Hello Nairalanders.
It's A Long Read But Please Bear With Me

Am the only child, Am A Boy,my mom died when I was 3 years and am the only child.so it's been only me and dad since and his girlfriends..

Recently I started smoking, He noticed it..My dad too smokes but only cigarette,He has been smoking past a Decade Now But He looks very Healthy And Chubby Too So You won't Know He Smokes Unless Your Saw Him smoking.

So He told Me To Stop Smoking,And He Was Angry With Me For A Week plus,Later The Anger Reduced..He Taught I Smoked Only Cigarette but I Smoke Both cigar and Arizona Weed,Jus those Two.i Don't Take alcohol.
I Stopped Smoking Though,It Was on Saturday Being Feb 4,That I Relapsed,I Smoked A.Z,So My Dad And Her Current Girlfriend Came Back,She went To The Backyard And Saw the Aches and The Brown Rizzla..Then she went and Told My Dad,My Dad Came Into My Room And Started Saying Plenty Things,Lastly He told me To Leave His House Tomorrow Being Sunday Feb 05. He then left My Room, I Was Shocked,I Didn't What To Do Or Say To Him

So in The Morning I went Out To Buy Something,When I Came Back He Locked The Back Door From inside,So I Couldn't Open It With My Keys.I Knocked And Told Him It Was Me,He Told Me To Go Back To Where I Come From And i Should Not Knock Ever Again.This Made Angry,He Didn't Even Give Me The Chance To Apologize,I Used Vex And Told Him Oya Let Me Carry My Property,He Said He Will Throw it For Me,That He Is Already Packing My Belongings,Few Minutes Later He Threw It for Me,I Was Down So He Threw It From Up...So I Left to Stay With a Friend in another State.


So My Question Now Is what My Father Did The Right thing?My Telling Me To Leave His House Cos I smoke, Am 19 Years Of Age, I Will be 20 This Year.I heard too Many ulcers and Helicobacter pylori Which Leads To Stomach Cancer,Yet He Told Me To Leave, He Was The Buying Medicine For Me But He Knows The Ulcer And Helicobacter pylori Hasn't Healed Final.He Knows I Don't Have Money To Fend For Myself Yet,i Always Go To His Shop To Help Him With His business.

What He Did By Telling Me To Leave Is It Right?I Don't SMOKE Outside,I only SMOKE In Our Flat,Cos I Don't Want People To Know I SmokE,My Dad Will be Ashamed When People Tell Him I Smoke ,He is a Very Popular Man Here..


Today I Chatted Him And Told Him Am Sorry For My actions,The First Thing He Told Me Was (you will never see good In your life)..I Didn't Mind Though The Curse though, I Begged Him,And He Told Me To Come Back,But Am Really Not Happy With Him,What if I Have Accident?what if I was Kidnapped?He didn't Think Of Those ones instead He sent Me Parking, I Have always Be A Good son which he tells me Frequently,I don't give him Headache.Just Only That Smoke

Even Though He Told Me To Come Back Am Still annoyed With Him,Instead of Him to Help Me To Stop ,He Told Me To Leave His House And Go continue Smoking.Those Words Hurt Me....

Should I Go back To Him And Start Planing To Save Money And Relocate?Cos I don't Have a Dime Now,And My ulcer Hasn't Healed Complete...I haven't even Eaten Good Food since yesterday,Just one okpa
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My Main Question Are (Did My Dad Do The Right Thing By Telling Me To Leave,Should I Go Back To Stay With Him??Or should I Stay Here At My friend Place and start Hustling For Myself??

Please Moderators Should help Move to Front page,Am in Deep confusion Now.Thanks

He sha told you to come back, go back and smoke no more.

shilenji:
He sha told you to come back, go back and smoke no more.

He Told Me To Come Back Because I Apologize For Smoking And That I will Never Smoke Again.If 'Not That I apologize He would Not Have Told Me To Come Back

Find a way to hide or kill your smoking habits, it’s been 4yrs straight I joined the gang, tho I’m already in my early 30s, but believe me one thing weed does is, it makes you go and grow matured than your age in reasoning, it could also affect your sense of reasoning, more reason you see younger ones trying so hard to compitite with their elders or fathers achievements.

