300whitewolves:
This is really taking a toll on me, and it's getting worse day by day, am finding it difficult to keep myself in check, the harder I try the more it comes. I even make sure I don't look at a woman backside twice cos I know what that can cause. I have a girlfriend but we are far apart, and I don't want to cheat on her. Please my fellow nairalanders help me out of this situation. Konji na bastard for real.

If you dont wanna cheat, then self-service peacefully

Aguilar:
you dey try claim say women dey superior pass men. If na your point be that. then you are confused.

You are the confused one here. How does my post relate to superiority?

Boogyman557:
Holly Gram Na small matterz Na...




JUST go any ASHAWOO house and find 1 better small cute ASHAWOO wey u go use de hold BODY...



only 1 ASHAWOO oooo... I no sey make u Carry 2...



U FIT de NACK d ASHAWOO till u and ur BANI meet each other...




LITE UP my WEED in peace



WTF MAN

No be lie...

Simran94:


Can his girlfriend also find a sexual partner?

Absolutely

Very simple! Just download Bihari picture aside with Tinubu , whenever the urge arises just look at those pix , your memory card will factory reset .

300whitewolves:
This is really taking a toll on me, and it's getting worse day by day, am finding it difficult to keep myself in check, the harder I try the more it comes. I even make sure I don't look at a woman backside twice cos I know what that can cause. I have a girlfriend but we are far apart, and I don't want to cheat on her. Please my fellow nairalanders help me out of this situation. Konji na bastard for real.

Convert that sexual energy to hustling

300whitewolves:
This is really taking a toll on me, and it's getting worse day by day, am finding it difficult to keep myself in check, the harder I try the more it comes. I even make sure I don't look at a woman backside twice cos I know what that can cause. I have a girlfriend but we are far apart, and I don't want to cheat on her. Please my fellow nairalanders help me out of this situation. Konji na bastard for real.

Convert that sexual energy to hustling and thank me later

300whitewolves:
This is really taking a toll on me, and it's getting worse day by day, am finding it difficult to keep myself in check, the harder I try the more it comes. I even make sure I don't look at a woman backside twice cos I know what that can cause. I have a girlfriend but we are far apart, and I don't want to cheat on her. Please my fellow nairalanders help me out of this situation. Konji na bastard for real.

Steps you need to take
1. Give your life to Christ.
2. Renew your mind with the word of God.
3. Control your thoughts. Actions we take, good or bad begins in our mind.
4. Mind the friends you keep.
5. Mind the films you watch.
6. Take away romantic posters away from your wall.
7. Mind the books you read.
8. Be in church all the time.
9. Resist sexual urge with the words of your mouth.
10. Read your Bible always.
11. Be in church services regularly.
12. Don't stay alone in a room with the opposite sex.
13. Pray often. Prayer strengthens you.
14. Above all, make up your mind knowing that the sin leads to destruction. It will give you an escort to the very pit of hell.

Note, It may not stop overnight. But just keep doing the things listed above. Over time, it will lose its grip over you.

If there is no significant changes after you have done all you need to do, go for deliverance. Sometimes, such urge is caused by the presence of a demon of lust residing in you. The moment that demon is cast out, the urge will stop.

300whitewolves:
This is really taking a toll on me, and it's getting worse day by day, am finding it difficult to keep myself in check, the harder I try the more it comes. I even make sure I don't look at a woman backside twice cos I know what that can cause. I have a girlfriend but we are far apart, and I don't want to cheat on her. Please my fellow nairalanders help me out of this situation. Konji na bastard for real.

Always think about ur grandma

Give your life to Christ.
Pray for Salvation and Sanctification.
Pray for the Holy Ghost Baptism.

If it's God's will, go and marry.

My brother if u are a Christian only Christ can kill that urge!!! Genuine repentance oo because even some useless pastor de clear all the girls now!! Avoid watching BF and listen to Christian messages!! But on your own na lie!! If na Muslim u be n u de live for north na easy thing because must Muslim women for north de waka like masquerade!! Except u de places like southern kaduna, Abuja etc na their wahala go de!!

michael1508:
I just hope the so called girlfriend you are trying to stay faithful to is not wallowing on different d.cks at the moment,don't be too sure about people's loyalty,I have been in an intimacy moment with a lady before when she asked me to take a pause,that she wants to pick up her boyfriends call,I was just laughing inside me,nigga thought his b.tch is loyal to him

so na you be the asshole wey end my relationship that year.

