.

I have a good paying job but I really want her to explore her potentials too. She's a very good wife and an excellent mother but I'm confused why she's skeptical about leaving this Country.

Or am I the one taking too much risk?

She wants to remain a housewife, she loves the concept of you been the only provider, whilst she continuously puts her feet up ............

DarkJeddi:
Not everyone must have PhD..

If she's not interested..

Let her be..

It's not laziness..

There are other career choices..

leave the PhD issue... Living the country is the major agenda!

uthlaw:
bros,better move with your children... That ur wife lazy!

I'm not the one o , I was qouting someone ni.. btw you said it all, the woman seems to be lazy now but what if her husband die or loss his job , how will they survive.

remitarich:
SHE MUST HAVE HER OWN REASONS FOR THAT...

shut up there you daughter of Jezebel

The only reason she doesn't what to relocate is because she fvcked someone outside her marriage and gave birth to a bastard, and the simp of her husband doesn't know that he is taking care of another's man son
And for a married people to relocate, you must bring evidence of DNA results

That I'm sure she is trying to avoid.

Go alone first, when she sees how you are faring there, she will have a change of mind.

She's not interested.

MPESA:



I'm not the one o , I was qouting someone ni.. btw you said it all, the woman seems to be lazy now but what if her husband die or loss his job , how will they survive.

she look for someone else to marry her because she own a pussy!

This man don't u have sense. Country allow people move with their families even with study visa. Your wife has a year old kid and u want to ship her abroad. How will she listen to you? She loves her children and she cannot leave them. Either she goes with them or she goes no where.b

womenareapess:
shut up there you daughter of Jezebel

The only reason she doesn't what to relocate is because she fvcked someone outside her marriage and gave birth to a bastard, and the simp of her husband doesn't know that he is taking care of another's man son which
And for a married people to relocate, you must bring evidence of DNA.

That I'm sure she is trying to avoid.

i laugh u
mannerless human....

Realchairmann:
This is kinda confusing to me. I've been married to my beloveth wife for 11 years and counting. God has blessed us with three kids of ten, four and a year old. We are having a wonderful Union and time of our lifes.

For sometime now, I've been nurturing the idea of relocating abroad. My wife has BSc and MSc in Microbiology but has been jobless since she concluded her NYSC the year we got married. I'm ready to sponsor her for PHD to any country of her choice to pave way for I and the kids to follow later.

However, she has turned me down whenever I brought up the issue. Her response is always tied around the bond we share and that she can't just leave her kids and travel abroad.

I have a good paying job but I really want her to explore her potentials too. She's a very good wife and an excellent mother but I'm confused why she's skeptical about leaving this Country.

Or am I the one taking too much risk?

In my opinion, the energy you are using to ask for our opinion should be channeled in having this conversation with her.

She might be scared that leaving you and her children would make her vulnerable. The truth is you never can know until you have that conversation with her and not us

Some women like to be housewife.

No matter what u offer, they won't take it.

Your wife is one of them

No be everybody wan Japa.

uthlaw:
if prayer work on everything, no poor man will be poor in Nigeria!

If Education works why can't the OP's wife get job since 11years now, even with her Msc?
You guys just like opening your mouth to say nonsense everyday.

uthlaw:
leave the PhD issue... Living the country is the major agenda!

Lol..

Why do you all presume to think for the woman?

It might surprise you..

But not EVERYONE is hyped about living abroad..

Stop looking for trouble. Sponsor her PhD in prestigious University here in Nigeria. It's wrong for her to be studying in abroad and the children will be here with you. My cousin brother, relocated to Canada with his wife and three children in 2019 but they all moved once as family

She should go for another MSc in human resources management...a very lucrative career path abroad. However, I see village people in action!

Realchairmann:
This is kinda confusing to me. I've been married to my beloveth wife for 11 years and counting. God has blessed us with three kids of ten, four and a year old. We are having a wonderful Union and time of our lifes.

For sometime now, I've been nurturing the idea of relocating abroad. My wife has BSc and MSc in Microbiology but has been jobless since she concluded her NYSC the year we got married. I'm ready to sponsor her for PHD to any country of her choice to pave way for I and the kids to follow later.

However, she has turned me down whenever I brought up the issue. Her response is always tied around the bond we share and that she can't just leave her kids and travel abroad.

I have a good paying job but I really want her to explore her potentials too. She's a very good wife and an excellent mother but I'm confused why she's skeptical about leaving this Country.

Or am I the one taking too much risk?

When i saw the heading only my mind just said your wife na witch but when I read I know she is not.
You want send her go exile
The risk is too much. It's normally the order way round.
Little story real life story
One nurse was so sick she was referred abroad for treatment. She traveled to California then after 3months and has been treated no money to pay hospital bills.she told them she was a nurse.that how she started working in the hospital that treated her.she clear her bills and saved for some months carry all her husband and family members one of her son was my class mate then and house maid to California.

