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Yes you are right lol girls can play games my last relationship of almost 3 years thought me a great lesson never give a woman more attention than she deserves let her Starve for you and always be ahead of the game . My ex did worse than this i spent all my energy money and my hardship on her to let her know am honest with her now she mess up and we've been apart for 4 month now the guy she was dating after me gave her break fast sharp when billing too much now she post this stupid twitter quote on whats app and i read and read nothing make sense there that shows that the current guy she dated last was rich but could not provide lol now she is regretting texting happy new year and happy new month i no they even reply

flokii:
The most scary part is that the said girl might be in a "no sex till marriage" relationship with the other guy she is planning to marry but is getting bonked steady by this OP and maybe others..
If one is not careful with that gender, you'll either have your seeds under another man's roof or you have another man's seeds under your own roof.

My ex left for no reason in less than 1 month she they post she and nigga cruising in a Honda EOD lol . when nigga realised her billing problem too much he japa give her strong break up lol . now she they post say no be on till man get money or rich he fit show love for him wife . some men get money and rich but they no fit spend for there wife
She they regret now but am not taking her back and am not giving her my hard earn money or shishi again


Does this her most make sense she now knows dating a rich dude does not make her rich

And you couldn't impregnate the lady.

Sammy101111:
Yes you are right lol girls can play games my last relationship of almost 3 years thought me a great lesson never give a woman more attention than she deserves let her Starve for you and always be ahead of the game . My ex did worse than this i spent all my energy money and my hardship on her to let her know am honest with her now she bleeped up and weve been apart for 4 month now the guy she was datung after me gave her break fast sharp when billing too much now she post this stupid twitter quote on whats and i read and read nothing make sense there that shows that the current guy is dated last was rich but could not provide lol now she is regretting texting happy new year and happy new month i no they even reply

Just imagine..
Women and their tricks ehnn.

They have trick but as a smart guy once shit happen dont let the shit repeat him self again

flokii:
Just imagine..
Women and their tricks ehnn.

Lucasmuyiwaa:
Please don't mind my grammars but I will try my best to make readers understand what I'm trying to say. I met my girlfriend at the time I was being disturbed by my parents to bring a wife. But then I was not really ready for marriage and this girl I met during that time happens to be the girl I love most. I showed her how much I love her and I know she really loves me too. I've tested her love for me many times and I can proof how much this girl loves me. To cut the story short, we had a misunderstanding couple of months ago and it lasted for two weeks befre we settled it. What really caused the fight was a guy that I feel like they were having a relationship and I confronted my girlfriend. She said they've known each other befre she met me and they weren't dating anymore though the guy has been trying to come back to her but she just decided to keep him as friend according to what she told me. So this particular guy again I saw him coming to ask of her in her house when I was there and I did not feel good seeing that guy. I had to leave and didn't pick the girl call for some time and she stopped calling me too. Though I know I'm gonna call her back when Im done angry and I was even expecting her to call me more and maybe I would eventually pick but I didn't see her call for a week. So I started feeling somehow when she uploaded that particular guy pick on facebook and tagged it "my love." She uploaded it both on whatsapp and facebook so that I caN see it because I stopped checking her whatsapp status. When I couldn't feel okay anymore I decided to end the fight jokingly with her and it worked then I asked her after few days of settlement why she had to put that guy on her status but she said she did it because she saw where I also put some girls on my status and me putting love emoji so she retaliated with that because it hurt her. We settled the fight and we agreed never to get mad at each other again. But just of recent I heard it from her sister that the guy I always see with my girlfriend has come to their house to see her parents and I shoudnt even waste my time with her or tell her. I was not okay when I heard that story and coudnt believe until I asked my girlfriend if she's hiding anything from me but she said No. After asking her so many times she finally told me to ask her whatever I heard and I told her. She answered yes and I was shocked. I asked her why she had to do that and she explained how her dad had been insulting her at home to go and marry and even transferred the aggressiveness to her mother if she fails to bring a man befre this year though, she always tell me everything her father is doing with her at home and always cry when telling me but I keep telling her to please have patient that we will go to see him very soon. So the second thing she said was that when we had a misunderstanding for some weeks and we didn't talk she believed I've done with her and she can't wait to loose both ways even though she loves me more than the guy. Now the guy had gone to see her parents but my girlfriend said its nothing that she can't get married to the guy and that meeting is nothing, so I fell relaxed and asked her what we are going to do. She told me to impregnate her and then she will go and tell her father that she is pregnant for another guy and not the guy that came to see him. We had sex but unfortunately she didn't get pregnant. So she decided to tell her mom what's going on and how much she want me and her to marry. So the mother took her to her father and told her everything my girlfriend said that it's not the guy that came to see them is her husband that the main husband is coming to see them but the father changed it and got upset with them that why and what's the meaning of that nonsense, if she doesn't love the guy that came to see them why did she introduced him to them. She recorded all the insults the father said and played it for me. I was so shocked and this girl started crying to the extent that I had to take her out that day to feel happy. She said she doesn't want to marry that guy but that guy had come with his parents to see my girlfriend parents. Now I don't know what to do because my girlfriend said she will kill herself if we don't get married which can't even happen. Whenever I tell her to please let peace reign that she should go ahead and marry the guy she will get mad and would never talk to me anymore until I beg her. And sometimes when I jokingly tell her that I will also go and see another girl parent so that I won't loose at both ends she kneel and start crying not to even do so. She always tell me to put mind at rest that we would get married but I don't see it working at all because those guys parents will be making preparations day by day. My girlfriend tells me most things the parents say and I always feel bad.Plz ineed ur advice because i'm confused.The only thing that could help us was the pregnancy but when she did the test she was told she wasnt pregnant.Now she is regretting her actions because she never knew all these could happen.Shes confused too because she cried everyday because of all these.

