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I Am Tired Of My Mom / I Am Tired Of My Marriage / "I Am Tired Of Seeing My Husband's Hard Joystick Every Morning!" - Nigerian Lady (2) (3) (4)
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Re: I Am Tired Of My Wife by Walkee: 9:02am On Jan 17, 2022 |
Prospertochu:oga your wife should be going to the market early morning to buy things from farmers and resell later. If you live in the village she should start planting small small crops 1 Like |
Re: I Am Tired Of My Wife by Walkee: 9:08am On Jan 17, 2022 |
Kobojunkie:so his mother should be left to rot on the streets? Una no just get sense. If he dies today his wife will marry another man. If he has sense sef he should leave them. The children will normally not even remember him sef since he will definitely die at least 30 years earlier than his wife 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Am Tired Of My Wife by Walkee: 9:12am On Jan 17, 2022 |
Realestbae:shut the fucck up, kid 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I Am Tired Of My Wife by Walkee: 9:31am On Jan 17, 2022 |
Landmack:you can't even read to comprehend yet you keep littering this whole place with your moral high ground filth. Since when did one need to continually lay a lady to birth triplets? Abi you no know wetin triplets mean? I hope you know he could have easily abandoned her and the children in the hospital like most men do especially since he never wanted to marry her and was forced to? 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Am Tired Of My Wife by Walkee: 9:35am On Jan 17, 2022 |
eyinjuege:children of almost 3 years drinking formulae and sucking breast? Are all the females on this forum 16 years old? Most mothers stop breastfeeding their children after 1 year 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Am Tired Of My Wife by FairlyUSEDpussy: 10:02am On Jan 17, 2022 |
Prospertochu: I wish all the curses wud gum her pretty soon....amen Not everyone welcomes shitty talk bout their mothers........ @realestbae How could u type that stupid?? How cud u type so rudely bout someone’s mum who u have neither met nor spoken to?? 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Am Tired Of My Wife by FairlyUSEDpussy: 10:09am On Jan 17, 2022 |
Kobojunkie: Bros read that post very well and the guy’s response!!! He said “THE WIFE COULD LEAVE THE KIDS AT HOME WITH HIS MUM.......WHILE SHE WORKS TO AUGUMENT” 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Am Tired Of My Wife by Kobojunkie: 10:14am On Jan 17, 2022 |
FairlyUSEDpussy:Leaving the kids at home is one thing... mandating the mother to care for the kids - take them on as her full-time responsibility - is something else. Children at that age need someone who will give them full attention and not someone who will sit back and let them lay in their filth until their mother comes home from her job to care for them. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Am Tired Of My Wife by FairlyUSEDpussy: 10:25am On Jan 17, 2022 |
Kobojunkie: Does the mum still need or mandated to take care of her grandkids while the parents r away working Truth is the wife doesn’t want to work.......stating poor salary as her reason not even the kids........ 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Am Tired Of My Wife by Kobojunkie: 10:42am On Jan 17, 2022 |
FairlyUSEDpussy:Yes, she does! Don't assume all grandmothers are the same. She needs to understand that this is itself a full-time job and not a gig where she can lay back and let the kids fend for self. Imagine this! The cost of hiring someone to do what she currently does for her three kids is about 180k a month. Of what good will it be for her to abandon her children with someone who probably won't care half as much, only so she can go make an extra 20 - 30k a month while her babies are denied the care they deserve? |
Re: I Am Tired Of My Wife by swarley75(m): 11:13am On Jan 17, 2022 |
OP can't you use your common sense for once, you are a big idiot, can your wife treat her own mother like that? To all the single guys out here, never get married to a parasite or a liability. my elder sister always tells me this no matter how beautiful a girl is, if she doesn't have a good job or a business I should never consider getting married to such a girl 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Am Tired Of My Wife by FairlyUSEDpussy: 11:46am On Jan 17, 2022 |
Kobojunkie: Still ......don’t believe or assume a grandma needs to be told/mandated to look after her grandkids.......no matter how u explain....... Isn’t money needed to take care of the kids too??......or u think babysitting is all that is needed by the mother to do??..... Yes!!!......adding dat 20k/30k to that 40k the man is dropping make it 60/70k...... Don’t u think that had a big relief?? 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Am Tired Of My Wife by Bola146(f): 11:56am On Jan 17, 2022 |
Ghengiskhan: God will help them, the foundation of their love was just too poor, if not she wouldn't be complaining. Things are expensive now. 1 Like |
Re: I Am Tired Of My Wife by frozen70(f): 1:48pm On Jan 17, 2022 |
Prospertochu: This is just am embarrassment Just don't allow her to push you to stealing If she thinks going out of your house is the best option for her, leave her let her go Whatever you have keep sending Her mates are helping her husband and she is there traumatising you 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Am Tired Of My Wife by seanwilliam(m): 2:30pm On Jan 17, 2022 |
