Peaceyw:

Hahaha, I remember you, that troll that came here the first time and was insulting ubûñjà, now u wan dey disguise abi

Aren't you the weakling whose sister always beats up your mother? Lol, bro abeg put ur family in order before you step outside.

ubunja:
I was actually thinking about this yesterday..... On this chosen/cold approach debate, it's like the guys who have never had a girl choose them and never experienced a relationship based on chosen, are the most hardcore opponents of it. All their life they've been choosing yet hate being chosen like the very plague. Why are they so opposed? It's an ego thing. The very thought of being chosen makes them feel weak and effeminate. It appears un-Alpha to them. Such guys have a lot of un-learning and deprogramming to do.

Investing their time chasing after females for majority of their life is a hard thing to get rid of.

The only baffling thing is why they hang around the REDPILL if they want to keep doing the same thing the way they've always done before.

BluePILLED men who are unwilling to learn and unplug are the reason why thesame thing is being repeated over and over after 1000+ pages in the thread.

It is very hard to put men on game on public forums. Even REDPILL YouTubers with over 300k subscribers create secret telegram and discord channels where you all will only be few hundreds. This is because there are a lot of things that can't be discussed on public forums and they can't afford to lose money. Hence they make REDPILL contents in such a way that even bluePILLED men will like and subscribe.

Imagine things that are supposed to be basics of the REDPILL becoming so hard to digest.

ubunja:
dude,, getting numbers and chatting for hours with girls is not body count.

And who said anything about that being body counts?

The fact is, generally, guys who cold approach get laid more than guys who wait for signals.

It's common sense.... Unless you have proven facts to disprove it.

Most of the cold approaching guys might be simping. But that's not what's in debate here.
Who gets more pvssy, regardless of the quality, is what I'm talking about.

If a guy approaches 40 chics in a week, there's a good chance of him hitting at least 2 of them. While the same guy might not be able to get with one girl in a week, because he hasn't gotten any new greenlight that week.

All in all, I'm not saying cold approach is better -- I prefer hot approach. I'm saying, it's wise to be able to combine and balance both cold and hot approach.

I hate & love the redpill at the same time.

ubunja:
you're out of your league on this one. Maybe you need to sit this one out and take notes.

First of all: Greenlights by a girl = a girl cold approaching you.

It's one and the same thing.

I've given you a starting point. Connect the rest of the dots yourself.

Since I'm not a professor of women affairs he decided to argue .
Oh well

ubunja:
you're out of your league on this one. Maybe you need to sit this one out and take notes.

First of all: Greenlights by a girl = a girl cold approaching you.

It's one and the same thing.

I've given you a starting point. Connect the rest of the dots yourself.

LOL. I clearly disagree. But I have no interest in arguing further.

Tonnyray:
Like seriously? Cold approaching ladies is more addictive than sex itself. I kid you not.. and this is coming from a sex addict of sorts. Once you hit the 80% success mark you become unstoppable.. and I hit and surpassed that over 7 years ago. It becomes so bad it literally begins to control you just like any other addiction. The success comes not just by your personality and confidence garnered over years of experience but also by knowing intuitively if, when, where and how to approach a lady. How else do people get pvssy to fvck if I may ask? Neighbors? Churchmates? Workmates? Classmates? Naah! For me, I see what I like, I go for it. Never compromised on specs.
Believe me when I say this, cold approaching chicks is way more addictive than sex.

What's cold and hot approach

CaveAdullam:


For the records, despite male horniness and sexual promiscuity, sexual intercourse is dropping for the male folks daily. More men are taking a bow out of the sexual market because it has been seriously deregulated.

Men recording higher body counts via cold approaching are simping for pvssy most of the times as their TEAR(Tear, Energy, Attention, Resources) gets parted away in exchange. Other men recording higher body counts is via "warm approaching": Prostitutes.

I agree with your points though.

