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Re: Help! Am Having Erection For My Cousin Sis. How Do I Tell Her To Dress Decently by faithfull18(f): 10:43am On Feb 19, 2022
@OP, did you grow up with sisters It's a mind thing, renew your mind before you get into trouble.
Re: Help! Am Having Erection For My Cousin Sis. How Do I Tell Her To Dress Decently by thaprofit88: 10:43am On Feb 19, 2022
candidladyTemp:
sad


God iam ready to trade... Bring back aliyah and lefteye, take this pervert


You are not normal.... Are you guys cursed like em swear for una no no did someone place a spell on y'all





Just a question for you. Have you ever been in the situation this guy is describing at all? Mind you he didn’t invite her but he has to accommodate her because of his mum, now she who they are accommodating has refused to dress decently thereby complicating things for this man. He is human and he is asking for help on how to handle this situation which is new to him. If you have no solution it were better you scroll and pass rather than cursing him for a situation you have no experience about.

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Re: Help! Am Having Erection For My Cousin Sis. How Do I Tell Her To Dress Decently by Zino1011(m): 10:43am On Feb 19, 2022
Control yourself you slowpoke
Re: Help! Am Having Erection For My Cousin Sis. How Do I Tell Her To Dress Decently by anonymous1759(m): 10:44am On Feb 19, 2022
Abovebest:
Cover your face with shame bro

Why will your cousin be tempting you

Imagine your blood sister giving you erection


You’re just looking it from one angle. It’s not shameful. I wanted to comment similar thing that you said about the OP . But when I read where he said he’s not close to them( the cousin sister)
That’s where the problems lies. I’ve cousin’s sister we’re very close at tender age . They change clothes in my presence I see them as my fellow guys no feelings attached just because we were very close at the tender age. If you grew up with a total stranger from small you’ll see them as siblings because of the bond.

If you’re 30yrs and you’re seeing your sister for the first time when she’s 25 I think you might be sexual attracted to her because there’s no bond . The least you can do then is avoid anything that might lead to temptation because you already know she’s your sister.

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Re: Help! Am Having Erection For My Cousin Sis. How Do I Tell Her To Dress Decently by fatboyslym007: 10:44am On Feb 19, 2022
All this made up stories...
Is your cousin sister not your cousin? Madness
Re: Help! Am Having Erection For My Cousin Sis. How Do I Tell Her To Dress Decently by niggadee(m): 10:46am On Feb 19, 2022
Nonexisting:
Try looking at her the way you look at your own little sisters and trust me, she will become ugly in your sight overnight.

Re: Help! Am Having Erection For My Cousin Sis. How Do I Tell Her To Dress Decently by harmargedon: 10:46am On Feb 19, 2022
MuhammadMiller:
Those people insulting this guy are the most shameless, useless people if they had the opportunity they would have shifted their cousin's pant and satisfied their lust.Instead of finding the solution to a problem they rather indulge in hypocrisy. Bro if you are not comfortable with it you tell her in a polite manner that you are not comfortable with her dressing almost naked indoors while you are around[color=#990000][/color]

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Re: Help! Am Having Erection For My Cousin Sis. How Do I Tell Her To Dress Decently by anonymous1759(m): 10:46am On Feb 19, 2022
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@ OP don’t mind these hypocrites criticizing you. You’re a human before anything else it’s not bad to have an erection naturally. It’s more psychological than morals .

As long as you’re not close to her it’s normal to have erection because there’s no bond unlike your sisters you Grew up with from little. Your psyche towards them is different you see them everyDay you bathed together From little so no matter what they do around you it won’t move you.
My advice for you Is to raise money and tell her to look for a roommate . To avoid temptation if you know you can’t withstand it let her go.

Because the way you’re feeling she might be attracted to you too . If she eventually shows you I think that’ll be the end. In some part of the world it’s normal but our tradition don’t accept it so do the needful and discard her.

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Re: Help! Am Having Erection For My Cousin Sis. How Do I Tell Her To Dress Decently by Zino1011(m): 10:46am On Feb 19, 2022
faithfull18:
@OP, did you grow up with sisters It's a mind thing, renew your mind before you get into trouble.
That guy is an animal.If he isn’t tamed now,his nieces are in trouble.
Re: Help! Am Having Erection For My Cousin Sis. How Do I Tell Her To Dress Decently by Dminister(m): 10:47am On Feb 19, 2022
The best thing to do now is to find a place for her to stay.
Keeping her away from your mind. keeping away from the source of the apparent conditioning would help in this case.

