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Martinez39s:
Glad that you have read and you are taking red pill.

Have it in mind that a woman can present herself as an angelic nawalt to her spouse, run a happy family with him and be seriously involved in the relationship/marriage while being regularly piped down like a hòe in secret by other men, to the oblivion of her husband. She might even be religious and participate actively in her church or mosque. This infidelity doesn't impact her morality and conduct in other aspects: she might be kind to others and her children, she might show her husband respect, she might be a good homemaker, she might be the type that dresses decently etc.

So let people not make assumptions based on superficial impressions. Also know that most women are not daft in their manipulation and most women are good at hiding their shenanigans. I will say more in part b.

Any questions you would like to ask?

oyetunjibaba:
Hello redpiller..
Good morning all, I have a question to ask,what ur thought about ladies who Pierce her nose and multiple earrings.

Recently noticed my girlfriend starts using nose earrings and multiple earrings.

Aaron12:
read from page 1 of this thread,you find the answer.

oyetunjibaba:
Lol....I ve been following this topic tey tey.
Let me air your opinion on what I posted.

oyetunjibaba:
Hello redpiller..
Good morning all, I have a question to ask,what ur thought about ladies who Pierce her nose and multiple earrings.
Recently noticed my girlfriend starts using nose earrings and multiple earrings.

Tonnyray:
To trap destinies
On a serious note I think it's just a stupid trend.
4 things I totally cannot stand in a female:

1. tattoos,
2. piercings,
3. waist beads,
4. anklets.

heartofcity12:
Loosen up bro. Enjoy life

Skepticus:
This is the primary reason, I don't reply a lot of mentions that has to do with "my girl" "my love/fiancee" "I want to date this girl" "I want to fuucck this girl" "Is this girl attracted to me because of how she treats me/catwalks in my face?" "Ubunja, is this a green light?" "this girl has a fair/light skin that glows so much (even with surgery/bleaching creams) that it made my life brighter, "She is so cute/beautiful that you'll kiss the earth that she walks on" though she is a whöre who charges multiple men to sleep with her (in the words of a simp who once, dropped a comment here).

Oneitis is the worst thing that can happen to a man. You are literally, stunted for life. You don't have to be in love, or openly dating. You can stay temporarily away from women or totally avoid them without having the "Oneitis" syndrome.

Once, you find yourself obsessing over that one girl/unicorn, you are done for. Just kiss your red pill, goodbye and enjoy your bluepill. That delusion is necessary for primal reasons.

Junnior:
Interesting. What makes guys stuck at stage 4 and how can they deal with it?

posty56:
how does simping starts , "I must get that girl bro", "if I no get that girl I fit die","omo that girl na the finest girl I done ever see", that's how your mind (emotions) will start to deceive you, suddenly, you will start suffering from oneitis, your mind starts portraying her as an angel , and all other scenerios were you guys got married happily ever after, before you know ! you have fallen too deep into that trap called love (scratch that! ,and replace it with unhealthy obsession). I telling you from experience, from my early days, nothing is more fun than knowing that any girl is replaceable

moral of the story:- have abundant mindset, don't fall any woman use your head, be wary of your emotions.

Emmynator:
Number 3 is equally as damaging and many are still stuck there, i think that is the level of purplepill. Bargaining is an attempt to game the system "if i do X and Y, then i will get the woman of my dreams". At this stage, there is the rationalization that if you do somethings right, you will attain your bluepilled fantasies.
It is when all attempts at bargaining fails that men slip into depression.
Some bargaining phrases;
1. I will find a virgin.
2. I will not marry Nigerian girls
3. She cant do that if i hold masculine frame.
You can add yours...

Emmynator:
Number 3 is equally as damaging and many are still stuck there, i think that is the level of purplepill. Bargaining is an attempt to game the system "if i do X and Y, then i will get the woman of my dreams". At this stage, there is the rationalization that if you do somethings right, you will attain your bluepilled fantasies.
It is when all attempts at bargaining fails that men slip into depression.
Some bargaining phrases;
1. I will find a virgin.
2. I will not marry Nigerian girls
3. She cant do that if i hold masculine frame.
You can add yours...

Junnior:

sajmark:
This news is fake, please take it down to avoid misinformation.

Calibrator:
You forgot my personal favorite "We have been through a lot together and I know her very well"


Na your breakfast order you just placed so, to be delivered presently.

