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| Re: Help! Am Having Erection For My Cousin Sis. How Do I Tell Her To Dress Decently by Truvelisback(m): 7:53am On Feb 19, 2022 |
Na people like u dey fvck their daughters.
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| Re: Help! Am Having Erection For My Cousin Sis. How Do I Tell Her To Dress Decently by ma373733(m): 7:56am On Feb 19, 2022 |
Stedygrowth:gbam |
| Re: Help! Am Having Erection For My Cousin Sis. How Do I Tell Her To Dress Decently by Awkabigboy: 7:57am On Feb 19, 2022 |
soundOsonic: |
| Re: Help! Am Having Erection For My Cousin Sis. How Do I Tell Her To Dress Decently by Ikillbrokehoes(m): 8:00am On Feb 19, 2022 |
Stedygrowth:Op listen to this guy, he said it all. |
| Re: Help! Am Having Erection For My Cousin Sis. How Do I Tell Her To Dress Decently by Awkabigboy: 8:02am On Feb 19, 2022 |
rabiudon:Next will be with your mother or your sister , ewu |
| Re: Help! Am Having Erection For My Cousin Sis. How Do I Tell Her To Dress Decently by Awkabigboy: 8:03am On Feb 19, 2022 |
eventainment:Cousins aren't distant relative , this is the mom's sister's daughter . Thats a second degree relative and not distant . This is why notherners have low IQ bc they marry their cousins and pass on bad genes to their children |
| Re: Help! Am Having Erection For My Cousin Sis. How Do I Tell Her To Dress Decently by Awkabigboy: 8:04am On Feb 19, 2022 |
9japride:Sight kee u there , I'm sure u have one useless erection seeing your mother scantily dressed , ewu |
| Re: Help! Am Having Erection For My Cousin Sis. How Do I Tell Her To Dress Decently by Stedygrowth: 8:22am On Feb 19, 2022 |
[quote author=Kobojunkie post=110346106]1. This is all about mental discipline and the only one that can help mentally discipline a grown man at this man is the man himself. Mental discipline I do not know if you have heard about " operant and classical conditioning" before. These concepts explain how learning and habits are formed. When a healthy man exposes himself to a naked woman(unconditioned stimulus), it will naturally elicits a certain reaction or response (unconditioned response). This response is a reflex action, it does not require thinking to occur. In other words, you didn't make it happen, it happened on it own. It is like touching a hot pot, you don't think before you remove your hand, but rather, you remove your hand before you think. This is a survival instinct build into your nervous system to help you live long enough to produce offspring. The same thing happen to a healthy man when he sees a naked woman, the natural tendency is to react without thinking (erection), but the decision do it or not, is where discipline comes in. You don't decide to have an erection, under normal circumstances, it occur on it own, because the process is automatic (reflex action). So, it is not a choice to have an erection, but it is a choice to either do it (after having an erection) or not. This where discipline comes in. Another point is about whether Op is mentally stable or not. Op is very ok, there is nothing wrong with him, mentally. If he did not have an erection, at the sight of such a stimulus, I would rather say there is something wrong with him, sexually. The concept of discipline. Deducing from so many comments here, it will be safe to say that, discipline is a misunderstood concept here. Discipline implies individual's ability to delay immediate gratification in order to achieve a particular goal, objective or purpose. When ones gives in to a particular desire or craving, we would say that, that person lack discipline. But in this case, the Op did not give in, but rather, ask for advice. This is a pure incident of self discipline! Subliminal messages and their effect on mental/cognitive processes. What are subliminal messages? These are messages we exposes ourselves to on daily bases without being aware of them. These messages are stored in our subconscious level of our minds. They have a direct influence on the quality of decisions we make daily. For example, studies have shown that guys who live in a compound with 3 to 4 girls, who constantly seduce them, tend to have high frequent sex urges, compare to their counterparts in a compound with no girls. This so because, the seductive messages keep building until they interfer with your thinking process. That's why they say "guide your heart (mind) with due diligence, for out of it are the issues of life". You don't subject yourself to all manners of junks messages and then exercise discipline. It doesn't work that way. Discipline has a limit. If it is push too far, it will definitely be overwhelmed. They say "flee from fornication", not discipline. |