You are still a small boy who specializes in shock absorbing like bubu

Mercychen:
Lol. .. I couldn't help but come and laugh first @"main" husband you said in your write-up. Lol...

So, there is main husband now? . Very funny.

Op, both of you are very immature.
It's obvious you're not ready to marry her because even with threats from her father and the fact that someone else has outdone you by going to see her parents, you've still not made any moves on your part to save your relationship. Rather you're glued to one spot doing backyard love fight. ACT LIKE A MAN or get out of her life for good.

Your mate don go do the needful, you're there sleeping with her like a confused cork. Left to me, I'll say she should not marry you. You no get action abeg.

If you were me what actions will you take please.

You have allowed someone else to overtake you. Well, you will soon cry over spilled milk.
Yours is not thick enough to nourish her womb that's why a baby refused to enter.

Man, stay away from her or you may not be able to father a child through her. Don't be blinded by what appears to be love between both of you.

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Mercychen:
Lol. .. I couldn't help but come and laugh first @"main" husband you said in your write-up. Lol...

So, there is main husband now? . Very funny.

Op, both of you are very immature.
It's obvious you're not ready to marry her because even with threats from her father and the fact that someone else has outdone you by going to see her parents, you've still not made any moves on your part to save your relationship. Rather you're glued to one spot doing backyard love fight. ACT LIKE A MAN or get out of her life for good.

Your mate don go do the needful, you're there sleeping with her like a confused cork. Left to me, I'll say she should not marry you. You no get action abeg.

You said it all.

Lack of manly action is your weakness.

Stand up and take action or you get out of her life.