Skepticus

NeroStealth01:
If you have ever been chosen by a woman before even if it is just once, you will never ever find cold approaching interesting. It would be a great waste of your precious time.

If a woman has ever wanted you so badly before, you will know that women also SIMP in great heights as bluePILLED men.
A woman who chooses you will call you every blessed day without even worrying or complaining about you not reciprocating.

If you have experienced being chosen before, cold approaching will bore you. Trying to impress a girl to like you will feel so stupid and abnormal.

You will never have to use a punch a line when she chooses you. You can do no wrong in the face of a woman who chooses you.
She will hug you on the first date. If you try to kiss her she won't resist you. She won't make you wait for anything.

When she chooses you, you don't have to take her to a fancy restaurant to impress her. Merely seeing your face alone she is already impressed, to the extent that she won't even notice the environment of the first date.

When you have experienced being chosen, you will never ever deal with low interest women again.

So much to talk about so little time. With all that has been preached here, there is still a lot to be learned.
If you want to do things the way you have always done it before coming to the REDPILL, then there is no reason to be here.

#TAKETHEREDPILL
#STAYREDPILLED
#STAYCOLD

This bro! This!!

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Junnior:
LOL. I clearly disagree. But I have no interest in arguing further.

good. Just sit and learn.

Junnior:
LOL. I clearly disagree. But I have no interest in arguing further.

good. Just sit and learn.

Karleb:


Amber Heard did same with Johnny Depp and ruined his career.

Her own case was even makeup, where as she was the one abusing Johnny Depp.

If not for CCTV, Johnny would be in prison by now. If a wife could do that, how much more an estranged girlfriend.

This girl could be lying and incase she is, only God can help Greenwood if he doesn't have evidence to proof otherwise.

my issues about all dis mata is dat after everything she will still go Free after it........na make more girls get mind Dy do am cus nothing bad go do am if people find out Dem lying abt it

Junnior:

And who said anything about that being body counts?

The fact is, generally, guys who cold approach get laid more than guys who wait for signals.

It's common sense.... Unless you have proven facts to disprove it.

Most of the cold approaching guys might be simping. But that's not what's in debate here.
Who gets more pvssy, regardless of the quality, is what I'm talking about.

If a guy approaches 40 chics in a week, there's a good chance of him hitting at least 2 of them. While the same guy might not be able to get with one girl in a week, because he hasn't gotten any new greenlight that week.

All in all, I'm not saying cold approach is better -- I prefer hot approach. I'm saying, it's wise to be able to combine and balance both cold and hot approach.

if you paid attention to women who are paying attention to you, ignoring those women who catch your eye, you'd find that each day atleast one woman looks at you nicely. I'm saying at least one, cause whenever I'm top of my game hygienically and fashionwise not a single day passes without at least one female pleasantly looking me up and down. You're always on hunt mode, that you always miss the hints when females hunt you in return.

Hotspotbro:

Simp food

na dis kind of girl Dy get only 5k for UBA bank ND Dy go Dy find iPhone 11 boys

NeroStealth01:


Investing their time chasing after females for majority of their life is a hard thing to get rid of.

The only baffling thing is why they hang around the REDPILL if they want to keep doing the same thing the way they've always done before.

BluePILLED men who are unwilling to learn and unplug are the reason why thesame thing is being repeated over and over after 1000+ pages in the thread.

It is very hard to put men on game on public forums. Even REDPILL YouTubers with over 300k subscribers create secret telegram and discord channels where you all will only be few hundreds. This is because there are a lot of things that can't be discussed on public forums and they can't afford to lose money. Hence they make REDPILL contents in such a way that even bluePILLED men will like and subscribe.

Imagine things that are supposed to be basics of the REDPILL becoming so hard to digest.

guys who advocate for the cold approach don't really realize how blue pill that is. I mean that's how even the most clueless amateur human male interacts with women: see what I like, go for it.
If you profess red pill, stop promoting blue pill shenanigans.

