ThierryJay:
Basically,.its now a crime fornmen to flirt in a professional environment. How then do office colleagues then

No it is not!
It is the appropriateness of the words that is the issue

ThierryJay:
Basically, it's now a crime for men to flirt with a woman in a professional environment. How then do office colleagues then get married? By reading one another's mind and jumping to the altar ba? How can one know when to draw the line? O ga o.

This is no longer sexual assault but just flirting that is bringing great men down.

Send a quote from songs of Solomon to a female colleague in appreciation and you are a goner. It's well.

Why flirt in a professional environment? Why can't you wait till you are in a social or less formal situation to make moves? Don't mix business and pleasure, that has been a wise saying for a long time.

baralatie:

No it is not!
It is the appropriateness of the words that is the issue

You and I know that in today's first world, it will be deemed inappropriate so long as the lady says it is even if it is just "you are looking sexy today, sweetheart" that was sent.

She only has to claim that she felt mentally harassed sexually by the most harmless of appreciation from the guy and boom he's toast.

Women are the Lucifer who was thrown out of heaven

LordReed:


Why flirt in a professional environment? Why can't you wait till you are in a social or less formal situation to make moves? Don't mix business and pleasure, that has been a wise saying for a long time.

Lol, it's like you havent seen work colleagues get married right? I have few colleagues in different department in big four firms who married one another. Were they mixing business with pleasure when they were dating? Or you think the guys didnt send their eventual wives texts during the toasting period.

The potential ramifications of this trend is very vast o. A realistic check is critical.

Kingcalls:


There is nothing wrong with what some of these men do , its just the body responding to nature.... women do the same thing and its not reported, even when reported, no one takes it seriously....if a woman dresses seductivly to the office , its meant to be labelled sexual harassment towards men, but instead they will turn it around and call the man a pervert or sexual predator for calling out her outfit .. Jeff Zucker , CNN CEO resigned cos he had a relationship with a woman thats one of the EDs ...but the woman remained in office ....men should rise and put women in their place now

youre right...inappropriate dressing should be termed sexual eye-rassment.

I think women are taking this whole thing too far...you complement them its a problem these days..they should kuku allow us live in separate worlds so that we move on..

As a Tottenham fan. I have no support for this ex Gooner. His conduct is no different from van Persie. Is there something in that club attracting people like this?

It wasn't once. It was multiple times from a person in a senior position. He thought he was still a baller.

We were never told the contents of the messages. We were just told they were inappropriate.

But let us assume it was sexting.
Sexting is not inappropriate if it is done between parties that are interested. So lets say he sexted a woman and she was not interested, but he continued sexting, then that is inappropriate. But if she did not show her disinterest and he continued sexting then it is not inappropriate.

We don't know the details.

The truth is that the feminists have succeeded in creating an environment were men lose their jobs for little things like flirting.

paulolee:
this guy was a key player for barca n arsenal and now working in a key slot in ajax which means he gat fame n money, so why sending bad messages to women dt he can easily get whenever he wants..?
it seems this year, so many footballers go lose guard ontop kpekus matter o

But overmars over do too... ...send message to several women...womaniser man... ..

Sad one here.

Men, stop complimenting your colleagues on their physical features even if you guys are blood relatives!

It is easy to cross that line into flirting and you'll not even be aware. Stop complimenting anyone! Keep the business space for business.

That is actually stupid.

The west is just confused when it comes to male and female colleagues in the work place. I would not be surprised if in the future they introduce segregation.

Maxymilliano:
Na so dem suspend Canada-based Nigerian doctor for hugging and blowing kiss at co-worker

These days it is even very dangerous to flirt.

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sukkot:
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ThierryJay:
Basically, it's now a crime for men to flirt with a woman in a professional environment. How then do office colleagues then get married? By reading one another's mind and jumping to the altar ba? How can one know when to draw the line? O ga o.

This is no longer sexual assault but just flirting that is bringing great men down.

Send a quote from songs of Solomon to a female colleague in appreciation and you are a goner. It's well.