At 20yrs, you are not too young to decide your life, but this my advice look at ur father carefully and study him, if you would want to follow his footpath then go back home and let him direct and be in charge of everything, that’s if you trust him, if not if you can smoke then you can fend for yourself. I had advice you go back home, you already sounding like someone that’s gonna drown in few weeks without his father.


Modified:
Hypocrite will rush to condem u, cos you’ve decided to wash your dirty cloth in the public, while 70% of them is addicted to mastubation. Don’t let anyone fool you, I use the word kill or hide, up there so you won’t feel you’ve committed murder or adultery or so, it’s just smoking and you need to quit cos of your health condition.

"OBEDIENCE IS BETTER THAN SACRIFICE". Atleast u wud have listened to him when u had the chance nw u are nw living a life of regret. My advice is that u have to humble yourself and go back to ur father if he genuinely asked u to come back. Its well

Na to go back

Op, do you think your father is happy with his smoking habit? He is probably not happy but due to addiction, he has been stucked with it, now he wouldn't wish you join in his bad habit, if it will be possible, you should stop smoking, imagine smoking while suffering from ulcer, listen to your father, he meant well for you.

Yep, sounds legit to me. If you want to ruin your life then you should pay your own bills. You're an adult now so welcome to reality! I would do exactly what your father did and being an emotional woman, I'd probably add a beating to your eviction. Imagine thinking you could smoke drugs at your parents house! This generation have zero fear or respect.

Ps... you can't even type a simple document/article correctly so it's safe to say you've neglected your education too. God forbid a nonsense child.

You get Ulcer you dey smoke?

Well,your dad have reset your brain by throwing you out.Now that you have apologized,he has been able to double reset your brain.
Now,stop smoking and go read your books.
Arizona ko,Utah ni.

Those that smoke will tell you that they're finding it hard to stop. Try and quit smoking you're too young. Your dad has his rules and if you want to stay with him keep to them and if you're grown to do whatever you like, then go get your apartment. Your dad is a good man but my issue with him is swearing, it is a no for me

Eyaaaa

Smallie


It is well with you.

OP please go back to your father’s house without any hesitation. It’s one thing to be struggling to feed and it’s another to be doing that when you’re not fully healed. You need your father. Play according to his rules while you’re still under his roof. Start seeking help for your addiction and focus on what matters at your age. I'm afraid your father has done no wrong in the eyes of the culture and law here, even if you don't consider him a loving father.

Hustling? Azin yahho bha.

Oya start going to ur pale house, before the spirit of your late mum whip yo cane.

The truth is a smoker will always give birth to a smoker

Use your head so you will not give your father High BP.

If I were you, I will stop casting around the house and environs where you are known. If you ain't in school yet then be patient and try to get admitted.

It will help to rebuild the trust between you and your father.

NnolimNzubechi:
Hello Nairalanders.
It's A Long Read But Please Bear With Me

Am the only child, Am A Boy,my mom died when I was 3 years and am the only child.so it's been only me and dad since and his girlfriends..

Recently I started smoking, He noticed it..My dad too smokes but only cigarette,He has been smoking past a Decade Now But He looks very Healthy And Chubby Too So You won't Know He Smokes Unless Your Saw Him smoking.

So He told Me To Stop Smoking,And He Was Angry With Me For A Week plus,Later The Anger Reduced..He Taught I Smoked Only Cigarette but I Smoke Both cigar and Arizona Weed,Jus those Two.i Don't Take alcohol.
I Stopped Smoking Though,It Was on Saturday Being Feb 4,That I Relapsed,I Smoked A.Z,So My Dad And Her Current Girlfriend Came Back,She went To The Backyard And Saw the Aches and The Brown Rizzla..Then she went and Told My Dad,My Dad Came Into My Room And Started Saying Plenty Things,Lastly He told me To Leave His House Tomorrow Being Sunday Feb 05. He then left My Room, I Was Shocked,I Didn't What To Do Or Say To Him

So in The Morning I went Out To Buy Something,When I Came Back He Locked The Back Door From inside,So I Couldn't Open It With My Keys.I Knocked And Told Him It Was Me,He Told Me To Go Back To Where I Come From And i Should Not Knock Ever Again.This Made Angry,He Didn't Even Give Me The Chance To Apologize,I Used Vex And Told Him Oya Let Me Carry My Property,He Said He Will Throw it For Me,That He Is Already Packing My Belongings,Few Minutes Later He Threw It for Me,I Was Down So He Threw It From Up...So I Left to Stay With a Friend in another State.


