Prospertochu:


My triplets are 2 years and 3 months

Kobojunkie:
55k a month for a family of 5 and you want to have your mother added to that list? You are very very unserious individual.

Realestbae:
Stupid fool ,u r putting all d blame on a young mother of triplet when Ur lazy mother can not fend for herself, imagine Ur sister is a household is ur mother crippled or just lazy she is supposed to be supplying U with food stuff n by adding to Ur problem or is it how her own mother is depending on her. Oga Ur mother did n't plan her life well she is more of a leech n a bloodsucker let her go and hustle to take care of Ur sister who is a household. Ur main focus should be d welfare of Ur kids feed them well

Landmack:

He and his wife are being so wicked and unreasonable to those innocent kids they keep birthing.

u earn 55k and laid with ur gf without a condom at first and birthed an innocent child...u still didnt learn!

you kept on laying with her...and got triplets.

i think youre doing all these because u see free house..imagine you were paying rent...just maybe you would have been sensible enough to do the right thing.

on the other hand you never pay that ur gf bride price and you are still birthing kids with her...na wa for u.

i just hope its not a foolish person behind this moniker and trying to play on the mind and emotions of nairalanders.


padlock that ur penis bro!

eyinjuege:
You have to look for ways to earn more dear
You have 3 children of the same age. They need same meals, clothes etc. They can't even pass clothes down to each other and you have to buy 3 of everything.
Your wife is breastfeeding but I'm sure also supplementing with formula.
Isn't she also buying formula from the 30K you're giving her? The money is not enough which is why you're having all these issues
When the children start school or creche, just know your current problems will triple sha. So prepare.
Your wife may need to wean the babies on time too, but 3 babies at once na die.
Can your mum look after the children while she also goes out to work?
You're really in a pickle at the moment and I don't have much advice for you, other than looking for a means to earn more to meet up with your responsibilities. Triplets are not a joke sha

Prospertochu:


For you to open your rotten dirty mouth to insult my mother a woman that you don't personally know ,  it show that you don't respect your own parents and you are curse all your life you will spend all your life seeking for favour and nobody will pity you even your own children will abandon you at your old age and you will die a lonely painful death with nobody to take care of you at your old age . Mark my words you will suffer

Kobojunkie:
Mandate a woman who has triplets who are 2-yrs-of-age to work? Are you folks for real?

Will she abandon her babies to fend for themselves while she works? Or na for back she go carry all 3 of them go dey do work? You didn't even suggest he also mandate his mum take care of the children so his wife can work.

FairlyUSEDpussy:
Bros read post well and the guys response!!!
He said “THE WIFE COULD LEAVE THE KIDS AT HOME WITH HIS MUM.......WHILE SHE WORKS TO AUGUMENT”

Kobojunkie:
Leaving the kids at home is one thing... mandating the mother to care for the kids - take them on as her full-time responsibility - is something else. Children at that age need someone who will give them full attention and not someone who will sit back and let them lay in their filth until their mother comes home from her job to care for them.

Does the mum still need or mandated to take care of her grandkids while the parents r away working
Truth is the wife doesn’t want to work.......stating poor salary as her reason not even the kids........

FairlyUSEDpussy:
Does the mum still need or mandated to take care of her grandkids while the parents r away working
Truth is the wife doesn’t want to work.......stating poor salary as her reason not even the kids........

Kobojunkie:
Yes, she does! Don't assume all grandmothers are the same. She needs to understand that this is itself a full-time job and not a gig where she can lay back and let the kids fend for self.

Imagine this! The cost of hiring someone to do what she currently does for her three kids is about 180k a month. Of what good will it be for her to abandon her children with someone who probably won't care half as much, only so she can go make an extra 20 - 30k a month while her babies are denied the care they deserve?

Ghengiskhan:


More reason why she needs a job, their grandma can help to take care of the kids. Rich people are always stressed with or without kids.... The woman need to start doing something to bring in cash to help her family.