Your mind is already fixated to eat her out one day being the way you explained here features. The raining season is fast approaching and if you don’t act fast you will end up eating her all out during the raining season. Act fast to find a place for her to stay.

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Re: Help! Am Having Erection For My Cousin Sis. How Do I Tell Her To Dress Decently by masui(m): 10:47am On Feb 19, 2022
rabiudon:
I mistakenly brushed my hand against my cousin’s boobs, I immediately apologized. The next thing she did was place my hand on her boobs, I had an instant erection. Prior to then, I never thought of her sexually. But after that moment, I was always getting hard around her.


Spirit of konji in action. Last last na devil go chop blame
Re: Help! Am Having Erection For My Cousin Sis. How Do I Tell Her To Dress Decently by Boomboost(m): 10:48am On Feb 19, 2022
Maxwell775:
My cousin sister (from my mother's side) who just got admitted into the university have been staying with me for the past 4 months now. I live in a 2 bedroom flat, and my house is just a throw stone to the university school gate.

Due to financial issues she couldn't rent an apartment, so she goes to school from my house. She's 20yrs old, I'm way older than her with abt 10yrs.

Before she started living with me, it was my mother who told her parents that she could stay with me, without my knowledge or permission.

The very first day she was on her way coming to my house, my mother called me and was like her sister's daughter is coming to stay with me bla bla bla.. At first I was upset, atleast she would have informed me. Am not really close to my mom's family people, we have this distance relationship (no hate, no grudges)

Now here is the problem. She likes wearing mini skirts, short gowns and tight trousers or leggings. Infact what she wears indoors is worse, she will put on very hot bum short, crop top and all manner of rubbish!!

Truth be told, I use to have very strong and hard erection whenever she walks. @20 if you see her banging body?? Slim, figure 8, Coca-Cola bottle shape. Her nyash dey clap if she dey walk. I don't wanna be emphasizing on that...But seriously she's tormenting me. Make I no go shift her pant, I don't wanna commit abomination. But mind you, I have a girlfriend.

Nairalanders please, How do I talk to her about dressing decently, without her feeling insecured or impression of a pervert. undecided

Command her to dress better or find another place in the next 7days
Re: Help! Am Having Erection For My Cousin Sis. How Do I Tell Her To Dress Decently by MacANDIES: 10:49am On Feb 19, 2022
candidladyTemp:
sad


God iam ready to trade... Bring back aliyah and lefteye, take this pervert


You are not normal.... Are you guys cursed like em swear for una no no did someone place a spell on y'all


And suddenly you've termed him a pervert?
You can't proofer solution to his problem na insult you dey give.

Ment must be worrying you.




Re: Help! Am Having Erection For My Cousin Sis. How Do I Tell Her To Dress Decently by Beautibae: 10:49am On Feb 19, 2022
Meanwhile, there is nothing like cousin sister. Cousin is cousin, sister is sister. You guys are the reason we are still writing IELTS.
How can you even have feelings for your blood ? Close or not close. Mtchew....
Re: Help! Am Having Erection For My Cousin Sis. How Do I Tell Her To Dress Decently by Blackdisciple(m): 10:50am On Feb 19, 2022
Mumu erection, u are having an erection on your sis, what a miserable thing....
Re: Help! Am Having Erection For My Cousin Sis. How Do I Tell Her To Dress Decently by Patrickyugo: 10:52am On Feb 19, 2022
Hard erection while your cousin is passing, with due respect sir, there's an issue with your values
So to avoid an abomination, please tell her to change wardrobe or relocate her...

Re: Help! Am Having Erection For My Cousin Sis. How Do I Tell Her To Dress Decently by MacANDIES: 10:52am On Feb 19, 2022
BABYharder:




You're stupid o.
One of your gender brought the same topic early this month but you didn't see anything wrong with it.
Op sought for advice not these yeye hypocrisy

Very stupid oo

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Re: Help! Am Having Erection For My Cousin Sis. How Do I Tell Her To Dress Decently by manchester4lyf: 10:55am On Feb 19, 2022
Someone demands for an advise , instead of u guys should dish out reasonable advise , u are here insulting him as if some of u aren't doing something worse , even in d bible , some shits happens

My advise , brother , if u touch her and have sex with her , d side effect will be worse that u summoning courage to tell her to dress decent in the house or leave . SIMPLE
Re: Help! Am Having Erection For My Cousin Sis. How Do I Tell Her To Dress Decently by VULCAN(m): 10:55am On Feb 19, 2022
Nairaland is the first and the only place I have seen where the term "cousin sister" is used.

