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Re: Men Are Liars Indeed, Please I Need Mature Input(s) by MMM2(m): 8:35am On May 29, 2012 |
op Pls can I get ur fone nos pls [color=#006600][/color] |
Re: Men Are Liars Indeed, Please I Need Mature Input(s) by slimyem: 8:39am On May 29, 2012 |
M M M: oprepping as usual! |
Re: Men Are Liars Indeed, Please I Need Mature Input(s) by Mynd44: 10:58am On May 29, 2012 |
Are you telling me that he is back? |
Re: Men Are Liars Indeed, Please I Need Mature Input(s) by luckgames(m): 12:45pm On May 29, 2012 |
kaynik: I hate to generalize but I find myself stereotyping cos of the hurt I have been through. I have known this guy for almost 10 years. We started a serious relationship beginning of 2008 and he left the country at the end of that very year. We found our selves in a long distance relationship, something I hated and had told him before he traveled. In 2010 we got engaged and later that year we did our introduction. The distance continued and I also had to leave the country. Now that he was my fiance, things were worse between us.Last year, he insulted and abused me emotionally. He kept accusing me of cheating. One day he wanted to show that he cared and was not really abusing me, so he sent a chat between him and his friend. Unfortunately for him, he copied and pasted the wrong part of the chat as the cat he sent revealed that he was cheating on me with women. He begged and begged and i didnt listen. Not because he cheated but because he was cheating and was also abusive. Please anyone reading his should take note, any man or woman who keeps accusing you of cheating without any proof is actually cheating. Its what they call projecting in psychiatry. Emotional abuse and insult NO Do you think this dude is using his hands to play with is D In a long distance relationship What was your expectation? Get real and stop playing The dude is not evil, just meeting his need You are not going to marry him because you live in two different countries and he is meeting sexual need Think about it |
Re: Men Are Liars Indeed, Please I Need Mature Input(s) by cowgurl: 1:16pm On May 29, 2012 |
hawtin:What will you do if it were? Definitely not you Hawtin, you don't come across as a male chauvinist. |
Re: Men Are Liars Indeed, Please I Need Mature Input(s) by hawtin: 1:25pm On May 29, 2012 |
cowgurl: What will you do if it were? Definitely not you Hawtin, you don't come across as a male chauvinist. i trust u all these big words can be misleading una to dey blow am too much pity us wey dey learn if it were me sha, i will fight u ghetto style bite your nipples off with my mouse teeth i have bitten a dcck off its socket before no test me olorun dem dey fear me for area |
Re: Men Are Liars Indeed, Please I Need Mature Input(s) by cowgurl: 1:43pm On May 29, 2012 |
Okay you can do something Hawtin so I won't test you even in my dreams . Ride on gurl! |
Re: Men Are Liars Indeed, Please I Need Mature Input(s) by luckgames(m): 3:12pm On May 29, 2012 |
kaynik: I hate to generalize but I find myself stereotyping cos of the hurt I have been through. I have known this guy for almost 10 years. We started a serious relationship beginning of 2008 and he left the country at the end of that very year. We found our selves in a long distance relationship, something I hated and had told him before he traveled. In 2010 we got engaged and later that year we did our introduction. The distance continued and I also had to leave the country. Now that he was my fiance, things were worse between us.Last year, he insulted and abused me emotionally. He kept accusing me of cheating. One day he wanted to show that he cared and was not really abusing me, so he sent a chat between him and his friend. Unfortunately for him, he copied and pasted the wrong part of the chat as the cat he sent revealed that he was cheating on me with women. He begged and begged and i didnt listen. Not because he cheated but because he was cheating and was also abusive. Please anyone reading his should take note, any man or woman who keeps accusing you of cheating without any proof is actually cheating. Its what they call projecting in psychiatry. But you did |
Re: Men Are Liars Indeed, Please I Need Mature Input(s) by Mynd44: 3:30pm On May 29, 2012 |
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Re: Men Are Liars Indeed, Please I Need Mature Input(s) by hawtin: 4:30am On May 30, 2012 |
cowgurl: Okay you can do something Hawtin so I won't test you even in my dreams . Ride on gurl! i kissed a girl and i like it i am attracted to u have u tried kissing a girl? |