Prospertochu:
I am married with three kids 2 years and 3 months triplets , my salary is 55k i used to give my wife 20k mother 10k , 5k for rainy days and 20k for myself transportation and other expenses outside my house. My wife complained that the money was not enough I added 5k making it 25k monthly but she still demanding for more money and she has threatened to leave if I don't give her more , I had no money to give her my own mother was homeless staying in church and I couldn't stop giving her that 10k because she needed it . My wife used to fought me every single day and my uncle asked us to leave the family house hearse we were disturbing their peace and I was ready to let her go and I will be sending 25k for our triplets upkeep every month but for the sake of our kids we have settled down with 30k monthly leaving me with 15k , so far we have moved out of the family house, we are staying in a parlour and room house a brother from Canada gave us the place it is not permanent but it is better and we are very very grateful. Like I said earlier my mother was staying in church now we have a one bedroom house I have discussed with my wife for my mum to come and live with us and I will stop the 10k I was giving her and I will add it to her money making it 40k monthly she have agreed. Now that my mother is here with us she started again with the 40k is not enough to feed all of us note I dobt eat breakfast I eat lunch at work and in the evening at eat at home , she is only giving my mother foods in the evening while she and my kids eat 3 Square meal a day. I asked her why she is treating my mother so badly she said the economy is hard if she doesn't have she won't kill herself. I am sick and tired and if I have sorted things it was for the sake of our kids and now I am starting to regret. I am thinking from this month when I get my salary I will give her 30k and give my mother 10k to be cooking her own foods. It is my decision good?

frozen70:


This is just am embarrassment

Just don't allow her to push you to stealing

If she thinks going out of your house is the best option for her, leave her let her go

Whatever you have keep sending



Her mates are helping her husband and she is there traumatising you

swarley75:
OP can't you use your common sense for once, you are a big idiot, can your wife treat her own mother like that?

To all the single guys out here, never get married to a parasite or a liability. my elder sister always tells me this no matter how beautiful a girl is, if she doesn't have a good job or a business I should never consider getting married to such a girl

Prospertochu:


Yes she is free to leave I can't kill myself for her , I will still be taking care of my kids from afar.

Bluewitch:



Why isn't the wife working

Prospertochu:


She doesn't breastfed them , they haven't started school and my mother is ready to watch them while my wife go to work but my wife refuse saying salary is too poor and she want her own business.

Ulunne777:


what if she decides to leave the kids for yoi and your mum because she cant kill herself for you too.Meet her halfway.You guys need indwpth discussion.When you were putting just the cap,it didnt kill you.

stop badmouthing her

odinson1:
Men una mumu sha

When we keep telling you People not to get married, you'll call us broke,immature frustrated and all other sorts of nonsense.

You got married to Parasite who's Sucking you dry, draining the very life force you have. If you don't cut off that leech,she will drain you till you become a shell of your former self.

But seriously guys, lets reason it this way. The money he has been giving to his wife all these while,if he didn't get married and have children now,he would probably have used it to open a business,have investments or Get a new house or something like that. Now a woman has tied him down and It's now stopping him from progressing.

All he cares about are his wife and his children,they are all Liabilities to him. This is why men are advised to have a good job and a nice comfortable apartment first before getting married. You know why? It is because you will most likely get married to A Parasite who will Make you stagnant,it would be almost impossible for you to get past this financial struggle except you get a better job with better pay.

Men! Run away from a marriage that will stop you from Achieving greatness. Having children is not an achievement,it is normally biological for one to procreate,so there is no big deal about it. Having a wife and children when you are not financially stable,will only drag you down and make you stagnant!

And also, DON'T EVER GET MARRIED TO A BROKE LAZY WOMAN! They are Parasites whose only Objective is to latch on to you, and suck out your energy,time,resources and peace of mind.




@the bolded,A good woman? Really?

She and her children eats 3 square meals, while his mother only eats once. You call that a good woman? Wait answer this instead,would she have done same to her own Mother?

Prospertochu:


Yes she is free to leave I can't kill myself for her , I will still be taking care of my kids from afar.

Landmack:

He and his wife are being so wicked and unreasonable to those innocent kids they keep birthing.

u earn 55k and laid with ur gf without a condom at first and birthed an innocent child...u still didnt learn!

you kept on laying with her...and got triplets.

i think youre doing all these because u see free house..imagine you were paying rent...just maybe you would have been sensible enough to do the right thing.

on the other hand you never pay that ur gf bride price and you are still birthing kids with her...na wa for u.

i just hope its not a foolish person behind this moniker and trying to play on the mind and emotions of nairalanders.


padlock that ur penis bro!

Nezzjnr:
I can't believe this abeg.

55k with kids??

Find another lie please

eyinjuege:


I hope she drops the kids with you when she leaves. Afterall you're their father. You can look after them within the confines of your home and not from afar

Uyi168:
.lol
u people don't know anything. just making mouth and forming nonesense online.


there are many homes out there living with less than that amount

eyinjuege:


I hope she drops the kids with you when she leaves. Afterall you're their father. You can look after them within the confines of your home and not from afar

Uyi168:
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Make una dey read to understsnd now....

Op has only 3kids, triplets to be precise and they are 2yrs,3months old.

Prospertochu:


Yes she is free to leave I can't kill myself for her , I will still be taking care of my kids from afar.