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Pastors Wife Or Junior Pastor, who should be in charge? by Nobody: 3:28pm On Feb 20, 2022
Pastors wife wants the junior pastor to be reporting to her if her husband is not around or any issue at all during church service.

She try as much to be in charge when her husband is off in another Church to minister.

This nearly caused a problem in the church today, while I was going home surprisingly a friend of mine supported the pastor's wife.. that she's the first lady of the church of God if her husband is not around.
she can represent him anytime to coordinate like most churches

What's your take on this issue is it right?

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Re: Pastors Wife Or Junior Pastor, who should be in charge? by immortalcrown(m): 3:34pm On Feb 20, 2022
Different pentecostal churches have different doctrines and most of the pentecostal churches survive on wrong interpretations of the Bible. Therefore, your question is unnecessary and has no answer. If your question is about the Catholic, Catholic doctrines can be followed to answer the question.

Logically, a pastor's wife is not a pastor. She should be respected but any treatment or task that is specifically for pastors should not be given to her. The wife of a medical doctor can have knowledge of the husband's work but it does not make her a medical doctor. The wife of a lawyer is not a lawyer just because she knows most of her husband's legal activities.

Biblically, one may ask what if the pastor's wife is also a pastor. To answer that question, does the Bible permit women to be pastors? (1 Corinthians 14:34) is even a new testament passage. Do you now understand why I said many pentecostal churches survive on biblical deviations? Catholic doctrines do not permit women ( even Reverend sisters) to lead the church. A catholic parish will not even let the parish priest miss the Holy Mass when there is no male catechist or another priest to stand in for the parish priest.

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Re: Pastors Wife Or Junior Pastor, who should be in charge? by Kobojunkie: 3:35pm On Feb 20, 2022
Barrister026:
pastors wife wants the junior pastor to be reporting to her if her husband is not around or any issue at all during church service.
she try as much to be in charge when her husband is off in another Church to minister.
this nearly caused a problem in the church today, while I was going home surprisingly a friend of mine supported the pastor's wife.. that she's the first lady of the church of God if her husband is not around.
she can represent him anytime to coordinate like most churches
what's your take on this issue is it right?
note: it's an orthodox church
Depends on the decisions of the business owner(s). undecided

If the CEO/Chairman is absent, then his next in command takes over until his return. In the case that the business is operated as a sole proprietorship,then maybe a close family member can step in until the owner returns. Very simple case here. undecided

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Re: Pastors Wife Or Junior Pastor, who should be in charge? by Nobody: 3:37pm On Feb 20, 2022
immortalcrown:
Different pentecostal churches have different doctrines and most of the pentecostal churches survive on wrong interpretations of the Bible. Therefore, your question is unnecessary and has no answer. If your question is about the Catholic, Catholic doctrines can be followed to answer the question.
this is pointless, no points at all
it's Better for you to keep quiet and let other people answer.
noe be small quarrel we settling in the church since.

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Re: Pastors Wife Or Junior Pastor, who should be in charge? by immortalcrown(m): 3:48pm On Feb 20, 2022
Barrister026:

this is pointless, no points at all
it's Better for you to keep quiet and let other people answer.
noe be small quarrel we settling in the church since.
To prove to you that my comment is not pointless, I have edited my comment. By editing, I mean I have added more explanations without removing any part of what you have already seen as my comment. So, be slow to conclude that something is pointless. check my comment again.

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Re: Pastors Wife Or Junior Pastor, who should be in charge? by spice123(m): 4:23pm On Feb 20, 2022
immortalcrown:
Different pentecostal churches have different doctrines and most of the pentecostal churches survive on wrong interpretations of the Bible. Therefore, your question is unnecessary and has no answer. If your question is about the Catholic, Catholic doctrines can be followed to answer the question.

Logically, a pastor's wife is not a pastor. She should be respected but any treatment or task that is specifically for pastors should not be given to her. The wife of a medical doctor can have knowledge of the husband's work but it does not make her a medical doctor. The wife of a lawyer is not a lawyer just because she knows most of her husband's legal activities.