Use that money and start business for her or let her be.

Kobojunkie:
Your wife has a masters and has been jobless for 11 years. Does she even harbor desires to obtain a PhD on top of what she has so far, or are you the one making that decision for her to obtain a PhD as well?

You want her to explore her "potentials" but why aren't these "potentials" explorable with the masters she currently has?

If she don't want to go abroad for PhD,and assuming it is her desire to begin with, what is wrong with paying for her to obtain one right there in the country?,

She is a lazy lady with no career ambition. They are all over, once they get married piam they just loose guard.

It will take God to help you cos you're not alone. Another way is to tell her that you will go and leave every single one of them. Sikena

Realchairmann:
This is kinda confusing to me. I've been married to my beloveth wife for 11 years and counting. God has blessed us with three kids of ten, four and a year old. We are having a wonderful Union and time of our lifes.

For sometime now, I've been nurturing the idea of relocating abroad. My wife has BSc and MSc in Microbiology but has been jobless since she concluded her NYSC the year we got married. I'm ready to sponsor her for PHD to any country of her choice to pave way for I and the kids to follow later.

However, she has turned me down whenever I brought up the issue. Her response is always tied around the bond we share and that she can't just leave her kids and travel abroad.

I have a good paying job but I really want her to explore her potentials too. She's a very good wife and an excellent mother but I'm confused why she's skeptical about leaving this Country.

Or am I the one taking too much risk?

The answer you seek is in your post. Why do you think that your wife has the same dream for herself? Not everyone like the things you wish for them. Maybe she is contented with her life just the way it is. Why do you want to cause trouble for yourself?

Realchairmann:
This is kinda confusing to me. I've been married to my beloveth wife for 11 years and counting. God has blessed us with three kids of ten, four and a year old. We are having a wonderful Union and time of our lifes.

For sometime now, I've been nurturing the idea of relocating abroad. My wife has BSc and MSc in Microbiology but has been jobless since she concluded her NYSC the year we got married. I'm ready to sponsor her for PHD to any country of her choice to pave way for I and the kids to follow later.

However, she has turned me down whenever I brought up the issue. Her response is always tied around the bond we share and that she can't just leave her kids and travel abroad.

I have a good paying job but I really want her to explore her potentials too. She's a very good wife and an excellent mother but I'm confused why she's skeptical about leaving this Country.

Or am I the one taking too much risk?

Are you leaving your kids behind?

Realchairmann:
This is kinda confusing to me. I've been married to my beloveth wife for 11 years and counting. God has blessed us with three kids of ten, four and a year old. We are having a wonderful Union and time of our lifes.

For sometime now, I've been nurturing the idea of relocating abroad. My wife has BSc and MSc in Microbiology but has been jobless since she concluded her NYSC the year we got married. I'm ready to sponsor her for PHD to any country of her choice to pave way for I and the kids to follow later.

However, she has turned me down whenever I brought up the issue. Her response is always tied around the bond we share and that she can't just leave her kids and travel abroad.

I have a good paying job but I really want her to explore her potentials too. She's a very good wife and an excellent mother but I'm confused why she's skeptical about leaving this Country.

Or am I the one taking too much risk?

My brother, a lot of married women here in abroad are eating Koboko from fine boy abroad. You also want your wife to be included.

But on the reverse side, these are the things you could have discussed with her even before you married her. ..so that when such opportunity comes, she wouldn't be able to resist it...

Courtship and dating time is for questioning and sharing great ambition with your fiance and not for kissing and blowjobbing

uthlaw:
if prayer work on everything, no poor man will be poor in Nigeria!

This is a wrong belief.....

Prayer works on everything...

U have to come with a clean heart and follow the rules.....

God is no respecter of person.... What a man sows...He shall reap...

She's not interested like she told you. She's contented at the moment or you can find more way to convince her so she can go

uthlaw:
she look for someone else to marry her because she own a pussy!

I Don comot my hands on this thread.

Relocate and leave her behind
He that is fall behind,left behind

InvertedHammer:

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Send your wife abroad for studies after 11 years marriage and join her later?

If second and younger wife dey hungry you, be man enough to say so. Your wife could see through your shenanigans.

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The only valid truth in the whole thread. Bros wants freedom to cheat.

Person wey get msc and bsc no get work for that long u won add PhD join,all this degree na just wahala una dey carry,how u go present msc bsc PhD for HR wey no get non of them

DarkJeddi:
Lol..

Why do you all presume to think for the woman?

It might surprise you..

But not EVERYONE is hyped about living abroad..

no,I'm not presuming for her,what I'm saying is that,the husband agenda is for them to leave the country,and if she is not hyped about living abroad,the husband should go with is children!