Chiagozieking:


Don't fall for her games, never be someone's backup plan

Chai God forbid bad thing.

One of them leeches posted this in her status, this is someone who doesn't have a job of her own.

swarley75:
One of them leeches posted this in her status, this is someone who doesn't have a job of her own.

Lmao @ “make your findings and go for him”. What will they give such guy in return when they meet him?.. Just overused coochies I’m sure.. Oh well they’ve always been on desperate search for rich simps, that’s why kayamata sells and that’s why many of them keep getting used spiritually or for ritual purposes, can’t really pity them anymore at this point.. They should keep making their findings and going for such guys instead of telling themselves the real truth.. leeches and deluded beings.

When a leech meets a deceiver/simp, they both useless and deserve each other. Focus on your grinds kings. Stay redpilled.

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Palazee:
@heartofcity12

I don't really pity the SIMP, maybe he used money to entice the bītch

At all.. No pity for him, he still kept begging smh

heartofcity12:
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I don laugh taya
Take one thing out of this: it didn't take him up to 1 minute to realize what he ought to have realized months (who knows? probably years) ago.. to get a job (upgrade himself); to stop betting (plug unnecessary leakages)
Tawa really just helped his life.. blocked his silly ass
Nigga needed that wakeup call.
Egbe oshi

Emotionss:
[color=#006600][/color]Chaiii Mr Tonny have broken and demolished somebody's daughter heart and pride oooo.
why violence this early January.

In my life there are some things I'd never tolerate from a female. One of such is threats. Absolute deal breaker. That's just how I'm wired. I guess the ode expected me to explain why I wasn't paying her attention when curvier ones are still way ahead of her on the queue.

The entitlement mentality never ends.

So he's supposed to add money for your monthly feeding, house rent, electricity bill and airtime to your transport money?

Pls you guys should donate money for surgery for my legs cause I can't stand these ho*s.

heartofcity12:

How can you be kind and not nice

heartofcity12:
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Dude needs to get his priorities right.

heartofcity12:


At all.. No pity for him, he still kept begging smh

The guy is a simp. Also, his priorities are misplaced.

sajmark:
Loyalty is not a woman's trait.

https://www.nairaland.com/6940508/how-end-blood-covenant-relationship#109387497

Only the wise ones can decode the red pill truths in this.

Martinez39s:
The guy is a simp. Also, his priorities are misplaced.

Exactly!!

Tonnyray:
I don laugh taya
Take one thing out of this: it didn't take him up to 1 minute to realize what he ought to have realized months (who knows? probably years) ago.. to get a job (upgrade himself); to stop betting (plug unnecessary leakages)
Tawa really just helped his life.. blocked his silly ass
Nigga needed that wakeup call.
Egbe oshi

E shock you .. He sure needed that

Don't be a backup.....

Guy man, Trust your Instincts

Invest only on the Bag not her.

Work on yourself

kobams:
Good day kings
I saw something about all women cheats
As kings and redpillers is there a way not to make your woman cheat on you?
Because nobody should be able to cheat on a king

Nice inquiry. I will not only answer your question, but I will use this as an avenue to drop a long talk on women and infidelity. I believe you will find it invaluable since you are concerned and it's related to your inquiry. A lot won't accept my take, particularly the second take, but we must unveil the realities of female nature in accordance with the objectives of the great thread.

PART 1
Simply put, no man can 100% stop a woman from cheating if she wants to cheat. If you happen to be the most knowledgeable redpiller with an impeccable masculine frame, the same still applies. Even in ancient societies where premarital sex and adultery were punished with death or ostracization/exile and having children out of wedlock or marrying as a nonvirgin brought great shame to the family, there were women who were still cheating. How much more a way lesser stringent time as today?

