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I recently met a Single mum last week Friday. She's 35 and I am 27. This lady has 3 shops around my school area. I school in one of the federal universities in the south south part of Nigeria.
Yesterday being 14th, she called and asked me to enter bike and come to a certain place, I asked her what I'm coming to do she declined telling me. When I reached there she held my hand and headed towards a boutique. She asked me to select any Polo and Joggers that I like. I was really surprised because no lady has ever done this for me. No be small joy, I maintained selected a fine polo, joggers and 2 banana boxers. She spent 20k on me right there inside the boutique. When I got home I sent her an appreciation text.
In the evening of the 14th, which is still yesterday. She called and told me to come to a hotel for sit out so we can enjoy ourselves. I sent her message telling that I dont have enough cash , she said I shouldn't worry that she will foot the bill. Oboi we reach there, she gave me 10k cash and her Atm card. I got us some barbecue fish and drinks. We also did the do after everything.
See my problem here, I have about 3 girlfriends and several other girls I use to spin plates. I am dark and handsome, well built because I go to the gym every day and I'm also a course rep so girls are always around me.

This Single mum told me yesterday that she's a very jealous type, this is my main concern and she's also older than me.

Please I need y'all to advice a brother.
I have benefitted alot from this group, this group has taught me how to tame and deal with women and human beings in general.

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Francis95:
I recently met a Single mum last week Friday. She's 35 and I am 27. This lady has 3 shops around my school area. I school in one of the federal universities in the south south part of Nigeria.
Yesterday being 14th, she called and asked me to enter bike and come to a certain place, I asked her what I'm coming to do she declined telling me. When I reached there she held my hand and headed towards a boutique. She asked me to select any Polo and Joggers that I like. I was really surprised because no lady has ever done this for me. No be small joy, I maintained selected a fine polo, joggers and 2 banana boxers. She spent 20k on me right there inside the boutique. When I got home I sent her an appreciation text.
In the evening of the 14th, which is still yesterday. She called and told me to come to a hotel for sit out so we can enjoy ourselves. I sent her message telling that I dont have enough cash , she said I shouldn't worry that she will foot the bill. Oboi we reach there, she gave me 10k cash and her Atm card. I got us some barbecue fish and drinks. We also did the do after everything.
See my problem here, I have about 3 girlfriends and several other girls I use to spin plates. I am dark and handsome, well built because I go to the gym every day and I'm also a course rep so girls are always around me.

This Single mum told me yesterday that she's a very jealous type, this is my main concern and she's also older than me.

Please I need y'all to advice a brother.
I have benefitted alot from this group, this group has taught me how to tame and deal with women and human beings in general.

Leave the three useless girl friends,,follow the hanty,, since she wan spend for u... naija girls no d spend for man unless they re turning to vanguard newspapers or meno pause.....be using condoms too..

Francis95:
I recently met a Single mum last week Friday. She's 35 and I am 27. This lady has 3 shops around my school area. I school in one of the federal universities in the south south part of Nigeria.
Yesterday being 14th, she called and asked me to enter bike and come to a certain place, I asked her what I'm coming to do she declined telling me. When I reached there she held my hand and headed towards a boutique. She asked me to select any Polo and Joggers that I like. I was really surprised because no lady has ever done this for me. No be small joy, I maintained selected a fine polo, joggers and 2 banana boxers. She spent 20k on me right there inside the boutique. When I got home I sent her an appreciation text.
In the evening of the 14th, which is still yesterday. She called and told me to come to a hotel for sit out so we can enjoy ourselves. I sent her message telling that I dont have enough cash , she said I shouldn't worry that she will foot the bill. Oboi we reach there, she gave me 10k cash and her Atm card. I got us some barbecue fish and drinks. We also did the do after everything.
See my problem here, I have about 3 girlfriends and several other girls I use to spin plates. I am dark and handsome, well built because I go to the gym every day and I'm also a course rep so girls are always around me.

This Single mum told me yesterday that she's a very jealous type, this is my main concern and she's also older than me.

Please I need y'all to advice a brother.
I have benefitted alot from this group, this group has taught me how to tame and deal with women and human beings in general.

stay away from single mothers, you'll not listen, those women will put you in a small heaven, they'll show you heaven on earth. They're sweet like honey. Best to avoid.

But I like your style brov,, gold dig her good. I can't advise on her Jealousy and your girls, but right now focus all your energies on getting her to finance some sort of business for you. She's a gift that must keep giving. When and if she gets another boy toy and she's bored with you, you must have something to show for it. I had a discussion about this very scenario with a workmate some months ago.