So My Question Now Is what My Father Did The Right thing?My Telling Me To Leave His House Cos I smoke, Am 19 Years Of Age, I Will be 20 This Year.I heard too Many ulcers and Helicobacter pylori Which Leads To Stomach Cancer,Yet He Told Me To Leave, He Was The Buying Medicine For Me But He Knows The Ulcer And Helicobacter pylori Hasn't Healed Final.He Knows I Don't Have Money To Fend For Myself Yet,i Always Go To His Shop To Help Him With His business.

What He Did By Telling Me To Leave Is It Right?I Don't SMOKE Outside,I only SMOKE In Our Flat,Cos I Don't Want People To Know I SmokE,My Dad Will be Ashamed When People Tell Him I Smoke ,He is a Very Popular Man Here..


Today I Chatted Him And Told Him Am Sorry For My actions,The First Thing He Told Me Was (you will never see good In your life)..I Didn't Mind Though The Curse though, I Begged Him,And He Told Me To Come Back,But Am Really Not Happy With Him,What if I Have Accident?what if I was Kidnapped?He didn't Think Of Those ones instead He sent Me Parking, I Have always Be A Good son which he tells me Frequently,I don't give him Headache.Just Only That Smoke

Even Though He Told Me To Come Back Am Still annoyed With Him,Instead of Him to Help Me To Stop ,He Told Me To Leave His House And Go continue Smoking.Those Words Hurt Me....

Should I Go back To Him And Start Planing To Save Money And Relocate?Cos I don't Have a Dime Now,And My ulcer Hasn't Healed Complete...I haven't even Eaten Good Food since yesterday,Just one okpa
...
My Main Question Are (Did My Dad Do The Right Thing By Telling Me To Leave,Should I Go Back To Stay With Him??Or should I Stay Here At My friend Place and start Hustling For Myself??

Please Moderators Should help Move to Front page,Am in Deep confusion Now.Thanks

Go and make peace with your dad and please stop smoking... Your dad did the wrong thing but I'm sure he loves you.
My dad disowned me 3 times, sent me out of his house twice during my teenage years.
I am the only son... What i remember if him after his death is that my dad loved me.

Try to forgive him and let peace reign

Many ulcer,helicopter papilo,stomach gini gini and u still dey smoke.

Only child.and u wan use ur hand close ur father name.

Haakeem:
Hustling? Azin yahho bha.

Oya start going to ur pale house nw before the spirit of your late mum whip yo cane nw.

Dont mind the fool.upon sey him dey sick helicopter papaya

Go back to your father's house and stop smoking until you can live on ur own terms, person wey dey stay him Papa house no know eating God don do for am.

Na billing and debit alert full outside

I live alone I know what I go thru every month,NEPA bill, waste bill, water bill, sweepers fee, security fee, I wan mad...my head dey hot.


So go back to your father's house and be a good boy, if you must smoke, make sure you do that seven seas and mountains away from your father and his girlfriend

I smoke too, but I won't advise you not to go back to your father house and live with his terms

Go back to your father's house asap. I do not know what ARIZONA is, but I know that to smoke cigarettes and Arizona at young age of 19yrs, plus your ulcer has made your dad to lose hope in you, he feels you are heading to doom in life, your attitude has definitely pushed your father into considering having other children with his girlfriends, that's why he sent you away, without worry. Go back and take your place before other children replace you and you are locked out for life.

Go back to your father’s house, it’s too cold outside.

NnolimNzubechi:
Hello Nairalanders.
It's A Long Read But Please Bear With Me

Am the only child, Am A Boy,my mom died when I was 3 years and am the only child.so it's been only me and dad since and his girlfriends..

Recently I started smoking, He noticed it..My dad too smokes but only cigarette,He has been smoking past a Decade Now But He looks very Healthy And Chubby Too So You won't Know He Smokes Unless Your Saw Him smoking.