Checking her phone every now and then, rigorously monitoring her every movement or hiring investigators to monitor her will weary you as you can’t possibly keep it up for too long or cover every avenue for her to cheat; it is an unnecessary waste of time and resources. Doing such is not the stuff of a red pill man as I will explain later if time permits. Don't ever put yourself in a position where you are trying to prevent a woman from cheating on you. Don't go through such stress. A man with a life, who has things going on for him and who has business and more important things to attend to, can’t afford to spend so much time and energy keeping tabs on his woman to make sure she doesn't cheat; even if he does, he cannot maintain it for too long. Such a man can't even cover all avenues available for his wife to cheat because while he is busy, he can't tell what he wife is doing behind his back.

Even if you are jobless and have all the time and energy to track your woman, it's still not a guarantee that you will stop her from cheating or even cover all avenues available to her to cheat. It's still not a guarantee that you will catch her cheating. Besides, a lot of women are smart in how they run their game. No woman is even worth the stress. In fact, your lack of value, mate guarding and the availability of better options for relationships will hasten your worst fears.

So, bro, you can't stop a woman from cheating if she wants to. Red pill won't stop women from cheating on you. Red pill unveils a certain aspect of reality, but it doesn't bestow invincibility in all situations and total control of a woman at all times. In fact, the red pill will make clear that you avoid certain women, certain behaviours, and certain situations for whatever cogent reasons. If you fail to take heed or you get delusional, the red pill won't bail you out.

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My second, much longer take (part 2) will come later.


To be continued.

Omor, seeing this type of stuffs just dey piss me off. It better be some joke.

E shock u abi?
Comrades are no longer smiling
Who block epp?

This

Nigerian journalist, David Hundeyin, has taken to Twitter to share his personal love story with a woman he met in Hull University, England.

He shared this in reaction to the viral story of a young man who asked his girlfriend to choose between him and going for a fully-funded Masters program abroad. Read here

According to David, love is never enough in a relationship and it’s okay for a man to let a woman go if he can’t give her what she wants.

Read his lengthy post below,

“11 years ago in 2011, I got a woman pregnant. We met at Hull Uni during my final year, and it was what you might call a whirlwind romance. She was from a town in Zimbabwe called Kwekwe, and she was 2 years older than me. We were the definition of “opposites attract.”

We fell in love so hard that in just 6 months from when we met in March, we took it for granted that we would get married, have 2 kids and a dog, a nice little house in Market Weighton, her dream Mini Cooper etc.

Bear in mind I was a 21 Y.0 on a visa, without a job or a plan. She on the other hand, was a registered nurse with a solid income, a promising career and UK citizenship. I didn’t recognise the disparity yet because I was still being subsidised by the bank of Mom and Dad. It was all about the love – the fierce purity of the emotion.

See the thing is young men aren’t allowed to “feel” things very often, so when they do “feel” something like I did in 2011, it can possess them and make them absolutely blind to anything and everything else.

So blind in fact that when the parental subsidy ended, I had no plan …”

In August, all I had was about £4,000, my degree certificate and my fierce, burning love for Rachael to my name.

What I should have done was move closer to London or Manchester to find a job. What I did instead was move to Bradford to be closer to Rachael.

No plan.

All I knew was that I loved her and she loved me, so that was that. Everything would work out. It had to work out. Of course it would work out.

I’d get a job in Leeds, and visit her in York every other week, and she’d visit me in Bradford. That’s it.

There was no plan.

Instead of finding a cheap apartment to save money while I looked for a job, I spunked most of that £4,000 on 8 months rent for a deluxe apartment at The Velvet Mill on Lilyceoft Road.

Why? So babe would be comfortable when she came to visit. Lover über alles.

Well apparently it did succeed at the comfort thing, because one day while visiting, she took a pregnancy test in the bathroom and there were double lines. I was going to be a dad at 21.

Bear in mind there was still no plan. Just love, emotional certainty and vibes. Nothing more

Even in that state, I had no doubts in my mind that we would be fine. We would keep the baby, get married etc etc.

Well it turned out to be an ectopic pregnancy, which means it growing inside one of her fallopian tubes, instead of her uterus. The doctors found out late.

She had to undergo emergency keyhole surgery to evacuate not just the foetus, but her entire right ovary.

Overnight, she had lost her first child, and her future childbearing capacity had been halved. All because of some guy from Nigeria whose plan was I-Love-You and inshallah.

