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Re: Why Too Many Broken Marriage? Any Way Around It? by iCauseTrouble: 1:02pm On Feb 01, 2022 |
This happens when ladies leave their soul mates for cashmates 3 Likes |
Re: Why Too Many Broken Marriage? Any Way Around It? by Mophor: 1:02pm On Feb 01, 2022 |
Issokay!!! |
Re: Why Too Many Broken Marriage? Any Way Around It? by judedwriter(m): 1:04pm On Feb 01, 2022 |
We live in a microwave generation where everyone wants it quick quick. Marriage isn't a sprint, but a marathon. Many young people enter into marriage with the mindset of dating, not realizing that marriage can be very trying and tasking. Marriage is hard work! A loveless marriage is hell on earth and a major reason why many break down. It takes a lot of patience, tolerance, to build love with someone different from in the oldest institution called marriage. 6 Likes |
Re: Why Too Many Broken Marriage? Any Way Around It? by Storyoflove: 1:05pm On Feb 01, 2022 |
WhatCanIsay: Human beings did not originate or design marriage. Marriage was designed and instituted by God. The only way to get it right is to submit to God and ask Him for how marriage run. And the only way for all humans to get to God is through Christ...this is beyond just being in Christian religion. Real Christianity is never about just going to church or being born in a Christian family...it is by accepting Christ as your LORD and personal saviour and living according to His standard by grace. True Christians are few.....people may be many in Christian religion. 3 Likes |
Re: Why Too Many Broken Marriage? Any Way Around It? by sofeo(m): 1:08pm On Feb 01, 2022 |
Ok. |
Re: Why Too Many Broken Marriage? Any Way Around It? by kuntash: 1:10pm On Feb 01, 2022 |
As long as the author or designer of marriage is ignored before and very often after marriages .... The Trend is likely to continue .. Anyone can argue from now till thy kingdom come... God almighty is the owner of marriage while the forces adversed to the design is also known .... Turn to God , seek his opinion in ALL things especially regarding marriage ... 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Too Many Broken Marriage? Any Way Around It? by McCoy9067(m): 1:23pm On Feb 01, 2022 |
I don't know which to read. The epistle is too much.. i no get time |
Re: Why Too Many Broken Marriage? Any Way Around It? by Proudlyngwa(m): 1:26pm On Feb 01, 2022 |
ZIMDRILL: @ The bolded, where do you guys get this idea from, what we don't want is a wasteful woman, not someone we can't take care of. |
Re: Why Too Many Broken Marriage? Any Way Around It? by Joseph08(m): 1:28pm On Feb 01, 2022 |
Money conscious no love again, that's the main reason for broken marriages. Untill it's love and not for the money, The main way round it. 1 Like
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Re: Why Too Many Broken Marriage? Any Way Around It? by Bignuell(m): 1:31pm On Feb 01, 2022 |
1. People marry for the wrong reasons 2. Patience is lacking is present time marriages 3. People now invite God when swearing in the marriage oath but as soon as they leave the venue, they leave God there 4. Marriage is about service to each other, but sadly evveryone want to be served, not only when you're Hot 5. Alot of people carry "dating character" into marriage 6. Some partner want to be begged, appeased before they would communicate their feelings Just a few though |
Re: Why Too Many Broken Marriage? Any Way Around It? by Jeromejnr(m): 1:32pm On Feb 01, 2022 |
Darlingme: I love your answer |
Re: Why Too Many Broken Marriage? Any Way Around It? by womenareapess: 1:32pm On Feb 01, 2022 |
WhatCanIsay:the only way to avoid it is to stop marrying those ediots called naija women |
Re: Why Too Many Broken Marriage? Any Way Around It? by kumulus(m): 1:35pm On Feb 01, 2022 |
GENESIS 3 "......... and man became like Us" |
Re: Why Too Many Broken Marriage? Any Way Around It? by TheGift: 1:37pm On Feb 01, 2022 |
Because there are too many broken people getting into marriage, and broken people break things. 4 Likes |
Re: Why Too Many Broken Marriage? Any Way Around It? by BigBashiru: 1:39pm On Feb 01, 2022 |
WhatCanIsay: 1. Quality of parents have degraded. 2. Social media gave guys and girls a false sense of abundance.... until its too late for both guys and girls. 3. Boyfriends and girlfriends takes the fun part of marriage out of marriage. All husbands and wives get is responsibility without the fun. for example, immediately after marriage children are expected = responsibilities... once children are born, the womans affection goes to the children. man is working woman is working tension stress etc. This is because the fun part of marriage is now had with boyfriends and girl friends instead of husband and wife.... |
Re: Why Too Many Broken Marriage? Any Way Around It? by Great0ne1: 1:40pm On Feb 01, 2022 |
socialmediaman:On top of my list, is failed parenting. |
Re: Why Too Many Broken Marriage? Any Way Around It? by worldclass68(m): 1:41pm On Feb 01, 2022 |
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Re: Why Too Many Broken Marriage? Any Way Around It? by Erastuslove: 1:45pm On Feb 01, 2022 |
Women wants to be men and SEX libido differences is one of the MAJOR marriage BREAKER |
Re: Why Too Many Broken Marriage? Any Way Around It? by PeterCA1: 1:52pm On Feb 01, 2022 |
Because the think marriage is something you can go in and come out as you like. Marriage is some kind Mystery and if you don't get to solve this mystery you will not understand marriage. |
Re: Why Too Many Broken Marriage? Any Way Around It? by sircatherine45(m): 1:57pm On Feb 01, 2022 |
The reason is immaturity. Everybody wan rush enter marriages without patience and trust. Them wan marry AS E DEY HOT |
Re: Why Too Many Broken Marriage? Any Way Around It? by benjanny(m): 1:59pm On Feb 01, 2022 |
Too Much Of High Expectations |
Re: Why Too Many Broken Marriage? Any Way Around It? by bigpicture001: 2:00pm On Feb 01, 2022 |
