StarchAndBanga:


What did I make her loose please?

The items were not waybilled, the items are still with her.

I agree I fvcked up as I am yet to buy and I wasted her time and also stressed her out, but that was never my intention. If u read through everything I posted u would see my intention towards how it all went down.

This is very different from ur case

Acording to her,she has already cut the stuffs accordinG to your specifications,so what do you want her to do with it?

AliyuMahdi9:
Pray Such, never happens to you as a vendor, then you will understand what "inconvenience" means

Business in it self is inconvenience in nature so what's new? There are many other ways to get the goods to the park without the touted "inconvenience"

FILEBE:


You see why people like to do Pay before delivery? Had it been he has paid before Ben delivered, the story would have changed . Even if he cancelled after payment.

Why did hr block her is the question here. Why? If that isn't wickedness

I'm sure he blocked her after she started throwing insults , thats their way.... everyone has the right to cancel order.... anywhere in the world... its part of the business ... if she wanted money for first b4 delivery, she should have mention it ...if he says no ,then she makes the decision of sending to make her gain or forget the business ... people cancel huge deals and contracts in the last minute and heaven no fall...its part of business... u cant force a customer to buy ur goods when he or she has decided to cancel order , even if its the last minute

Kobicove:


You can't just wake up and cancel an order that has been processed at the last minute!

What order was processed that there is not initial deposit at the bank? Why are you lot making business to look like transaction of the naïve?

OP....just send 5k to her make use use am buy beer and calm her nerves down,b4 we accept u back in this forum if not,nobody wil take u serious again in this forum...

How females tell twisted truth. You need to ask questions to get to the root of the matter

Xagacem:
he messaged her at 4:41pm did you know the time she may have read the message,he would have simply called her and the phone will ring out since they last conversation was on video call

Its no ones business the time she might have read it...in court what will be recognised is time a message was sent and not when she read it.... thats the reason for the double tick on wasap, thats incase of litigation... if I'm with my fone , a message cud come thru on wasap and I will even read it without the sender knowing... fraudster use this trick as well to claim they dint see ur message... Dobu know whether he called he and she dint pick ,or if the wasap number receives normal calls

StarchAndBanga:
Hello,

Created this thread to share my side of the story regarding this thread:

https://www.nairaland.com/6968649/customer-blocked-me-after-making

On Wednesday last week, I contacted Xcelinteriors cos I wanted to buy wallpaper and carpet. We agreed on N90k as the amount for the items (excluding waybill). I had every intention of paying for these items as I requested for her to drop her acc number for me to make payment more than once (u can see that from our chats) but she suggested she would first go to the park to confirm how the waybill would cost so I send everything including the money for waybill at once.

She told me she would leave her office to the park when she closes for the day and when she gets there I would talk with the park ppl to negotiate for the waybill and send the full money including the waybill to her.

After our last conversation, something came up on my end so with remorse, chatted her up to let her know she should not bother going to the park anymore as I won't be able to pay for the items any more.

I 100% had no idea she had already gone to the park (according to her) cos we talked on video around few minutes to 3pm.

Around 4:41pm, I messaged her that she should not bother going to the park again and something came up on my end so I won't be able to pay for the items again (as at when I sent this message, she did not tell me she had closed for the day already and was going to the park to waybill the items).

Dear Op, Apart fom putting blame of the condition of our country on this your issue... You knew that she has already cut the papers according to your measurement and it'll be by God's grace if she will sell it again and besides don't purchase any item if you don't have cash at hand because its like you are toying with her business and time.

Time is crucial and delicate to a business person once you give a final go ahead and then she has calculated the goods has being SOLD.

What i'll urge to do is to tell her to give you more time by reserving the items for you till you get the money.

PLEASE BE AWARE THAT ANY PROBLEM OF A NAIRALANDER WILL NOT BE TAKING LIGHTLY EVEN IF YOU WON'T UNDESTAND THE REASON WHY, ALL THE CURSES AND BAD AURA THAT HAS BEEN SENT YOUR WAY THIS MORNING MAY GOD WASH IT ALL AWAY AS YOU RESOLVE THE ISSUE WITH HER.