A completely meaningless term.

A girl is either your cousin OR your sister.
Re: Help! Am Having Erection For My Cousin Sis. How Do I Tell Her To Dress Decently by Juanmike(m): 10:57am On Feb 19, 2022
Brighton1:
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Re: Help! Am Having Erection For My Cousin Sis. How Do I Tell Her To Dress Decently by JOemmy(m): 10:58am On Feb 19, 2022
Maxwell775:
As in.. Before she started living with me, I use to wear boxers when I'm home alone But now I dare not except I wanna disgrace myself.

My erection fit tear my boxers. So I do put on jeans or joggers when I'm home with her.

Why will you even have feelings for ur own blood? I have a lot of extremely beautiful female cousins I have stayed with some of them and have never ever thought of having any sexual relationship with any of them. If u don't have any girlfriend that would have been understandable ur mind is polluted try and clean it up before it puts u in trouble.
Re: Help! Am Having Erection For My Cousin Sis. How Do I Tell Her To Dress Decently by jaxxy(m): 10:58am On Feb 19, 2022
Maxwell775:
My cousin sister (from my mother's side) who just got admitted into the university have been staying with me for the past 4 months now. I live in a 2 bedroom flat, and my house is just a throw stone to the university school gate.

Due to financial issues she couldn't rent an apartment, so she goes to school from my house. She's 20yrs old, I'm way older than her with abt 10yrs.

Before she started living with me, it was my mother who told her parents that she could stay with me, without my knowledge or permission.

The very first day she was on her way coming to my house, my mother called me and was like her sister's daughter is coming to stay with me bla bla bla.. At first I was upset, atleast she would have informed me. Am not really close to my mom's family people, we have this distance relationship (no hate, no grudges)

Now here is the problem. She likes wearing mini skirts, short gowns and tight trousers or leggings. Infact what she wears indoors is worse, she will put on very hot bum short, crop top and all manner of rubbish!!

Truth be told, I use to have very strong and hard erection whenever she walks. @20 if you see her banging body?? Slim, figure 8, Coca-Cola bottle shape. Her nyash dey clap if she dey walk. I don't wanna be emphasizing on that...But seriously she's tormenting me. Make I no go shift her pant, I don't wanna commit abomination. But mind you, I have a girlfriend.

Nairalanders please, How do I talk to her about dressing decently, without her feeling insecured or impression of a pervert. undecided

I won’t be hypocritical like most people on here are.

Fact is a distant cousin is almost like any other random gal u meet. The family bonds and relationships are not so strong u forget she’s actually family.

That said u need to get a grip on urself and zone ur mind out of that mindset cos it’s inappropriate.

Also u are much older and should know better now. Cheers

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Re: Help! Am Having Erection For My Cousin Sis. How Do I Tell Her To Dress Decently by AngelicBeing: 10:58am On Feb 19, 2022
MrBrownJay1:
banging body, aass clap?!?!? your issue is not her dress sense, its your sick mind.

[img]https://c./vxX2HrmDdR8AAAAC/i-rebuke-you-devil-devil.gif[/img]
Gbamsulotely sad
Re: Help! Am Having Erection For My Cousin Sis. How Do I Tell Her To Dress Decently by Abovebest(m): 10:59am On Feb 19, 2022
anonymous1759:



You’re just looking it from one angle. It’s not shameful. I wanted to comment similar thing that you said about the OP . But when I read where he said he’s not close to them( the cousin sister)
That’s where the problems lies. I’ve cousin’s sister we’re very close at tender age . They change clothes in my presence I see them as my fellow guys no feelings attached just because we were very close at the tender age. If you grew up with a total stranger from small you’ll see them as siblings because of the bond.

If you’re 30yrs and you’re seeing your sister for the first time when she’s 25 I think you might be sexual attracted to her because there’s no bond . The least you can do then is avoid anything that might lead to temptation because you already know she’s your sister.