You can predict what happened next.

We still hung on for a year while I struggled desperately to get my shit together, but she was clearly no longer in it.

In fact she didn’t even bother to break up properly. In early 2013, I saw a photo of her on Instagram with the new guy.

This new guy was immediately able to give the stability and experiences that I couldn’t then. Vacations in Egypt, all that stuff.

Within a year they were married, and when last I checked in 2019 or so, they had 2 boys and a dog and the exact Mini Cooper she always wanted.

The moral of the story?

As a man, it’s OK to let a woman go because you’re simply not yet at the stage in life where you can give her what she wants, or what she can get with someone else.

There is no zero need to force the issue. Accepting it doesn’t make you a failure.

The simple fact of human evolution is that women have a shorter prime than men. Between 20 and 29, most women aspire to have most of their big landmarks.

Experiences, marriage, kids, material comforts.

Your timeline isn’t the same as theirs, and that is fine. Don’t fight it.

Apart from the fact that you’d just be traumatising yourself for no reason, you can also end up wasting their time by forcing them to choose “love” with you when you’re not ready, over themselves.

They have less time than you – you cannot replace their time. You must let go.
Your “love” is not going to solve their problems or give them the things they want and need. Millions of years of evolution have not shaped them to “wait” for you.

It’s neither fair nor unfair. It just is what it is. Don’t traumatise yourself trying to fight evolution. Let go.

Rachael and I loved each other to death back then. Now we’re complete strangers and we haven’t spoken in 9 years – and we’re both living our best lives. She found someone on her own timetable, and for what it’s worth, I did too.

And life goes on. It’s not that deep, honestly.

TLDR: As a man, learn to accept the reality that you do not own the right to a woman’s time and attention, and your timetable is not the same as hers.

Likewise accept that she is just 1 of 4 billion women, so there is no need to traumatise yourself in pursuit of love.

Let go.

See below,

olamoses75:
Omor, seeing this type of stuffs just dey piss me off. It better be some joke.

Why I love women: no matter how much the sexual market gets saturated or deregulated, this specie still finagle possible ways to cashout---the gender with sex as their only/single most highest value.

Men who got the ball, court and advertised for spectators to come in don't even know what winning entails. They are Lazaruses struggling with dogs for crumbs beneath the table.

It is very true that who ''pays the piper, dictates the tune". However, it's so bad that the modern man has been bastardised and scared of the bull not to even talk of holding its horns.

Sigh!

Martinez39s:
Dude needs to get his priorities right.

Exactly.
Though entitled, I don't even blame the girl. She is even helping him by breaking up with him. And she has clearly pointed out all he needs to fix in his life.

There are lots of guys like that out there. They can barely take care of themselves, but they will be borrowing money to woo and impress babes. Useless simps.

The More legs a table has, the more stable it is,,,

Be_wise

heartofcity12:
Redpill. Males shouldn’t be jealous, that’s a female trait- Jay z (Heart of the city)

This message is nuanced. But on the outlook, men shouldn't stay all day whining and develop a feeling of schadenfreude when others succeed. Rather, they should channel that energy used in expressing anger and jealousy to better themselves.

However, it must be understood that jealousy is an evolved trait in the human species. Why? Because of mates, resources, offsprings and territories. Men and women express jealousy differently, but in respect to the above reasons. Anger and violence has these as their underlying causes.

According to recent research, the female human oestrus cycle is concealed because of female-female violence. You know why?...you got it now. Lol!

We are no longer in the wild, but we must understand that we've being shaped by millions of triats structured for the wild, thereby making us behave in certain ways that seems anathema to the modern world. Hence, the term "genome lag": having structures/traits that don't suit our current environment.

A whole lot of tweaking of our psyches will be needed to get accustomed to this recent changes especially as technological innovations are running faster as never before every seconds.

Sometimes I don't want to fault men because of these traits they aren't cognizant of, but other times I just get angry seeing my gender allowing themselves getting used and dumped!

Anyways, the redpill is doing its best in helping us.

Thanks.