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Re: How Do I Control The Urge To Have Sex by Pointblank09(m): 4:54pm On Feb 05, 2022
Move to Mowe/Ibafo and get a job in Lekki. Your urge will die by 90%. Try this and thank me latter
Re: How Do I Control The Urge To Have Sex by Emaprince: 4:58pm On Feb 05, 2022
Your girls is far away enjoying herself with other men..you are here controlling the gift nature gave you - sexual urge.

Dey there dey kill yourself until oil rust for your body.
Re: How Do I Control The Urge To Have Sex by l0uie(m): 4:59pm On Feb 05, 2022
chatinent:
Even busy people find time to cheat.


Best he can do is respect the woman and don't cheat...making it a priority.
Respect makes one not to cheat? Lmao. You must be shitting me. Bross, having respect for someone means that you'll cheat but not under the same roof that they sleep.
Re: How Do I Control The Urge To Have Sex by Cypherfx: 5:00pm On Feb 05, 2022
Try sex transmutation
Re: How Do I Control The Urge To Have Sex by freshalien: 5:01pm On Feb 05, 2022
Candidlady:
You can't control it your genders are beast...


Hopefully you rape someone and get caught... Then they insert a broom stick into your penis... Pour a lil gas on the crown of your dvck and lit it.. Then clip your nails one after the other...
You must had a very traumatic experience in the past. Seek professional help before it leads to something worse.
Re: How Do I Control The Urge To Have Sex by chatinent: 5:02pm On Feb 05, 2022
l0uie:
Respect makes one not to cheat? Lmao. You must be shitting me. Bross, having respect for someone means that you'll cheat but not under the same roof that they sleep.
It depends on your definition of respect.
Re: How Do I Control The Urge To Have Sex by Epher: 5:03pm On Feb 05, 2022
First of all, you're a simp. I'm sorry for being blunt. Part of your story said that you have a girlfriend but you're apart, not staying together gives room for things such as this you're into.

You have to be bold to cut the relationship off and find someone around you.

Secondly, the urge for sex is a seasonal thing, your hormones are coming out, going for an hormonal shot will destabilise your body system, it's better you obey the booty call.

And if you're a religious person, then I'm sorry for you, cos you're about to enter a life you're not prepared for, marriage! That's their solution for sexual urge.
Re: How Do I Control The Urge To Have Sex by justking(m): 5:04pm On Feb 05, 2022
Pray and ask God to help you, He will.
Re: How Do I Control The Urge To Have Sex by l0uie(m): 5:04pm On Feb 05, 2022
chatinent:
It depends on your definition of respect.
Respect is respect, same way a sin is a sin. No two ways about that.
Re: How Do I Control The Urge To Have Sex by Hassanmaye(m): 5:06pm On Feb 05, 2022
pyyxxaro:
Rub a mixture of Aboniki and Chinese balm on your manhood thrice daily


Thank me later cool
Hahahahhahah real Bad boy
Re: How Do I Control The Urge To Have Sex by Toks2008(m): 5:08pm On Feb 05, 2022
300whitewolves:
This is really taking a toll on me, and it's getting worse day by day, am finding it difficult to keep myself in check, the harder I try the more it comes. I even make sure I don't look at a woman backside twice cos I know what that can cause. I have a girlfriend but we are far apart, and I don't want to cheat on her. Please my fellow nairalanders help me out of this situation. Konji na bastard for real.
Go and marry.

That was the advice Paul gave.
Re: How Do I Control The Urge To Have Sex by Hassanmaye(m): 5:09pm On Feb 05, 2022
shilenji:
Wait till konji puts you in trouble once,then you wouldn't need advice from us again,your brain will start working.
grin ;Dtrue
Re: How Do I Control The Urge To Have Sex by Thesaint141(m): 5:09pm On Feb 05, 2022
Czarina21:
No matter how hard you work, hormones are one thing you can't tame.
Have a talk with your babe on how to satisfy your urges.
Maybe if you both can't just meet up regularly, and you're particular about cheating, you might want to self-service it off on a video chat or sext.
3 gbosa for u, Sabi gurl.

Re: How Do I Control The Urge To Have Sex by chatinent: 5:13pm On Feb 05, 2022
l0uie:
Respect is respect, same way a sin is a sin. No two ways about that.
It depends on how you respect the person.

Have a nice century.
Re: How Do I Control The Urge To Have Sex by kingsceemark(m): 5:17pm On Feb 05, 2022
Candidlady:
You can't control it your genders are beast...


Hopefully you rape someone and get caught... Then they insert a broom stick into your penis... Pour a lil gas on the crown of your dvck and lit it.. Then clip your nails one after the other...
E fit be say somebody just finish digging your wide oversized pussy finish, and you're here talking nonsense

Re: How Do I Control The Urge To Have Sex by l0uie(m): 5:22pm On Feb 05, 2022
chatinent:
It depends on how you respect the person.

Have a nice century.
Guy, no dey mis yarn abeg. My mama no know say I dey smoke and I respect her enough to no even dare smoke for her side or loose guard for her to know that her pikin dey smoke but that one no mean say I no dey smoke and I no get regards or respect for her.

Husband wey love, care and respects his wife still cheats. Samie okposo abi wetin be name smashed some other biatch regardless of him being married and respectful to his wife, so wetin you dey yarn?