I understand
He needs to align his mind with the fact that she's his cousin now
Re: Help! Am Having Erection For My Cousin Sis. How Do I Tell Her To Dress Decently by thundafire: 11:00am On Feb 19, 2022
candidladyTemp:
sad


God iam ready to trade... Bring back aliyah and lefteye, take this pervert


You are not normal.... Are you guys cursed like em swear for una no no did someone place a spell on y'all




u for even include ODB then as we dey exchange dey idiot we go give knock as sendforth
Re: Help! Am Having Erection For My Cousin Sis. How Do I Tell Her To Dress Decently by sharpwriter(m): 11:00am On Feb 19, 2022
Stedygrowth:
Op, what you're going through is normal. The response you're experiencing is completely biological in nature, remember, you have not met her before. She, being your cousin's sister, does not in any way, stop from being a woman she is. The problem here is that, there is no conditioning between you two that establish the fact that you guys are sisters, as such, there is a clear prediction that if you have opportunity, you will make love to her.
Based on the above submission, I will suggest you help her find a place to stay. Even if she changes the way she dresses from now on, it will not still change anything, because you have been conditioned already. Until you will not rest. So, to be on the safe side, find a place for her as quickly as possible.
This does not require discipline, it require removing or staying away from the source of the stimulus. If you keep staying, you will do it one day.

You get sense, na your type we need for this society. Pure truth and unbiased!

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Re: Help! Am Having Erection For My Cousin Sis. How Do I Tell Her To Dress Decently by Abovebest(m): 11:01am On Feb 19, 2022
ozueozue:
Shut up if u don't have anything to say, don't you read the write up b4 commenting?
Niqqa just said he's not close to them, (probably this might be his first time of seeing her) and to cap it all.not everyone is like you instead of insulting him why don't you give him advice on how to.go about it since you're a saint or better still shut the hell upppppp skunk


Why taking it personal?
Re: Help! Am Having Erection For My Cousin Sis. How Do I Tell Her To Dress Decently by TruthUntold: 11:01am On Feb 19, 2022
nickvanilla:
Honestly, except she's wearing bum shorts that's revealing her butts, there's no reason for you to be turned on. Learn to look away.

Even as a married man, your wife sister may start wearing the same leggings or short gowns your cousin is wearing. Will your phallus start nodding in approval as it's doing now? Control yourself young man!

How did you know her behind claps. Did you hear the sound or you were focusing on it and imagining things. C'mon man. Don't be a cheap pervert.
grin
Re: Help! Am Having Erection For My Cousin Sis. How Do I Tell Her To Dress Decently by Loreettaa: 11:02am On Feb 19, 2022
Most of you men cussing him will do worse.
But why do you guys feel this sexual urge in stupid ways? Like ehn.
Re: Help! Am Having Erection For My Cousin Sis. How Do I Tell Her To Dress Decently by na2016: 11:02am On Feb 19, 2022
Op, you should be ashamed of yourself. Nigerians have now normalised sleeping with any woman. Why is your respect? So you can't see her as your sister? I pity this generation of Nigerians. Spits!!!!
Re: Help! Am Having Erection For My Cousin Sis. How Do I Tell Her To Dress Decently by 2real52: 11:03am On Feb 19, 2022
Maxwell775:
My cousin sister (from my mother's side) who just got admitted into the university have been staying with me for the past 4 months now. I live in a 2 bedroom flat, and my house is just a throw stone to the university school gate.

Due to financial issues she couldn't rent an apartment, so she goes to school from my house. She's 20yrs old, I'm way older than her with abt 10yrs.

Before she started living with me, it was my mother who told her parents that she could stay with me, without my knowledge or permission.

The very first day she was on her way coming to my house, my mother called me and was like her sister's daughter is coming to stay with me bla bla bla.. At first I was upset, atleast she would have informed me. Am not really close to my mom's family people, we have this distance relationship (no hate, no grudges)

Now here is the problem. She likes wearing mini skirts, short gowns and tight trousers or leggings. Infact what she wears indoors is worse, she will put on very hot bum short, crop top and all manner of rubbish!!

Truth be told, I use to have very strong and hard erection whenever she walks. @20 if you see her banging body?? Slim, figure 8, Coca-Cola bottle shape. Her nyash dey clap if she dey walk. I don't wanna be emphasizing on that...But seriously she's tormenting me. Make I no go shift her pant, I don't wanna commit abomination. But mind you, I have a girlfriend.

Nairalanders please, How do I talk to her about dressing decently, without her feeling insecured or impression of a pervert. undecided
Brother see eh, there are some issues you don't lay on internet, especially on nairaland where kids, religious fanatics, hipocrites, shallow minded peeps and Jack of all senses are abundant.
This is something you can decide on your own on how it plays out. Do you wanna bang her or not? Are you crushing on her? If you are in your 30s as claimed, your wisdom on petty case like this should be overflowing. You are old enough to forebear whatever consequences your actions may bring forth. What do you really want?

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Re: Help! Am Having Erection For My Cousin Sis. How Do I Tell Her To Dress Decently by Born2Breed(f): 11:03am On Feb 19, 2022
Talk to her like a big brother.

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