Biblically, one may ask what if the pastor's wife is also a pastor. To answer that question, does the Bible permit women to be pastors? (1 Corinthians 14:34) is even a new testament passage. Do you now understand why I said many pentecostal churches survive on biblical deviations? Catholic doctrines does not permit women (Reverend sisters) to lead the church.
You didn't study that chapter of 1 Corinthians 14 properly before concluding. Apostle Paul was talking about prophecy and speaking in tongues. You only carved that portion in verse 34 to suit yourself. Kindly go back to your Bible and read with understanding.

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Re: Pastors Wife Or Junior Pastor, who should be in charge? by immortalcrown(m): 4:37pm On Feb 20, 2022
spice123:

You didn't study that chapter of 1 Corinthians 14 properly before concluding. Apostle Paul was talking about prophecy and speaking in tongues. You only carved that portion in verse 34 to suit yourself. Kindly go back to your Bible and read with understanding.
The same verse 34 contains the word submission (submissive). What does submission mean here? Does submission mean a woman should be in charge of the congregation when there is a man in the congregation? And does your explanation of the verse mean that only men are biblically allowed to speak in tongues? How does verse 35 prove me wrong?

We are not quarreling. But you need to prove how I carved out that verse to suit myself. At first, you said my comment is pointless and that I should better keep quiet. Now, you have said I skipped verse 35 to suit myself. Please, explain the submission (submissive) in verse 34 and explain verse 35 to justify your claims about me.

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Re: Pastors Wife Or Junior Pastor, who should be in charge? by spice123(m): 5:18pm On Feb 20, 2022
immortalcrown:

The same verse 34 contains the word submission. What does submission mean here? Does submission mean a woman should be in charge of the congregation when there is a man in the congregation? And does your explanation of the verse mean that only men are biblically allowed to speak in tongues? How does verse 35 prove me wrong?

We are not quarreling. But you need to prove how I carved out that verse to suit myself. [b]At first, you said my comment is pointless and that I should better keep quiet. [/b]Now, you have said I skipped verse 35 to suit myself. Please, explain the submission in verse 34 and explain verse 35 to justify your claims about me.
Kindly show me where I typed the bolded in my comment.

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Re: Pastors Wife Or Junior Pastor, who should be in charge? by immortalcrown(m): 5:21pm On Feb 20, 2022
spice123:

Kindly show me where I typed the bolded in my comment.
Kindly show me where I accused you of typing the "bolded" word. Do not change the topic unnecessarily.

The word in bold is "submission" (submissive).
You said the verse 34 is about speaking in tongues. You further said I carved out the verse 34 to suit myself. You also said I skipped verse 35.

I told you that verse 34 contains the word submission (submissive). I then asked you to explain both the word submission (submissive) and (the skipped) verse 35 to prove your claim about me.

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Re: Pastors Wife Or Junior Pastor, who should be in charge? by Nobody: 8:33pm On Feb 20, 2022
Personally, I feel it should be the junior pastor...

Just like someone up there said, just because a lady is the wife of a doctor, doesn't automatically make her a doctor (unless she went to med school)...

So if a pastor's wife is not a pastor, then she can't be said to be the "second in command" in the absence of her husband, unless she's acting as an intermediary in relaying info between her hubby and the junior pastor undecided...

My thoughts though...

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Re: Pastors Wife Or Junior Pastor, who should be in charge? by DoggoneDogg: 9:00pm On Feb 20, 2022
The Pastor's wife is foolish. The Junior Pastor works for the Church and not her family. He is not a domestic staff.

The Church is a business and like any sensible employee, he cannot divulge company information to anyone outside the company unless otherwise instructed by management (the Pastor) to do so.

So Madam should ask her husband to officially instruct the Junior Pastor to divulge company information to her so that in the event of any liabilities arising from the aforementioned, the Junior Pastor will be exonerated.

Thank you.

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Re: Pastors Wife Or Junior Pastor, who should be in charge? by Truefaith: 9:00pm On Feb 20, 2022
If it were a church of Christ, the question would not even arise, since women don't exercise authority in a Christian church.


But in a religious business outfit, which appears to be what you are describing, the CEO designates who deputizes for him.