These guys can cold approach all they want, hell here and there even red pillers still cold approach,, but no one must come here and present this as red pill. Do it but keep to yourself. Cause the moment you open your mouth we'll come hard against you.

ubunja:
guys who advocate for the cold approach don't really realize how blue pill that is. I mean that's how even the most clueless amateur human male interacts with women: see what I like, go for it.
If you profess red pill, stop promoting blue pill shenanigans.

These guys can cold approach all they want, hell here and there even red pillers still cold approach,, but no one must come here and present this as red pill. Do it but keep to yourself. Cause the moment you open your mouth we'll come hard against you.

and who are you to say this? leemao.. come hard now.. e be like say you never still leave this your proud nature... who are you to even dictate the rules people follow? even rt sef gan nor fit talk this yeye talk.... even book of pook sef nor dey reason this one...

ubunja:
if you paid attention to women who are paying attention to you, ignoring those women who catch your eye, you'd find that each day atleast one woman looks at you nicely. I'm saying at least one, cause whenever I'm top of my game hygienically and fashionwise not a single day passes without at least one female pleasantly looking me up and down. You're always on hunt mode, that you always miss the hints when females hunt you in return.

who get time to dey find these signs.. e be like you nor know say these people sabi pretend wella... you nor get point.. na person wey nor get work dey do these ones

cold approaching even gives you the much boosted confidence.. na the way even those pua guys dey even start.. the thing wey dey worry ubunja be say e dey want make people dey swallow everything wey e talk even if to say some of his posts na jackshit... well na most of his gullible followers wey nor dey think on their own again sha na im i pity..

anybody wey simply disagree with am like this, e go turn am to mumu argument.. you can only state your opinions but the rules you follow doesn't mean others will accept it.. no one gives rules to game.. no one...

come hard now, sheybi you nor kuku get work before, na here you dey sleep

Ubunja

Keep in mind that some redpillers live in face me I face you apartments and the only way they can get women in their lives is via cold approach.

These people don't want to leave these things and go too deep into redpill..

You've become so experienced and it will take years for them to get to your level.

I actually agree with you.

No need to reply this.....

I'm reading the posts

That's just the way it is

Trencia:



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CaveAdullam:


Genuine desire will make a pastor's first daughter to fvck you under her father's roof. It doesn't care about strict father or moral obligations. Or, whether her free is fast sleeping, praying or preaching sermons. She will first do what's in her mind before considering all these.

Genuine desire will list more than 10 names of guys on her bedsheet but tick you as the one she wants. Meanwhile, you're not even as close to other guys in that rank.

Genuine desire will cry when you make mention of other women. She will fight these women in her imaginations.

Forget it, genuine desire doesn't care about a good place for a date. She will eat unripe plantain and oil sauce with you in your house plus boobs and a$$ to play with. Yummy!

Genuine desire always bring sex and romance to your doorstep.

The times I have been chosen by women is the best time I have had with women. No shenanigans! Smooth as sleek!

Looool.

If you know you know....

Genuine desire doesn't think with her heart but with her pu@@y

Genuine desire don't care if you are broke

When a girl loves you from her pu@@y bro, just go home and rest because whatever they(simps) gives to her, she gives to you...

But on a serious note, if you want to know how deep a woman can go let her choose you..

She will try new things with you even things she detest..

Genuine desire can disappoint a guy with benz just to be with you...

Genuine desire is the highest simp if you know how to handle her

Women are the game, be a woman, be selfish, take care of yourself first, if she's not giving don't give..

Even, genuine desire sex is different from cold approach sex lol..

CaveAdullam:


Funny thing is that a woman that has chosen you will come with her menstrual pad and flow to your room. At day other men will receive curses but at night, she'll be the one acting submissively. Real life bro!

LoL.

You know what's up..

How can a grown man approach 40 girls in a week?
You approach a whooping 40 girls just for the hope that at least 2 girls will give you their number?
Redpill or not, this is bothering on pure idiocy.

Like I don't understand why I'll leave my work, leave focusing on myself just to focus on approaching any hot girl I see.

The pure truth is that cold approach is the genesis of simping. Because you've already pedestalised her. And you better continue to pedestalise her if you want that pussy. Can you now see the foolery?

We always talk here about how gaining control over sexual urges is the best way for a man to escape the many troubles of this life.
Yet you want to approach any hot girl you see. Where then is the sexual control? Why on earth will I approach 40 girls in a week? Am I that jobless and pussy whipped?

When I was still in school, I used to attend parties quite regularly. From night clubs, pool parties, departmental parties, dinner nights etc.

During these times, I hardly used the cold approach in getting girls to follow me home for the night.
Simply having that aura around me did the job.
By aura here I mean the following: being really good looking, nice (mostly designer) clothes, nice necklace and other accessories, expensive wrist watch and a very powerful perfume.

All I do is sit by myself in a conspicuous place, making sure I'm easily noticeable. I then order my drinks and observe the events.
As expected, you'll start seeing them girls coming close to sit with you, from there interact with you and then you can play your game right.
By game here I don't mean the bluepilled method of toasting or anything.. Just being myself, cocky, a little bit narcissistic, mysterious, naughty and teasing.
At this point I still resist to urge to pedestalise her, or gratuitously spend my resources on her (or them).

Most times than not, this approach works well for me and will work for any guy who does it well.


Mind you, it is even in parties that girls have the highest, most nauseating entitlement issues.
Why? Because every other guy at the party is using the cold approach.
It is no secret that in most parties, you'll see more guys than girls. And in most parties almost every guy there is looking for a girl to take home for the night. The girl you're trying to approach might have been approached by 5 other guys that same night. And you still want to make yourself an extra source of validation for her?

In a situation like this, why not be the difference? Why not make yourself stand out from the guys by not chasing? If you do so, you'll find out that the girls will notice you. They'll want to find out which guy this is, that doesn't seem to give a Bleep. From there you can play your game.

Admittedly, this method doesn't guarantee success every time, but it greatly raises your chances while at the same time preventing you from fooling yourself around these girls or being a source of validation for some stupid bitch.

I strongly insist that cold approach is an outdated and silly thing to do in the present times. It remains the genesis of simping.

Reminderz:
cold approaching even gives you the much boosted confidence.. na the way even those pua guys dey even start.. the thing wey dey worry ubunja be say e dey want make people dey swallow everything wey e talk even if to say some of his posts na jackshit... well na most of his gullible followers wey nor dey think on their own again sha na im i pity..

anybody wey simply disagree with am like this, e go turn am to mumu argument.. you can only state your opinions but the rules you follow doesn't mean others will accept it.. no one gives rules to game.. no one...

come hard now, sheybi you nor kuku get work before, na here you dey sleep

nowhere on the manosphere are people promoting cold approaching. From Stephiscold to Alpha Male Strategies to Corry Waine to Cousin TTaw to Rom Wills All the red pill groups are on Choosing Signals, that's the red pill. If you want to push an idea that is not really red pill all in the name of trying to be inclusive and accommodating people who want retain their blue pill methods, you're corrupting the very game you're trying to understand.

Cold Approach doesn't give you confidence,, what gives you confidence is a girl you don't know, whom you've done Nothing for, and she chooses you to be her BF as you are. That's what will improve your self worth and make you feel like a human being of value.

Reminderz:

and who are you to say this? leemao.. come hard now.. e be like say you never still leave this your proud nature... who are you to even dictate the rules people follow? even rt sef gan nor fit talk this yeye talk.... even book of pook sef nor dey reason this one...

Book of Pook is a Pick Up Artist (PUA) manual and it's obviously heavy on cold approaching. PUA tactics are not red pill tactics but the two do share plenty same truths especially on female nature.

The red pill is a table and people must pick and choose what they want. Everything is on that table including choosing signals. If choosing signals don't work for you, leave that on the table and move on. There's absolutely no need to be offended.