Re: Men Are Liars Indeed, Please I Need Mature Input(s) by Nobody: 4:33am On May 30, 2012 |
Women are also liars. Gimme a break. |
Re: Men Are Liars Indeed, Please I Need Mature Input(s) by Mynd44: 5:29am On May 30, 2012 |
Ileke-IdI: |
Re: Men Are Liars Indeed, Please I Need Mature Input(s) by kpolli(m): 12:09pm On May 30, 2012 |
kaynik: I hate to generalize but I find myself stereotyping cos of the hurt I have been through. I have known this guy for almost 10 years. We started a serious relationship beginning of 2008 and he left the country at the end of that very year. We found our selves in a long distance relationship, something I hated and had told him before he traveled. In 2010 we got engaged and later that year we did our introduction. The distance continued and I also had to leave the country. Now that he was my fiance, things were worse between us.Last year, he insulted and abused me emotionally. He kept accusing me of cheating. One day he wanted to show that he cared and was not really abusing me, so he sent a chat between him and his friend. Unfortunately for him, he copied and pasted the wrong part of the chat as the cat he sent revealed that he was cheating on me with women. He begged and begged and i didnt listen. Not because he cheated but because he was cheating and was also abusive. Please anyone reading his should take note, any man or woman who keeps accusing you of cheating without any proof is actually cheating. Its what they call projecting in psychiatry. Honestly, I blame you. . . How wud u forgive him in the first place? The minute you girls realise men never change their spots, they just learn how to hide better, is the very minute you stop wasting tears . . . . And all of you girls that are doing "I do not mind if he is doing other girls" hope you wont mind sharing your husband in future? |
Re: Men Are Liars Indeed, Please I Need Mature Input(s) by Daresh(f): 1:45pm On May 30, 2012 |
OP let me give you good advice, he wont change so pack your bags and run. If you dont want to have a broken marriage or spend your nights crying, I advice you to end it now. I made that mistake of thinking things will change in marriage but sweetie it doesnt. My husband even knelt down to beg me when I caught him but did that change him? Dont think you are too old or anything like that because believe me marriage is just the beginning of a very long journey and if he doesnt have your best interests now, what will happen in 5 yrs? 10yrs, 30 yrs? Just accept that you've wasted time on him and dont waste anymore or I assure you, you will cry more. Cut out NOW. Tell your family, especially your mum and Dad and let them knowwhat has bn going on. Dont let anyone sweet talk you into staying, I assure you he is lying. |
Re: Men Are Liars Indeed, Please I Need Mature Input(s) by luckgames(m): 2:14pm On May 30, 2012 |
Daresh: OP let me give you good advice, he wont change so pack your bags and run. If you dont want to have a broken marriage or spend your nights crying, I advice you to end it now. I made that mistake of thinking things will change in marriage but sweetie it doesnt. My husband even knelt down to beg me when I caught him but did that change him? Dont think you are too old or anything like that because believe me marriage is just the beginning of a very long journey and if he doesnt have your best interests now, what will happen in 5 yrs? 10yrs, 30 yrs? Just accept that you've wasted time on him and dont waste anymore or I assure you, you will cry more. Cut out NOW. Tell your family, especially your mum and Dad and let them knowwhat has bn going on. Dont let anyone sweet talk you into staying, I assure you he is lying. Can we hear your husband side of the whole story? Good luck with your second hand single life |
Re: Men Are Liars Indeed, Please I Need Mature Input(s) by Mynd44: 2:46pm On May 30, 2012 |
luckgames:too harsh nah |
Re: Men Are Liars Indeed, Please I Need Mature Input(s) by Daresh(f): 9:20pm On May 30, 2012 |
luckgames: Na you get your mouth. Good luck to you in your own life. 1 Like |
Re: Men Are Liars Indeed, Please I Need Mature Input(s) by Nobody: 9:22pm On May 30, 2012 |
"Everybody Lies" |
Re: Men Are Liars Indeed, Please I Need Mature Input(s) by cowgurl: 10:45pm On May 30, 2012 |
i kissed a girl and i like it i am attracted to u have u tried kissing a girl?[/quote] Katy Perry? Never liked that song. Wow! Am honoured Hawtin but pls don't go opening a thread about it okay, Have I kissed a gurl? Yeah, but not french, it was the Nigerian kind. |