SIMPle

Lucasmuyiwaa:
Please don't mind my grammars but I will try my best to make readers understand what I'm trying to say. I met my girlfriend at the time I was being disturbed by my parents to bring a wife. But then I was not really ready for marriage and this girl I met during that time happens to be the girl I love most. I showed her how much I love her and I know she really loves me too. I've tested her love for me many times and I can proof how much this girl loves me. To cut the story short, we had a misunderstanding couple of months ago and it lasted for two weeks befre we settled it. What really caused the fight was a guy that I feel like they were having a relationship and I confronted my girlfriend. She said they've known each other befre she met me and they weren't dating anymore though the guy has been trying to come back to her but she just decided to keep him as friend according to what she told me. So this particular guy again I saw him coming to ask of her in her house when I was there and I did not feel good seeing that guy. I had to leave and didn't pick the girl call for some time and she stopped calling me too. Though I know I'm gonna call her back when Im done angry and I was even expecting her to call me more and maybe I would eventually pick but I didn't see her call for a week. So I started feeling somehow when she uploaded that particular guy pick on facebook and tagged it "my love." She uploaded it both on whatsapp and facebook so that I caN see it because I stopped checking her whatsapp status. When I couldn't feel okay anymore I decided to end the fight jokingly with her and it worked then I asked her after few days of settlement why she had to put that guy on her status but she said she did it because she saw where I also put some girls on my status and me putting love emoji so she retaliated with that because it hurt her. We settled the fight and we agreed never to get mad at each other again. But just of recent I heard it from her sister that the guy I always see with my girlfriend has come to their house to see her parents and I shoudnt even waste my time with her or tell her. I was not okay when I heard that story and coudnt believe until I asked my girlfriend if she's hiding anything from me but she said No. After asking her so many times she finally told me to ask her whatever I heard and I told her. She answered yes and I was shocked. I asked her why she had to do that and she explained how her dad had been insulting her at home to go and marry and even transferred the aggressiveness to her mother if she fails to bring a man befre this year though, she always tell me everything her father is doing with her at home and always cry when telling me but I keep telling her to please have patient that we will go to see him very soon. So the second thing she said was that when we had a misunderstanding for some weeks and we didn't talk she believed I've done with her and she can't wait to loose both ways even though she loves me more than the guy. Now the guy had gone to see her parents but my girlfriend said its nothing that she can't get married to the guy and that meeting is nothing, so I fell relaxed and asked her what we are going to do. She told me to impregnate her and then she will go and tell her father that she is pregnant for another guy and not the guy that came to see him. We had sex but unfortunately she didn't get pregnant. So she decided to tell her mom what's going on and how much she want me and her to marry. So the mother took her to her father and told her everything my girlfriend said that it's not the guy that came to see them is her husband that the main husband is coming to see them but the father changed it and got upset with them that why and what's the meaning of that nonsense, if she doesn't love the guy that came to see them why did she introduced him to them. She recorded all the insults the father said and played it for me. I was so shocked and this girl started crying to the extent that I had to take her out that day to feel happy. She said she doesn't want to marry that guy but that guy had come with his parents to see my girlfriend parents. Now I don't know what to do because my girlfriend said she will kill herself if we don't get married which can't even happen. Whenever I tell her to please let peace reign that she should go ahead and marry the guy she will get mad and would never talk to me anymore until I beg her. And sometimes when I jokingly tell her that I will also go and see another girl parent so that I won't loose at both ends she kneel and start crying not to even do so. She always tell me to put mind at rest that we would get married but I don't see it working at all because those guys parents will be making preparations day by day. My girlfriend tells me most things the parents say and I always feel bad.Plz ineed ur advice because i'm confused.The only thing that could help us was the pregnancy but when she did the test she was told she wasnt pregnant.Now she is regretting her actions because she never knew all these could happen.Shes confused too because she cried everyday because of all these.

Brace yourself up and go and see her dad to talk as men.

I no fit read the story. I just want tell you to take heart.

Lucasmuyiwaa:
If you were me what actions will you take please.

See question.. .. go and see her parents of course. And if you know, you don't have the wherewithal for now, let her go. Simple!