If he appoints his wife as the deputy CEO, there is nothing any other employee can do.
The employees are all time servers: they do whatever the CEO asks them to do.

Mrs Idahosa took over from Mr Idahosa when the latter left the scene. Same for others in the Pentecostal cult in Nigeria.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VWdqMAowz8M

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Re: Pastors Wife Or Junior Pastor, who should be in charge? by kolnel: 9:00pm On Feb 20, 2022
The pastor's wife should be in charge of the biz.
The pentecostal church is a business entity.
The junior pastor should not reap where he did not sow.
He should start his biz and milk the congregation dry.

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Re: Pastors Wife Or Junior Pastor, who should be in charge? by Nobody: 9:00pm On Feb 20, 2022
church don turn business

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Re: Pastors Wife Or Junior Pastor, who should be in charge? by NamelessOGBENI(m): 9:00pm On Feb 20, 2022
Here to learn...
Re: Pastors Wife Or Junior Pastor, who should be in charge? by Mikelarteta(m): 9:01pm On Feb 20, 2022
Holy Spirit is not in charge anymore, money is the main drive now now soul winning which was what Christ died for.

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Re: Pastors Wife Or Junior Pastor, who should be in charge? by bestman09(m): 9:01pm On Feb 20, 2022
sad
Re: Pastors Wife Or Junior Pastor, who should be in charge? by seunny4lif(m): 9:02pm On Feb 20, 2022
grin
Church now is a family business
Not thing new
Check all the pastors who owned churches, they always hand over to their children or wife.

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Re: Pastors Wife Or Junior Pastor, who should be in charge? by Feranchek(m): 9:03pm On Feb 20, 2022
Wahala be like watin again?? Una see why dem say make Rev Fr. no dey marrey??!!! Women wahala too much biko. Imagine that statement "first lady" of the church. Chai! Chukwunna, biko bia zoputa umu gi ooooo!!

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Re: Pastors Wife Or Junior Pastor, who should be in charge? by SpaceAngel: 9:03pm On Feb 20, 2022
Normally should be the junior Pastor but if the Pastor is the owner of the church AKA Daddy G.O, that means mummy G.O is oga in the absence of the Pastor.

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Re: Pastors Wife Or Junior Pastor, who should be in charge? by Megabig: 9:03pm On Feb 20, 2022
It’s a business venture, always report to the assistant manager or next in line ie the junior pastor.
Re: Pastors Wife Or Junior Pastor, who should be in charge? by abobote: 9:03pm On Feb 20, 2022
All these unhealthy debate is unnecessary, this hierarchy in every church
Re: Pastors Wife Or Junior Pastor, who should be in charge? by Omniman(m): 9:03pm On Feb 20, 2022
cool

Call pastor for phone and ask na. Abi pastor Don die?

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Re: Pastors Wife Or Junior Pastor, who should be in charge? by iHart(m): 9:04pm On Feb 20, 2022
What does your church say about the role of the pastor's wife? That will answer your question.

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Re: Pastors Wife Or Junior Pastor, who should be in charge? by armadeo(m): 9:05pm On Feb 20, 2022
Wetin concern pastors wife with church matter.

Na family business?

Which kind church una dey attend

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Re: Pastors Wife Or Junior Pastor, who should be in charge? by FalseProphet1(m): 9:05pm On Feb 20, 2022
The junior pastor should be in charge.

If the wife doesn't give the junior pastor his respect I see that church dying off.

This I have seen.
Re: Pastors Wife Or Junior Pastor, who should be in charge? by Benitoh: 9:05pm On Feb 20, 2022
The senior pastor is the original owner of the business, and the wife of the senior pastor who's the original owner of the business, she should be in charge not to junior pastor.

It's a family business and if the junior pastor is not comfortable with the arrangements he should go ahead and open his own business/ church.

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Re: Pastors Wife Or Junior Pastor, who should be in charge? by Olukat(m): 9:06pm On Feb 20, 2022
OP who should be next to a founder of a company? His family ie wife, son etc or an assistance? Most churches and worship centers are business centers.

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