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nnenwa5:
Hahaha haha
Check the page, made some changes, compare and revert back to me. Setting this thing up is exhausting, I know how much $$ I don spend already, yet it's not near finished.

cococandy:
I’ll get back to you on it

You can do it. And it will pay off. I promise

Kobojunkie:
The bobrisky fellow is brave embracing himself the way he is, sickness and all, this in a land were self-denial is the culture.

What I find more disgusting is thinking you decide for others how they can and should live their own lives.

Kobojunkie:
The bobrisky fellow is brave embracing himself the way he is, sickness and all, this in a land were self-denial is the culture.

What I find more disgusting is thinking you decide for others how they can and should live their own lives.

NoToPile:
Chai, the statements I read on NL sha.

Nawa.

The issue is not complicated at all, if you believe over educated women make bad wives, stay away from the overeducated. Shikena.

Cousin9999:

He's f--king disgusting, and so are the "men" who like him and the women who encourage him. He's m3ntally ill.

oldienavie:
I quickly glanced through the thread and saw that a lot of women have become very embittered and almost made the thread unreadable with insults.
Yet this is an intelligent discussion, if only people would remove emotions and try to be objective and less emotional.

cococandy:
It’s funny how you guys often sit around to demean women, gaslight or belittle us and then expect us to respond to you with “objectivity” and “logic”.
I don’t see women telling you how much education you need in order to be submissive husbands.
You don’t see women sitting around plotting on how best to make you bend to our will.
It’s y’all. Always instigating. Poking sleeping bears.

If you’re not laying varying rules on how women ought to dress, you’re discussing how we need to behave to “keep you”.
You’re deciding how much education is too much for us. You’re deciding what parts of our lives we need to give over to you to control. You’re deciding how we should use our bodies because of course we are property. It’s always women this women that from y’all’s end. Yet all we are doing is just existing, not trying to control you guys.
Someone up there said wives are to be “corrected and instructed” by husbands because obviously we are automatically assuming the husband is without a doubt the smarter partner hence he needs to be handing out instructions (insert eye roll).

There’s not a single moment that goes by without the majority of you (and this is a well earned generalization) looking for how best to make women uncomfortable to soothe whatever ego issues you’re suffering from on that given day. But when you get the befitting response, then women are emotional.

If we were sitting around telling y’all what to do with your lives, your responses wouldn’t be very “logical” indeed.

Just leave women alone or find the one that suits your specific requirements.

oldienavie:
You are being too aggresive, even if you disagree with me, you can pass your message accross without the unnecessary insults, you have written so much but failed to address any of the issues I raised.

Go to Shiloh, how many men do you see doing night vigil looking for wife ? It is the women that are running around begging for husbands, and we are here trying to analyse what makes it so that some women might find themselves in that position, you are attacking everyone...

cococandy:
Please show me where I insulted you.
This is an example of the gaslighting I was walking about. Where’s the aggression? Where’s the attack? Which specific words did I use to insult you or show aggression towards you?

I said something that was true. You didn’t like it. so instead of marinating on it and maybe changing your thought process, you have decided to tell a bold faced lie about me insulting you so that we can focus on my “bad attitude” while ignoring the real issue.

Maybe women are at Shiloh all the time because YOU GUYS sit around shaming single women, creating a culture that denigrates and devalues women if they are not married. Maybe they don’t need marriage as much as they need to be married . Have you thought about that? Apply some of that famous world class logic will you.

oldienavie:
You are being too aggresive, even if you disagree with me, you can pass your message accross without the unnecessary insults, you have written so much but failed to address any of the issues I raised.