Lucasmuyiwaa:
Please don't mind my grammars but I will try my best to make readers understand what I'm trying to say. I met my girlfriend at the time I was being disturbed by my parents to bring a wife. But then I was not really ready for marriage and this girl I met during that time happens to be the girl I love most. I showed her how much I love her and I know she really loves me too. I've tested her love for me many times and I can proof how much this girl loves me. To cut the story short, we had a misunderstanding couple of months ago and it lasted for two weeks befre we settled it. What really caused the fight was a guy that I feel like they were having a relationship and I confronted my girlfriend. She said they've known each other befre she met me and they weren't dating anymore though the guy has been trying to come back to her but she just decided to keep him as friend according to what she told me. So this particular guy again I saw him coming to ask of her in her house when I was there and I did not feel good seeing that guy. I had to leave and didn't pick the girl call for some time and she stopped calling me too. Though I know I'm gonna call her back when Im done angry and I was even expecting her to call me more and maybe I would eventually pick but I didn't see her call for a week. So I started feeling somehow when she uploaded that particular guy pick on facebook and tagged it "my love." She uploaded it both on whatsapp and facebook so that I caN see it because I stopped checking her whatsapp status. When I couldn't feel okay anymore I decided to end the fight jokingly with her and it worked then I asked her after few days of settlement why she had to put that guy on her status but she said she did it because she saw where I also put some girls on my status and me putting love emoji so she retaliated with that because it hurt her. We settled the fight and we agreed never to get mad at each other again. But just of recent I heard it from her sister that the guy I always see with my girlfriend has come to their house to see her parents and I shoudnt even waste my time with her or tell her. I was not okay when I heard that story and coudnt believe until I asked my girlfriend if she's hiding anything from me but she said No. After asking her so many times she finally told me to ask her whatever I heard and I told her. She answered yes and I was shocked. I asked her why she had to do that and she explained how her dad had been insulting her at home to go and marry and even transferred the aggressiveness to her mother if she fails to bring a man befre this year though, she always tell me everything her father is doing with her at home and always cry when telling me but I keep telling her to please have patient that we will go to see him very soon. So the second thing she said was that when we had a misunderstanding for some weeks and we didn't talk she believed I've done with her and she can't wait to loose both ways even though she loves me more than the guy. Now the guy had gone to see her parents but my girlfriend said its nothing that she can't get married to the guy and that meeting is nothing, so I fell relaxed and asked her what we are going to do. She told me to impregnate her and then she will go and tell her father that she is pregnant for another guy and not the guy that came to see him. We had sex but unfortunately she didn't get pregnant. So she decided to tell her mom what's going on and how much she want me and her to marry. So the mother took her to her father and told her everything my girlfriend said that it's not the guy that came to see them is her husband that the main husband is coming to see them but the father changed it and got upset with them that why and what's the meaning of that nonsense, if she doesn't love the guy that came to see them why did she introduced him to them. She recorded all the insults the father said and played it for me. I was so shocked and this girl started crying to the extent that I had to take her out that day to feel happy. She said she doesn't want to marry that guy but that guy had come with his parents to see my girlfriend parents. Now I don't know what to do because my girlfriend said she will kill herself if we don't get married which can't even happen. Whenever I tell her to please let peace reign that she should go ahead and marry the guy she will get mad and would never talk to me anymore until I beg her. And sometimes when I jokingly tell her that I will also go and see another girl parent so that I won't loose at both ends she kneel and start crying not to even do so. She always tell me to put mind at rest that we would get married but I don't see it working at all because those guys parents will be making preparations day by day. My girlfriend tells me most things the parents say and I always feel bad.Plz ineed ur advice because i'm confused.The only thing that could help us was the pregnancy but when she did the test she was told she wasnt pregnant.Now she is regretting her actions because she never knew all these could happen.Shes confused too because she cried everyday because of all these.

Baba is the love really enough

If it is try go borrow money from micro finance bank or loan app do introduction and see if it was it? 50/50 chance she would leave you when u cant afford her needs any longer trying to ppay your loan

dawnomike:
Brace yourself up and go and see her dad to talk as men.

Really? See her dad and talk wetin ?

Lucasmuyiwaa:
Really? See her dad and talk wetin ?

That you are interested in his daughter and present yourself responsible to him.

dawnomike:
That you are interested in his daughter and present yourself responsible to him.

OK sir. But what if the father say another man had come to see him nko

Mercychen:
See question.. .. go and see her parents of course. And if you know, you don't have the wherewithal for now, let her go. Simple!d

Her Dad might say someone else had come to see him

Lucasmuyiwaa:
OK sir. But what if the father say another man had come to see him nko

That is where you have your job cut out for you in convincing him... At least, let your lady know that you gave it your best shot to see it work.
If he is adamant and insist on not having you, the she will know that you have tried your best.