Honestly I feel like crying reading your story. I can imagine the kind of mental stress you , your wife and mom going through . Honestly 100 naira condom would have saved you of this mess.. also never marry a woman out of pressure. That you impregnate a woman doesn’t mean u should marry her.. don’t mind people casting stones on you , anyone can find himself in a mess.. Solution is too set up a business for your mom,even if it’s selling little little things, that way you will be able to save off the 10k u give her monthly .. Now let’s be real , I am not always in support of women or whatever they represent but taking care of three kids should be one of the hardest job on earth .. I’m not married yet but anytime my sister comes visiting, if she sleeps, one of her kids ( the little one ,2 years) will be disturbing my peace , crying, playing with any thing in my room carelessly . I always pray she doesn’t come with her kids sometimes . We are talking only of one kid here , now imagine 3, Breast feeding and All round care for kids no be small thing my brother, your wife can only work from home , if she starts a teaching job, believe me she’ll be less productive.. It’s either u beg your mom to take care of the kids ( you need to be compensating your mom time to time for this ) while your wife work or you set up a business for your mom and u increase the home allowance.. Also try some side husle to increase your income (I know you’re trying your best ). Pls always use condom or do family planning before u have sex with your wife. At this stage , divorcing her will affect the kids and if that happens, all your effort will be in vain. Apart from that you can’t take custody of the kids and if you are to be paying child support, your whole salary won’t be enough .. tbh you and your wife really fumbled ! Edit: so the wife is no longer breast feeding Omo she should find something doing To augment your income o.. To single ones out there, Pls let’s embrace condom o, also forget love , if you’re going to get married you need to be financially buoyant seriously .. also make sure your wife to be use something doing and ready to contribute.. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Am Tired Of My Wife by Raalsalghul: 2:37pm On Jan 17, 2022 |
I do hope that guys from struggling backgrounds will learn from this thread. I've been singing it severally on this forum: you have no business getting married or having kids. It is double struggle! You go suffer tire! What would it take for people to listen? 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Am Tired Of My Wife by Newboss(m): 3:36pm On Jan 17, 2022 |
All these soft men. Send that bîtch packing and enjoy your 55k with your mother. Those kids are also her kids so she should know how to take care of them. Wahala for Man wey don go marry 2 Likes |
Re: I Am Tired Of My Wife by Prospertochu(m): 4:18pm On Jan 17, 2022 |
frozen70: Yes she is free to leave I can't kill myself for her , I will still be taking care of my kids from afar. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Am Tired Of My Wife by Ulunne777(f): 4:32pm On Jan 17, 2022 |
swarley75: how about how evil men can be or you didnt read how the mother has neen sleeping in church after their uncle sacked them from their family house? |
Re: I Am Tired Of My Wife by Ulunne777(f): 4:34pm On Jan 17, 2022 |
Prospertochu: what if she decides to leave the kids for yoi and your mum because she cant kill herself for you too.Meet her halfway.You guys need indwpth discussion.When you were putting just the cap,it didnt kill you. stop badmouthing her 2 Likes |
Re: I Am Tired Of My Wife by Ulunne777(f): 4:43pm On Jan 17, 2022 |
Bluewitch: Is it from the 55k the pre school fees will be paid for 3 kids?Are you ppl thinking at all. 1 Like |
Re: I Am Tired Of My Wife by Ulunne777(f): 4:49pm On Jan 17, 2022 |
Prospertochu: lmao.Let her family raise her money for business.Stupid woman.Was holding brief for her bit na cocnut head she be. |
Re: I Am Tired Of My Wife by Prospertochu(m): 4:52pm On Jan 17, 2022 |
Ulunne777: It's not a big deal if she want to leave without them , my mum and I will try our best to raise them and they will grow up fine by God's grace 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Am Tired Of My Wife by 1Satanist: 5:44pm On Jan 17, 2022 |
odinson1: That woman is really trying with 40k a month for all those mouths to feed. Me I'm horrified Have you gone to the market recently or an eatery? I'm a bachelor in Lagos I rarely cook at home. I spend nothing less than 10 - 15k on food daily when eating out in Lekki where i live. If I'm really lucky and get a good buka in Ajah na 2k a plate of good food. When i decide to cook which is not often i go to the market with 15k and it's finished in no time yet i can't see much of anything i bought I go shopping for groceries and 50k is gone in no time. I look in my cart and i can't see much i bought As of December 2021 my feeding budget alone for the month was 200k and I'm a bachelor who is careful where i eat! Guy, the economy is insane and if that woman shares the little she has it will affect the kids for life. At that tender age they should be well nourished and she is their food so she must eat very very well. 4 Likes |
Re: I Am Tired Of My Wife by eyinjuege: 9:30pm On Jan 17, 2022 |
Prospertochu: I hope she drops the kids with you when she leaves. Afterall you're their father. You can look after them within the confines of your home and not from afar |
Re: I Am Tired Of My Wife by Uyi168: 9:52pm On Jan 17, 2022 |
Landmack:. Make una dey read to understsnd now.... Op has only 3kids, triplets to be precise and they are 2yrs,3months old. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Am Tired Of My Wife by Uyi168: 9:54pm On Jan 17, 2022 |
Nezzjnr:.lol u people don't know anything. just making mouth and forming nonesense online. there are many homes out there living with less than that amount 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Am Tired Of My Wife by Prospertochu(m): 10:00pm On Jan 17, 2022 |
eyinjuege: Yes she is free to leave them behind my mother is there to watch them while I go out and hustle, it's the least of my worries 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I Am Tired Of My Wife by Prospertochu(m): 10:01pm On Jan 17, 2022 |
Uyi168: No mind am lots of them like forming fake life on social media 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Am Tired Of My Wife by GboyegaD(m): 10:19pm On Jan 17, 2022 |
eyinjuege: And isn't she as the mother required to meet the man and split the bills 50:50? From the story, in my opinion, she is lazy. If you wouldn't work because a salary is small, then based on your qualification, apply for something better instead of waiting to start a business you do not have the capital for. Or is she waiting on the husband to drop the capital? 2 Likes |
Re: I Am Tired Of My Wife by Landmack: 10:40pm On Jan 17, 2022 |
Uyi168:Abeg u pple should stop quoting me. The story seems fake. Just check out the posters post history. ‘My wife this.. my wife that’ on different threads since 2020. Bye |
Re: I Am Tired Of My Wife by frozen70(f): 10:46pm On Jan 17, 2022 |
Prospertochu: It takes madness to correct nonsense |
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