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Re: Why Too Many Broken Marriage? Any Way Around It? by Shokoloko(f): 2:34pm On Feb 01, 2022 |
The number of broken marriages did not increase. There have always been broken marriages. Couples staying together just because of society, living as roommates - separate bedrooms, minimal communication. Some as enemies under the same roof. The only difference is that divorce is no longer a stigma and that is why its looking like more marriages are being broken. How many women of our mothers go to visit their children and never return to their marital homes - that was their way of saying good bye to the marriage. How many of our fathers moved to the village and left the mothers in the homes in the city - that was their way of saying good bye to the marriage. 4 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Why Too Many Broken Marriage? Any Way Around It? by Christmasdon(m): 2:38pm On Feb 01, 2022 |
So many have lost their good morals, involving this time me got to know who Lilith was. |
Re: Why Too Many Broken Marriage? Any Way Around It? by WhatCanIsay(m): 2:43pm On Feb 01, 2022 |
smile11s: What you are doing is wrong in all ramifications!!! It's purely evil, did you ask me to use my material on your website? Did I willingly contribute on your website? You even went to the extent of ascribing my opinion as yours in one of your posts... You won't go far if you continue like that. I didn't even bother with the crude behaviour till I noticed the deception. Kindly remove it from there. 1 Like
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Re: Why Too Many Broken Marriage? Any Way Around It? by ibrahimovic303: 2:47pm On Feb 01, 2022 |
Interesting post..,I would say that the current system of things favour women greatly, in other words men stand to lose more in marriage especially if the man is wealthy…so Yeah baby daddy and baby mama is the mid point of it all and will just continue |
Re: Why Too Many Broken Marriage? Any Way Around It? by Shokoloko(f): 2:50pm On Feb 01, 2022 |
lorenzos1: Truth |
Re: Why Too Many Broken Marriage? Any Way Around It? by bigl: 2:59pm On Feb 01, 2022 |
WhatCanIsay: A lot of factors made marriages non-lasting..... one of which is feminism .... Majorly, a lot of youths who claim to be ready for marriage happen not to schooled and informed enough about what it takes to keep a home ... Ladies of nowadays want to be married and still be shaking their tiny bumbum upandan with boiz ... while guys now believe you can be married and still be doing "let me give u the koko" to every lady to which the wives would want revenge ... Who reads relationship and marriage books again? For where? Everything na facebook, twitter, instagram with little or nothing to help in training the mind .... Nevertheless, we have some marriages that are still working sha And yeah, this silly concept of dating and breaking like 1000 times in a year ... 1 Like |
Re: Why Too Many Broken Marriage? Any Way Around It? by Munzy14(m): 3:01pm On Feb 01, 2022 |
worldclass68:Your attached meme delivered the message needed here... All other things here are mere epistles. 1 Like |
Re: Why Too Many Broken Marriage? Any Way Around It? by Chapelbeatz(m): 3:02pm On Feb 01, 2022 |
No cap ba, This is one of the most educative thread I have seen in this forum in a longggggg while. Marriage no be joke anyways. Only God and us fit help ourself. |
Re: Why Too Many Broken Marriage? Any Way Around It? by Don27tiky(m): 3:04pm On Feb 01, 2022 |
ZIMDRILL:all you explained is the reason why feminism is the problem. Why should woman want to be at equal with men? If men start demanding to be treated like women all hell will be let loose. God never made man to be equal with women. A woman can never be equal to a man. That’s how God create us |
Re: Why Too Many Broken Marriage? Any Way Around It? by Olaideolayemi(m): 3:35pm On Feb 01, 2022 |
To me, It's poor foundation in relationship, pretence,lust,and incompatibility and finally pack of maturity on marriage institution.. |
Re: Why Too Many Broken Marriage? Any Way Around It? by Spanki(f): 3:39pm On Feb 01, 2022 |
The truth is that marriage cages a lady in a way and that is what the women of today can't stand. It's as simple as ABC. 1 Like |