SweetiliciousD:
You said it all.

Lack of manly action is your weakness.

Stand up and take action or you get out of her life.

SIMPle

But what another may action should I take ? Hope not going to see her father because the father response will be someone else had come for her

Gee64:
You have allowed someone else to overtake you. Well, you will soon cry over spilled milk.
Yours is not thick enough to nourish her womb that's why a baby refused to enter.

Man, stay away from her or you may not be able to father a child through her. Don't be blinded by what appears to be love between both of you.

If you want to earn legit Passive income online, see my signature below if you care!

Thanks my friend

Lucasmuyiwaa:
Please don't mind my grammars but I will try my best to make readers understand what I'm trying to say. I met my girlfriend at the time I was being disturbed by my parents to bring a wife. But then I was not really ready for marriage and this girl I met during that time happens to be the girl I love most. I showed her how much I love her and I know she really loves me too. I've tested her love for me many times and I can proof how much this girl loves me. To cut the story short, we had a misunderstanding couple of months ago and it lasted for two weeks befre we settled it. What really caused the fight was a guy that I feel like they were having a relationship and I confronted my girlfriend. She said they've known each other befre she met me and they weren't dating anymore though the guy has been trying to come back to her but she just decided to keep him as friend according to what she told me. So this particular guy again I saw him coming to ask of her in her house when I was there and I did not feel good seeing that guy. I had to leave and didn't pick the girl call for some time and she stopped calling me too. Though I know I'm gonna call her back when Im done angry and I was even expecting her to call me more and maybe I would eventually pick but I didn't see her call for a week. So I started feeling somehow when she uploaded that particular guy pick on facebook and tagged it "my love." She uploaded it both on whatsapp and facebook so that I caN see it because I stopped checking her whatsapp status. When I couldn't feel okay anymore I decided to end the fight jokingly with her and it worked then I asked her after few days of settlement why she had to put that guy on her status but she said she did it because she saw where I also put some girls on my status and me putting love emoji so she retaliated with that because it hurt her. We settled the fight and we agreed never to get mad at each other again. But just of recent I heard it from her sister that the guy I always see with my girlfriend has come to their house to see her parents and I shoudnt even waste my time with her or tell her. I was not okay when I heard that story and coudnt believe until I asked my girlfriend if she's hiding anything from me but she said No. After asking her so many times she finally told me to ask her whatever I heard and I told her. She answered yes and I was shocked. I asked her why she had to do that and she explained how her dad had been insulting her at home to go and marry and even transferred the aggressiveness to her mother if she fails to bring a man befre this year though, she always tell me everything her father is doing with her at home and always cry when telling me but I keep telling her to please have patient that we will go to see him very soon. So the second thing she said was that when we had a misunderstanding for some weeks and we didn't talk she believed I've done with her and she can't wait to loose both ways even though she loves me more than the guy. Now the guy had gone to see her parents but my girlfriend said its nothing that she can't get married to the guy and that meeting is nothing, so I fell relaxed and asked her what we are going to do. She told me to impregnate her and then she will go and tell her father that she is pregnant for another guy and not the guy that came to see him. We had sex but unfortunately she didn't get pregnant. So she decided to tell her mom what's going on and how much she want me and her to marry. So the mother took her to her father and told her everything my girlfriend said that it's not the guy that came to see them is her husband that the main husband is coming to see them but the father changed it and got upset with them that why and what's the meaning of that nonsense, if she doesn't love the guy that came to see them why did she introduced him to them. She recorded all the insults the father said and played it for me. I was so shocked and this girl started crying to the extent that I had to take her out that day to feel happy. She said she doesn't want to marry that guy but that guy had come with his parents to see my girlfriend parents. Now I don't know what to do because my girlfriend said she will kill herself if we don't get married which can't even happen. Whenever I tell her to please let peace reign that she should go ahead and marry the guy she will get mad and would never talk to me anymore until I beg her. And sometimes when I jokingly tell her that I will also go and see another girl parent so that I won't loose at both ends she kneel and start crying not to even do so. She always tell me to put mind at rest that we would get married but I don't see it working at all because those guys parents will be making preparations day by day. My girlfriend tells me most things the parents say and I always feel bad.Plz ineed ur advice because i'm confused.The only thing that could help us was the pregnancy but when she did the test she was told she wasnt pregnant.Now she is regretting her actions because she never knew all these could happen.Shes confused too because she cried everyday because of all these.

baba no block another man shine if you never ready to marry.