Re: Men Are Liars Indeed, Please I Need Mature Input(s) by Mynd44: 5:29am On May 31, 2012 |
cowgurl:Well in that case, we have all kissed our mothers then |
Re: Men Are Liars Indeed, Please I Need Mature Input(s) by hawtin: 5:42am On May 31, 2012 |
cowgurl: i will teach you it starts someday lmao i be mad babe abi? i no well i will spoil u explain nigerian kind |
Re: Men Are Liars Indeed, Please I Need Mature Input(s) by Mynd44: 6:13am On May 31, 2012 |
hawtin: |
Re: Men Are Liars Indeed, Please I Need Mature Input(s) by scribble: 8:48am On May 31, 2012 |
D guy nor try for double dating on u. And being verbally abusive. However I suspect your story is more one-sided than appears. You did something to him, he reacted like an oaf. Some men can't deal with women's wahala. |
Re: Men Are Liars Indeed, Please I Need Mature Input(s) by scribble: 8:57am On May 31, 2012 |
Dude all u have said is u r not yet ready to cheat. U counted d years as 6, there's no telling what may happen by 12 years. Furthermore u say u enjoy ur alone time, probably with your right hand unless ur left handed. Maybe when ur tired of "alone" time, u will begin to notice the women around u. |
Re: Men Are Liars Indeed, Please I Need Mature Input(s) by cowgurl: 12:49pm On May 31, 2012 |
Mynd_44:Good to know we have a Nigerian kiss Mynd |
Re: Men Are Liars Indeed, Please I Need Mature Input(s) by Mynd44: 12:57pm On May 31, 2012 |
cowgurl: Good to know we have a Nigerian kiss Mynd |
Re: Men Are Liars Indeed, Please I Need Mature Input(s) by cowgurl: 12:57pm On May 31, 2012 |
[quote author=hawtin] i will teach you it starts someday lmao i be mad babe abi? i no well i will spoil u explain nigerian kind[/quote] Thanks for the offer Hawtin, but 'l pass. I won't be surprised if ur surname is 'mad', Hawtin mad cool I tell ya . But what will that of Badosky be then? Now you've succeeded in derailing Kaynik's thread, are you happy now? |
Re: Men Are Liars Indeed, Please I Need Mature Input(s) by cowgurl: 1:02pm On May 31, 2012 |
Believe me Mynd, I had no idea. |
Re: Men Are Liars Indeed, Please I Need Mature Input(s) by LSkooker: 4:27pm On Jun 01, 2012 |
Daresh: OP let me give you good advice, he wont change so pack your bags and run. If you dont want to have a broken marriage or spend your nights crying, I advice you to end it now. I made that mistake of thinking things will change in marriage but sweetie it doesnt. My husband even knelt down to beg me when I caught him but did that change him? Dont think you are too old or anything like that because believe me marriage is just the beginning of a very long journey and if he doesnt have your best interests now, what will happen in 5 yrs? 10yrs, 30 yrs? Just accept that you've wasted time on him and dont waste anymore or I assure you, you will cry more. Cut out NOW. Tell your family, especially your mum and Dad and let them knowwhat has bn going on. Dont let anyone sweet talk you into staying, I assure you he is lying. This is true... The person who lie -never be changed as Mynd says Leopard... |
Re: Men Are Liars Indeed, Please I Need Mature Input(s) by swiftycool(m): 5:46am On Jun 02, 2012 |
Op, its really shocking to discover what u did about ur man but ill advise you go for the marriage counselling with him rather than cancel it. This way u guys lay down all your thoughts, your fears, your secrets and ur pains on the table b4 ur counsellor. In most cases if u are both honest, u would come out better and stronger able to let the past go, however on the other hand it could strengthen ur resolve to break up this thing with a clear mind and no regrets and no blames. Mind u, going 4 marriage counselling doesn't mean u must marry each other, its a litmus test to guide u into the reality of what u r getting into and who u r doing it with. Just be sure u be completely honest and open and ensure ur counsellor is a really trusted and unbiased God fearing person. I assure u, any bad man who hears the right counsel in a controlled environment can change, I've seen loads; forget what others tell u Goodluck |
Re: Men Are Liars Indeed, Please I Need Mature Input(s) by Mynd44: 8:10am On Jun 02, 2012 |
cowgurl: Believe me Mynd, I had no idea.Oh yeah we do |
Re: Men Are Liars Indeed, Please I Need Mature Input(s) by Unitedabby(m): 11:38pm On Nov 01, 2015 |
kaynik:sad really!hope you've gotten over it and moved on? |
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