Go to Shiloh, how many men do you see doing night vigil looking for wife ? It is the women that are running around begging for husbands, and we are here trying to analyse what makes it so that some women might find themselves in that position, you are attacking everyone...

baby124:
No aggression in her post. Deal with your issues. She stated her point clearly and this is your come back? Yet you want to convince us that YOU should be capable of leading a home.

oldienavie:
I may not be able to lead a woman like you, but there are many women out there that I can still lead.
Those are the types I'd look out for....

baby124:
Sorry for those women. Hopefully they look clearly and consider your critical thinking skills. Don’t worry about the women in Shiloh, they won’t be the type of women who will marry you anyway. Why are you worried about women when you should be worried about your role in life, like hustling hard for your family? Remember your less or uneducated wife will not be able to bring much to the table. I will not be online demeaning women if I was in your shoes as I will not even have time. But you, you seem to have a lot of time to talk a lot of stink out of your mouth.

oldienavie:
No one has addressed the issues I raised, you people are just attacking me.
I have only stated facts, but you are here attacking me... not cool

baby124:
It’s you, you, you. Making it all about you. No one is attacking you my dear. No facts but ridiculous and highly disappointing mentality coming from a so called adult that should have grown to maturity. Find better things to do with your time. The type of man you want to claim you want to be, over the type of woman you claim is best. Works like mad to provide for her and his kids with little to no savings.
You just come online to say rubbish without thinking. Well, time will teach you. You will learn. Maybe when you get married finally, you will be busy enough that you won’t have the energy to type this nonsense

baby124:
No aggression in her post. Deal with your issues. She stated her point clearly and this is your come back? Yet you want to convince us that YOU should be capable of leading a home.

oldienavie:
Men need marriage as much as women do.
But a good marriage and happy home has rules and formula that needs to be followed for the most part.
The bible and the Quran says, the man is the head of the home and the woman must respect her husband.
Infact, 1 Peter 3:6
just as Sarah obeyed Abraham and called him lord . And you are her children if you do what is right and refuse to give way to fear.

It is not me that wrote it, A man has a duty to make sure he marries someone that sees him as lord. If a man marries someone that considers the 2 of them to be equals in the marriage that is his own cup of tea.

If I were to meet someone like you, I will definitely not marry someone like you. There are many women that have no problem submitting to a man, that is the kind of woman a man must search for...

oldienavie:
Calm down, a man's choice should not be a cause to insult him.
If I say I want a type of woman, that is my choice and I don't think you should insult me for that but thats what you are doing ?

You seem to disagree that a man should reserve the right to make a choice of his partner.
It is the way the lord has made it, it is the man that chooses his wife and proposes not the other way round...

Men and women are not the same, each person has their role and they must both understand there role and accept it. That is the what makes a marriage happy.

oldienavie:
Men need marriage as much as women do.
But a good marriage and happy home has rules and formula that needs to be followed for the most part.
The bible and the Quran says, the man is the head of the home and the woman must respect her husband.
Infact, 1 Peter 3:6
just as Sarah obeyed Abraham and called him lord . And you are her children if you do what is right and refuse to give way to fear.

It is not me that wrote it, A man has a duty to make sure he marries someone that sees him as lord. If a man marries someone that considers the 2 of them to be equals in the marriage that is his own cup of tea.

If I were to meet someone like you, I will definitely not marry someone like you. There are many women that have no problem submitting to a man, that is the kind of woman a man must search for...

descarado:
And the good old Bible to the rescue.
Give it up. You have nothing to say except catching cruise with these ladies.

descarado:

Whenever they are cornered and have no rejoinder, you get that

oldienavie:
I may not be able to lead a woman like you, but there are many women out there that I can still lead.
Those are the types I'd look out for....

elantraceey:
You men will soon start marrying yourselves.

oldienavie:
If a man marries someone that considers the 2 of them to be equals in the marriage that is his own cup of tea.

oldienavie:
Men need marriage as much as women do.
But a good marriage and happy home has rules and formula that needs to be followed for the most part.

1. The bible and the Quran says, the man is the head of the home and the woman must respect her husband.
Infact, 1 Peter 3:6
just as Sarah obeyed Abraham and called him lord . And you are her children if you do what is right and refuse to give way to fear.

2. It is not me that wrote it, A man has a duty to make sure he marries someone that sees him as lord. If a man marries someone that considers the 2 of them to be equals in the marriage that is his own cup of tea.

pocohantas:
Years ago they said they will move on to sex dolls. They even convinced themselves the price would fall and they can afford it. In 2022 the economy is biting harder and now they are convincing women to be less materialistic.