Just do the needful if you are serious. No time for long story. Just see her parents, collect list and start paying gradually. They no dey marry wife one day.

You people saying allow the other guy marry the girl, permit me una no get sense at all.

You have turn woman to a commodity.

She can choose to marry whosoever she wants to marry, or if she feels like, she can choose not to marry at all. the father self wahala is too much.

Nobody should be pressured into making decisions especially life changing ones.

The heading and content of this piece are misleading. They two cannot be conjoined

Why must you put yourself in palaver

Have girls finish in this nigeria

She carry man go see her parents in just few weeks of fight and you here allowing yourself to be fooled and tossed around

Even to be do pregnant sex matches

Reboot your brain

soundOsonic:
You people saying allow the other guy marry the girl, permit me una no get sense at all.

You have turn woman to a commodity.

She can choose to marry whosoever she wants to marry, or if she feels like, she can choose not to marry at all. the father self wahala is too much.

Nobody should be pressured into making decisions especially life changing ones.

Thumb up for you bro.. Congratulations on your back to back comment shutdown bro. This warm my heart.

Lucasmuyiwaa:
Plz ineed ur advice because i'm confused.The only thing that could help us was the pregnancy but when she did the test she was told she wasnt pregnant.Now she is regretting her actions because she neve

Please let that girl go. It will hurt but that is what you must do. Thank your stars that she didn't get pregnant. Pregnancy expenses and child upkeep isn't cheap o. Ordinary antenatal costs money o.

Next, you need to focus on building yourself. When you are doing okay and have the means to settle down, you will find another lady that you will learn to love.

lereinter:
Why must you put yourself in palaver

Have girls finish in this nigeria

She carry man go see her parents in just few weeks of fight and you here allowing yourself to be fooled and tossed around

Even to be do pregnant sex matches

Reboot your brain

Abeg how can stop thinking about this girl

Hero2t:
Please let that girl go. It will hurt but that is what you must do. Thank your stars that she didn't get pregnant. Pregnancy expenses and child upkeep isn't cheap o. Ordinary antenatal costs money o.

Next, you need to focus on building yourself. When you are doing okay and have the means to settle down, you will find another lady that you will learn to love.

Best advice so far. But please how can I stop thinking about this girl. And besides I don't think she want to go except if I will send her away directly. She still wants me and I know

Two wrongs cannot make a right. Op, u contributed to the problem by not picking her calls and u refused to call her for good 2weeks when u both had issues. It was this that led to what she did. She felt u are done with her. Maybe it's as a result of ur low self-esteem and inferiority complexity that prompted u to act this way. Next time, learn to control anger. Anyway, just move on with ur life, there are other girls out there.

Lucasmuyiwaa:
Best advice so far. But please how can I stop thinking about this girl. And besides I don't think she want to go except if I will send her away directly. She still wants me and I know

You won't stop thinking about her. At least not for a while since you cared about her. But you are a man and that comes with making hard decisions.

Lucasmuyiwaa:
Best advice so far. But please how can I stop thinking about this girl. And besides I don't think she want to go except if I will send her away directly. She still wants me and I know

You have been dating a girl for how long and her family doesn't know you? Tomorrow when she cross 30 you'll start asking for advice on if you should leave her for a younger person that will be more fertile. Baba, don't act like a Pharaoh, if you're not ready for marriage, let that girl go. If you even go to see her parents now, you'll start feeling she pressured you. When you have money to marry, or when you see a girl you love so much that you don't want to lose her no matter what, you can go on and marry that one because it's obvious you're not serious with this one.