FERNANDEZISBACK:

Ok then..if that's the way you want it.. good for you.

Switch roles for a second. If your daughter brings a guy you don't approve of (you know everything dirty about him) and presents him as her future partner, will you accept it?

We have similar choices and they won't reject.
But if in rear case they did, I will obey them. Simple!

WetinIsabi:


Switch roles for a second. If your daughter brings a guy you don't approve of (you know everything dirty about him) and presents him as her future partner, will you accept it?

I sure will advise her then if she wish to go for him..why not..

WetinIsabi:


This is a serious question. Surprisingly, I have never thought about it. I guess I will have no choice but to obey mummy and daddy!

You have reasoned well, all you need to do is to ask then to tell you their own reasons for not accepting her

FERNANDEZISBACK:

Let your parents keep joking and deceiving themselves around then..
I can't even imagine a grown up asking his parents for permission to marry someone you love..

Are they the one getting married or you?if they keep rejecting then let them stay clear off your marriage simple..

Go for what you want and stop making yourself so uncomfortable cos of what people are gonna say..

If that is the case, you are going to take their child from her parents without her parents consent

FERNANDEZISBACK:

I sure will advise her then if she wish to go for him..why not..

Bros forget! You will do everything in your power to stop that marriage from happening. Hell! You might even go as far as disowning her.

People that go against the wishes of their parents tend to forget that they will become parents one day. They forget that they will not tolerate or accept rebellion or betrayal from the children they sacrificed so much to raise. They forget that they will not stand and fold their arms when their inexperienced children engage in acts that can damage their future.

Obey mummy and daddy so that all will be well with you.

frozen70:


If that is the case, you are going to take their child from her parents without her parents consent

This shouldn't be for me..

WetinIsabi:


Bros forget! You will do everything in your power to stop that marriage from happening. Hell! You might even go as far as disowning her.

People that go against the wishes of their parents tend to forget that they will become parents one day. They forget that they will not tolerate or accept rebellion or betrayal from the children they sacrificed so much to raise. They forget that they will not stand and fold their arms when their inexperienced children engage in acts that can damage their future.

Obey mummy and daddy so that all will be well with you.

I told you what I will do..

FERNANDEZISBACK:

I told you what I will do..

Yimu

FERNANDEZISBACK:

This shouldn't be for me..

It's for you because you said why should a son take permission from parents before going into marriage

frozen70:


It's for you because you said why should a son take permission from parents before going into marriage

Why should you?

WetinIsabi:


Yimu

uthlaw:
bros no love anywhere,just obey ur mum!

LOL, speak for yourself bro

Munzy14:

Maintain your stand, soon or later they all will adjust and warm up to your choice.

Who choose is your choice and your happiness..Your parents are just there..Who choose is where you obtain favour.

In this modern age, parents should have a rethink...And old family feud shouldn't be a barrier now.

Thanks for your mature contribution

arthurwillia:


How ar you handling it please

I won't lie, it hasn't been easy. My mum literally gives her attitude when she comes around so I stopped her from coming around often. This lady in question didn't even offend my mum directly in anyway. I mean if you don't want people to be together, give tangible and reasonable reasons not just "Their family is not good", I mean who exactly is good?

Dammyseyon:

LOL, speak for yourself bro

naso ena go talk,later ena go come here for advice!

Facing similar issue right now.

My mom is the only person that just hate my GF, She has stopped her from visiting our house.
Her reason is because she knows little about her family, she just believe every lies about the family, She doesn't want to see her at all, talk more of me getting married to her.
Though she didn't give me any tangible reason, maybe its because she knows that I am not the first BF the girl will have and because her mom also remarry after the death of her first husband.
Though she gat some point but the society we are now is beyond looking for one village girl to marry, Its this my babe that gave me all her details that gave me all the money I am spending now.

I have explained tired, she refuse, Now my Revenge is to have more money and start living afar from them.

Cuz breaking this girl heart will be one of the most wicked act on earth, She has done the unthinkable for me, when I had Issue for bank, relating to fraud, this babe went to police station to present herself as the owner of the account.

Thank God she comes out from it without sentence by the Court. Now Imagine me breaking her heart, and start spending all she worked and suffer for with another lady.

Make my mom go rest and keep enjoying my money. while I also choose for myself who I wish to marry, just the way she choose my dad for herself back then without her patent stopping her.

Munzy14:

If the reason isn't caste system predominantly in South East or a generational problem with the person's family, I won't buy that...

I just have to let them be in my shoes and understand the angle perfectly..

It means I will have a conviction work to do ahead..

hmmmmmm

WetinIsabi:


This is a serious question. Surprisingly, I have never thought about it. I guess I will have no choice but to obey mummy and daddy!

why

FERNANDEZISBACK:

Let your parents keep joking and deceiving themselves around then..
I can't even imagine a grown up asking his parents for permission to marry someone you love..

Are they the one getting married or you?if they keep rejecting then let them stay clear off your marriage simple..

Go for what you want and stop making yourself so uncomfortable cos of what people are gonna say..

you dey para gan

DanielAlhassan:
you dey para gan

Yeah you should know..

FERNANDEZISBACK:

Yeah you should know..

am kind of obedient to my parents if am in a situation like this I would have to disobey them for the first time

WetinIsabi:


Switch roles for a second. If your daughter brings a guy you don't approve of (you know everything dirty about him) and presents him as her future partner, will you accept it?

lolz this your question carry weight ooh

DanielAlhassan:
am kind of obedient to my parents if am in a situation like this I would have to disobey them for the first time

Exactly..
You have your own life to live..

FERNANDEZISBACK:

Exactly..
You have your own life to live..

yeah

What if the girl my parents want me to marry I don't like her

I don't buy she has good character, she can cook , she is good at everything..

Nobody is perfect

My choice to make
My cross to carry .

My call to make

DanielAlhassan:
yeah

What if the girl my parents want me to marry I don't like her

I don't buy she has good character, she can cook , she is good at everything..

Nobody is perfect

My choice to make
My cross to carry .

My call to make

Simple as that but some people will keep saying obey and listen to your parent..with your own life again. .

FERNANDEZISBACK:

No one says you shouldn't seek their approval but if they are bent on rejecting then let them be and move on..

ffs why are you on every fcking thread its Annoying, and you no dey ever make sense,only derailing the thread

Furcko:
ffs why are you on every fcking thread its Annoying, and you no dey ever make sense,only derailing the thread

You sure can smash your head or your phone..that will be better than crying like a kid on my mention..

FERNANDEZISBACK:

Simple as that but some people will keep saying obey and listen to your parent..with your own life again. .

their choice

DanielAlhassan:
their choice

FERNANDEZISBACK:

DanielAlhassan: