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PoliteActivist:
She's busy obtaining grounds to kick your sorry ass out and be allowed to keep everything you worked for!!!!!!!!!!!

ednut1:
men always find ways to reset things. Marriage in the west has been destroyed and weaponised by mostly women and feminists. Just one war in the west will reset things no worry. We wont watch while your gender destroys mankind

Ogalanyaidi:
Thanks for your response. I just got married and I don't want a divorce.
Agreed, she is extremely intelligent and I can't really predict her intentions. How did I know?
I play card games well but she would always beat me to any game we played together, even card games. She thinks very deep and it marvels me.

ObamaMessi:
I'll not advise you to divorce her but i'll ask you to delete such recording and never you engage in a heated argument.Threaten her with divorce and if she seem not to mind or continues her ridiculous acts, take any decision that will save your life.

Ogalanyaidi:
Thanks for your response. I just got married and I don't want a divorce.
Agreed, she is extremely intelligent and I can't really predict her intentions. How did I know?
I play card games well but she would always beat me to any game we played together, even card games. She thinks very deep and it marvels me.
Who is the sponsor of your stay abroad, as in who get kpali?

Ogalanyaidi:
Thanks for your response. I just got married and I don't want a divorce.
Agreed, she is extremely intelligent and I can't really predict her intentions. How did I know?
I play card games well but she would always beat me to any game we played together, even card games. She thinks very deep and it marvels me.

Who is the sponsor of your stay abroad, as in who get kpali?

SultanOfPuna:

Op, I pray what happened to this man in the video below will not happen to you.

The man called 911 after he shot and killed his Nigerian wife after bringing her to U.S A
Not for the faint hearted..
Listen to the pain in the man's voice
Don't let this happen to you ohhh
Listen to this video..it is very chilling

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-0S_uWTwZSM

Megabig:
She agreed to marry you because she want to answer “married woman” not that she’s into you or ready. She hasn’t grown yet, calling her mum and recording you also, then lying and admitting when caught. One year is so short, you should check if you have to leave especially if you don’t have kids yet. Never trust a lying woman. Never

Aguogba:
We don't know who is sponsoring who on that marriage.

Megabig:
She agreed to marry you because she want to answer “married woman” not that she’s into you or ready. She hasn’t grown yet, calling her mum and recording you also, then lying and admitting when caught. One year is so short, you should check if you have to leave especially if you don’t have kids yet. Never trust a lying woman. Never

linearity:
Bros, I am sorry

But, she does not love you. The marriage is not up to a year and she does not trust and have to record your conversations and lie about it?

What else is she lying about? Please, don’t bring a baby into this marriage, get out while you are not yet neck deep.

You are lucky that, you saw the signs early; hopefully you don’t ignore them and later regret it.

ednut1:
men always find ways to reset things. Marriage in the west has been destroyed and weaponised by mostly women and feminists. Just one war in the west will reset things no worry. We wont watch while your gender destroys mankind

Mariangeles:
You have to do all you can to reassure her that she is safe with you, and that you can never hurt her.

samwillyco1:
It seems they had no form of any relationship before marriage, I hate dirty and unkept environment/person, secondly, she lied about the recording, she also reported you to her mum is she a baby ? Na for him to use his brain

yemi1504:
Abi, a huge red flag that wife has! I won't be surprised if the wife also broadcasts their arguments on social media too SMH.

Ogalanyaidi:
First I want peace in my home and I've been enjoying relative peace in my home.

I've been married for less than a year. I called my wife to discuss how we could keep the house clean and I went on to tell her that she puts things where they shouldn't be. She got upset and called her mum, she was crying while speaking with her mum over the phone.

Her mom called and we both made peace I discovered that she was recording our argument but I chose not to confront her there and then.

A day later, I asked why she was recording me and she lied but I gave her facts and she agreed. She said if I've nothing to fear why am I being upset about it. She said I should record her too cus she observed that when we speak to her mum after an incident I don't say the whole truth.

We both live overseas and she is the only person I've here.

I want peace in my home and I don't like trouble

Elianawalker:
I hope its not UK you both live, if you live in UK with your wife she has the ability to render you useless and poor while she rules over you, be careful though.

I will pray for you. Handle her with caution. She could also be uploading the videos on Instagram for followers of her drama series

ednut1:
You are finished bro. She will tender it as evidence in divorce or police report. Who is raising all these demonic women of today self.

Ogalanyaidi:
First I want peace in my home and I've been enjoying relative peace in my home.

I've been married for less than a year. I called my wife to discuss how we could keep the house clean and I went on to tell her that she puts things where they shouldn't be. She got upset and called her mum, she was crying while speaking with her mum over the phone.

Her mom called and we both made peace I discovered that she was recording our argument but I chose not to confront her there and then.

A day later, I asked why she was recording me and she lied but I gave her facts and she agreed. She said if I've nothing to fear why am I being upset about it. She said I should record her too cus she observed that when we speak to her mum after an incident I don't say the whole truth.

We both live overseas and she is the only person I've here.

I want peace in my home and I don't like trouble

linearity:
My fear for the guy is, the wife may have been getting advise from the wrong set of ladies abroad, since she is new there to record their arguments as potential evidence.

And what the husband may not realize is that, he can lose everything he have labored for, if he get felony Assault conviction. He may think that, assault only means ‘putting your hands on your wife’…abroad you can be convicted if you emotionally abuse your spouse, if you curse out, say anything that belittles her, shamed her, etc are all emotionally abuse and if anything like that occurred during one of those arguments and she record them, the husband should be afraid.

He should also trade carefully, don’t argue with her unnecessarily, and begin to record you guys conversations as well, because when the chips are down, she will not present recordings that favors you.

I hate it when someone in the marriage start playing the victim card and if the other person is nerve you will be taken….many men abroad have lost it all, because their ‘macho’ personal ca not play the victim and they are too nerve to protect themselves….They think they are still in Nigeria, where tradition and the perception of the law favors the husband majority of the time, in the western culture, bros you are the hunted, they will kick you out of the house and still force you to pay the rent/mortgage and other bills.

faithfull18:
OP, don't listen to the divorce crooners, any small thing - divorce. This issue can be talked through. You alone know who you married.

Elianawalker:
I hope its not UK you both live, if you live in UK with your wife she has the ability to render you useless and poor while she rules over you, be careful though.

I will pray for you. Handle her with caution. She could also be uploading the videos on Instagram for followers of her drama series

seanwilliam:
even without kids involved??