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Skyflygang3:
Fear woman I repeat run from woman they know themselves. Singing woman na him dey kill man ooo maybe your mother they tell her don't kill my son for me ooo because thats what they all end up doing.. only red pillers will understand what I say

Kobojunkie:
Let's assume she indeed intentionally blacklisted your mother, what do you intend to do to her and your marriage?

badoh:
Though I'm yet to confront my wife on this as I need to gauge public comment if this act of her is tenable. This is how it goes.
My mum called me last week to know how we were doing( myself, my wife and our children). In such greetings, she will pray for us on the phone and wish us well. However, she told me she has been calling my wife's line for a couple of days but the number always returned busy. I never attached importance to this cos I thought it could be network issue. This week again, she called me to extend her greetings and told me to inform my wife that she has been trying to reach her on phone but her number is busy.
I was curious and wanted to know what actually happened. Around 10pm yesternight, my wife gave me her phone to charge for her as she was already feeling dizzy. I collected the phone and remembered what my mum told me. I went to check if my mum number was blacklisted on her phone, alas, my mum's number was actually blacklisted. I can't really comprehend why she would do such. I'm so disappointed in her for what she did. I had to snap the blacklisted part in case she wants to deny it if I eventually confront her. My mum is not the troublesome type, very calm and kind.
I dont know if I should confront her on this or I should keep it within myself. I can never think of doing such to her own parents.
Has anyone experience this before?

Richy4:
This is the kind of situation that brews Cold war @ home.... I believe you told her that your mother has been calling.. so what was her response on why her phone was not reachable?....

If I was to be in your shoes, I will just ignore it... That's her phone and she can do whatever she wants with it... It's not enough for misunderstanding buddy..

But I will not forget to block her father, mother, grandfather, grandmother, sisters, brothers even their chickens.. or anything associated with her...If she asked, I will say I blocked them sweetie.., U started it first..

Hardquy:
average nigerians functional psychosis faltered before they were birthed

Richy4:

People were basically trying to give an excuse that it was a mistake... I don't just buy that... I mean what kind of phone were they using that blocks people easily?... Blocking people is not the same as a phone that was Pocket dialing..haba!!!

ImaIma1:
If I hadn't experienced it, I would have said it's a lie. My eldest sister blocked me without knowing. I told her that her number was always busy. She said someone else complained of the same thing, and that I should help her check her phone to see if there was a problem.

Lo and behold, she blocked people without knowing.

I remembered the very first time I blocked a number, that was in 2013 with my now discarded old Samsung Galaxy4... Those marketers number that calls and when u pick, a machine will start talking....

I was desperately looking for a digit to press to block them and get my sanity back because I have never blocked anyone before then... it was not easy to locate until I eventually found it... That made me think that before one goes to that blocked click area, one must have that in mind to do so...

Though I might exempt those who were not IT savvy...I don't know if OP's wife is included or not... that will be his call to make if the wife was or not....

But according to what the OP wrote, I believe he must have told her his mother could not reach her when she called several times.. she never acted on it to know if something was wrong... But when u told your sister, she quickly acted on it... She practically asked u to check for her if there was a problem..

That's part of what we are talking about.. if it was deliberate act or not... which by the way, it's not a big deal if it was because she has every right to do whatever with her phone...

badoh:
Though I'm yet to confront my wife on this as I need to gauge public comment if this act of her is tenable. This is how it goes.
My mum called me last week to know how we were doing( myself, my wife and our children). In such greetings, she will pray for us on the phone and wish us well. However, she told me she has been calling my wife's line for a couple of days but the number always returned busy. I never attached importance to this cos I thought it could be network issue. This week again, she called me to extend her greetings and told me to inform my wife that she has been trying to reach her on phone but her number is busy.
I was curious and wanted to know what actually happened. Around 10pm yesternight, my wife gave me her phone to charge for her as she was already feeling dizzy. I collected the phone and remembered what my mum told me. I went to check if my mum number was blacklisted on her phone, alas, my mum's number was actually blacklisted. I can't really comprehend why she would do such. I'm so disappointed in her for what she did. I had to snap the blacklisted part in case she wants to deny it if I eventually confront her. My mum is not the troublesome type, very calm and kind.
I dont know if I should confront her on this or I should keep it within myself. I can never think of doing such to her own parents.
Has anyone experience this before?

maiiilooo:
Calm down and ask her first before you take any action ... sometimes it happens, u can mistakenly place a person's number on blacklist and still don't know for a long time ..
It's normal with my Dad, he does that a lot and then he will call me and be like "please check my phone, I think it's having problem, people are finding it hard to connect with me "
So just chill and ask her first

Richy4:
I remembered the very first time I blocked a number, that was in 2013 with my now discarded old Samsung Galaxy4... Those marketers number that calls and when u pick, a machine will start talking....

I was desperately looking for a digit to press to block them and get my sanity back because I have never blocked anyone before then... it was not easy to locate until I eventually found it... That made me think that before one goes to that blocked click area, one must have that in mind to do so...

Though I might exempt those who were not IT savvy...I don't know if OP's wife is included or not... that will be his call to make if the wife was or not....