Bross, nobody be island of knowledge. You don flop, you don flop be that. No dey try so hard to be smart.
Re: How Do I Control The Urge To Have Sex by Hezzyluv: 5:22pm On Feb 05, 2022
Shezzman:
Careful of what u say..
Blasphemy.
It is obvious you didn't study your Bible very well. Have you not heard about the nephilims or giants? If you don't know, they are offsprings of the angels.
The fallen angels had relations (intercourse) with the "daughters of men," which resulted in a part human, part supernatural being – i.e the Nephilim. Which where called giant then.

Gen. 6:4
KJV:There were giants in the earth in those days; and also after that, when. the sons of God came in unto the daughters of men, and they bare children to them, the same became mighty men which were of old, men of renown.

@bold they're the angels. To validate my claim,

Job.1:6
AMP:Now there was a day when the sons (the angels) of God came to present themselves before the Lord, and Satan (the adversary and accuser) also came among them.
Re: How Do I Control The Urge To Have Sex by professore(m):
300whitewolves:
This is really taking a toll on me, and it's getting worse day by day, am finding it difficult to keep myself in check, the harder I try the more it comes. I even make sure I don't look at a woman backside twice cos I know what that can cause. I have a girlfriend but we are far apart, and I don't want to cheat on her. Please my fellow nairalanders help me out of this situation. Konji na bastard for real.
If you genuinely need solution then do these things:
1) fast and pray more (and read your bible)
2) Use cold water to bathe when the feeling comes
3) Avoid eating chillies and peppery food
4) Get busy, as in, be working (the se.xual energy will be distracted)
5) Get married to a good woman (this is in no way saying you should rush into marriage, as mistake must not be made in this area of life please.

Now: don't give in to fornication, it is a destroyer, look around you and you will see.
Re: How Do I Control The Urge To Have Sex by Hezzyluv: 5:25pm On Feb 05, 2022
faithfull18:
huh
Wetin happen? Or you no study the Bible see am for yourself?
Re: How Do I Control The Urge To Have Sex by daluta: 5:25pm On Feb 05, 2022
grin grin bro you need to package your self well before konji jail you
Re: How Do I Control The Urge To Have Sex by lasixsix(m): 5:28pm On Feb 05, 2022
Continue fasting or get married as soon as possible.��‍❤️‍�
Re: How Do I Control The Urge To Have Sex by lasixsix(m): 5:29pm On Feb 05, 2022
Stay away from things that arose your feelings...
Re: How Do I Control The Urge To Have Sex by eeewise(m): 5:33pm On Feb 05, 2022
You can't cheat nature

This will help short term

Long term will just be an accumulation of ...

If not careful will lead to wrong decisions

Even bible said it's better to marry than to burn

Burning because you will keep fighting your own body.

So maybe get an accountability partner you can be open with and try early marriage..
Realtosin:
Be intentional about dwelling in the word of God. Once you are consistently committed to this mandate, your mind gets renewed on a daily basis. Your mind only thinks relevant issues of life and if such lustful thought comes again, you are armed already with a scripture backed up by the Power of Holy Ghost to douse that strange fire. However, if you haven't given your life to Christ, pls do today by acknowledging your sins and confessing the Lordship and Saviourship of Jesus Christ. I have been in your shoe..... God will strengthen your heart to yield to the will of your Creator in Jesus name.
Re: How Do I Control The Urge To Have Sex by Nobody: 5:37pm On Feb 05, 2022
michael1508:
Objectively,he said sex and not women ; wink
It is either you are confusing my post with another’s or you didn’t understand what the guy posted
Re: How Do I Control The Urge To Have Sex by kareemkamil(m): 5:43pm On Feb 05, 2022
Just get busy every time
Re: How Do I Control The Urge To Have Sex by NwaIgboBoy(m): 6:01pm On Feb 05, 2022
Anytime the sex urge comes try to remember that Buharis trousers he wore to Imo state last year! ... off goes that urge , then thank me letter !!!
Re: How Do I Control The Urge To Have Sex by shallar1(m): 6:03pm On Feb 05, 2022
Bros, Be fasting on Mondays and Thursday. Simple
Re: How Do I Control The Urge To Have Sex by Pacesetter2021: 6:04pm On Feb 05, 2022
You have a girlfriend you sleep with. You are already living in sin and yet want to be delivered from it. Here is how it works you either drop sin totally and invite to Holy Spirit to strengthen you or you drown in the sin.

God can't come in cos he is light and there is darkness already present with your full permission.

All the best. It's all or nothing.
Re: How Do I Control The Urge To Have Sex by phemmyfour: 6:06pm On Feb 05, 2022
300whitewolves:
This is really taking a toll on me, and it's getting worse day by day, am finding it difficult to keep myself in check, the harder I try the more it comes. I even make sure I don't look at a woman backside twice cos I know what that can cause. I have a girlfriend but we are far apart, and I don't want to cheat on her. Please my fellow nairalanders help me out of this situation. Konji na bastard for real.
Think about HIV and give masturbation a chance
Re: How Do I Control The Urge To Have Sex by alexarelano(m): 6:09pm On Feb 05, 2022
Bro, it's better to have sex ur than not to be. Fvck yansh, take whatever you can take from life

Cos when life start taking from you, it will take everything, even ur last breathe
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