I teach and I earn far above 200k, I feel for ladies with such wrong mentality

He will come here and post as if he doesn't have certain types of people he wouldn't date, too. Yet another "man" feeling too entitled to relationships with all women.

Some making noise here can't date someone who wears an anklet or has a tongue ring, but he will expect every girl to accept him just because he wants to date her.

You didn't tell us if her father is not poor that she must take you as you are. Some of you want someone daughter to join you in your type of life when her father didn't do that to her. Just come online and act as if you truly love her and, bingo, they (she's broke crew) will come out to degrade her person without even knowing her.

Male reasoning on this forum is very entitled and very shallow/pathetic. You are not entitled to be accepted by every girl you ask out or talk with. And every girl you meet is not broke as you have convinced yourselves, once she doesn't want you.

Allow women to make their choices without acting as if you are God and she dare not reject you. Whatever her reason, it is valid. The one-sided endless stories from males is already stale.

You are always the perfect guys they don't want because they are broke. You are never the shallow minded ones. The problem is never you. You are always very rich. Give it a rest already.

oke2018:
What's even wrong being a teacher , that is the notion about we teachers that we don't have money, you can still be a teacher and makes it big if only you know what you're doing , don't mind her let her go for a banker.

Some girls are just purely shallow minded. They will prefer a banker to a teacher. But they never ask how much are bankers really earning? 70-100k per month isn't it. There are teachers making more than that of a true. That's the shallow reasoning I have been writing on.

They get carried away by those big names without asking how much are bankers even earning.

In all, it's just a misplaced priority. If I were to be a girl, I won't look at a guy present situation. I will look at his great qualities like is this guy hard working? Does he have future plans? What are his other good qualities I really like? Does this guy have some great potentials that can open doors for him later in life?

Ladies judge the present and only the current look of a guy. They don't believe a guy's life can change just in a day. They don't believe in building with a guy. They want only already made.

Very shallow way of thinking I must say!

Mrshape:
The conversation was going well until I told her I am a teacher then the fast reply stop o only God know if she even block me. Lol I wan die for laugh.
Kings always be careful many of them no like u o them only like what comes with you

We all have preferences.

She has every right to decide not to date you for whatever reason be it financial status, career, physical feature, even for no reason at all.

The problem is your inability to accept rejection.

Some Nigerian girls and money.
Little wonder most of them fall victims to ritual killings by Yahoo boys.
That is y I hardly pity most of them when I hear how yahoo boys render them useless

Mrshape:
The conversation was going well until I told her I am a teacher then the fast reply stop o only God know if she even block me. Lol I wan die for laugh.
Kings always be careful many of them no like u o them only like what comes with you

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VIKTO83:
I told one someday that I am into pig farming because she saw me coming from my pig farm. And she never gave me any form of recognition. If I call she will tell me she is busy or that she will call me back. If I chat she will read and ignore.
One day she was sick and was brought to d hospital...i appeared in my scrub and was asking her questions et al. Never showed her I've ever met her before. It was while on admission she was using chat to disturb me and I was telling her I'll see her later because she was expecting that I come check on her often....bht that's d responsibility of the nurses.
So me I cone dey dey busy too

Lmao!

Mrshape:
The conversation was going well until I told her I am a teacher then the fast reply stop o only God know if she even block me. Lol I wan die for laugh.
Kings always be careful many of them no like u o them only like what comes with you

This is so funny, but are you truly a teacher? she can't wait till the afterlife as dem say teachers reward are in heaven,so she want to start enjoying her life here on earth

Candidlady:



See this poor wretched soul... In life nothing to offer ... After life nothing to offer...

You need help.... If you are above 25 you better just give up on life... Cuz truly life is DARK and it has obviously been UNFAIR to you

Who are you to state that life has been unfair to someone?
Are you his creator....?
Did he complain about his financial needs/hardship to you hence, needing your help?

U sound exactly like a bittered soul. Like one who is grossly fraustrated with his/her own life due to horrible decisions as a result of your own poor judgments.
Get a life and stop bickering like a bitch...

Cheers

Sekoni003:


Red card or yellow card?

Or vaccination card?

Just reply her not to worry that you will be calling her.!!

Theboy21:
My new friend on fb sent me a dm i replied her, next thing i see is "I need card" still thinking of the type of savage reply to give her wonder who give this people entitlement even at first impression

Confirm!..

Nothing but the truth

Thats why when i meet girls online and they quickly question what i do for a living, i just ignore them and don't bother replying cuz

They only ask to see if you make alot and enough money they can chop from

And by the time you ask their own they wont say good thing besides them being either a student or learning hairdressing or tailoring or working at a super market

They worth nothing or less and be expecting to meet or get big or more worthy a person

Naija girls are all thesame though, wahala for who dey take them serious, afterall na help all of them dey find

Mrshape:
The conversation was going well until I told her I am a teacher then the fast reply stop o only God know if she even block me. Lol I wan die for laugh.
Kings always be careful many of them no like u o them only like what comes with you

BItt:


I respect you sir

Hahaha.. Lol... I know where you are coming from. Abeg I no be ancient of days o. I wasn't well aware of Babangida times, but I have become aware and wiser in Abacha days as a child. Na those days our mama dey use sawdust technology cook beans.