But according to what the OP wrote, I believe he must have told her his mother could not reach her when she called several times.. she never acted on it to know if something was wrong... But when u told your sister, she quickly acted on it... She practically asked u to check for her if there was a problem..

That's part of what we are talking about.. if it was deliberate act or not... which by the way, it's not a big deal if it was because she has every right to do whatever with her phone...

badoh:
Though I'm yet to confront my wife on this as I need to gauge public comment if this act of her is tenable. This is how it goes.
My mum called me last week to know how we were doing( myself, my wife and our children). In such greetings, she will pray for us on the phone and wish us well. However, she told me she has been calling my wife's line for a couple of days but the number always returned busy. I never attached importance to this cos I thought it could be network issue. This week again, she called me to extend her greetings and told me to inform my wife that she has been trying to reach her on phone but her number is busy.
I was curious and wanted to know what actually happened. Around 10pm yesternight, my wife gave me her phone to charge for her as she was already feeling dizzy. I collected the phone and remembered what my mum told me. I went to check if my mum number was blacklisted on her phone, alas, my mum's number was actually blacklisted. I can't really comprehend why she would do such. I'm so disappointed in her for what she did. I had to snap the blacklisted part in case she wants to deny it if I eventually confront her. My mum is not the troublesome type, very calm and kind.
I dont know if I should confront her on this or I should keep it within myself. I can never think of doing such to her own parents.
Has anyone experience this before?

chii8:
Lol..... wahala no dey finish!

InTheCloudySky:
You have two options

1. Ask her and be calm with your approach. . She's the only person who can tell you why she has done that.

2. Overlook it and and see it as no big deal. As long as she's respectful and kind to your mom when she visits, that's all that should matter.

badoh:
Though I'm yet to confront my wife on this as I need to gauge public comment if this act of her is tenable. This is how it goes.
My mum called me last week to know how we were doing( myself, my wife and our children). In such greetings, she will pray for us on the phone and wish us well. However, she told me she has been calling my wife's line for a couple of days but the number always returned busy. I never attached importance to this cos I thought it could be network issue. This week again, she called me to extend her greetings and told me to inform my wife that she has been trying to reach her on phone but her number is busy.
I was curious and wanted to know what actually happened. Around 10pm yesternight, my wife gave me her phone to charge for her as she was already feeling dizzy. I collected the phone and remembered what my mum told me. I went to check if my mum number was blacklisted on her phone, alas, my mum's number was actually blacklisted. I can't really comprehend why she would do such. I'm so disappointed in her for what she did. I had to snap the blacklisted part in case she wants to deny it if I eventually confront her. My mum is not the troublesome type, very calm and kind.
I dont know if I should confront her on this or I should keep it within myself. I can never think of doing such to her own parents.
Has anyone experience this before?

greenie77:
You live with your wife but feel a faceless forum like Nairaland should give you directions on how to resolve such an issue in your marital life?

It seems you are eager to have your wife being insulted here (if the story is true) even by folks who are not on speaking terms with their own parents nor siblings.

What has stopped you from raising it up with your wife, the very next morning since you already have the screenshot of the blacklisting to know the issue(s) if any, that led to the blocking?

Probably, you are itching to be told your wife hates your mother!

Nicepoker:
You will never do what you posted.

oluplus:
I love your submission, but that "overlook it" is what I don't subscribe to.

fattprince:
Hey, when did you come back?
I've missed you so much.

chii8:
: I don't understand oooo

fattprince:
Do we have another chi. Are you not the chi that deactivated last year?

chii8:
No Sir! I have never deactivated from this forum,I don't even know how to do that.

badoh:
Though I'm yet to confront my wife on this as I need to gauge public comment if this act of her is tenable. This is how it goes.
My mum called me last week to know how we were doing( myself, my wife and our children). In such greetings, she will pray for us on the phone and wish us well. However, she told me she has been calling my wife's line for a couple of days but the number always returned busy. I never attached importance to this cos I thought it could be network issue. This week again, she called me to extend her greetings and told me to inform my wife that she has been trying to reach her on phone but her number is busy.
I was curious and wanted to know what actually happened. Around 10pm yesternight, my wife gave me her phone to charge for her as she was already feeling dizzy. I collected the phone and remembered what my mum told me. I went to check if my mum number was blacklisted on her phone, alas, my mum's number was actually blacklisted. I can't really comprehend why she would do such. I'm so disappointed in her for what she did. I had to snap the blacklisted part in case she wants to deny it if I eventually confront her. My mum is not the troublesome type, very calm and kind.
I dont know if I should confront her on this or I should keep it within myself. I can never think of doing such to her own parents.
Has anyone experience this before?

PlsBanMe:
Some here are not married and will likely give you useless advice.

Listen, your mom might have been blocked for being over caring. If she calls your wife too often due to her care and love, your wife might not like it. She may take it as disturbance.

As a married man, discuss your discovery with your wife first. Ask her why she blacklisted your mom's number. If she tells you the reason, reason together. If she denies it, ask her to remove your mom from being blacklisted.

Not talking isn't good. It will make you unhappy, make her untrustworthy and she may not even know what she has done. Talk to her about it immediately so you can move on. There are many things in Nigeria that can make you happy. Don't make yourself unhappy.