Even the redpiller that created that thread was engaged to a woman the last time he posted. Maybe e fit done marry by now.

Bunch of wizards.

Make I find the thread sef.

https://www.nairaland.com/4295146/which-gender-worst-affected-widespread#64277885

4 years later, they are still on woman matter. They better marry themselves as sex robot no work.

cococandy:
Price will fall

Lmao

cococandy:
Yea. If I were to meet someone like you, I wouldn’t marry you either. But you don’t speak for all men because my husband doesn’t want me to call him lord or to do everything he said without questions, contribution or feedback. He DOESN’T give me instructions (lmao).

So when you people go about making rules for what men and women should do, make sure you add that you’re speaking for only yourself. Just yourself.

In future also remember that Abraham and Sarah are not everyone’s ideal couple. They might be yours but not mine. Keep that in mind when you make future points

revolt:
As usual you left the argument and went o. A rant filled with name calling.. since you wanna play that game.... You responded with no statistics or facts but some useless feelings. I NEVER TOLD YOU EDUCATION IS BAD FOR WOMEN... I stated a fact... THE MORE THE EDUCATION FOR WOMEN THE HIGHER PROBABILITY OF THE MARRIAGE FAILING. Two different things. I have you stats which you can Google if you ever do that... and find statistics on marriage in the black community . Simply go to black demographics.com. I'm sure that info is everywhere..

Errmmm babymamaism is blamed on deadbeat baby daddies in jail and on drugs?...

Who is responsible for bringing children to this world? There are an abundance of responsible men in his world but you prefer to go to the deadbeat drug dealer guys to create babies. Even cats, rats, dogs , insects mate with the most reliable males in their ecosystem. The female animals know not TO MATE with weak males...only dumb babymamas go creating babies with deadbeats and multiplying their deadbeat genes. It's really stupid and brainless when dummies like you give that excuse. The responsible ones tht got trapped by babymamas end up battling to see their kids while the women use them as leverage.
Sensible women make babies with the best males in society. Only dunning like you think its ok to propagate babies with the most useless men that even other men can't keep as friends.

My mum Is a well educated pharmacist who earned a national awards in NIGERIA and was married to a SAN.... both were very educated...BUT she knew her place and raised her daughter whom is happily married today...well educated and knows her place in her husbands house. My mum is the definition of a real boss babe... but guess what .... she made it clear to my sister... YOUR EDUCATION IS SECONDARY IN YOUR FAMILY, IF YOU WANT A SUCCESFUL HOME. You deluded chics think anybody is intimidated your useless social science degrees(bulk of what most women study )? We don't care.
When most men make money he starts assuming responsibility for extended family, family et al... when most women make money ...its foe your hair, bags, and shoes.. luxury. Thats why when a wife makes more money than a husband she gets really irritated at spending it on him..

pocohantas:
Years ago they said they will move on to sex dolls. They even convinced themselves the price would fall and they can afford it. In 2022 the economy is biting harder and now they are convincing women to be less materialistic.

Even the redpiller that created that thread was engaged to a woman the last time he posted. Maybe e fit done marry by now.

Bunch of wizards.

Make I find the thread sef.

https://www.nairaland.com/4295146/which-gender-worst-affected-widespread#64277885

4 years later, they are still on woman matter. They better marry themselves as sex robot no work.

baby124:
That your mum according to OP is over educated. OP said the woman cannot have more than BSC or she is a bad wife. Abi you are blind ni. Is a Parmacist not almost equivalent to a PhD? Your dad married his equal intellectually and you are here spewing rubbish. Shey if your mum was a housewife you will have the benefits you have today? When your father is not Falana. Decorated SAN indeed. From all this your write up I see how you did not figure out that your father is smarter than you! Your sisters education is secondary indeed. Yet she’s well educated, probably abroad. By OP’s standard that is a bad wife. It seems you missed the education in your family or the intelligence gene pool. Your mom is a boss babe, do you think she will be that and more if your dad was like you and OP with small, tiny egos?