300whitewolves:
This is really taking a toll on me, and it's getting worse day by day, am finding it difficult to keep myself in check, the harder I try the more it comes. I even make sure I don't look at a woman backside twice cos I know what that can cause. I have a girlfriend but we are far apart, and I don't want to cheat on her. Please my fellow nairalanders help me out of this situation. Konji na bastard for real.

Be fasting
Always lower your gaze
Be reading Qur'an (...must understand what u read)

Mind over matter. Find a time delimited personal project/objective that will stretch your mental power and focus on that. You will have less free time to think of the female backside. Then the urge for "za oza room" will gradually subside.

You presently do not have anything that stretches you and forces you to engage mentally for an extended period of time everyday, apart from the mundane routine of work(if you are working).

300whitewolves:
This is really taking a toll on me, and it's getting worse day by day, am finding it difficult to keep myself in check, the harder I try the more it comes. I even make sure I don't look at a woman backside twice cos I know what that can cause. I have a girlfriend but we are far apart, and I don't want to cheat on her. Please my fellow nairalanders help me out of this situation. Konji na bastard for real.

300whitewolves:
This is really taking a toll on me, and it's getting worse day by day, am finding it difficult to keep myself in check, the harder I try the more it comes. I even make sure I don't look at a woman backside twice cos I know what that can cause. I have a girlfriend but we are far apart, and I don't want to cheat on her. Please my fellow nairalanders help me out of this situation. Konji na bastard for real.

why are you seeing a problem were there is none,masturbation is there for a reason,take control of your life and stop being a slave to konji and women backside,take your destiny in your own hands.

professore:
look around you and you will see fornicators whose life has no meaning at all.

That could be true for only the poor...
Popular and rich artise opt for Baby daddy and/or baby daddy and they seem fulfilled and happy

Ode ni bobo yi sha
This guy si dumb ooo
Person that is cheating on you where she is, you are here saying u dont wanna cheat on her.... Trust girls of this dispensation at ur own risk

kaymart:

That could be true for only the poor...
Popular and rich artise opt for Baby daddy and/or baby daddy and they seem fulfilled and happy

they look at some people and cry, but those people look at themselves and laugh. That is their case. Their is a standard way to leave before man and before God before you can claim to have succeeded.

toujurs:
Oga go and pour something if you want to pour, you are a man. Even ladies wants to be poured into, if you doubt go to offices and market areas and see what most ladies wear, some don'teven wear bra to the mall, you will see the nipple pop out . Stop suffering yourself unnecessarily.

Not aligning with all you said, can't agree less with the highlighted. Sometimes you wonder what kind of creatures those are turning themselves into. And to think they feel at home in those things

Sammy101111:
Bro if konji na bastard then hustle hard and marry her an settle down and enjoy your sexually life instead of jumping around with konji make money is the key .

Plot twist: Married men are the most sex starved.

The best advise I can give is to keep up with your mind and maintain a conversation regularly with your girl friend. its actually a thing of your mind there is actually nothing serious. Get something serious that occupy your mind. " As a thinketh so he is"
You will surely get out of this

Brother there is nothing we can do ,,,,y
ou need to change your oil

Nonexisting:
It's very simple. Think about your present condition and that of some of your mates who are more successful. Trust me, your erection will fall faster than the fallen angel.

chinsos kai

Feed your mind with the word of GOD and pray always if possible fast I tell you, you will not remember anything like sex and stay away from porn or nasty music videos

You could try working out more. And find ways to keep busy.

Is your gf open-minded? Maybe you can do a fake break up where you agree that you're not back together until you're physically together, so then neither of you are cheating. This works for some people.

You could also, um, call your gf more often if you know what I mean. lol

Take lime always and very soon your preek go go limp.

300whitewolves:
This is really taking a toll on me, and it's getting worse day by day, am finding it difficult to keep myself in check, the harder I try the more it comes. I even make sure I don't look at a woman backside twice cos I know what that can cause. I have a girlfriend but we are far apart, and I don't want to cheat on her. Please my fellow nairalanders help me out of this situation. Konji na bastard for real.

Masturbate when the urge comes to stay faithful to your girlfriend.