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Re: When A Wife Returns After Separation by Nobody: 7:24pm On Feb 08, 2022 |
Chai.. if i no fit arrest her for kidnapping my child and prepare her divorce before she is set free make i know why.. I no still understand where all these married men dey see women marry sha? Just imagine the nerve |
Re: When A Wife Returns After Separation by GistFullGround: 7:26pm On Feb 08, 2022 |
Do a DNA test on the first child! |
Re: When A Wife Returns After Separation by medriano: 7:29pm On Feb 08, 2022 |
For now, do not accept her back. |
Re: When A Wife Returns After Separation by iamjavadem(m): 7:31pm On Feb 08, 2022 |
Especially with so little information given and us hearing only your own side of the story, we cannot judge but me I will always take my wife back especially because if my son, you would also want her to take you back if you did same. Righteousness2: 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: When A Wife Returns After Separation by Newboss(m): 7:32pm On Feb 08, 2022 |
She cannot return. There's no way home because your home is no longer her home She should go and die 2 Likes |
Re: When A Wife Returns After Separation by EgunMogaji2: 7:34pm On Feb 08, 2022 |
Please don’t take her back. 1 Like |
Re: When A Wife Returns After Separation by nike4love: 7:35pm On Feb 08, 2022 |
PROPHETmichael:You are very correct.but some blockheads will argue that a man and a woman has the same population.... Even in animals females re more in number so they won't go extinct. |
Re: When A Wife Returns After Separation by thunderbabs: 7:36pm On Feb 08, 2022 |
Some comebacks by separatist wives can be dangerous for the husband. Husband shouldn't close both eyes when sleeping |
Re: When A Wife Returns After Separation by OMYKROIN: 7:41pm On Feb 08, 2022 |
Righteousness2: But is divorce not legitimate in God's eye if adultery is involved? What if the woman slept with another man, so the husband should still accept her? |
Re: When A Wife Returns After Separation by jaxxy(m): 7:44pm On Feb 08, 2022 |
Babsojimjim: Coming back without a good explanation why she left, where she was and an apology is not satisfactory. |
Re: When A Wife Returns After Separation by Omotosho1090905(m): 7:47pm On Feb 08, 2022 |
[quote author=Babsojimjim post=109988428]Dear all, permit me to use this medium to seek for mature and experienced advise... When a wife out of her own wish without any current justifiable reason seperates from her husband for almost two months and has now decided to return back with the kid out of her own wish without any pressure, should the man accept her back? Also should there be conditions attached before the man can accept her back? Mature and experienced input is highly appreciated. Thanks all.[/quote Br you need to stop advertising Nollywood movies, we are in 2k22 there has to be a reason she left if we don't know that we definitely can't give the right input. Like I never heard it before she moved out of her own wish and came back again on her on wish when ein no be her Papa house |
Re: When A Wife Returns After Separation by kaludestiny10(m): 7:47pm On Feb 08, 2022 |
This is a matured and elderly advice the op should consider. Richy4: 1 Like |
Re: When A Wife Returns After Separation by Righteousness2(m): 7:53pm On Feb 08, 2022 |
PROPHETmichael: Keep Decieving yourself! When you stand before GOD you will tell him that Gideon did it. When you ready to Stop Deceiving yourself you will study what JESUS Christ gave for marriage 1 Like |
Re: When A Wife Returns After Separation by sexy74(m): 7:54pm On Feb 08, 2022 |
Babsojimjim:Hmm my brother your questions are deep but answers has to be giving . In my own opinion for her to leave she should stay where ever she went to as long as it's not your fault for her to be back should be in your terms and conditions. She is trying how resolute you are if you accept her back without any penalty and stringent conditions she would do it again and again . Sincerely start your life afresh |
Re: When A Wife Returns After Separation by Innomach(m): 8:01pm On Feb 08, 2022 |
Righteousness2: Lies! Stop deceiving people with your personal beliefs. |
Re: When A Wife Returns After Separation by flokii: 8:03pm On Feb 08, 2022 |