Francis95:
I recently met a Single mum last week Friday. She's 35 and I am 27. This lady has 3 shops around my school area. I school in one of the federal universities in the south south part of Nigeria.
Yesterday being 14th, she called and asked me to enter bike and come to a certain place, I asked her what I'm coming to do she declined telling me. When I reached there she held my hand and headed towards a boutique. She asked me to select any Polo and Joggers that I like. I was really surprised because no lady has ever done this for me. No be small joy, I maintained selected a fine polo, joggers and 2 banana boxers. She spent 20k on me right there inside the boutique. When I got home I sent her an appreciation text.
In the evening of the 14th, which is still yesterday. She called and told me to come to a hotel for sit out so we can enjoy ourselves. I sent her message telling that I dont have enough cash , she said I shouldn't worry that she will foot the bill. Oboi we reach there, she gave me 10k cash and her Atm card. I got us some barbecue fish and drinks. We also did the do after everything.
See my problem here, I have about 3 girlfriends and several other girls I use to spin plates. I am dark and handsome, well built because I go to the gym every day and I'm also a course rep so girls are always around me.

This Single mum told me yesterday that she's a very jealous type, this is my main concern and she's also older than me.

Please I need y'all to advice a brother.
I have benefitted alot from this group, this group has taught me how to tame and deal with women and human beings in general.

Nna mehnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn

You fucke.d up because you gave in so quick, she will certainly treat you as a trash in the coming days.

This type of women have many rich men that pay their bills and give them huge money, she just want to make you her sugar boy.

She will soon have control over your life that whatever she says must be done (like if you are doing something important and she calls and tells you to come so so places you wouldn't reject it),

Well you could have set some standards for her from the onset, well it is never late to do so.

She is in love with your body features and she thinks you are presentable to hang out with, just be calm and have standards and reject some of her offers.

Don't appear desperate to eat HER money, even though she is older and richer than you .You can still control her.

When we say this generation of men are weak, this here is our evidence.

Francis95:
I recently met a Single mum last week Friday. She's 35 and I am 27. This lady has 3 shops around my school area. I school in one of the federal universities in the south south part of Nigeria.
Yesterday being 14th, she called and asked me to enter bike and come to a certain place, I asked her what I'm coming to do she declined telling me. When I reached there she held my hand and headed towards a boutique. She asked me to select any Polo and Joggers that I like. I was really surprised because no lady has ever done this for me. No be small joy, I maintained selected a fine polo, joggers and 2 banana boxers. She spent 20k on me right there inside the boutique. When I got home I sent her an appreciation text.
In the evening of the 14th, which is still yesterday. She called and told me to come to a hotel for sit out so we can enjoy ourselves. I sent her message telling that I dont have enough cash , she said I shouldn't worry that she will foot the bill. Oboi we reach there, she gave me 10k cash and her Atm card. I got us some barbecue fish and drinks. We also did the do after everything.
See my problem here, I have about 3 girlfriends and several other girls I use to spin plates. I am dark and handsome, well built because I go to the gym every day and I'm also a course rep so girls are always around me.

This Single mum told me yesterday that she's a very jealous type, this is my main concern and she's also older than me.

Please I need y'all to advice a brother.
I have benefitted alot from this group, this group has taught me how to tame and deal with women and human beings in general.

Value your Time
Put yourself first
Accomplish your purpose in life

Nothing but true!

You have nobody but yourself

Dabronze:
You have nobody but yourself

Fuqin truth

#Stay Alpha
#Stay red pill

Francis95:
I recently met a Single mum last week Friday. She's 35 and I am 27. This lady has 3 shops around my school area. I school in one of the federal universities in the south south part of Nigeria.
Yesterday being 14th, she called and asked me to enter bike and come to a certain place, I asked her what I'm coming to do she declined telling me. When I reached there she held my hand and headed towards a boutique. She asked me to select any Polo and Joggers that I like. I was really surprised because no lady has ever done this for me. No be small joy, I maintained selected a fine polo, joggers and 2 banana boxers. She spent 20k on me right there inside the boutique. When I got home I sent her an appreciation text.
In the evening of the 14th, which is still yesterday. She called and told me to come to a hotel for sit out so we can enjoy ourselves. I sent her message telling that I dont have enough cash , she said I shouldn't worry that she will foot the bill. Oboi we reach there, she gave me 10k cash and her Atm card. I got us some barbecue fish and drinks. We also did the do after everything.
See my problem here, I have about 3 girlfriends and several other girls I use to spin plates. I am dark and handsome, well built because I go to the gym every day and I'm also a course rep so girls are always around me.