Emmynator:
Exactly, I don't want to be in that situation in the first place.
Before it gets to that they must have been some prior loss of frame that prompts the boldness of the woman.

I was in a public transport some years back in Minna, the conversation i had with the driver is very similar to this. When a woman newly marries a man, she starts shit testing him, with seemingly little things (for example, she tells you to pass something that is close to you, your automatic response is "no problem", she knows this is not enough to conclude that you're nailed, so she perhaps increases the distance, after series of shit tests, if she finds that you are under her frame, then the flood gates of disrespect becomes open, perhaps she resents what a weak man she married.

Now the solution isn't as easy as, i have seen the error in my ways, i will start being the dominant masculine guy, it is often too late for that, as her opinion has been set in stone, attempts for you to change that status quo will be met woth strong resistance. In a nutshell, it is easier for you to not lose your respect, than to gain it back after losing it.

Brothers, beware of "little things", for it is by little things your frame is eroded and you start wondering, "how did i get here?"

GravityDefier:
The truth is spilled on every page of this thread. Have been a silent reader here for some few months.
There is this girl that stays in same lodge with me. She asked me to pass her water through my window two days ago but I was wary since I was engaged in a phone conversation, so after I was done with the call I asked her what she said and she replied with "forget, it has passed". This girl has gone to her crib to get water. She called me through my window again this morning as I was preparing to go out that I should please get her drinking water then I asked her "do you not have water"? and she replied that she doesn't have water and then asked me "why did you ask if I have water"? then I told her I felt like asking. On going to get the water I discovered that it was just one left and I will need it after eating. So I told her it's just one left and I'll have to use it. Do you know that this girl went to her crib and got water? (her crib is just like twelve steps away from mine). I had to go out to confront her. She told me there's nothing there na. I told her "don't worry, there'll be next time". This shit testing with little things is so real. Next time she'll have to come to my room to come get anything. I was pained to my bones.

oyetunjibaba:
Hello redpiller..
Good morning all, I have a question to ask,what ur thought about ladies who Pierce her nose and multiple earrings.

Recently noticed my girlfriend starts using nose earrings and multiple earrings.

GravityDefier:
The truth is spilled on every page of this thread. Have been a silent reader here for some few months.
There is this girl that stays in same lodge with me. She asked me to pass her water through my window two days ago but I was wary since I was engaged in a phone conversation, so after I was done with the call I asked her what she said and she replied with "forget, it has passed". This girl has gone to her crib to get water. She called me through my window again this morning as I was preparing to go out that I should please get her drinking water then I asked her "do you not have water"? and she replied that she doesn't have water and then asked me "why did you ask if I have water"? then I told her I felt like asking. On going to get the water I discovered that it was just one left and I will need it after eating. So I told her it's just one left and I'll have to use it. Do you know that this girl went to her crib and got water? (her crib is just like twelve steps away from mine). I had to go out to confront her. She told me there's nothing there na. I told her "don't worry, there'll be next time". This shit testing with little things is so real. Next time she'll have to come to my room to come get anything. I was pained to my bones.

sabbiboi:
Guys like this

Leks65:
Redpill is the Truth

Emmynator:
I have seen stuff like this play out especially in school environments, when you give her water enough times, she feels confident to start entering your room, then before you know it, she is taking some of your shirts she likes.

When I was in school, one of the ladies my roommate was frolicking with always came to take some of his shirts, and they will drag about it, till my roommate end up conceding, there was a day i wasn't around and she saw a shirt that belongs to me and as she picked it, my roommate told her that it belongs to me, he said he was shocked when she immediately dropped the clothes and went back to her room. When I cane back, my roommate told me what transpired, i just smiled

Calibrator:
About to borrow a female acquaintance at my workplace cash and my only requirement is that she drops her phone as collateral.

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She has already asked a few people around and none turned up, I am patiently waiting for whoever will come and tell me that collecting her phone is a harsh measure to secure the loan.


Been long I verbally had to treat someone's fvckup

TheGidRedpiller:
I'm thinking of investing in a skill learning program, for men only of course.
We help in raising kings little by little from there.

What do you guys feel about this idea?

TRP IS GOLDEN!!

MJBOLT:

tell her to drop it with the receipt to avoid stories that touch