| Re: Help! Am Having Erection For My Cousin Sis. How Do I Tell Her To Dress Decently by SonOfEl(m): 8:24am On Feb 19, 2022 |
Stedygrowth:Exactly. |
| Re: Help! Am Having Erection For My Cousin Sis. How Do I Tell Her To Dress Decently by harustotle(m): 8:35am On Feb 19, 2022 |
It is only a fool that will seek advice on this Nairaland filled with judgmental mofos. Someone is asking for a simple advice and all i see is people passing judgements. |
| Re: Help! Am Having Erection For My Cousin Sis. How Do I Tell Her To Dress Decently by 9japride(m): 8:37am On Feb 19, 2022 |
Awkabigboy:[color=#006600][/color] Keep deceiving yourself. Everyone online is a saint who can't fall to temptation. Nonsense! Dey there make pant dey wear you. You think I have time for trolling. Get real! Smh |
| Re: Help! Am Having Erection For My Cousin Sis. How Do I Tell Her To Dress Decently by olisaEze(m): 9:45am On Feb 19, 2022*. Modified: 10:09am On Feb 19, 2022 |
You’ve got a problem and it’s not your cousin’s dress sense, it’s ur own mind! From the get-go it appears u don’t think of her as a sister, if not, whats with all the excuses about mini skirts & bum shorts. Abi Oga, if ur mom wears bum shorts for ur dad, will ur pr*ck still stand?? Abeg getat joor with ur corrupt mind! Instead of looking out for a girl that trusts u as her big bros, ure already set on taking advantage of her naivety! Fricking scum!! ![]() Buh wait first.... u say the body na coke bottle ni, which side ur house dey first?? ![]() My friend, don’t look at me that way, she’s wrong for you and right for others. I am others!! ![]() |
| Re: Help! Am Having Erection For My Cousin Sis. How Do I Tell Her To Dress Decently by Nobody: 9:45am On Feb 19, 2022 |
They actually wear shorts for ease of movement not to seduce you.stop thinking otherwise. |
| Re: Help! Am Having Erection For My Cousin Sis. How Do I Tell Her To Dress Decently by royalamour(m): 9:46am On Feb 19, 2022 |
Don't do it. |
| Re: Help! Am Having Erection For My Cousin Sis. How Do I Tell Her To Dress Decently by ssome: 9:47am On Feb 19, 2022 |
Maxwell775:Go and marry egbon |
| Re: Help! Am Having Erection For My Cousin Sis. How Do I Tell Her To Dress Decently by rayopt(m): 9:47am On Feb 19, 2022 |
Brighton1:Lol. U Don sabi dem true true. Dey go too blast am ehnn ![]() |
| Re: Help! Am Having Erection For My Cousin Sis. How Do I Tell Her To Dress Decently by Ekugbeh(m): 9:48am On Feb 19, 2022 |
dawnomike:it's indoor oga. The op should just work on his mind. |
| Re: Help! Am Having Erection For My Cousin Sis. How Do I Tell Her To Dress Decently by fof1: 9:48am On Feb 19, 2022 |
Maxwell775:Help U do what,Pls? Discipline Ur Heart,Head and Eyes,Pls. Beware of INCESTOUS Tendencies...Native Man. She is ur Blood... U can Admonish Her PEACEFULLY with out hurting her. Ur Girlfriend can do that too in very Friendly Ways than not,Pls |
| Re: Help! Am Having Erection For My Cousin Sis. How Do I Tell Her To Dress Decently by Jakumo(m): 9:48am On Feb 19, 2022 |
Kobojunkie:Sounds like that gentleman has his mind made up to commit incest, which is a jailable offense even in Nigeria. That is the sort of man that would molest his own female children, if and when he fathers any. |
| Re: Help! Am Having Erection For My Cousin Sis. How Do I Tell Her To Dress Decently by asahnwaKC: 9:49am On Feb 19, 2022 |
At her age is she supposed to be tying buba ..... shame on you some one that’s more like your sister ![]() |
| Re: Help! Am Having Erection For My Cousin Sis. How Do I Tell Her To Dress Decently by Mom007(f): 9:49am On Feb 19, 2022 |