So He told Me To Stop Smoking,And He Was Angry With Me For A Week plus,Later The Anger Reduced..He Taught I Smoked Only Cigarette but I Smoke Both cigar and Arizona Weed,Jus those Two.i Don't Take alcohol.
I Stopped Smoking Though,It Was on Saturday Being Feb 4,That I Relapsed,I Smoked A.Z,So My Dad And Her Current Girlfriend Came Back,She went To The Backyard And Saw the Aches and The Brown Rizzla..Then she went and Told My Dad,My Dad Came Into My Room And Started Saying Plenty Things,Lastly He told me To Leave His House Tomorrow Being Sunday Feb 05. He then left My Room, I Was Shocked,I Didn't What To Do Or Say To Him

So in The Morning I went Out To Buy Something,When I Came Back He Locked The Back Door From inside,So I Couldn't Open It With My Keys.I Knocked And Told Him It Was Me,He Told Me To Go Back To Where I Come From And i Should Not Knock Ever Again.This Made Angry,He Didn't Even Give Me The Chance To Apologize,I Used Vex And Told Him Oya Let Me Carry My Property,He Said He Will Throw it For Me,That He Is Already Packing My Belongings,Few Minutes Later He Threw It for Me,I Was Down So He Threw It From Up...So I Left to Stay With a Friend in another State.


So My Question Now Is what My Father Did The Right thing?My Telling Me To Leave His House Cos I smoke, Am 19 Years Of Age, I Will be 20 This Year.I heard too Many ulcers and Helicobacter pylori Which Leads To Stomach Cancer,Yet He Told Me To Leave, He Was The Buying Medicine For Me But He Knows The Ulcer And Helicobacter pylori Hasn't Healed Final.He Knows I Don't Have Money To Fend For Myself Yet,i Always Go To His Shop To Help Him With His business.

What He Did By Telling Me To Leave Is It Right?I Don't SMOKE Outside,I only SMOKE In Our Flat,Cos I Don't Want People To Know I SmokE,My Dad Will be Ashamed When People Tell Him I Smoke ,He is a Very Popular Man Here..


Today I Chatted Him And Told Him Am Sorry For My actions,The First Thing He Told Me Was (you will never see good In your life)..I Didn't Mind Though The Curse though, I Begged Him,And He Told Me To Come Back,But Am Really Not Happy With Him,What if I Have Accident?what if I was Kidnapped?He didn't Think Of Those ones instead He sent Me Parking, I Have always Be A Good son which he tells me Frequently,I don't give him Headache.Just Only That Smoke

Even Though He Told Me To Come Back Am Still annoyed With Him,Instead of Him to Help Me To Stop ,He Told Me To Leave His House And Go continue Smoking.Those Words Hurt Me....

Should I Go back To Him And Start Planing To Save Money And Relocate?Cos I don't Have a Dime Now,And My ulcer Hasn't Healed Complete...I haven't even Eaten Good Food since yesterday,Just one okpa
...
My Main Question Are (Did My Dad Do The Right Thing By Telling Me To Leave,Should I Go Back To Stay With Him??Or should I Stay Here At My friend Place and start Hustling For Myself??

Please Moderators Should help Move to Front page,Am in Deep confusion Now.Thanks

Honestly you are still a good child and you are humble, but I don't know why you choose to smoke

You have ulcer that you are under going treatment, what if you get lungs cancer from your smoking, we will all loose you

Go back to your dad, just rerun home, later tell him you want to have a son and dad discussion with him

Tell him how you feel and how you want him to help you come out of your smoking habits

Tell him anything you want to tell him

Then ask him to withdraw that curse on you and ask him to bless you with prayers

You see, at this stage and this moment, if you don't define what you want to do in life, you will loose it soon

And once you slip off, that's the beginning if your unstable life

Think of what to start doing now that your dad is still active to help you

nobody wants a locomotive train in his house. Human chimney

Don't ever rubbish your father at all.

U are stubborn and that was his reason for asking u to leave his house.

U are doing smoking competition with papa wey born u. You are not even helping yourself with all the Ulcers u still got the mind to smoke Arizona join the stuff.

Go back to your father and continue to be responsible.

Good luck to u.

Lol. Because your father tell you to call back home and that's why you are making shakara and considering not to go back.

Na who go suffer? If you stay there for 2 weeks body go tell you.

You have no choice other than to go back. Even you friend will start giving you attitude.

Stop smoking if you can.

Oh dear

lol

Damnnn niggar

Son you were born to be a smoker

Nobody can change that

Continue to smoke your weed...but avoid cigarette

If you hide to smoke weed:

1. You should not be smoking weed in the first place.

You also should probably not be staying with your dad at that age too

the nigga does not have the moral right to push you out of his house. i mean he is a dad and he has a girlfriend ? you the one who need to push his ass out the house