Darlingme: Honestly.. u made my day 1 Like |
Re: Why Too Many Broken Marriage? Any Way Around It? by Clickguy44: 2:04pm On Feb 01, 2022 |
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Re: Why Too Many Broken Marriage? Any Way Around It? by Phinex(m): 2:10pm On Feb 01, 2022 |
ibkonekt: You are so right. Feminism has contributed in no small measure to broken marriages. 1 Like |
Re: Why Too Many Broken Marriage? Any Way Around It? by Bounceboune7: 2:11pm On Feb 01, 2022 |
socialmediaman:God bless u jare Don't mind that guy talking about feminism of work place when we haven't even seen a topic like that raised anywhere but every day we hear about women wanting to b equal in marriage. Feminism according to Nigeria ladies is all about being in total control of man,they only calm down wen it comes to sharing d bills. Lately there's a grammar they term body liberation,I don't know if I am correct with the name they believe they can do anything with their body without being accountable to anybody. Just imagine someone who wants to b taken serious but believes she cam use her body anyhow. 3 Likes |
Re: Why Too Many Broken Marriage? Any Way Around It? by Greystone: 2:18pm On Feb 01, 2022 |
Elianawalker: Have you been married before? |
Re: Why Too Many Broken Marriage? Any Way Around It? by Nobody: 2:18pm On Feb 01, 2022 |
WhatCanIsay: A lot is happening in marriages of these centuries. Many of our Grandmothers and mothers were full housewives, many of them endured domestic violence and had to endure it because they had nowhere to go or money to take care of themselves and kids. Many of our fathers and grandfathers would have affairs outside their marriages with their wives knowing about it and there’s nothing they can do about it, some of those men went as far as bringing children they had outside into their homes and forcing their wives to accept them as one of their own or they could as well leave the marriage. But nowadays, women are no longer trying to be full housewives with no source of income, women are no longer trying to endure domestic violence(well some), you try that and they walk away (Marriage is not a do or die affair). Women are no longer trying to be cheated on or walked all over like some slave according to the way African tradition sees women. Some men don’t like it when their wives earn more than them, it makes them feel less of a man so they would rather ask their wives to quit their jobs and no woman would do that. That’s for the women aspect according to personal surveys I made with some old women and young women. For the men, I don’t really know. I tried asking a few men and they just laughed. 5 Likes |
Re: Why Too Many Broken Marriage? Any Way Around It? by ZIMDRILL(m): 2:22pm On Feb 01, 2022 |
Proudlyngwa: cool i respect your point of view but in general how many men out there earning enough that wife doesnt do what you call side hustle to supplement the husband's income |
Re: Why Too Many Broken Marriage? Any Way Around It? by Nobody: 2:24pm On Feb 01, 2022 |
MufasaLion: You sef see am. Ask them what feminism is now, they will go and copy, paste from google 2 Likes |
Re: Why Too Many Broken Marriage? Any Way Around It? by lorenzos1: 2:25pm On Feb 01, 2022 |
From my observations, a lot of marriages fail due to a couple of reasons. 1. Lies and false expectations; I have seen relationships where the guy and girl keep lying to each other on background, finances and always putting up false appearances and raising unrealistic expectations, when they finally marry reality sets in and both parties are unwilling to settle into the new lower reality. 2. Intolerance: Simply put people no longer want to endure any form of discomfort, people are very impatient and once things don't work out, they move on to the next. 3. Changes in the dating scene and Social media influence: Before the average lady is 25 she would have dated 3 to 4 guys, also the average 30 year old guy has dated several ladies, dating and breaking up with multiple partners does not prepare you for marriage, it prepares you for divorce, cause you are now used to leaving when it doesn't work. Social media doesn't help, a lot of media personalities have been divorced and they create an impression that it is not that bad. This creates a herd mentality "Everyone is doing it". 4. Lastly the world has lost its moral compass people just want to enjoy life, have multiple sexual partners and not be accountable to anyone, Religions that once gave us a strong moral guide is now viewed as false due to the many scandals involving Men of God. Women are now able to express and explore their own sexual desires, before it used to be frowned at and men ran the show. But now it goes both ways and men can't take it. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Why Too Many Broken Marriage? Any Way Around It? by smile11s(m): 2:33pm On Feb 01, 2022 |
WhatCanIsay: Very true. https://gist.am/question/why-are-there-too-many-broken-marriage-in-this-recent-times-are-there-any-ways-around-it |
Re: Why Too Many Broken Marriage? Any Way Around It? by Nobody: 2:34pm On Feb 01, 2022 |
WhatCanIsay: Spiritual battles aside. Impatience, In-laws' advices and Demand from them; especially from wife's side if she has younger ones who are still looking for admission or are already in higher institutions. No wife would want to leave her marriage because the husband is not helping his own family but will frustrate the hell out of a man if he's not ready to help her own younger ones or parents. Some wives want equal rights and believe the money they make is theirs while husband's money belongs to everyone. Very few ladies go into marriage with true love. Game plan has taken the place of true love in the hearts of some wives. Some do not really know what they want. Very few wives would wholeheartedly support DNA Test; even if it is free. So, they use divorce or separation to prevent the shame. I come in peace. 1 Like |
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