Bluffly:

So you don't have the money yet and went ahead to place order. To what end. Are not suppose to have earned before spending.

Same question should also be asked of the seller; was she not supposed to have had at least a deposit before cutting her linoleum?

All this ones are damage control...!! The time you told her to send her account details and to opt out of the deal is barely 1:30minx...!! You know the money is coming from a third party, yet you went ahead to strike a deal...

I put it to you that a friend of yours managed to convince you to opt out of the deal and get it elsewhere...!!

StarchAndBanga:
I had no idea she already opened a thread on nairaland regarding this and this was my reply to someone that chatted me up with anger claiming that I scammed a nairaland seller..

cc: xcelinteriors
lalasticlala
Mynd44

This reminds me of something sef...

Seun,
Find means with the mods to regulate all these online beggars on Nairaland here. One of them showed me pepper sometime ago. He was begging on a thread here and I mentioned him elsewhere and offered to help him start something instead of sending him stipend to food...

He accepted and I gave him my WhatsApp contact. He chatted me up and I linked up with someone advertising and selling okirika in this platform too. Since the guy accepted to sell such clothes...and turnover till he's able to stand on his own and send back the capital to me and continue with his own money(profit)...

I paid the Lagos dealer to send items worth over 100k ( can't remember exact amount now) and the items were warebilled to Akwaibom state...and then to Calabar.

This Nairaland beggar got delivery of the items. He said the materials sent weren't first grade. I asked him to repackage so that we send back to the Lagos contact but he declined and suggested he will try and market it that way...

That was the end... This guy ate the goods and everything...I know poverty will be eating him up wherever he is now for taking advantage of my goodwill to dupe me... Notwithstanding, I had plans of allowing him have that seed capital whenever he returns it...which is reason why I didn't border looking for him immediately I found out his real intent was to dupe people...He may have created so many monikers since then to steal from others too...

Moderate the beggars etc...Verify them to reduce such incidence. Thanks

Apus:
The moment you requested for the goods, there is a contract already binding between both seller and buyer. You reneged on this. You could compensate for the cost of moving the goods from the shop to park in good faith.
That said, It's about time we begin to think of using professional ESCROW services to avoid cases as this.

There was no contract.... What has been exchanged? There was only an understanding or intention...

StarchAndBanga:
Hello,

Created this thread to share my side of the story regarding this thread:

https://www.nairaland.com/6968649/customer-blocked-me-after-making

On Wednesday last week, I contacted Xcelinteriors cos I wanted to buy wallpaper and carpet. We agreed on N90k as the amount for the items (excluding waybill). I had every intention of paying for these items as I requested for her to drop her acc number for me to make payment more than once (u can see that from our chats) but she suggested she would first go to the park to confirm how the waybill would cost so I send everything including the money for waybill at once.

She told me she would leave her office to the park when she closes for the day and when she gets there I would talk with the park ppl to negotiate for the waybill and send the full money including the waybill to her.

After our last conversation, something came up on my end so with remorse, chatted her up to let her know she should not bother going to the park anymore as I won't be able to pay for the items any more.

I 100% had no idea she had already gone to the park (according to her) cos we talked on video around few minutes to 3pm.

Around 4:41pm, I messaged her that she should not bother going to the park again and something came up on my end so I won't be able to pay for the items again (as at when I sent this message, she did not tell me she had closed for the day already and was going to the park to waybill the items).

I sense lies all through this post. Your act was purposeful, intentional and deceitful.
Everyday Nigerians do to their fellow what APC has been doing to us all since 2015.... Intentional Lies, propaganda, causing hardship, destroying people's economic well-being and still planing to foist another similar by-product of Buhari on us. Pathetic!

StarchAndBanga:
Hello,

Created this thread to share my side of the story regarding this thread:

https://www.nairaland.com/6968649/customer-blocked-me-after-making

On Wednesday last week, I contacted Xcelinteriors cos I wanted to buy wallpaper and carpet. We agreed on N90k as the amount for the items (excluding waybill). I had every intention of paying for these items as I requested for her to drop her acc number for me to make payment more than once (u can see that from our chats) but she suggested she would first go to the park to confirm how the waybill would cost so I send everything including the money for waybill at once.