This Single mum told me yesterday that she's a very jealous type, this is my main concern and she's also older than me.

Please I need y'all to advice a brother.
I have benefitted alot from this group, this group has taught me how to tame and deal with women and human beings in general.

u don enter wahala
Sha u Dy school, follow up ND spend her money ND when u don with school Dem dump her ass ND move on
Hope ur schooling in another state?

Red pill Truth!

Define yourself!

You only live once make the best out of it
#stay focus

stacyadams:
Leave the three useless girl friends,,follow the hanty,, since she wan spend for u... naija girls no d spend for man unless they re turning to vanguard newspapers or meno pause.....be using condoms too..

Seriously the other girls are burden to my life, though I don't use to give them money. One has been cooking for me for one week with her money. I just dey one kind scared because this is the first time I'm dating someone older than me and a single mum too.

ubunja:
stay away from single mothers, you'll not listen, those women will put you in a small heaven, they'll show you heaven on earth. They're sweet like honey. Best to avoid.

But I like your style brov,, gold dig her good. I can't advise on her Jealousy and your girls, but right now focus all your energies on getting her to finance some sort of business for you. She's a gift that must keep giving. When and if she gets another boy toy and she's bored with you, you must have something to show for it. I had a discussion about this very scenario with a workmate some months ago.

My boss Ubunja. I will do as you said.
We are in the same school though.
She is in year one.

I just have this fear because I've not dated a single mum or a girl older than me before.

She just use my pics as her Dp

GuyWise101:
Nna mehnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn

You fucke.d up because you gave in so quick, she will certainly treat you as a trash in the coming days.

This type of women have many rich men that pay their bills and give them huge money, she just want to make you her sugar boy.

She will soon have control over your life that whatever she says must be done (like if you are doing something important and she calls and tells you to come so so places you wouldn't reject it),

Well you could have set some standards for her from the onset, well it is never late to do so.

She is in love with your body features and she thinks you are presentable to hang out with, just be calm and have standards and reject some of her offers.

Don't appear desperate to eat HER money, even though she is older and richer than you .You can still control her.

You are right.
For now I'm in control.
E get why

DieRich5:
u don enter wahala
Sha u Dy school, follow up ND spend her money ND when u don with school Dem dump her ass ND move on
Hope ur schooling in another state?

We are schooling in the same school. She's in year one. Though not the same department

Francis95:
I recently met a Single mum last week Friday. She's 35 and I am 27. This lady has 3 shops around my school area. I school in one of the federal universities in the south south part of Nigeria.
Yesterday being 14th, she called and asked me to enter bike and come to a certain place, I asked her what I'm coming to do she declined telling me. When I reached there she held my hand and headed towards a boutique. She asked me to select any Polo and Joggers that I like. I was really surprised because no lady has ever done this for me. No be small joy, I maintained selected a fine polo, joggers and 2 banana boxers. She spent 20k on me right there inside the boutique. When I got home I sent her an appreciation text.
In the evening of the 14th, which is still yesterday. She called and told me to come to a hotel for sit out so we can enjoy ourselves. I sent her message telling that I dont have enough cash , she said I shouldn't worry that she will foot the bill. Oboi we reach there, she gave me 10k cash and her Atm card. I got us some barbecue fish and drinks. We also did the do after everything.
See my problem here, I have about 3 girlfriends and several other girls I use to spin plates. I am dark and handsome, well built because I go to the gym every day and I'm also a course rep so girls are always around me.

This Single mum told me yesterday that she's a very jealous type, this is my main concern and she's also older than me.

Please I need y'all to advice a brother.
I have benefitted alot from this group, this group has taught me how to tame and deal with women and human beings in general.

you are playing with fire, that single mom will want her investment back one way or the other, and by the looks of things you just wan chop money move, better find way detach yourself while it's still early.

Francis95:
We are schooling in the same school. She's in year one. Though not the same department

she can't do shit, eat da bitch money ND give her sex dat will turn her to mumu

Set timetable for all ur girls tho mostly da one wey Dy cook for u ND mk Dem Dy always call if coming to ur hux.........e get why

#Fear women mostly the one wey Dy spend for man or get money pass u......Dem get upper hand o

posty56:
you are playing with fire, that single mom will want her investment back one way or the other, and by the looks of things you just wan chop money move, better find way detach yourself while it's still early.

What could she possibly want back? Francis95 no mind all these comments,eat her money jare,but use yo head while in the process.