The exact thing wen dey my mind nai u just post... How will a man know when to draw the line?

But I believe maybe because he is married that why they treated him that way.

angelfallz:
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oh this is acceptable behavior in your family ?

Lol
Western men have been emasculated long ago. They are now trying to do the same in Nigeria, Africa and the rest of the world.

Kingcalls:
Men should stop allowing women have the day

ThierryJay:


Lol, it's like you havent seen work colleagues get married right? I have few colleagues in different department in big four firms who married one another. Were they mixing business with pleasure when they were dating? Or you think the guys didnt send their eventual wives texts during the toasting period.

The potential ramifications of this trend is very vast o. A realistic check is critical.

The reality check is for those who can't keep it in their pants. Of course colleagues can get married, if their office policies permit but don't do your kurukere moves in the office. Carry your target out for a date or something and practise your sexual kungfung outside the office.

bayelsaowei:
youre right...inappropriate dressing should be termed sexual eye-rassment.

I think women are taking this whole thing too far...you complement them its a problem these days..they should kuku allow us live in separate worlds so that we move on..

My gripe with claiming inappropriate dressing is an issue is this - if it is a lunatic or mad woman not wearing anything; will people look at her with lust?

The combo of Overmars and Dennis bergkamp for Arsenal attack that time eh was a sight to behold!

HonestFriend:


The exact thing wen dey my mind nai u just post... How will a man know when to draw the line?

But I believe maybe because he is married that why they treated him that way.

The man is even married.

What behaviour are you talking about?

sukkot:
oh this is acceptable behavior in your family ?

HonestFriend:


The exact thing wen dey my mind nai u just post... How will a man know when to draw the line?

But I believe maybe because he is married that why they treated him that way.

Wait you don't know how to have self control until you are out of the office environment? If that is the case then this should help you get a good practice.

angelfallz:
What behaviour are you talking about?

a corporate executive harrasing women ? this is what men in your family call normal behavior ? if i slap you ehn

Druss:


The man is even married.

Na y those ladies rope am.. If to say na single man.. Na them go even that visit am uninvited..

What the boundaries?

And how do you know he actually crossed a boundary?

fasho01:
Such a shame. Men need to understand boundaries and set parameters not to cross that line. Most men are guilty of this

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Vickyvice:
Europe na sane place. Like say na here, no need to waste time send text, na waste of time, the babes naim go make the call, book room. Dem no even send if u dey" do";all of them in d office. Khai. Nigeria is a free country. Just do anything u like, as long as no be robbery or murder. This country been no bad before oh

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hmmm how do you know it was harassment?

Last i checked sexting(if that was what he was doing) is normal between two parties that are interested in it.

sukkot:
a corporate executive harrasing women ? this is what men in your family call normal behavior ? if i slap you ehn

gaby:
What a pity for the "flying Dutchman".

Women matter? Na God go help us men.


May God continue to lead us right and grant us the wisdom to look away from falling into temptation that'd bring us down through the "sweet in the middle" of a woman.

Hallelujah somebody...

Amen too. These destructive holes will do everything to bring men down. They now roam -virtually- naked !!!!!!! Bastards

LordReed:


Wait you don't know how to have self control until you are out of the office environment? If that is the case then this should help you get a good practice.

What do u mean?

angelfallz:
hmmm how do you know it was harassment?

Last i checked sexting(if that was what he was doing) is normal between two parties that are interested in it.

sexting is normal in a corporate environment ? brah your head need factory reset


you never hear that phrase NO SHIT WHERE YOU DEY CHOP ?

Feminism has destroyed the relationship between males and females. And western men have been emasculated

ThierryJay:
Basically, it's now a crime for men to flirt with a woman in a professional environment. How then do office colleagues then get married? By reading one another's mind and jumping to the altar ba? How can one know when to draw the line? O ga o.

This is no longer sexual assault but just flirting that is bringing great men down.

Send a quote from songs of Solomon to a female colleague in appreciation and you are a goner. It's well.