She told me she would leave her office to the park when she closes for the day and when she gets there I would talk with the park ppl to negotiate for the waybill and send the full money including the waybill to her.

After our last conversation, something came up on my end so with remorse, chatted her up to let her know she should not bother going to the park anymore as I won't be able to pay for the items any more.

I 100% had no idea she had already gone to the park (according to her) cos we talked on video around few minutes to 3pm.

Around 4:41pm, I messaged her that she should not bother going to the park again and something came up on my end so I won't be able to pay for the items again (as at when I sent this message, she did not tell me she had closed for the day already and was going to the park to waybill the items).

My only advice to the seller is to always collect her money upfront before delivery and later would negotiate cost of shipping.

If the buyer had committed funds, something won't have come up later.

akpunda86:



He has 100% but on time at least 12hrs bf time.bros I personally know d seller as she dey hussle not wen one in a park u cancel Ur order

Thats part if tge hustle... hv u not heard of car dealers that will deliver a car to the buyer within same town...lets say ikeja to ajah ...after the stress in traffic, the buyer will see the car and say he isn't interested again... what do u think the seller wud do... will u drag him and tell him to pay?? U will simply move on and count it as a stress loss ... thats y top business have MoU and guarantor incase the buyer pulls out ... he had every right to cancel even in the last minute... he wanting to give her something for her inconvenience should be out of his magnanimity

akpunda86:



He has 100% but on time at least 12hrs bf time. bros I personally know d seller as she dey hussle not wen one in a park u cancel Ur order

I suspected this was behind all the venoms thrown the way of StarchAndBanga

StarchAndBanga:


My intentions..

I never said what I did was right or I went about it the right away.

Created this thread to share my side of the story

Ogbeni fvck off with your meaningless side of story. Wicked human being

StarchAndBanga:
According to Xcelinteriors she was in traffic for close to 3 hours but I talked with her on video around 14:58, then told her I wasn't buying again when she had already gotten to the park.

Just so u know, during the video call she made no mention of going to the park at that very moment. She only reiterated what she said earlier (which was that she would leave her shop to the park when she has closed for the day).


The time between when we talked on video and when I told her I wasn't buying again was just over one hour, how come she spent close to there hours in traffic and why did she not let me know she was going to the park.

I already agree I fvcked up by pulling out last minute but the picture she is trying to paint with her thread is really not how it went down..

Doesn't change the fact that you are wicked
If you are canceling any order it's should be a day before not hours before
Dear vendors always collect your money before processing anything to avoid rubbish people like this.
Nonsense

OP, if you blocked her at all and can't give good reasons why you did so. Then you are wrong. Every other thing aside.

Bridget95:
Even after a part of the goods have been cut to his required measurement? Did you know it will be difficult to sell?

In business there is loss and profit... to cut down loss can only be determined by how smart or shrewd the person is... anyway, I believe its by yards and if its by yards , then its no loss , u simply take it bk and resell

capricornlady:
A case of miscommunication. So why did you block her?

People who simply block others are cunning, they are always selfish and won't hesitate to cheat and blocking makes feel they can't be seen or disturbed for their wicked actions

The complaint actually added curry to make it sweeter. These things happen in business especially distance business. My guys have waybilled huge amount of goods from Lagos to portharcourt but the supposed customer will switch off their phones. They'll wait for days and later pay to bring back the goods.
However, you should not have blocked her. That will create the suspicion that you were never serious abinitio.

Scrap:
You intentionally ignoring this question.

what about the linoleum?

As she won't be able to easily sell it due to the cutting. What happens to the item

Why did she cut the linoleum before payment. Is like you called a "mama alaso" in Oke Arin that you've never met and she proceeds to cut 90k lace materials and send to Motor-park before payment...

StarchAndBanga:
Hello,

Created this thread to share my side of the story regarding this thread:

https://www.nairaland.com/6968649/customer-blocked-me-after-making

On Wednesday last week, I contacted Xcelinteriors cos I wanted to buy wallpaper and carpet. We agreed on N90k as the amount for the items (excluding waybill). I had every intention of paying for these items as I requested for her to drop her acc number for me to make payment more than once (u can see that from our chats) but she suggested she would first go to the park to confirm how the waybill would cost so I send everything including the money for waybill at once.