Even the teacher things, na from my mama I hear am, no be say I see am with my korokoro eyes

Lol, women can be silly sometimes. One bluntly told me that she can date me because I'm a teacher and she is a nurse. Funny enough, I earn more than Professors and Medical consultants as a teacher. In fact, I can pay her 10 times of her salary monthly.

I'm proudly a teacher

Mrshape:

Na that one be my format o.
Person way my mind day tell me make I go spoil her tomorrow after work since I find out she no far from me and base on say we day same religion, she just block me abi view the comment go offline, if her friend tell her who I be she may regret her life

It is funny how ladies despise guys with their legit hustle on the low, but keep praying for a godfearing man with legit work...

Joke...

You have a good format, I endorse... It will help you filter off gold diggers...

And u no the annoying side of it is that, their brothers of ur age is out there doing nothing... and as broke as church rat!

I tell you

GoodHardDick:
In her mind, she probably felt you're poor.

Mistakenly tell her you're a yahoo boy, then relax and watch how she'll be the one chasing after you.

Nigeria girls are so broke and brainless for my liking. Na why dem dey always use dem for rituals.

The format not new though, been out a while for the smart guys to make use of

Its just sad that some mumu guys as well like to show off themselves to these girls so as to be attracted to them, forgeting that those leeches only attracted to whatever it is they have to offer them

Whazar:
I don learn another fmt

Mrshape:

I don't know how people regard teachers in this country. Very wrong and bad idology

They are seen as poor people with intelligence...

Except you are in the tertiary institutions, even the small respect lecturers get will soon varnish with ASUU keeping them at home every year despite responsibility.

It is a pity...I won't advise a man who is a provider to take up teaching appointment that isn't in tertiary institutions, You will be found lacking in provisions, And ones you have such, I pity the man if his wife is not purely his wife on earth...She go frustrate him die.

Anyways, now we have many ways of making money from just one place....Teachers please diversify biko...

Mrshape:

Na that one be my format o.
Person way my mind day tell me make I go spoil her tomorrow after work since I find out she no far from me and base on say we day same religion, she just block me abi view the comment go offline, if her friend tell her who I be she may regret her life

You did the right thing. She just got filtered out. I hope all men can learn from your wisdom. A lot of women these days are just pure lazy, lack ambition and looking for who to parasite on.
Men should learn how to filter them out like this.
In fact, if she gets caught in the seive, take her to the house of an extremely poor relative and just pull your shirt and lie down as if it is your house. If her attitude doesn't change for the next 24 to 48 hours, then, she's most likely a good and humble woman

Don't blame her o imagine u r in kogi state teachers payroll where ur salary is 6k and u r not even sure of it

livinbygrace:



In this present economy,it will be very difficult for you to see a loyal girl (very few)that will date a teacher.
Their reward is in heaven and no better package/renumeration for them,except you have another side hursle thats yielding income for you.My father was retired headmaster and never advised any of his children to become a teacher.You better face the reality now before its too late.

Not all teachers are poor.

Mrshape:
The conversation was going well until I told her I am a teacher then the fast reply stop o only God know if she even block me. Lol I wan die for laugh.
Kings always be careful many of them no like u o them only like what comes with you

Ieave relationships until you make money, you can hook-up with girl friends, I mean bed mate, fulfill your orgy with her give her what she demind to open up, after that go back to hustle and stay focus

Steve0979:
Don't blame her o imagine u r in kogi state teachers payroll where ur salary is 6k and u r not even sure of it

What is she bringing to the table? it must not always be the man to inspire greatness. it can be both ways

obailala:
Your reward is in heaven bro...

I already have my reward on Earth meanwhile I am not going to heaven

Theboy21:
My new friend on fb sent me a dm i replied her, next thing i see is "I need card" still thinking of the type of savage reply to give her wonder who give this people entitlement even at first impression

Na SIMPs cosam.
SIMPs nor go even wait till d girl ask.

Ahumanbeing:

You wan spoil person wey never sabi you, why are you complaining about the woman?

Base on I no day reason that kind mentality I day spoil but male and female no string attached

That why I always tell guys. Go for beautiful and young girls below 22years. Anything above that you are doing them a favor.

LagosNissan:


What's your intention with her?

Just friends we belong to same organization

FahBuLous:
See imagine the way women just avoided this thread...

Not all women o. I love the thread. May God deliver our brothers and sons from poverty alleviation relationship and marriage

Eastcaostboy:
Ieave relationships until you make money, you can hook-up with girl friends, I mean bed mate, fulfill your orgy with her give her what she demind to open up, after that go back to hustle and stay focus

Stay focus watin, my staffs strength is more than 20 nigerians