Tell her she cannot be dressing like that. In fact, better yet, call your mother to come and straighten her out! She brought this upon you after all. There is nothing wrong in you housing your cousin so stop whining but these young girls nowadays are just either genuinely or deliberately clueless. They can lead an unguarded man astray. Pls don't ignore this or think you can withstand temptation. Speak out today! |
| Re: Help! Am Having Erection For My Cousin Sis. How Do I Tell Her To Dress Decently by Bigchristo: 9:50am On Feb 19, 2022 |
Maxwell775:You people are too spoil in this generation, I have lived with my wife sister she is hot n sexy dress almost same I never have such evil thoughts towards her because I already seen her as a sister, what is giving you problems is your dirty mindset ashawo Dey your eyes if your dick gets erected seeing your cousin dress in mini skirt and crop top |
| Re: Help! Am Having Erection For My Cousin Sis. How Do I Tell Her To Dress Decently by Wesporting: 9:50am On Feb 19, 2022 |
Maxwell775:You guys have ruined this place with lies |
| Re: Help! Am Having Erection For My Cousin Sis. How Do I Tell Her To Dress Decently by Nobody: 9:51am On Feb 19, 2022 |
Sarsaproko:
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| Re: Help! Am Having Erection For My Cousin Sis. How Do I Tell Her To Dress Decently by cocolacec(m): 9:51am On Feb 19, 2022 |
Maxwell775:Turn yoir girlfriend to wife,your wife will adjust yoir cousińs sense of dressing. |
| Re: Help! Am Having Erection For My Cousin Sis. How Do I Tell Her To Dress Decently by Dnlblessed(m): 9:51am On Feb 19, 2022 |
Maxwell775:bro you're better than this. You can control yourself.you have to take your thoughts far away from there. |
| Re: Help! Am Having Erection For My Cousin Sis. How Do I Tell Her To Dress Decently by Omotosho1090905(m): 9:52am On Feb 19, 2022 |
You have a girlfriend it's simple, invite her to come stay some days I'm.very sure she will realise her place afterwards. it's normal you have such urge after all she's a woman but all the same you are the man and you gats to let know who be who for your own sake |
| Re: Help! Am Having Erection For My Cousin Sis. How Do I Tell Her To Dress Decently by Saintmary(f): 9:52am On Feb 19, 2022 |
Maxwell775:If she's not your blood Sis, or daughter of your Mom's blood Sis, she was sent to be your wife. So, seduction is part of the process. |
| Re: Help! Am Having Erection For My Cousin Sis. How Do I Tell Her To Dress Decently by mmsen: 9:52am On Feb 19, 2022*. Modified: 4:45pm On Feb 19, 2022 |
Some of you men are really sick to the point where i empathize with feminists. This is your first cousin that you're talking about. ![]() |
| Re: Help! Am Having Erection For My Cousin Sis. How Do I Tell Her To Dress Decently by drololaaof: 9:52am On Feb 19, 2022 |
You are stupid ,what kind of advice do want you are a freak ,if she is your daughter you will have the urge ,you are the type that anything in skirt goes . Better reorientate yourself |
| Re: Help! Am Having Erection For My Cousin Sis. How Do I Tell Her To Dress Decently by Princedapace(m): 9:53am On Feb 19, 2022 |
candidladyTemp:Come on, he is human being. He doesn't have control over his hormones. Yes, he doesn't. His hormones will surely respond to things like this since she is not his sister. That is how men were wired. His ability to hold him self until now is what makes him strong. But surely, his hormones will repsond because he has eyes. The way forward is to ask the lady to leave or tell her to dress properly so that her body shapes won't be exposing to his eyes. One thing with humans is lying to them selves. It is not adviceable for two grown adults like that to live in the same room when they aren't direct blood. And one is wearing stuff that triggers that natural hormones in the other. |
| Re: Help! Am Having Erection For My Cousin Sis. How Do I Tell Her To Dress Decently by chatinent: 9:53am On Feb 19, 2022 |
He has already slept with her in his thoughts. Done and dusted. |
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