She told me she would leave her office to the park when she closes for the day and when she gets there I would talk with the park ppl to negotiate for the waybill and send the full money including the waybill to her.

After our last conversation, something came up on my end so with remorse, chatted her up to let her know she should not bother going to the park anymore as I won't be able to pay for the items any more.

I 100% had no idea she had already gone to the park (according to her) cos we talked on video around few minutes to 3pm.

Around 4:41pm, I messaged her that she should not bother going to the park again and something came up on my end so I won't be able to pay for the items again (as at when I sent this message, she did not tell me she had closed for the day already and was going to the park to waybill the items).

The fact that you promised to buy, and bolted at that late hour was really bad! She must have had plans for the money and all. You guys should be careful and think well before stressing sellers mentally and physically.

mapet:


There was no contract.... What has been exchanged? There was only an understanding or intention...

Agreement not contract. Thanks for the correction.

StarchAndBanga:
I had no idea she already opened a thread on nairaland regarding this and this was my reply to someone that chatted me up with anger claiming that I scammed a nairaland seller..

cc: xcelinteriors
lalasticlala
Mynd44

Wow! Someone actually messaged you concerning this?

Mehn Nairalanders, you good ones impress me always o!!! God bless the good Nairalanders.

See this stupid fellow OP

Kingcalls:
He did nothing wrong...he cancelled his order and the criminal woman after seeing the message acted like she dint and still sent it .... thats buying my goods by force... I noticed that its women vendors that do this....I hv experienced it b4 , then the next thing is they will run online to buy sympathy

Wow another one
What brought about the bold in this context? How is the victim now the criminal? Why do I have these feelings that op or some close is behind this moniker to defend his error ? Might be wrong anyway.


Even op himself already admitted it that he Bleep up . No be everyone get Sense on this street aswearugod

Op I see your way still do not clean because you can't still answer why you block her . Apologize to her and I hope she can forgive you or better still, compensate her for the stress.

Thank you for coming back to explain your side,it shows you have conscience.

Slynation:
All this ones are damage control...!! The time you told her to send her account details and to opt out of the deal is barely 1:30minx...!! You know the money is coming from a third party, yet you went ahead to strike a deal...

I put it to you that a friend of yours managed to convince you to opt out of the deal and get it elsewhere...!!

Even at that, there's no law against what she did, the fault still lies with the seller that does business without having any assurances. In sane countries, a deposit would be paid before anything is cut or customized. Most of una no fit survive abroad o, abroad wey you go buy something, use am well well and still return am for full refund after 30 days .

esanmantruth:
That is the problem we have because she is a female or what? Would she sell on credit? Supposing you now bought the items and discovered it was of low quality, how will they react? Those company will not answer you again. My dear your apology is enough. How are we not sure they wanted to sell out fake materials to you? That can only lead to this worries and anger. If not customer today he can still be another customer tomorrow and that is business. Except they wanted to run deity business. Abeg as you change your mind is better, because this there attitude alone is enough to back out. Your apology is accepted except na occult or witches you offend ooo.

I no apologize o, you quoted the wrong person ogbeni

StarchAndBanga:


What did I make her loose please?

The items were not waybilled, the items are still with her.

I agree I fvcked up as I am yet to buy and I wasted her time and also stressed her out, but that was never my intention. If u read through everything I posted u would see my intention towards how it all went down.

This is very different from ur case

Then why did you block her?


You should have apologized very well! Like call and send voice notes but you chose to block her! No, that’s bad.

77up:
Wow another one
What brought about the bold in this context? How is the victim now the criminal? Why do I have these feelings that op or some close is behind this moniker to defend his error ? Might be wrong anyway.


Even op himself already admitted it that he Bleep up . No be everyone get Sense on this street aswearugod

Op I see your way still do not clean because you can't still answer why you block her . Apologize to her and I hope she can forgive you or better still, compensate her for the stress.

Thank you for coming back to explain your side,it shows you have conscience.

Forgive him how?? He ordered for something and cancelled b4 delivery...whats the fuzz?? If she decided not to read her messages, that's her wahala and not his...