The hard reality

Articulate

pansophist:
Can you see a bit further than your nose? That's my argument. In life, there are no static. It's either you're going forward, or you're going backward. Africa have been going backward for the past for hundred years since the first colonialist step into the continent in year 1619, and captured it ever since. You can't judge a people by their present, without taking their past into consideration.

I'll give you an example that is closer to home. You see those almajiri kids, if the government will not solve their issue and it perpetuate till next four hundreds time, I won't be surprised if someone deem them mentally inferior. But its a lie. Whites have been growing, and we have been declining. Everything happening to Africans right now are the effect of white folks that have designed your destiny centuries before, and it's materialising in the present. A good example is the Berlin conference in 18th century where they divided Africa and designed your destiny for you. How can you move forward when you don't even know how you got here?

Why you shocked? They did this everywhere they go. From North America, Ocenia, Africa, South America, and even Eastern Europe. China is a good example. Just 100 years ago, dead babies where trashed in the dustbin regularly like it's nothing due to starvation. You should Google pics of China before their civil war in 1949, you'll weep and be proud of that country at the same time. China suffered immeasurably. Everything Africa went through, they went through the same, and worse in some scenario. Hence they called it the hundred years of humiliation.

Back then, they were known as the "sick man of Asia", every young Chinese kids just want to sell opium (an addictive drugs, hence selling drugs is a death sentence in most of Asia because of their sad history), and make money (like yahoo currently in Nigeria), girls wanna prostitute (same with Nigeria), with pseudo western intellectuals releasing articles that the Chinese are inferior. It takes one man to change their destiny (Mao), and the result just 80 years later marvel the world. Asians have humbled the superiority of the west, and Africa will. The change of time is something you can't defeat.

How happy the white man will be, that his toiling to see you as inferior has been internalised by you. You're defeated and not a threat anymore. You're free to accept your inferiority, but please do not extrapolate it to the rest of us. You should be asking yourself why the so called superior whites are busy killing and bombing so called inferior humans and their revolutionary leaders. What does that tell you? Imagine pushing someone into a water well, then stand at the top of it, shooting him when he tries to get out, for over four centuries, then later create useless doctrines to justify his inferiority. That's the relationship between whites and blacks.

Stay Stoic

Stay red pill

Francis95:
Seriously the other girls are burden to my life, though I don't use to give them money. One has been cooking for me for one week with her money. I just dey one kind scared because this is the first time I'm dating someone older than me and a single mum too.

Nothing to be scared about. Man up and play the game to your advantage. Women do that all the time. As far, as your relationship with women isn't detrimental to your finance and other life goals, keep them around. If they want to go, let them go. You lose nothing as long as you can attract other women.

For the single mother in question, she CHOSE you and you should take the advantage to enjoy whatever she brings to the table without giving your precious COMMITMENT (marriage/cohabitation) which I suspect, she wants from you. Giving your commitment to a post-wall, single mother always end in disaster for the most part.

As she spends on you, keep your brain intact. Avoid see-finish. Avoid the pregnancy trap. Some of these ladies tend to be diabolical too, so you have to be smart. Her statement, "I'm the jealous type" is bullshiit. Being pre-selected by other women is one (among several) reasons that she chose you. Spin your plates and keep her long enough till she gets bored and move on to another boy-toy.

Regardless, you also have the great option of REJECTING her. Whether you accept her and play the game or chose to stay completely away from her, you took the right path, as you are your first point of focus.

ProphetJeroboam:
Mistake most guys make is thinking women are not that sexual. Women are incredibly sexual and they’re even more adventurous than men sexually because it’s rare for guys to leave a sexually inexperienced woman but a woman on the other hand will dump a sexually inexperienced man without much hesitation. The average woman wants to be choked, nipples pinched, spanked, their bodies contorted in various unnatural positions, cúm in various landing surfaces on their bodies, fvcked in cars, cinemas and anywhere they’re likely to be caught, pounded with no mercy , gagged and throat fvcked, e.t.c. Look at the selection of intimacy gadgets available to them, tells you something.

At the emboldened, the mistake that guys make, in thinking, that women are not that sexual, is tied to their blue-pilled indoctrination/delusions. Women are more sexual than men, because sex is what women have and control, knowing that it is what most men WANT from them. Women discuss sex often than men do, as it is what most of them can offer men, being that they look up to men for survival, but men, being filled with more testosterone than women, have the drive and make more move for sex than women, making them think they are more sexual than women.

Just like women's hidden ovulation, women have evolved their observable attributes like coyness (being tricky and not direct in conversations), least sexual interest and neoteny (physical and behavioural attitudes of children) to fool men and to boost their own survival to great advantage - a reason we consider them to be naturally red-pilled.