I really don't think I would accept such a woman back into my house.. most of them don't value their husband's struggles to sustain the home till they go out and see hell. You left your husband for 2 solid months and then reappear out of nowhere.. for what na? @OP Don't touch her or eat her food and if possible sef, pack your things and disappear for like 6 months.. arrant nonsense 2 Likes |
Re: When A Wife Returns After Separation by bobbiiee: 8:03pm On Feb 08, 2022 |
If your wife leaves for a year will you welcome her with open arms regardless of where she's been or what she has done in the name of God hates divorce? Do you think it's only divorce that he hates? Proverbs 6 :16-19 16 These six things doth the LORD hate: yea, seven are an abomination unto him: note 17 A proud look, a lying tongue, and hands that shed innocent blood, note xref-1 [xref-2] 18 An heart that deviseth wicked imaginations, feet that be swift in running to mischief 19 A false witness that speaketh lies, and he that soweth discord among brethren. Righteousness2: |
Re: When A Wife Returns After Separation by Twoclans(f): 8:03pm On Feb 08, 2022 |
Munzy14: Rolls Eyes Na who una go kill in the name of love una dey find . |
Re: When A Wife Returns After Separation by ImoleNaija: 8:04pm On Feb 08, 2022 |
Appliedmaths: Imagine that! Werey wan give the innocent man a bastard child |
Re: When A Wife Returns After Separation by Durabest: 8:04pm On Feb 08, 2022 |
In my tradition if u accept her back without proper traditional things you the man wile pay the price and the price is death,bcus the accestors wil charge u 4 underating them.My adivce to you is seek the face of elders b4 u take further actions. |
Re: When A Wife Returns After Separation by Gentlerespect76: 8:04pm On Feb 08, 2022 |
Kollyman: Kill and carry, abi. |
Re: When A Wife Returns After Separation by Enny2013(f): 8:06pm On Feb 08, 2022 |
With d intervention of d elders (from both families),u cn take her back.she must explain in detail what led to her action. Oga, No just accept her like dat o.she won't value u n she might repeat dat again.First avoid her Wella. Make her beg,beg n beg bfr allowing her in. I hate nonsense. 1 Like |
Re: When A Wife Returns After Separation by Thinkfree(m): 8:08pm On Feb 08, 2022 |
That's why i like idoma culture on matters like this. The villagers will gather to get answers for the following questions 1) how many men slept with you during the brake. 2) did you enjoy them? 3)are you ready to settle down forever? 4) if yes can you swear to an oath that you were not fockedd? 1 Like |
Re: When A Wife Returns After Separation by twilliamx(m): 8:11pm On Feb 08, 2022 |
Babsojimjim: No.. |
Re: When A Wife Returns After Separation by jude33084(m): 8:13pm On Feb 08, 2022 |
Lostchild: 1 Like |
Re: When A Wife Returns After Separation by jude33084(m): 8:14pm On Feb 08, 2022 |
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Re: When A Wife Returns After Separation by Mayeldah(m): 8:17pm On Feb 08, 2022 |
Op revert with more info let's have more facts |
Re: When A Wife Returns After Separation by Microwhy: 8:21pm On Feb 08, 2022 |
Righteousness2:Advocate of God.. Olodo. You better go find nearest mosque and pronounce your sha'adah |
Re: When A Wife Returns After Separation by phemmyfour: 8:22pm On Feb 08, 2022 |
Babsojimjim:Tell us why she left. No woman will leave a man with no reason. Her own side of the story will give a well informed advice |
Re: When A Wife Returns After Separation by ThinkSmarter: 8:23pm On Feb 08, 2022 |
Maybe she was thinking that marriage was bed of all Roses. She was expecting that everything will fall in place according to her expectation, only to get disappointed. She ran back to her father's compound and maybe after struggling for breakfast, lunch, dinner and other things. She then realized that things were really better off in her husband's house. Or she was schooled by her parents, her mother especially. Then wisdom entered her brain. A times it is good to let one's wife go if she's threatening to go back to her father's house. It's a school of its own. |
Re: When A Wife Returns After Separation by fof1: 8:24pm On Feb 08, 2022 |
princeeze1: Rubbish and Misdirected Response to Another's Opinion, Pls. Face Urs and dont be Counteractive,Pls. U Are Not WISER. 1 Like |
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