Re: Why Too Many Broken Marriage? Any Way Around It? by MufasaLion: 3:47pm On Feb 01, 2022 |
Simran94: So many ignorant folks blinded by hatred. 1 Like |
Re: Why Too Many Broken Marriage? Any Way Around It? by ogub(m): 3:47pm On Feb 01, 2022 |
Simply put people have abandoned love for God and his word's and are busy chasing shadow that can never truly satisfy the longing of the soul until we come back to God in genuine repentance and obedience to his word's we'll keep asking questions that we'll not have answer to. |
Re: Why Too Many Broken Marriage? Any Way Around It? by OKEMKPI: 3:55pm On Feb 01, 2022 |
People show about 40% of Thier character during courtship,after marriage,the remaining 60%are released in batches and in most times they are at variance with the 40%shown earlier. Separation and divorce happen when the 60% of the character shown after marriage becomes unpleasant and beyond tolerance to either of the spouse. |
Re: Why Too Many Broken Marriage? Any Way Around It? by mikkyjay(m): 4:01pm On Feb 01, 2022 |
WhatCanIsay: You asked questions and you still want to answer them. |
Re: Why Too Many Broken Marriage? Any Way Around It? by Zeinymira(f): 4:04pm On Feb 01, 2022 |
Everything I read was "Nigerian women" repeatedly mentioned. A single gender cannot make a marriage work. Marriage is between two people and only those two can make it work. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Too Many Broken Marriage? Any Way Around It? by Proudlyngwa(m): 4:05pm On Feb 01, 2022 |
ZIMDRILL:I opened a shop for my wife, not because of side hustle but for idleness, keeping fit and in case of I die unexpectedly. I am not earning what society term enough but what gives me satisfaction is very minimal and I have taught my wife same. I have come to discover that human wants are insatiable and if you don't tame that if you like you and your wife should be President and vice or farmer and housewife without curbing your desires, you will always want more. If u want a functional family, one person needs to be a provider, the other or others an administrator. |
Re: Why Too Many Broken Marriage? Any Way Around It? by Princewill1(m): 4:06pm On Feb 01, 2022 |
Why it's counterproductive for an African man to marry in this era is that what we now have are westernized-african women. The global spread and dominance of Western culture robbed us of our true African women. (ie the women that our forefathers married) Since changes has occurred in our culture due to Western influence and education. For we to stay abreast we have to change with the times. The time that we are in doesn't call for marriage because it's not favourable to the African man... (Excerpts from a post I made weeks ago) |
Re: Why Too Many Broken Marriage? Any Way Around It? by Newboss(m): 4:13pm On Feb 01, 2022 |
Marriage has outlived its usefulness. Women are wild now. Nigga forget marriage. Na crap and wahala. |
Re: Why Too Many Broken Marriage? Any Way Around It? by smile11s(m): 4:29pm On Feb 01, 2022 |
WhatCanIsay: You are the one that actually copied it from the website. So forget it |
Re: Why Too Many Broken Marriage? Any Way Around It? by BigBashiru: 4:29pm On Feb 01, 2022 |
Spanki: And marriage does not cage a man financially?? 2 Likes |
Re: Why Too Many Broken Marriage? Any Way Around It? by Belial06: 4:34pm On Feb 01, 2022 |
WhatCanIsay: This is the best sum up of the whole thing I have ever seen. It's either you copied it or I need to have an orgy with your brain. This is why there are so many unhappy over aged unmarried women. Women especially fall into this mistake. Men are remin and will always be generally visual creatures so the whole impatience thing doesn't really work on men what really changed with men was our taste and preferences for women 1 Like |
Re: Why Too Many Broken Marriage? Any Way Around It? by WhatCanIsay(m): 4:44pm On Feb 01, 2022 |
smile11s: Wow, you really want to take it that far?? I was even thinking I was talking to someone that has a bit of a human being in him. You really want to stand on what you just spewed now? |
Re: Why Too Many Broken Marriage? Any Way Around It? by Cookie14: 4:46pm On Feb 01, 2022 |