Last weekend (on Saturday), I shared photos of old, professional bodybuilders in their prime, who I admired and followed in training myself, on my WhatsApp status like Dorian Yates, Ronnie Coleman, Dexter Jackson, Kai Greene and Chris Bumstead. I observed the comments of the men and women who responded to it. The men were like "This is great", " How do I train to be like this?

For the women: a lot of the comments were related to questions about the size of their diicks. One of them that used to be on my rotation and got married in 2018 pointed to the photo of Kai Greene, saying that "I want this guy to fuuuck me silly". Another one I know who got married last December commented on Ronnie Coleman's photo saying that "this guy looks scary" and I replied her saying "but you'll like him to pull your hair while banging you from behind". Her reply: "You know my favourite style" with a wink and kiss emoji. Lol

The next day (being Sunday), more than half of the ladies who made sexually-related comments on the photos I shared, posted religious-themed messages or photos of them in church on their status. I was just laughing.

This girls be wilding out in their primal nature (sex is primal) as they barely evolve physically and mentally like men. Men evolve (which is great for advancement) with a lot of them losing their primal nature in the process.

Francis95:
I recently met a Single mum last week Friday. She's 35 and I am 27. This lady has 3 shops around my school area. I school in one of the federal universities in the south south part of Nigeria.
Yesterday being 14th, she called and asked me to enter bike and come to a certain place, I asked her what I'm coming to do she declined telling me. When I reached there she held my hand and headed towards a boutique. She asked me to select any Polo and Joggers that I like. I was really surprised because no lady has ever done this for me. No be small joy, I maintained selected a fine polo, joggers and 2 banana boxers. She spent 20k on me right there inside the boutique. When I got home I sent her an appreciation text.
In the evening of the 14th, which is still yesterday. She called and told me to come to a hotel for sit out so we can enjoy ourselves. I sent her message telling that I dont have enough cash , she said I shouldn't worry that she will foot the bill. Oboi we reach there, she gave me 10k cash and her Atm card. I got us some barbecue fish and drinks. We also did the do after everything.
See my problem here, I have about 3 girlfriends and several other girls I use to spin plates. I am dark and handsome, well built because I go to the gym every day and I'm also a course rep so girls are always around me.

This Single mum told me yesterday that she's a very jealous type, this is my main concern and she's also older than me.

Please I need y'all to advice a brother.
I have benefitted alot from this group, this group has taught me how to tame and deal with women and human beings in general.

the mumu 3 babes that can not gather to buy u one boxer. They're dating you because you giving then good sex, which is the same thing you'll be giving the single mother, and even get paid. Apparently, you don't want to marry any of those babes, and am sure they feel the same about u. Leave parasites and stick to your new sugarmummy. Just let her know you're not in for marriage.

Francis95:
You are right.
For now I'm in control.
E get why

You’re 27 and still schooling. When i was 27, I was on my 5th or 6th job post NYSC. I graduated at 20 or so.

By no means do i attempt to portray myself as the standard. I recognize that the fact you’re in school may even be a success story on its own.

You have too many girlfriends.

Leave all of them and focus on your studies. I can name atleast 10 companies you can never work with except you have a 2.1 or first class assuming you know no one.

Now copy this list and think if any of them 3 girls are a fair exchange.

Funny thing is if the gods of hypergamy smile on them, they are soon to leave you for guys that work there.

Only a handful of them if any will be that lucky though. The rest will be sentenced to a life of scorn and misery with average guys who spent their MEAT on people like them while in school.

There’s a reason it’s called MEAT

Skepticus:
Nothing to be scared about. Man up and play the game to your advantage. Women do that all the time. As far, as your relationship with women isn't detrimental to your finance and other life goals, keep them around. If they want to go, let them go. You lose nothing as long as you can attract other women.

For the single mother in question, she CHOSE you and you should take the advantage to enjoy whatever she brings to the table without giving your precious COMMITMENT (marriage/cohabitation) which I suspect, she wants from you. Giving your commitment to a post-wall, single mother always end in disaster for the most part.

As she spends on you, keep your brain intact. Avoid see-finish. Avoid the pregnancy trap. Some of these ladies tend to be diabolical too, so you have to be smart. Her statement, "I'm the jealous type" is bullshiit. Being pre-selected by other women is one (among several) reasons that she chose you. Spin your plates and keep her long enough till she gets bored and move on to another boy-toy.

Regardless, you also have the great option of REJECTING her. Whether you accept her and play the game or chose to stay completely away from her, you took the right path, as you are your first point of focus.

Lol what is "see-finish"??