It's very easy , if you feel women are the cause of a broken marriage, endeavour to send only ur boy child to school so ur girl child can be dependent on their spouse. I will use nigeria as a case study. A man wants you to support him sometimes even saying 50/50 contributions towards running the home. He wants to flex and do everything the modern world has to offer but will prefer his woman to remain in the 60's , how possible is that. I hear most young lads talking about how they cant marry a woman who doesnt have anything doing in this very hard and demanding society and yet u expect the girls not to go ahead to do what it takes to get something to do knowing fully well it will land them a man. A woman start working 9-5 job as a man and still expected to take care of everything concerning her man and also deal with his excessive emotions. A woman also expecting her man to provide everything for her in this economy and start comparing him to other guys. Marriage can be beautiful but the fact is very small amount of marriages are worthy of emulation, Reason" Trust. He or she might decide to leave me if i open up. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Too Many Broken Marriage? Any Way Around It? by Nobody: 5:10pm On Feb 01, 2022 |
Relax my people CLIMATE CHANGE caused it all |
Re: Why Too Many Broken Marriage? Any Way Around It? by Afonasa(m): 5:12pm On Feb 01, 2022 |
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Re: Why Too Many Broken Marriage? Any Way Around It? by ARmanx(m): 5:17pm On Feb 01, 2022 |
There is way to many adultry and fornication going on as a result its cheaper to get sex than to marry we as humans require sex to bond when u abuse it …obviously you loose that ability to bond….the spiritual controls the physical first!!! The earth is balanced and ruled by laws …do as you wish but it must balance there is always a consequence for everything 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Why Too Many Broken Marriage? Any Way Around It? by ZIMDRILL(m): 5:32pm On Feb 01, 2022 |
Don27tiky: dont expect that every lives according to the bible thats your 1st mistake 2nd is equal means alot of thing, eg some parents dont support their daughter to get the highest education simply becoz they believe that she will get married one day and move away so she is not worth supporting, feminism is just pointing at things that disadvantages women meaning they want to be treated fairly as men or given same opportunities as men |
Re: Why Too Many Broken Marriage? Any Way Around It? by hayzed1090: 5:35pm On Feb 01, 2022 |
ZIMDRILL: You see this your reasoning is responsible for the recent high rate of divorce, and its most likely to continue increasing looking at the number of people that have been brainwashed to believe your new CIVILIZED ORIENTATION. Men and women , Husband and Wife - are not equal and will never be equal.. The natural relationship is EQUITY and not EQUALITY. Been a husband gives you some right at the expense of wife , also as a wife you enjoy some opportunities that the husband is denied. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Too Many Broken Marriage? Any Way Around It? by ZIMDRILL(m): 5:44pm On Feb 01, 2022 |
Proudlyngwa: like i have said before feminism differs from country to county and tradition to tradition etc you see what you said last applies may be in the nigeria environment where you are ok be the only provider while wife is the administrator right fair enough then look in the western world to buy a house you need a mortgage, to repay it its calculated based your family income, so lets say it will take you 20 years to clear the mortgage based on the sole income of whoever is the breadwinner. But lets say both hubby and wife are working the mortgage period of repayment will be reduced to may be 15 years meaning you have quickly cleared your mortgage |
Re: Why Too Many Broken Marriage? Any Way Around It? by ednut1(m): 5:55pm On Feb 01, 2022 |
Feminism, women now money, there are many relationship expert deceiving people, people marry who have money instead of who dey love, sexual liberation. We are damned in this generation 1 Like |
Re: Why Too Many Broken Marriage? Any Way Around It? by Proudlyngwa(m): 6:03pm On Feb 01, 2022 |
ZIMDRILL: Everything is based on level of containment A lot of western families especially Latinos/ asians still run provider administrator system ant they are very comfortable. 1 Like |
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